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| What should I do? | 10/11/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I really like all the great answers you gave, but just one more, very important. When I do ask her ...
A: This is a huge problem for you, I can imagine. She has to do something about this or she's going to ...
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| Fiancee considers ex as family instead of friend | 10/10/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Hey its me again. About the last question you answered is really helpful. One more question. Do we ...
A: It certainly might be very beneficial for both of you to go see a marriage counselor (since you plan ...
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| Planning To Leave a 2nd Time | 10/10/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Let's get to it. The stats: Married almost 10 yrs. Together for the same. I am 30 he is 37. 3 ...
A: I suppose you just have to grin and bear it until you can proceed with the divorce. Until then ...
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| Marriage | 10/10/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: Do a wife come before everyone else except for God?
A: Antoinette, The book of Ephesians tells men that they are to love their wives as their self. We are ...
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| dont know what else to do | 10/10/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I am at my wits end. I've been married for 3 1/2 years and throught these years I have gone through ...
A: You are very right to feel this way. A husband is supposed to love, honor and cherish his wife. ...
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| Fiancee considers ex as family instead of friend | 10/10/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Hey, its me again. Thanks for helping Dr. Kessler, if I may call you that. Another question I need ...
A: If she got involved with him when she was young, she honestly might not know any better, and still ...
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| My husband spends zero time with me. | 10/9/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I love my husband with all my heart. We are newly wed and very much in love, but I feel like he has ...
A: It sounds like since this injury he's become a bit more obsessed with playing the games and being on ...
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| I need help! | 10/9/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: I am unsure of how to proceed with my wife. Quite frankly, if not for our 2 year old daughter, I ...
A: Chris, Your wife sounds like she may need to have some major counseling. I understand where you are ...
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| Kindly help me out.......ASAP | 10/9/2008 | Ramaneek |
Q: Please help me out of this situation………… I had been married to Hindu girl. Before marriage, she got ...
A: ..then you will feel more bad about it....as far as going legal is concern you should wait for ...
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| wife has a male friend she keeps calling | 10/7/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: I was wondering about my wifes relationship with a single male friend. This guy is a friend of my ...
A: You may just need to confront him. If he has any honor then he will see that you love your wife and ...
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| Immature Marriage | 10/7/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I am a 28-year-old woman, married for seven years (together for ten) with three small children. ...
A: It's really different for everyone. I married my first husband very young and started a family very ...
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| inter faith/racial | 10/7/2008 | Ramaneek |
Q: I hope that you can help me. Im born christian. My husband is muslim. He is a good man and I love ...
A: Did you discuss before marriage that who will convert after marriage..? I think if not then i feel ...
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| marriage break up | 10/7/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married for 26 years, yes, some up and downs but mostly good. On Sept 12th I found out ...
A: Your reaction is very common place when adultery happens or a separation comes about in a marriage. ...
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| my wife is driving me crazy and treating me as a child | 10/7/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: Why my wife keep accusing me of things I am not doing and why do she keep treating me as I am a ...
A: Charles, The best Christian advice I can give is this. She needs to respect you as head of ...
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| Out all night | 10/6/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 6 years.He has been to AA for drinking and quit.But recently ...
A: Amanda, You sound to me that you have already handled the situation. He may need to really consider ...
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| Need some advice | 10/5/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I've been with my wife for about 2 yrs, we've been married since may and everything was going fine ...
A: I think that first you should ask her what she'd like for you to do. And if she says yes, to come ...
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| Need some advice | 10/5/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I've been with my wife for about 2 yrs, we've been married since may and everything was going fine ...
A: As a person who can certainly understand what your wife is going through, you do need to give her ...
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| Not sure if Im right or wrong in this matter | 10/2/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: I have been married 25 years to my husband, we have 2 daughters, ages 17 and 18 years of age. My ...
A: Sandra, I agree that Bill needs to be more responsible. You are not being harsh and he needs to ...
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| separated, sad | 10/1/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: my wife and i have been separated for 3 months now. we have been married for 13 1/2 years. we have 4 ...
A: The only way to move forward is for both of you to have some sort of closure to the past. So it ...
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| Husband Is Distancing himself from us | 10/1/2008 | Vani |
Q: Vani, Thanks for your advice on my issues with my inlaws. I'm now deeply troubled by my husband's ...
A: That's his way of getting back at his own Dad and taking out his resentment. Try to be both a mother ...
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| justify leaving husband | 9/30/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 10 years we have a 9 yr old as well as my previous 2 ...
A: It's not an easy decision to leave a spouse. You've done everything within your power to try and ...
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| Is fantasizing normal | 9/30/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: I caught my husband fantasizing about a past coworker. He cropped her face onto some pornographic ...
A: well, looking for someone is ok,but for the reasons you he might be searching for her,is not. So in ...
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| spouses sharing expenses | 9/29/2008 | Ramaneek |
Q: My wife of nearly 3 years is moving out this week, complaining that she feels like we're "roommates" ...
A: ..& tell her that how do u feel about it. Just try to talk to her once..if she does not ...
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| How can I make myself stay? | 9/28/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 3 years now, but we have been together for a total of 4 1/2 ...
A: If you can't stand him, and don't want to be in this marriage anymore, plus he treats you so badly, ...
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| Hurt by wife's behaviour | 9/27/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: Sorry in advance for what is a bit of a long email ! My elderly father was recently placed in ...
A: i wish you all well, please let me know how it all goes. Graham Hi Herb, wow, i re-read this ...
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| Hurt by wife's behaviour | 9/26/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: Sorry in advance for what is a bit of a long email ! My elderly father was recently placed in ...
A: well i do hope wife sees this reply,it looks like she wanted you to find that "email" so now that ...
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| mother in law prob | 9/26/2008 | Ramaneek |
Q: . I am having this serious problem of my MIL.She shows in front of my husband that she cares about ...
A: Seems your mil got insecurity problem which every MIL has all over the world...But as we both know ...
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| Difference of Emotions | 9/24/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: My wife doesn't act like she misses me or thinks of me as compared to me while at work away from ...
A: it could be that your wife just isn't a touchy ,feely person. some people just are not comfortable ...
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| My relationship with my husband | 9/24/2008 | Vani |
Q: How do I start liking my husband again? I just never feel appreciated by him, he hardly is around, ...
A: Ask him to give more monetary support saying you need to hire a baby sitter or governess since its ...
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| married, separated, help | 9/23/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: my wife moved out june 20th after i relapsed from sobriety on may 19th. i had a beer after mowing my ...
A: Yes, it is very encouraging. All you can really do is to go with the flow and to take it one day at ...
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| married, separated, help | 9/22/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: my wife moved out june 20th after i relapsed from sobriety on may 19th. i had a beer after mowing my ...
A: No, it's not a bad idea to keep seeing her. Just b/c you're separated that doesn't mean you can't ...
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| Rejection from wife | 9/22/2008 | Ramaneek |
Q: My Wife and Have Been married for 24 years and we have two children. My wife has always had a ...
A: Read your problem got to know about your relationship with your wife...Dear sometimes there are ...
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| Massage parlour | 9/22/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: we enjoy watching porn together and we like the girl on girl and my wife has a fantasy about bieing ...
A: Boston~ When you invite a third person into a relationship you're only asking for trouble to ...
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| Marriage worries | 9/22/2008 | Graham Smith B.PHIL |
Q: Sorry if this is a long one, but I'm really struggling with this and need to talk someone unbiased ...
A: so sorry for my late reply, Its clear to me that you have had a rough deal here;it is now showing ...
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| married, separated, help | 9/21/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: my wife moved out june 20th after i relapsed from sobriety on may 19th. i had a beer after mowing my ...
A: I speak as the product of an alcoholic father, whom I grew up my whole life with him being one. It ...
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| Husband is unhappy. "you can't put a price tag on happiness" | 9/21/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years. He is 41 and I am 40. We have 2 beautiful ...
A: He's obviously angry and bitter at something in the marriage and he's taking it out on you. He grew ...
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| wife walked out | 9/20/2008 | S. Kessler |
Q: Just over six days ago my wife decided to walk out on our marriage. The only thing I can get out of ...
A: There's seems to be much more here than what she's claiming is the problem. Someone just doesn't up ...
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| WIFE | 9/20/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: I AM NOT WORKING RIGHT NOW SO I AM AROUND THE HOUSE MORE THAN NORMAL, BUT EVEN WHEN I WORK, MY WIFE ...
A: Brian, She is trying to get a better job I am sure that is why she is taking classes. The best ...
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| Cheating Spouse... | 9/20/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: Tim, I was informed about a month ago now, that my husband of 8 months was cheating. I was told by ...
A: You will need to start by just simply giving him the gospel. This will give him the truth and the ...
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| WIFE | 9/19/2008 | Dr Tim Gladu |
Q: I AM NOT WORKING RIGHT NOW SO I AM AROUND THE HOUSE MORE THAN NORMAL, BUT EVEN WHEN I WORK, MY WIFE ...
A: Brian, The first thing you have to do is to find a way to ignore what she is doing. Make it appear ...
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