Me (Jennifer, 12 OCT 1981)and a male friend (Gavino, 6 MAY 1986) have talked about possibly being in a relationship, and have talked about maybe living together. I know he has been spending time with another woman. He doesn't seem to mind that she knows about me, but he seems disturbed that I found out about her. He says she is not his girlfriend, and he denies currently having one. He is also not speaking to me as much as he did before I found out about her. So, will me and Gavino be in a faithful relationship with each other?

Dear Jennifer,

First, I feel you're spending too much money or investing too much time on him; you're too generous. I don't feel you should move in together; it feels like he's keeping other things (beyond this woman) secret or hidden. I feel like you feel sorry for him in a sense and just want to help him reach his potential, but I don't feel you'd be on equal ground in the future, or even now.

I do feel like he has a lot of women friends, even confides in female family members, extended family, etc., and this other woman may honestly be innocent, as in platonic, but there's something about him that bothers me; he won't open up -- if you live with someone, that requires intimacy, and I don't get a good feeling about it -- you'd move, then feel stuck and want out because he won't show or share enough of himself, and you are already giving him a great deal, so it would be uneven.

I hope that makes sense; I don't want to crash all your hopes, but that's my 100% honest feeling.

God's Blessings,


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