Psychics/"Eat Love Pray"


There's a guy named Chris. We talked about things. He stated he isn't interested in me in any way other than friendship. I suspect  his term for friendship means "friends with benefits". Since I am not wanting this type of friendship with any man I've decided to move on. I told him goodbye. What I want it know is what can I do to push forward and move past him. The feelings I have and really get over him once and for all. I feel like a fool.


You are not a fool. We all fall in love with people who are not mature or worthy of us.
It takes a few of these bad relationships--whether long distant or nearby--to teach us the lessons of how to choose and what is good for us or not.

If he blocked you on Facebook and took your friends, he was not honorable and was certainly not in love with you. He was just playing in cyber space. I am sure you have seen the program, "Catfish" about people who pretend to be someone they are not just to get the affection and attention of someone they have met online. They are careless and unkind, and they really mess with the people's minds and hearts. Be grateful that this sneak thief did not do you like that.

You are young and you are resilient. I can't tell you how to move on because heart break is like losing someone to death. Everyone heals at their own rate and the process is just that a process. But I can tell you simple walks and water, more TV and funny movies will help release your anger and hurt. It is good to keep talking about it, but try to forgive him for as long as you begrudge him, the more you muddy your own soul.

You must take a day at a time and live. Read "Eat, Love, Pray." by Elizabeth Gilbert.  You are worthy of love and can find it in yourself and not with fools like him. Always, Shari


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Shariananda,Oracle (OSGHT)


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My formal work as seer and prophet began in 1990. My gifts have been with me since birth. I have the following to offer: spiritual advisement, i.e how to handle the issue before you using the tools of your own being and connection to your Source whatever you know it to be. I call it God or the Holy Spirit or the Great Good or the Universe. I can do a three card reading:past ,present ,future on any area of your life, but just one at a time. If you want to work with me beyond this site. I am available on Skype and in person in my office. Call 011 45 5056 3717. My work is global. I am a healer and can do touch and trance work in person or through space.

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I hold three degrees, B.A. in Engish and Spanish. M.A. in English Literature. Ph.D. in American Literature which informs my understanding of sign and symbol. I hold a credentials in parapsychology,pranic healing, Reiki, massage therapy, hypnosis, life coaching, and social work. For many years as I was developing as a healer, I taught secondary and colleague courses.I am a poet and writer under the psuedonym SDiane Bogus.

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My clients include teachers, social workers, real estate agents, psychiatrists, basketball players, prisoners, Unity members, teens, marrieds, patients, parents, colleagues, neighbors, associates, anonymous psychic fair inquirers, house wives, young lovers, mothers, divorcees, business people, strangers along my way, and other psychics. I have worked at Brass Unicorn, Ask Now, Intuitive Staffing, California Psychics, telephone or online services. My business companies have been variously Uncommon Hands, Lighthouse Freelance Consultations, Lighthouse Healing, and Oracle Shariananda Global Healing Therapies.

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