AboutGoldie Expertise Being a wife a mother and a licensed counselor I can answer any question in regards to your relationship with your child or significant other. Particularly questions that deal with behavioral issues. If there is something that really bothers your about your spouse or child's behavior I may be able to give you a behavioral solution.
Experience I have worked as a behaviorist for four years and as a guidance counselor in a high school for two years. As a behaviorist I designed plans to help people change their own behaviors as well as the way others behave twords them. As a guidance counselor I helped parents find ways of controlling their teenagers and developing a better relationship with them.
Question I asked myself,do I want to spend the rest of my life with my husband and I seriously believe that I do but I keep doubting myself.This is why I believe that I want to-
I love him so much.
I don't want him to divorce me.
I don't want to leave him.
I want to be with him until I am gone,even if we are old.
I wouldn't want to spend my life with anyone but him.
Is that how you know?
This is why I love my husband.-
1)He's handsome.
2)He's funny.
3)He's nice.
4)He's loving.
5)He's caring.
6)He's understanding.
7)He's honest.
8)He's loyal.
9)He's romantic.
10)He's sensitive.
11)We share a lot in common.
12)He was rich-that doesn't matter though.
13)He looked like someone famous-That didn't matter either.
14)He has great eyes and great hair.
15)He's original.
16)He's gentle.
17)He's dorky-I like that.
18)He's shy.
19)He's smart.
20)He's idealistic.
21)I don't know what I would do without him.
22)I don't want to imagine myself without him.
23)He's responsible.
24)If he left me,I would probably kill myself.
25)I want to be with him forever.
26)He's muscular.
27)He's healthy.
28)He loves me for who I am.
29)He has a great personality.
30)He's helping.
31)He's not prideful.
32)He's not rude.
33)He knows how to make me laugh.
34)I love being in the presence of him.
35)Being around or with him makes me just feel warmer or better.
36)He's trustwothy.
37)He's decent.
38)He's everything that I ever wanted in my life.
39)He makes me feel like a different person,in a good way.
40)He's determine.
41)He's supportive.
42)He's straight forward.
43)He's comforting.
44)He's courteous.
45)He's simple.
46)He's good in bed.
47)He's creative.
48)He's soft.
49)He's sexy.
50)He's settled.
51)He's spontanious.
52)He's a gentleman.
53)He's warm-hearted.
54)He's forgiving.
55)He's organized.
56)He's fun to be with.
57)I love his voice.
58)He's random.
59)He's a good listener
60)He a good provider.(and I am too.)
61)He has a great smile.
I really love him and I feel that I do want to be with him until I am gone.And even if I left or he left,I couldn't stay away,I would have to go back to him,even if we were old.I just can't see myself leaving him if we were old.I could still see myself in a happy life with him when we are old.When we do get old,I do still want to be with him and I know that because I do want to spend my life with him.That's why I am scared of him leaving me.Yes,I'm a little insecure.
I just don't know if I want to be with him for the rest of my life.I know that I want to be with him no matter what the circumstance is.I know that I love him.I know that if he left me or I left him that I couldn't stay away from him for long,I would have to come back.I know that even if we were both old,that I would still love him and wouldn't leave him.But I Am afraid that I will lose love for him or lose interest in wanting to be with him anymore if we got old.We wouldn't be attractive to eahc other physically.We would still love each other and care about each other.But how do I know that I want to spend the rest of my life with him.
Like I said,I know that I want to be with him and I don't want to lose him.
I can see us being together forever and growing old together but I just can't see us getting old physically,do you know what I mean?
I want to be with him even if we are old.
I just don't want to lose him.
I want to be with him.
I can see us together forever.
I know that there is basically nothing that he can do to make me stop loving him,he could hurt me,but it wouldn't be enough to make me hate him.
I'll put it this way,the only thing that is making think that I wouldn't want to be with him when we get old is how we would look.But then again,every one gets old.And if I had to spend my life with anyone,it would 100% be him.Does it sound like I want to be with him for the rest of my life?Will he divorce me for this?Does it sound like I don't want to spend my life with him?Does this mean that I don't love him?Will he be hurt because of this?
I love him more than anything and if he left me,I would literally go crazy.I want to be with him,I don't want him to leave me.I do want to be with him.But I just don't know what forever will bring.What if we just grow apart in the future?What if I am not attracted to him anymore or what if he isn't attracted to me anymore.I don't want to imagine my life without him,now or in the future.He's the only guy that I would ever want or ever have really wanted.And if he left me because of this,I do not know what I would do.I really love him more than I would ever love myself or anything.I do want to spend my life with him.When we got married,we promised to be with each other til death do us part and that's what I want to do.But I am just a little paranoid of what the future will bring.I do want to be with him until the day that I am gone so I guess that means the rest of my life,right?I wouldn't replace him with anyone in the world.
I would just feel lost without him.I don't want to imagine my life without him.He is the greatest man on earth.Everytime we do have an argument,which is kind of rare,I am ALWAYS willing to work it out because I want our marriage to last forever.Even when were old,I still can't see myself leaving him,I can't see myself not loving him or caring for him,I can't see myself hating him,I can't see myself not wanting to be with him.
I know that I love him and want to be with him for as long as I live and I know that because I don't want him out of my life,I don't want him to leave,I would feel lost without him,I love him,and because I want to spend my time on earth with my husband even if he was old,it would still be the same.
I do want to spend my life with him because I would not want to spend my life with anyone else on this universe.
I don't want to lose him,I want to be with him.I want to be with him as long as I live.
I'm just afraid of not wanting to be with him in years from now.I don't want to feel that way towards him.We have a strong marriage and I don't want to break that.I'm about to cry because of it.I am just so scared that he will lose love for me if he knew this or that he would be terribly hurt if he thought that I didn't want to spend my life with him.
I don't know what to do!I want to spend my life with him.I want to be with him even when we are old,I want to spend my life with him.Even if God forbid,he loses a limb or gains weight or loses his hair or gets a disfigured face or developes a mental illness,I still want to be wtih him and would be hurt if he left me and I would be hurt if he thought that I didn't love him.
I want to be with him and I want to spend my life with him and I know that without him,I would feel empty and would be nothing.I just want to be with him and only him.I don't want to spend my life with anyone else other than him and I know as long as I live that I do want to be with him.
I have a habit of doubting myself over everything.
Will he want a divorce from me now?
Will he be hurt now?
Does it sound like I want to spend the rest of my life with him?
Does it sound like I don't want to spend the rest of my life with him?
Does all of this mean that I do want to spend the rest of my life with him?
I do not base love on looks,I just used that for an example.
But I am afraid that I will lose the interest I have in him in the future.Not only are we going to change physically but maybe even mentally and emotionally.What if we lose love for each other and don't want to even be around each other?
I love him so much.It's just that I know right now that I want to be with him but I am afraid that I won't feel that way in years from now,I don't know if I will,all I know is that I will still love him and won't want to lose him,you know what I mean? Does it still sound like I want to spend my life with him?
I am afraid of what the future will bring.And let me clairfy this,his looks don't really matter to me because as he changes,I'll be changing also.His looks are just a bonus in which I do appreciate.
Answer No one knows what the future will bring and go crazy over it isn't gonna make any difference. Relax and enjoy what you have.
However if you feel that anxious maybe you should seek some personal counseling, it will help you vent and ease you mind
