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So since about December, I've had that white stuff in my underwear (I'm a girl btw) and so I've been thinking of ways I can tell my mom I've started my period when I do, but the thing is I have the awkwardest relationship with my mom. I never talk to her about my private stuff and just I don't know. My whole family is awkward to talk too so itll be hard. My friend said that she has just been snagging pads from her mom and her mom hasn't found out. But if I do that, I'm sure my mom would notice her pads are disappearing. I really dont know, do you have any ways I can tell my mom or my sister?

Well this white stuff may just be smegma and that isnt a clear sign that you are starting your period but it may mean your close. If it is smegma it can be easily taken care of by washing your vaginal region very well. As far as the period issue goes try just sitting down with your mom and explaining what is going on she'll understand and be very supportive of you. Now if you go behind her back and begin to take her pads then she might get more upset then if you had just gone and talked to her. parents are always very supportive of the things your going through because they know what is going on and know how to help you.  


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