Marriage and the Husband-Wife Relationship/Am i wasting my time

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We've been together for almost 9 years,  married for 2. Up until about 1 year ago no one had even see us argue now thats all we seem to do.  He'll eave from anywhere from 1 to 6 days,  leaving me his 5 yr old daughter with  no car etc.  He was never like this before,  he swears hes not cheating and says he wants us.  Should i fight for us.

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Very often people go through a time in their life where they become confused about their life, often for no apparent reason. We give it names such as 'mid life crisis.' Of course one of the first things that suffers as a result is their relationship. If you still love him and feel that the 'real him' is still there somewhere, then you can help him through this time, without of course hurting yourself. It takes some understanding and doing the right things, but if you decide that it's worth it then it can be done.
Get some good advice, hang in there and he'll come out the other side!
All the best,

Liam

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Liam Naden

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I specialise in helping couples save their marriage and rebuild it after major hurts such as an affair. Creating intimacy, removing hurt, dealing with sexual and communication problems. I have two relationship-saver programs and a free podcast which are available from my website www.liamnaden.com and a free report, "The Five Keys to Saving Your Marriage Now" at www.growinginloveforlife.com.

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Relationship coach with own relationship coaching business. Author of several books on marriage and intimacy. I offer two relationship saving programs: "Stop Your Divorce" and "Save Your Marriage" which have helped many couples save their marriage and rebuild their love and intimacy.

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About.com Amazon Kindle: Author of the ""Growing in Love for Life" series of ebooks for saving and strengthening marriage.

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Master of Arts (First Class Honors)

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