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| wife problems | 7/4/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I'd like to explain my situation I turned 18 last year october and I was a trainer at YMCA and there ...
A: Abdullah, You have a choice to stay or a choice to go. If you make that choice to leave, then ...
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| Stepkids | 7/3/2008 | Vani |
Q: first of all let me thank your time on reading my problem. I'm 30 years old and my husband is 55 ...
A: In this case, give your husband some time. Do not raise this issue but sit with him and make a plan, ...
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| Intimate relationship with husband | 7/3/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost four years and we have one 10 month old daughter. He ...
A: Can you answer some questions for me and then write back? How old are both of you? Has he recently ...
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| Confusion | 7/2/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: My wife and I are both 31 years old.We have been together for 15 years and have two terrific ...
A: Now, it does seem that she has major hangups on sexual issues,did this all change after the children ...
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| Sex in marriage life | 7/2/2008 | Vani |
Q: Last to last week my wife undergone for laproscopic surgery for opening fallopian tubes. After 2 ...
A: A doctor is someone whom you have to trust to get cured. What if a husband has some urinary tract ...
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| Financial inequity in marriage | 7/1/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I'm 61 and my husband of 2 1/2 yrs. is almost 65 and is going to retire. He's always had a very ...
A: Well, now that you mention it, it very well could have a lot to do with how anal he's become with ...
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| What;'s normal? Don't know anymore! | 7/1/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: Ever since we got married 3 yrs. ago my husband has been telling me what I "owe" him. I'm 61, he's ...
A: this is very wrong and his views are almost archaic to say the least.I guess you have tried to ...
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| third affair | 7/1/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Where do I begin!!! I have been married for 15 years. I'm 34 and my husband is 35. we have 2 ...
A: What do you want to do about this? Do you want to stay with him and try to make it work one last ...
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| Dear S. Kessler | 7/1/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been with this woman for 11 years, married for 8. The whole time it has been turmoil, both of ...
A: If you feel the marriage is dead, well then perhaps it is. Why continue to be in an unhappy, ...
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| Financial inequity in marriage | 7/1/2008 | Goldie |
Q: I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. You'll see the problem: A year after getting ...
A: Ok Janice, you're right things are definitely not looking good. But this question only you can ...
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| Financial inequity in marriage | 6/30/2008 | Goldie |
Q: I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. You'll see the problem: A year after getting ...
A: That is definitely problematic. I have to ask you a few questions before I can attempt to answer ...
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| Financial inequity in marriage | 6/30/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I'm 61 and my husband of 2 1/2 yrs. is almost 65 and is going to retire. He's always had a very ...
A: His behavior is rude, crude and socially unacceptable. He's got a very case of "selfishitis. ...
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| i just dont know what to do.. | 6/30/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: ..he has been gone for 4 months but has stayed in constant contact well i would say every 2 weeks to ...
A: Let's say this isn't about him anymore. It's about you now. So what do YOU want out of this ...
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| Husband's apparent mid-life crisis | 6/30/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: I've seen several of your responses and in my opinion you seem to have your finger on the pulse of ...
A: graham Hi Beth, it may seem to you that "stress" is always something that someone else has,but it ...
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| marriage | 6/29/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: i have been with my husband 12 year`s only married for 2 year`s.he can`t show me any feeling`s at ...
A: Graham hi Sally, sorry for the delay, now with so little info, i would say,go to this site for a ...
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| Am I wrong? | 6/29/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: I am three months away from marrying and dont know if I should. We have been together for a year now ...
A: you are the only one who can decide to marry her or not;but her own life is an issue here,because ...
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| i just dont know what to do.. | 6/29/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: ..he has been gone for 4 months but has stayed in constant contact well i would say every 2 weeks to ...
A: He could be confused as to how you'd react to him if he did ask you go try and work things out. ...
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| sexless marriage | 6/28/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We have four children ages 9-13. For the last 7 ...
A: Of course you're going to freeze up and not know how to react to this, b/c you're used to only ...
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| husband cheated with another man | 6/28/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: We've been married almost 15yrs. We have 2 kids (6&9). My mom died suddenly & I was very depressed ...
A: He's cheated/cheating with another man. This says to me that he's gay or at the very least ...
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| lack of sex | 6/27/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married for 14 years. My husband is a nice guy, good father, great provider, hard ...
A: I tend to agree with you, I get the impression (from all that you've described) also that he really ...
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| Confused | 6/27/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 13 years and have been married since "2003". In the ...
A: If you truly feel that you don't want to work it out, and you just can't do this anymore, then you ...
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| what should I do | 6/27/2008 | Goldie |
Q: I'm afraid my wife is going to cheet. Shes been kind of withdrawn lately and hiding alot of things ...
A: Adam it is absolutely inappropriate for your wife to be hanging out with male friends without you, ...
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| Was I wrong? | 6/27/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: I was taking care of my niece and newphew at my home on a hot summer day. I was in the kitchen ...
A: No you were not wrong to stay in your bedroom,clearly you were embarrassed that a another person saw ...
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| Husband | 6/26/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have a husband whos is distant and hard to reach, no matter what the issue is it ends up being ...
A: Let's see, he's chasing women, he's denying you sex, he's stolen money from his own mother, he ...
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| how should finacail responsibility share within family? | 6/26/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I am a stay home mom w new born. I have strong saving before marry him, but after marry I have no ...
A: Tell him that if he's going to be adamant that you pay for things for the baby, then you're going to ...
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| Marriage | 6/26/2008 | Pastor Kimberly Lemler |
Q: I am a Christian. I have been married for almost 13 years (my husband is also a Christian) and my ...
A: This pastor sounds like he is walking in deception, under the control of a spirit of pride and ...
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| Marriage Separation | 6/25/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: Last year in May I found excessive text message. I tracked them back to March and there were many ...
A: Debbie, The question you have to ask is do I want to stay married or get divorced. Your husband has ...
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| looking at other women | 6/25/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I see my husband looking at other women but when i ask him he denies it? the denial hurts me more ...
A: It's normal for men to check out and look at other women. It's what a lot of men do. However, for ...
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| married but living alone | 6/23/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS AND HAVE ONE CHILD. WHEN MY SON WAS AROUND 2 MY ...
A: Lynn, The first thing you have to do is to reconnect with your husband. he has lost out on so much ...
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| married but living alone | 6/23/2008 | Goldie |
Q: MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS AND HAVE ONE CHILD. WHEN MY SON WAS AROUND 2 MY ...
A: Lynn Six years is a really long time, I'm just wondering what's distressing you enough now to seek ...
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| Is it me? | 6/23/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. I am 46 and he is 44. We are both ...
A: Wow! That's an awful lot for you to deal with and for him to suddenly dump in your lap. And, no, ...
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| While I do all the work he rests | 6/23/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married for over 40 years. I am now isolated in a country area. My husband will soon ...
A: I doubt he even has one clue of how your feeling and what a toll this has taken on you and your very ...
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| My husband left me and move in with his girlfriend | 6/23/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband has been married for 6 years.We disagree often I often told him to leave and this month ...
A: He's being very unfair to you. The newness with his GF will eventually wear off. And if he'll ...
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| Is this marriage worth saving | 6/22/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married for a little over 2 1/2 years. The relationship whirl winded to talk about ...
A: You can't do this on your own. She needs to be a willing participant in order to give this marriage ...
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| Finding courage to end unheathy marriage | 6/22/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I really need help with leaving my marriage and knowing that I will be ok. This is my 3rd marriage. ...
A: You know that you have to leave him. The longer you stay with him the more he's bringing you down ...
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| I'm worried about our relationship | 6/22/2008 | Goldie |
Q: My wife and I have been fighting a lot lately. It makes me say and uneasy. She has picked up some ...
A: Adam Financial trouble is number 1 cause of divorce. Unfortunately today neither men nor women, ...
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| MARRIED BUT LIVING ALONE | 6/22/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS AND HAVE ONE CHILD. WHEN MY SON WAS AROUND 2 MY ...
A: You're right it's not good or healthy to let your son witness this tension and type of relationship ...
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| wife wants to leave | 6/21/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 9 YRS. I HAVE 2 BOYS FIRST MARRIAGE AND 2 TO WIFE NOW. SHE TOLD ME LAST ...
A: Words might not mean that much to her right now. Instead you'll have to show her through your ...
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| Is he the marry type? | 6/20/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Kessler, I have been seeing my boyfriend for about one month. Do you think it is too early to ask ...
A: When you feel comfortable with it, then you can casually bring it up to him. Just ask him what he ...
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| Marriage Issues | 6/20/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: Dr. Gladu, My husband & I are both 40, we've been married 8yrs and have 1 child. I'm not sure that ...
A: Lynda, You do have a chance to save both your marriage and yourself. You need to get some ...
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