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My life is really not going good. I am having troubles. Going through breakup, mood swings. Can you please tell me how can I have good relationship, how can I make it work? I never had good relationships I always had bad and early breakup. I don't know why, people thinks I am too egoistic. Can you please help me to improve things in my life especially relationships? My DOB is 11th January 1992. I am a female.

Neha--This service is meant to answer questions that have a concrete answer about single topics.
Yours is not so much a question as it is a need.
You are in need of a good therapist who can help you prioritize your issues and make goals to address and solve each one.

Some issues of maturity, experience, and even self-love take time.
Others take analysis and diagnosis. Like over compensation for perceived failings or inadequacies.

All of us have problems. This you must already know. It is not so bad that you have problems as much as it is about how you see them. If you could divide yours into categories, what would be the steps to reducing the strain and stress of them. If you could see your problems as stepping stones rather than boulders in the way, you would be more than halfway out of this set of mood swings. Yes it hurts to break-up. I understand. I do. I have been there many times--rejected, self-accusing, feeling "what's wrong with me?"

You are feeling blue, and unlovable. You have also accepted other people's judgments or opinion of you.
Is it true that you are egotistic--thinking of yourself and your needs, and what someone ought to do for you?
Or--are you just aware that you deserve the  best and treat yourself as such?
You are twenty-three years old. That is not a very big number for assuming you cannot manage relationships. You must take each relationship on it's own terms. They all differ. Love looks different each time.

What you are doing is practicing and learning. Only a few years ago you were a spankin' inexperienced teen, now you are approaching early, wizened adulthood, try to see yourself as on a journey of self-discovery. Whatever mistakes you have made, they were human and have been made many time before by others before you. You are allowed to try and test, lose and win to learn who you really are within.

Forgive yourself. Forgive those who have misunderstood you. Be advised, you will not be the same person you are now in 10 years, just as you are not now who you were when you were 13.

You have your talents, your quirks, your needs, you desires. Try not to look for somebody to accept you as you are, somebody to praise or want you ever so much; try to accept others as they are and allow them to be free and easy without blame or doubt or even suspicion. Give as you would receive but not to receive. If at first you do not succeed, you have no choice but to pick yourself up (or get rid of the trash) and try again. Love is the only game in town (and in heaven.)
Be made whole daughter, in Jesus' name. Shariananda


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My formal work as seer and prophet began in 1990. My gifts have been with me since birth. I have the following to offer: spiritual advisement, i.e how to handle the issue before you using the tools of your own being and connection to your Source whatever you know it to be. I call it God or the Holy Spirit or the Great Good or the Universe. I can do a three card reading:past ,present ,future on any area of your life, but just one at a time. If you want to work with me beyond this site. I am available on Skype and in person in my office. Call 011 45 5056 3717. My work is global. I am a healer and can do touch and trance work in person or through space.

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I hold three degrees, B.A. in Engish and Spanish. M.A. in English Literature. Ph.D. in American Literature which informs my understanding of sign and symbol. I hold a credentials in parapsychology,pranic healing, Reiki, massage therapy, hypnosis, life coaching, and social work. For many years as I was developing as a healer, I taught secondary and colleague courses.I am a poet and writer under the psuedonym SDiane Bogus.

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