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Hey my name is Dominique I wanna know where this relationship is going with andra do he really love me I feel so confused lately like I should give up on us we have our good and bad days we also have been trying for a baby I love hime so much and dont wanna be hurt again

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Dominique---I am so sorry that you feel so confused. It is hard to work through old issues and look forward to new and better things at the same time. You are feeling the strain, plus you have the experience of Andra having been with someone else before. This is not exactly a good basis for having a child. It is not a clear mind or way for a strong relationship.

I would ask you to please reconsider that. Children are the last thing you want in the middle of an on and off, good days bad days relationship. I sense that you two are not able to talk openly and honestly. Your communication may be bad because you are inexperienced in compromise and the art of listening and feeding back, or you may just be too young and need more experience. Children need mature and balanced parents. You two are not balanced together nor separately.

I asked my guides about you two and they told me to tell you you're trying to make the relationship work when that should not be your goal. The two of you should admit you are in a shaky time and see somebody, a couples therapist to help you hear what the other is really saying and communicate more deeply.

You have a chance if he is really wanting to be with you. You have a chance if you can forgive him and try to learn what you two really want together. Go out together as a dating couple again. See shows, go dancing, check out concerts, and see movies again. You need a new start.

But please do not bring a child into the world in some misguided attempt to seal and bond with Andra. That would be a hardhip and a disaster for you all.

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