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I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm an a or b cup (not sure) and I was wondering if that was normal. I also got my period a few months ago and its REALLY hard to deal with. Do you have any advice?

Your breast size sounds completely normal. Without knowing your genetic history i.e. what do the women in your family have in terms of breast sizes, it is hard to tell you if this is a normal growth rate or if you are not developing at the right rate. However that being said unless you are severely malnourished or have severe vitamin deficiencies I can say that you are most likely completely normal especially since you have gotten your period and are 14 years old. If you want a good estimate of where you are at or where you might stop developing at your best bet is to look at pictures of your mother around your age and see how she developed. Also as for how large your breasts may become again the best bet is to look at your mother as she is the one who gave your DNA the instructions on how to develop and how large you're breasts are supposed to become.

As for the period concern, I can not help you entirely as I am a guy so I have no idea what the best ways are to avoid these issues are. I can tell you your frustration is not unusual especially at the younger ages. All women go through monthly periods and as such have to deal with very similar issues. Now the best thing to do is to talk to your mom, she will be able to help you out and get you started on what you need to be prepared for and how to deal with the symptoms. This will seem like complete and utter torture the fisrt few years as you are just getting used to it, but as you get older this will feel like normal and just another bodily function. You will have to get used to dealing with your period at first but once you are used to it it becomes a normal routine.

If you would like to chat privately and discuss any other issues you may be concerned with please feel free to follow up on this question and I would be happy to chat with you privately.  


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