Hi Shari,

I've been seeing someone on and off for some time now. We are very comfortable with each other and seem to share a very strong connection. However, I don't know if it's possible for us to really have a future together. There seem to be many obstacles to us getting together. I'm hoping you could give some insight.

Thank you so much.


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You are getting ahead of yourself. You are also acting like a pre-teen school girl. Love and relationship is not ever a given thing. The feelings and bonding you have is significant and that is the journey and the wonder. If you want to know the outcome before you ever experience the exploration, then you are not ready for love, you are just hungry to be accepted or acknowledged. You are worthy of love and it will come to you. Love yourself enough to know you were born into love and will always be moving toward it.

Rica, don't be impatient. You can't hurry love, and you can't treat love like it's a smorgasbord. If not this juicy eatable item, then the next. No, no. Try to allow yourself the unfolding and learning. Every relationship, those that work out and those that don't, teach us and help us mature. Our expectations gradually get more real, so we do not expect a person to be anything except for what they are, and we ourselves show our real selves. Don't be afraid of rejection or of a relationship that breaks up.

It is process. When you find a nice person with whom you share an attraction, let that be the validation. It will go very far, but don't start planning the future as engaged or married people. It's not meant to be that way. Trial and error, sample and experience will make you strong and mature. So this new guy is someone to trust and explore but do not rush in trying to make it permanent and unbreakable. Let it flow. Give your caring but not all that you are, pace it, pace it. If it's a strong relationship, it will be that, and if not, you will move on. Love is not fear or doubt;it is open-ness and expectancy, and honesty. As him what he wants out of the relationship and be prepared to tell him what you want--as a couple--not as husband and wife or committed lovers--not yet. S


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