AboutGraham Smith B.PHIL Expertise I can help with any question on marriage, based on my 31 years of marriage. I also have two children, and one granddaughter,and one step grandaughter.
Experience 31years of marriage.
Education/Credentials I have a bachelor of Philosophy from the Liverpool university (UK)
I am from Nepal a Hindu country and I am married to US guy. We were so in love with eachother that we got engaged when we were in holidays in Nepal. After our engagement i came to know that he was having affair before we got engaged with one of his school freind back in US. I thought we were engaged and thought of moving ahead in life, then we got married because we were happy but again when we were apart for 10 days he was having sex with another women. At this point I donot know what to do , we are just married and he admits that it was his mistake and he cannot live without me and he wants to live rest of his life with me, but I cannot stand this all because this is not first time and i cannot forget and its disturbing me ! please help what should I do?
Answer HI Bandana,
your options are limited i guess, you can explain to him how you are feeling,how he has hurt you,or leave him. Its hard i know ,but its only going to get harder unless you get your feelings out in the open.
you must sit him down and tell him how your are feeling, show him.Why not try and write him a letter with everything you are feeling,that way he has the letter to remind him how he went wrong.He knows he did wrong, but he needs to see the consequences of his actions.
