AboutRay Wigley Expertise I can answer questions on sexual problems suffered by single people or couples in a relationship. I have been a sex therapist for eight years and involved in private practise all that time. I am also a psychiatrist so can discuss all aspects of the human interaction on a pure confidential and professional basis.
Experience I have studied sex therapy for over 12 years and practised for eight years. I regularly provide private clinics in southern England for patients undergoing therapy following medical conditions like heart attackes strokes etc,
Publications I have written articles for a number of forum magazines
Education/Credentials Doctorate in Medicine, PhD in microBiology
Question Hi! I really don't know how to start this question, so bare with me and answer the best way you can. I've been married for years, and out of those six years I have been on a emotional roller coaster. We don't communicate like we should, but when we do it's in a argument about something else, and not what we was trying to resolve. Mentally this marriage has got me so confused in the head that at times i don't know if him the whole problem or is it both of us. We argue, and fight 90% of the time. I have never cheated on him, never made him feel less than a man, I stuck by him for over four years when he didn't have a job. I accepted his daughter in to our home and treated her like my own. I take care of the kids i work and clean the house. Often i feel like i gave so much of my self to him that i don't have nothing left for myself. He lies he cheats and can be very mentally abuse towards me. I have built so much resentment in my heart of his actions that 90% of the time i don't want him touching me. so we rarely make love we usually have sex. I've had these blinders on for so long that i don't know what the truth is anymore. my heart is so heavy these days, I'm clueless please help me with some direction.
Answer I believe that he is suffering from stress certainly and some uncertainty as to the actual state of the marriage.
How is his job, is he suffering from the ecomonic situation.
I would also suggest that you have him go to the doctors for a full physical as he may be suffering from other medical conditions
