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Hi! I need your help in the department of love. I am a 26 year old girl. I am single for a long time now. The problem is that I feel that I have been put on hold in my search for my Mr. Right. I am aware of what kind of man I want as my life partner. But it seems like it is taking forever to materialise. Can you please help me figure out what is taking so long and if there is anything missing? Thanks for your time and advice. DOB is 18/3/89.

Dear Sunaina,

Thank you for your patience. Sunaina, there is nothing wrong with you nor is there an exact date that love will come to you. You can't hurry love. I would suggest you look at your current life for the answer. It is very difficult to attract new love when your attention or life-demands block your ability to meet or attract someone who is right for you.

Most people do not wisely marry until after 30 because they need their twenties to figure out who they are, what they want for themselves, and to shake off the shackles of the teen years and their parents' model.People of your age have to establish themselves in work, in community, as a self-confident one.

You also have to have yourself together--by this I mean knowing your strengths, keeping yourself in shape, and eating right--doing the healthy things. You have to have all your personal ducks in a row.
Are you working and self-sufficient, do you like yourself when no one is there to tell you how good you are or how much you are loved or liked? Do you need somebody to make you feel whole or complete? if so, you must work on yourself so as to be a whole person and able to draw an equal partner.

Last but not least, trial and error is good. How can you know what you want and don't want if you do not have a few unsuccessful relationships? All dating and bonding teaches. We take risks, we open ourselves, and we allow ourselves to be vulnerable. Sometimes we get hurt, sometimes, things just come to a natural end. This you have to understand. You have not wasted time or lost your way, you are worthy and maybe "Mr. Right" is still two to five years away. If so, do what fulfills you, focus on being whole, with that kind of self concern, you will draw a suitable and like partner to yourself. Okay? Don't worry. It's all practice and growth. You'll get there sweetie. Keeping dancing to your own music.  Shari

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I hold three degrees, B.A. in Engish and Spanish. M.A. in English Literature. Ph.D. in American Literature which informs my understanding of sign and symbol. I hold a credentials in parapsychology,pranic healing, Reiki, massage therapy, hypnosis, life coaching, and social work. For many years as I was developing as a healer, I taught secondary and colleague courses.I am a poet and writer under the psuedonym SDiane Bogus.

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