AboutVani Expertise Marriages are made in heaven! But in love marriages when the two partners belong to different nations, castes, races, backgrounds, the amount of understanding required is more. I can tackle queries related to love marriages of these kinds. Sorry, but cannot help out on gay and lesbian relationships and am not a sex therapist.
Experience 12 years of a blissful married life
Education/Credentials Masters in Business Administration
Expert: Vani Date: 7/2/2008 Subject: Sex in marriage life
Question Last to last week my wife undergone for laproscopic surgery for opening fallopian tubes. After 2 days of surgery i m getting thought of how see opened all her cloths and then went into OT. There were 6 male who operated her for 1.5 hours. I getting imagination of how all the things happened over there and getting upset all the time.
Secondly perior to surgery she did not gave 100% to our sex relationship. She used to shy at about 50% of occasions, but how she opened her cloths infront of 6 male, and she did this because she wants child. But i never wanted child at the cost of getting naked of my wife infront of many male. I was hardly recoverd when she want to went for treatment perior to this surgery where she was seen by single male. She know this very well even then she was ok for this operation.
I consulted with psycatrist, he see many people accepts these things by saying that these are the proccess when we have to accept but your are not able to accept that do to negative thought. But i don't see any thing negative in this.
Answer Hi Manish,
A doctor is someone whom you have to trust to get cured. What if a husband has some urinary tract disease for which the specialist doctor is a female, would it mean that he is unfaithful to his wife just because that doctor examined him? Your wife loves you so much and wants to bear your children, so that you can be a proud father. You need to be with her and support her.
