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| Subject | Date Asked |
| Kissing | 4/19/2011 |
| Q: My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have a great and adventurous sex-life. We have our ... A: I do believe that your wife is suffering from a fear of catching infectious mononucleosis, or the ... | |
| Married-No Sex | 4/18/2011 |
| Q: Why doesn't my husband want to have sex with me? A little background info: We've been together 8 ... A: He is suffering from stress and this will cause a drop in sex drive. You could ask him to visit his ... | |
| problem | 4/18/2011 |
| Q: i am 28 years old and my husband 29 almost i got married since 2 years, i was in love with my ... A: He has won his prize, you, so he feels he need not romance you again. You must tell him that you ... | |
| Remarriad and in a difficult situation | 4/15/2011 |
| Q: Hi… My name is Mehdi. I am a 32 year-old male, living in Iran and working as a pharmacist (I have a ... A: How do you resolve the situation? Well this is difficult. A 'marriage' of convenience as far as she ... | |
| Concern my wife may have been abused in her past | 4/14/2011 |
| Q: I have been married now for 26 years to the same woman, and have four children. I suspect that my ... A: Childhood abuse is something many adults simply cannot talk about no matter how long they have been ... | |
| Emotional-cheating | 4/13/2011 |
| Q: When I was pregnant with my first born the Dr told me my hormone levels were naturally a little low. ... A: I do believe that you should talk to your doctor about your physical and mental state. Get him/her ... | |
| Sexual infrequency | 4/7/2011 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for 10 years. On average we have had sex twice a month. I have ... A: A few things strike me. One is he having an affair at work? could be but he has been uninterested ... | |
| Stumped Husband | 12/8/2010 |
| Q: I don't know how to ask this, so please forgive me if I jump around a little bit in my question. ... A: Several things here. 1. You may be suffering from stress and you do need to talk to your own forces ... | |
| Husbands loss of affection | 11/22/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have two children and have been married for 14 years. we have been through some ... A: Please do not shoot the messenger and remember I am here to help so please do think carefully about ... | |
| no desire | 11/14/2010 |
| Q: I have a question I have been married for over 1year I love my husband and find him very attractive ... A: You are somewhat depressed as all the excitement that made up the romance has now seemed to have ... | |
| Sex and cheating | 11/13/2010 |
| Q: my husband and I have bin married three years now and about a year now sex is atleast three to four ... A: Can I ask what you look like physically, perhaps attach a picture? Second are you predictable, do ... | |
| Sex and my marriage | 11/10/2010 |
| Q: I have been married to my wife for 16 years. I love her very much. We have three children, two , ... A: Several things here. One I do believe that your wife is suffering from acute and prolonged post ... | |
| Husband is acting weird | 11/7/2010 |
| Q: My husband recently told me that people are talking about me to him (not good thing) when I ask him ... A: Strange I cannot understand why he may make the allegations and then not say anything in support of ... | |
| Wife and Mother in law problems | 10/29/2010 |
| Q: I have been living with my mother and wife for almost two years know and there has been some ... A: Tell your wife she needs to be much bigger than this. She nees to appreciate that mum has had you ... | |
| Wife and Mother in law problems | 10/28/2010 |
| Q: I have been living with my mother and wife for almost two years know and there has been some ... A: Ho John Mother nd daughter in law conflicts is a long standing situation that occurs in many ... | |
| Oral and cuckholding | 10/22/2010 |
| Q: My husband who is in his 50s prefers oral sex to anything else. It takes about a half an hour to ... A: He does have performance issues if he is using Viagra. As to control many men want to feel come ... | |
| Oral and cuckholding | 10/22/2010 |
| Q: My husband who is in his 50s prefers oral sex to anything else. It takes about a half an hour to ... A: Jil Hi He is not a closet gay but is definitely going through a mid life crisis and suffering from ... | |
| marriage and sex | 10/21/2010 |
| Q: i have been married for one year now and we are trying to have a baby but my husband have a small ... A: It does sound like he does not want a baby. I wonder if you have thought about a future with some ... | |
| marriage and sex | 10/21/2010 |
| Q: i have been married for one year now and we are trying to have a baby but my husband have a small ... A: He is suffering from stres and this will only work to reduce his sperm count even further. You say ... | |
| So confused | 10/21/2010 |
| Q: I am confused about my hubby.there are times when he act as though he cant stand me. times when ... A: H Angie Not sure why someone would suggest this complex, but if he is doing this to please his ... | |
| Marriage | 10/18/2010 |
| Q: Me and my wife had cheated on each other in the past and before we got married i put everything on ... A: You both came to the marriage with a past no matter what it contained. One thing to remember is that ... | |
| How to address possible porn addiction? | 10/13/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 3-1/2 years. Prior to that, we dated for 4-1/2 years. He ... A: Two things here. First I do believe that he is a internet sex addict and it is difficult to break ... | |
| What should I do? | 9/28/2010 |
| Q: I am currently engaged to my boyfriend and I am wondering if I should marry him. He doesn't want to ... A: I wish you and I were in the same country then I would suggest we meet and discuss sexual therapy ... | |
| What should I do? | 9/27/2010 |
| Q: I am currently engaged to my boyfriend and I am wondering if I should marry him. He doesn't want to ... A: You say he was a virgin before he met you, did he say that or did someone else say that. He is ... | |
| Marriage Trouble | 9/26/2010 |
| Q: For the past year, I have had a less-than perfect marriage. My husband seems to have "disengaged" ... A: You are right I cannot 'fix' it for you I just wish I could. However there are things that I can ... | |
| Am I losing it? | 9/25/2010 |
| Q: Ever since I have children, I no longer enjoy having my breasts sucked. My husband enjoys doing it ... A: Sorry I used a term without explanation, that is very remiss of me and I apologise. You need to have ... | |
| Husband is more like a roomate than spouse | 9/24/2010 |
| Q: I'm considering divorcing my husband and could use some advice. My husband is a good guy, but we ... A: He is suffering from several issues one of which is the low T. Mid life crisis, stress and a ... | |
| Husband Gets Bored | 9/16/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married a little over one year. We have been together off and on for the ... A: It is true that absence makes the heart and the sex drive stronger. What you need to do is romance ... | |
| My marriage is in trouble! | 9/10/2010 |
| Q: I have a question that involves many issues in my marriage. And right now, I am so confused I am not ... A: Menucha Several things strike me here I do not know where you live You notice semen on the toilet ... | |
| He's never here | 9/8/2010 |
| Q: Well, where do I start! Ok my partner and I have been together for about a year and a half. I still ... A: If he is trying then you must work on that Also I think you two need ot really set out a timetable ... | |
| He's never here | 9/5/2010 |
| Q: Well, where do I start! Ok my partner and I have been together for about a year and a half. I still ... A: You to are too busy for each other. I would suggest that you both need to take time out from each ... | |
| sex addictions | 8/27/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married 7 years.as soon as i moved in I was helping him fold his laundry ... A: I don't think you can trust him unfortunately He has a fetish for underwear and probably masturbates ... | |
| Lust? What's that again? | 8/23/2010 |
| Q: I am married since 10 years, I love my Husband and the life we have together. We have 2 Children and ... A: You are suffering from post natal depression from your first pregnancy. You urgently need to speak ... | |
| On the verge of tears | 8/14/2010 |
| Q: I need someones expert and personal opinion on what i should do about my marriage. I have been ... A: That is the purpose of this group, to allow you to vent. I wonder if your husband is suffering from ... | |
| rebuilding sexual intimacy after cheating | 8/7/2010 |
| Q: I heated on my partner 18 months ago and it was discovered last march. We went to couples counseling ... A: Well Brian You need to understand why yur wife feels this way. She feels cheated TWICE. That aside ... | |
| Pressure in Sex | 8/5/2010 |
| Q: I am 27 years old and I have had any interest in sex. I have never had any sexual desire or ... A: You have become slightly frigid and have a reaction to attentions by your husband. You react by ... | |
| pregnancy | 8/4/2010 |
| Q: i m 23 years old and one month since i was married. i am used to have irregular periods before ... A: You do need to see your GP and talk to them. They should refer you to gynecological clinic ... | |
| sex | 8/3/2010 |
| Q: Iam married for 7 years with kids. My problem is that my husband has never been satisfied with sex ... A: You should not put up with this. He cannot demand sex from you, it is almost rape and is ... | |
| In love with two men | 8/2/2010 |
| Q: i have been married for 21 years and with my husband for 23 years. 17 years ago i fell in love with ... A: I am not sure what you want me to say about your marriage but I feel that you do understand the ... | |
| Hormones | 8/2/2010 |
| Q: I'm a man of 43, my wife has 38. We’ve been together for 6 years, used to have a regular sex life ... A: Hormones and breast feeding seem to be getting in the way but there is something else that you need ... | |
| at my breaking point | 7/30/2010 |
| Q: Ok, I have alot of information, probably too much for this box, so let's see how this goes...I love ... A: My first reaction here would be to approach child welfare now and seek help with your homng issues. ... | |
| at my breaking point | 7/29/2010 |
| Q: Ok, I have alot of information, probably too much for this box, so let's see how this goes...I love ... A: This man is a rogue and placing you and every other woman at serious sexual risk. Surely you have ... | |
| marriage and full time school | 7/28/2010 |
| Q: I realize that one spouse going back to school full time these days is not a new concept. We are ... A: You are having financial issues here. What you both need to understand is there are two types of ... | |
| pregnancy | 7/28/2010 |
| Q: i m 23 years old and one month since i was married. i am used to have irregular periods before ... A: Your irregular periods may cause problems with pregnancy. You need to get a test at the pre natal ... | |
| Stuck regretting my past and hating my future | 7/28/2010 |
| Q: I have been married to my husband for nearly 12 years. I have been so unhappy for so many of these ... A: Yes The grass is always greener and missed loves are always more exciting. If you could, perhaps you ... | |
| sex | 7/27/2010 |
| Q: Am i unreasonable because i want my husband to be more romantic when it comes to our sex life? Every ... A: Well of course there is a child, I presume. So what you need to do is arrange for someone to look ... | |
| sex | 7/25/2010 |
| Q: Am i unreasonable because i want my husband to be more romantic when it comes to our sex life? Every ... A: Passion seems to have deserted him. How did he romance you in the 'early days'? I would suggest that ... | |
| no sex or touching for over 10 years | 7/25/2010 |
| Q: Before I was married to my husband, he wanted sex frequently. He was very affectionate and we ... A: This has definitely gone on too long. Counselling doesn't seem to work and you and he are not ... | |
| Blodd group compatibility | 7/23/2010 |
| Q: Wish to get a detailed information on the compatibility quotient between O positive man and B ... A: If this is your very first pregnancy (that includes abortions, miscarriages, etc.) then no, you will ... | |
| Husband is depressed, how to help? | 7/8/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together 7 years, married almost 5. I am American and he is from Eastern ... A: This is difficult to give advice for here. You need to understand that he is depressed and does not ... | |
| marriage distress | 4/5/2010 |
| Q: Help! My spouse and I have always been respectful to one another together 2 yrs and we have a 6. Mos ... A: Heather the problem is the drug taken on the night It caused him to react and of course you were the ... | |
| Husband doesn't really "get" me... | 4/2/2010 |
| Q: It’s hard to explain but sometimes I feel like my husband doesn’t really “get” me. We were high ... A: Everyone needs some ME time. Tell him that this is the case everywhere. Your ME time nay involve ... | |
| Ready to leave this marriage | 3/24/2010 |
| Q: Good day, I have been married for five years, and with the same man for 10 years. It has been a ... A: He is suffering from depression and could also have ED. As for the fling I could never condone this ... | |
| sexless marriage | 3/23/2010 |
| Q: I am 50. I came from an abusive alcoholic family. I rarely drink. I have been and still am ... A: If you both share the same GP it is not improper to talk to him about your concerns for your ... | |
| sexless marriage | 3/23/2010 |
| Q: I am 50. I came from an abusive alcoholic family. I rarely drink. I have been and still am ... A: He is suffering from depression as are you. I would suggest that you make him visit his doctor to ... | |
| Trying to Understand My Husband | 3/20/2010 |
| Q: I understand that men and women process things differently. When my husband and I communicate, it ... A: This is a similar question that I have received before. Culture is a strange thing an people in ... | |
| My husband isn't loyal to me | 3/20/2010 |
| Q: I hope you can help. I am 28, my husband 39, I am from Europe, he is British with Caribbean parents. ... A: I wonder if ths is a mix of cultures and you are all finding it difficult to espress your true ... | |
| my husband does not share his life with me. he just want to share with his parents | 3/14/2010 |
| Q: my husband does not share his life and related issues with me. he just want to share with his ... A: You are in a stange position here You deserve to be treated as an equal and if he is not taking you ... | |
| I don't like having sex at all | 3/13/2010 |
| Q: I've been married for almost 15 years and have four beautiful children (13, 11, 8 and 5). I do love ... A: You are going through a major stress period in your life. What you need to do is to take a complete ... | |
| Marriage trouble | 3/11/2010 |
| Q: Joe proposed to me 17 months after we met. We married February 2007. We separated October 2009. We ... A: He is having identity problems and also suffering as a direct result of the abuse. I am sure the ... | |
| my husband | 3/8/2010 |
| Q: Please could you give me some advice, I have known my husband for 5yrs and been married for six ... A: Well to win hm back you have to prove that you will approach this as a couple. You need to talk sexy ... | |
| Compatibility of Bloodgroup B+ with B- | 3/8/2010 |
| Q: My son ( nearing 26) is B+ and his would be wife (nearing 25) is B-. Can you tell me both these ... A: All medication MUST be given with advice from their own doctor. Do not self medicate. All medication ... | |
| my husband | 3/7/2010 |
| Q: Please could you give me some advice, I have known my husband for 5yrs and been married for six ... A: I am not sure hat he really wants to come back He had difficuty wth your daughter staying and now yu ... | |
| my hubby does not unerstand me | 3/7/2010 |
| Q: i been married since 10 month a ago and am pregnant now its my 9th month my hubby is in canada for ... A: Walk away from this woman and tell your husband he either agrees to help you or he has no family ... | |
| My husband doesn't care about my feelings | 3/6/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for four months, and are expecting our first child together; we ... A: Sarah This situation is not acceptable. I believe that he is hiding something. How does hos son feel ... | |
| husband | 3/3/2010 |
| Q: I have known this man as a friend for 30 years, and we got married 10 yrs ago.He always talked about ... A: CBT is good but it needs committment and if he is not interested in himself then you do need to ... | |
| husband | 3/3/2010 |
| Q: I have known this man as a friend for 30 years, and we got married 10 yrs ago.He always talked about ... A: This man has a major problem emotionally. He lacks assurance and cannot epxress himself when ... | |
| husbands gf is pregnant | 3/2/2010 |
| Q: i filed for divorce in january and we went to our temporary court hearing the end of january.my ... A: It would depend on yur initial grounds for divorce. If you are claiming adultery then this pregnancy ... | |
| Husband surfing net for women | 2/27/2010 |
| Q: I have been married for 7.5 years, in a relationship with my husband for 10; we have a 5 year old ... A: He could also be suffering from ED, which affects middel aged men I would suggest you get him to be ... | |
| Cheated while pregnant | 2/26/2010 |
| Q: Okay, so I've talked to several people about this subject and they all tell me the same things which ... A: You can never win their affection again here I am afraid. Uou have let a lot of people down and even ... | |
| dirty pictures | 2/25/2010 |
| Q: My husband has been getting filthy pictures and videos of naked women sent to him,from his ... A: It is not true that ALL MEN do that. Remember there are men who only are attracted to men, so they ... | |
| low libido husband | 2/23/2010 |
| Q: Me and my husband We get along well, share a lot,are good friends, rarely argue. But in the bedroom, ... A: This man is suffering from depression and has som ebehavioural problems that need assessed by a ... | |
| Wife is looking at bad in all the things I(husband) do | 2/23/2010 |
| Q: i recently married nov(2009) ,started family on dec 3rd. working in software company. My wife is ... A: Tell me are you both the same caste? Was this marriage arranged? Is she suffering from a compulsive ... | |
| Husband & wife relationship | 2/23/2010 |
| Q: I am not sure whether its a problem or not.I was searching for some feed back in online and found ... A: I think your husband is afraid to form any relationship as he feels it may harm anything betweem ... | |
| wife having lesbian relationship | 2/22/2010 |
| Q: my wife and i have been married for 3 and a half years and we have a 19 month old daughter. 3 weeks ... A: She is infatuated by this woman and she may well be bi-sexual. She could also have changed her ... | |
| mutual infidelity -rebuiling sexual intimacy | 2/22/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for more than 20 years, have children, and have maintained caring ... A: To be frank the only person having doubts here is you. You need to discuss these openly with your ... | |
| mutual infidelity -rebuiling sexual intimacy | 2/21/2010 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for more than 20 years, have children, and have maintained caring ... A: It is impossible to forget the past that both you two have been through. Both guilty of extra ... | |
| My husband looks at me like a sister instead of a wife. | 2/17/2010 |
| Q: Can you please explain to me what has happened in my martial relationship. My husband can not have ... A: If he does have another woman then ED may still be the problem as he has developed a low sex appeal ... | |
| My husband looks at me like a sister instead of a wife. | 2/16/2010 |
| Q: Can you please explain to me what has happened in my martial relationship. My husband can not have ... A: You don't say how old he is. Is he actually having sex with these other women? If so he is suffering ... | |
| Oral sex | 2/10/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I lived together for 7 years. During the first 5 years sex was great and mutual. I ... A: I think this may well support my view that he may have a STD and that would be a reason for not ... | |
| Oral sex | 2/10/2010 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I lived together for 7 years. During the first 5 years sex was great and mutual. I ... A: I wonder if he was not cheating but actually suffering from a std and that is why he didnt want sex. ... | |
| COMMUNICATION AT HOME | 2/8/2010 |
| Q: I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY MOST OF THE TIMES. I USED TO BE A TALKATIVE, HAVE FUN, MAKE JOKES BUT THESE ... A: You do NOT have to stay married to this man. He s a bully and very demanding You need to stand up ... | |
| what my rights are as the wife | 2/7/2010 |
| Q: My husband had a child from a previous relationship, they were never married. When I met him they ... A: Your rigts in court would depend on the court, the state and the judge. Some judges are very lenient ... | |
| Anal Sex | 2/6/2010 |
| Q: I recently went to my doctor to get my hormones checked because I admit, I'm having a lot of trouble ... A: Two things come to mind, one where did he see anal sex being practised, maybe a video or some ... | |
| My husband | 2/4/2010 |
| Q: I don't know if my question is a problem, but I am a little bit confused on what to do. I married my ... A: you look very nice if I may say so. This action by your husband is definitely not accetable ... | |
| I don't feel like my husband is in love with me anymore | 1/31/2010 |
| Q: We've been together for 5 years now-married for 3. In the beginning my husband told me how beautiful ... A: H Kristin You don't ay how old he is? It may play a part. If he is approaching middle age he may ... | |
| my hubby | 1/26/2010 |
| Q: doesnt matter age but he never understand me ,he say me he loves me but after a mins he will shout ... A: Why did you marry him in the first place? Is your son his? You do not have to suffer abuse, you must ... | |
| Not sure how husband really feels about me | 1/21/2010 |
| Q: I recently got married but was with my husband for 4 years before doing so. In the past we have had ... A: Your husband is suffering from Erectile Dysfunctionality. It means he can only achieve a firm and ... | |
| Emotional Infidelity | 1/12/2010 |
| Q: I have struggled with an emotional infidelity twice in the past 4 years with my husband of 15 years. ... A: He is suffering from bouts of delusion and as such will never recover from these wwithout ... | |
| hello | 1/10/2010 |
| Q: My husband doesn't answer his phone sometimes when I call him after he gets out of work because it ... A: I think your husband thinks that you are checking up on him. I would suggest an open and frank talk ... | |
| I can't have an erection with my wife | 1/8/2010 |
| Q: I am 30 and recently got married - 6 months ago. We never had sex before and waited till we got ... A: Viagra is for any problem area with erection problems If you don't want to talk to your doctor I ... | |
| I can't have an erection with my wife | 1/8/2010 |
| Q: I am 30 and recently got married - 6 months ago. We never had sex before and waited till we got ... A: You may be suffering from ED Erectile Dysfunctionality. It is as a result of a low sex drive in ... | |
| new marriage sex question | 1/7/2010 |
| Q: I have been with my Husband for 1 year. We just got married 3 months ago. I love him to death. ... A: You need to get back to the naughty romance to bring a spark back into your sex. You are possibly ... | |
| marriage in trouble | 1/5/2010 |
| Q: i am from Pakistan.i am married for 2 years.iam 27 years old and my husband is 29 years old.my ... A: You have isues from your family and his family He has medical condition and this is a problem I ... | |
| I need help... | 1/4/2010 |
| Q: I have an issue that I cannot seem to break free of or get over. It's about my husband. We have been ... A: Sarah I am sorry this has happened but many men when faced with a war situation so strange thngs. He ... | |
| lack of initiation | 1/3/2010 |
| Q: I have been married for a year now and I feel that I am the only one that initiates sex. My husband ... A: SOme questions for you Your ages? What does he do for a job? Is he on any medication? Does he suffer ... | |
| Totally Confused 2 | 12/31/2009 |
| Q: I am 27 as well as my husband.This is an arrange marriage, %26 its just been 6 months we have been ... A: I know that you can tunr things around for yourself You just need confidence and I am sure you do ... | |
| Totally Confused | 12/31/2009 |
| Q: I am 27 as well as my husband.This is an arrange marriage, %26 its just been 6 months we have been ... A: This arranged marriage is the major source of your problems. It may work it may not. Unfortuantely ... | |
| Cheating is it worth saving... | 12/31/2009 |
| Q: I need some help please. I have bn married for 14 yrs and have a 12yr old daughter. I was a virgin ... A: The marriage can be saved but here you both need to be truthfull to each other I would recommend a ... | |
| Loss of interest in making love | 12/27/2009 |
| Q: Iam a 32year old woman and have been married for the past 7years,due to the poor economical status ... A: I think you are suffering from stress and this is being worsened by you attempting to develop a ... | |
| Cheat on wife or Divorce her??? | 12/24/2009 |
| Q: When I first met my wife we had a good love life we had sex multiple times per week. We also ... A: You suggest two options but there is a third option Try counselling I wonder if she is concerned ... | |
| what hubby calls me | 12/21/2009 |
| Q: Married 5 years, together for 10, he still calls me 'Gail' his first wife's name, and also calls me ... A: I am not sure what to say here. I would remind him every time he calls you 'Gail' I would also ... | |
| My husband no longer has any interest in me | 12/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for just over a year now, and we have a 6 month old baby boy, Before we got ... A: He is suffering from post natal depression and a hatred of your body producing something foreign to ... | |
| Can physical chemistry ever be created in this marriage? | 12/9/2009 |
| Q: Wigley, I've been with the same man for 17 years and have been married for 11 of them. Prior to ... A: I do believe with all that you have said you are in a sexless marriage. You have grown apart and ... | |
| Inappropriate fantasies of husband | 12/5/2009 |
| Q: Mr. Wigley, My husband of 3 years has got these terrible sexual fantasies about his mother and would ... A: this sounds like an Oedipus complex. You will need to seek expert counselling to break him from this ... | |
| birthday celebration | 12/5/2009 |
| Q: ..its my husbands birthday and when asked if he has plans of any celebration, he said no...His ... A: Is this the first birthday you have celebrated with him. If not what happened on previous occasions. ... | |
| Sexless Marriage | 12/4/2009 |
| Q: I've been married for the past 5 yrs. My 1st marriage, and my husband's 2nd. We're both in our ... A: ED can be devastating for all concerned the man and the woman. I presume he has tried Viagra or ... | |
| sex | 12/2/2009 |
| Q: Why do i get soft when i am ready for sex,after i started out on hard? ANSWER: Hi J It happnes to ... A: Here are a few ways to reduce blood pressure naturally A way (which is best done in conjunction ... | |
| sex | 12/2/2009 |
| Q: Why do i get soft when i am ready for sex,after i started out on hard? ANSWER: Hi J It happnes to ... A: Then you need to consult with your gp. High blood pressure can lead to erectile dysfunctionality. ... | |
| sex | 12/2/2009 |
| Q: Why do i get soft when i am ready for sex,after i started out on hard? A: It happnes to many men. The erotic part releases endorphines and blood into the penis so it goes ... | |
| sex | 12/2/2009 |
| Q: How can i encourage her to have an orgasm ? A: Strange question this. How can you encourage her to have an orgasm. Well it would depend on what ... | |
| My husband's email affair... odd behaviour | 11/30/2009 |
| Q: I was checking our email recently, and was surprised to receive one from another woman addressed to ... A: Can you give me more details on your background? How long had you known him before you married? ... | |
| my husband wont have sex with me | 11/26/2009 |
| Q: I am 33 and my husband is 39, this is my husbands first marriage and my second, i have 3 daughters ... A: I think this is a case of two things happening to your husband. First he is suffering from stress ... | |
| My husband's confession stunned me... | 11/25/2009 |
| Q: My husband told me to sit down last night, and that he had a confession. I'm 39, my husband's 40, ... A: First I can understand your feeling of disgust and unhappiness about what he did. However there is a ... | |
| My husband's obsession with work... | 11/25/2009 |
| Q: I'm 25, my husband's 28 and a radio presenter. I met him when I was 19 and he was 22, it was an ... A: There are a number of reasons that someone becomes fixated on work to the detriment of home.Lets ... | |
| Wife seperation | 11/24/2009 |
| Q: In march of this year my wife and i hit financial difficulties, on a big scale. My wife entered into ... A: This is a very difficult question to provide a simple answer. Let me ask you a few questions and ... | |
| What do I do about my wife's dad and his sexual attitude towards me? | 11/23/2009 |
| Q: I'm 26, my wife's 25. We've been married for just over 4 months now, and everything's great. ... A: Now please do bear with me here I have to feel around for the best apporach. Did you do anything ... | |
| marriage | 11/21/2009 |
| Q: i have a question on my new marriage. i just married a girl that has changed my life. she is ... A: Although you say it is not a big deal for you I do believe that it is otherwise you would not be ... | |
| Marriage/Sexual Relationship | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I have been married for a little over a year, and have been together for 8 years. We're ... A: John You must have her visit the doctor for a check up to make sure she is not suffering from any ... | |
| Marriage/Sexual Relationship | 11/16/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I have been married for a little over a year, and have been together for 8 years. We're ... A: Two things to think about here. First is her general health, is she suffering from any clinical ... | |
| lack of intimacey | 11/11/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 7 years together 8. This pass January we separated. We just ... A: You are suffering from stress. You cannot and will not accept this situation until you come to terms ... | |
| Don't know how to feel | 11/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for 17 years. The first few years were rocky and we dealt with many things ... A: I think he is suffering from stress and of course another male problem Have a look at ... | |
| My girlfriend is a stripper/follow-up | 11/6/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend has been stripping for a few months now. When we first got together I really didn't ... A: You are a young virile male and 25 is your peak so you would be expected to be on top all the time. ... | |
| My girlfriend is a stripper | 11/6/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend has been stripping for a few months now. When we first got together I really didn't ... A: There are two things that need addressing here; one is your sex drive the other is your wanting her ... | |
| no sex, no love - divorce P.2 | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: Ray Wigley, May I just make a follow-up from my question yesterday? 3 days ago, we booked holiday, ... A: I think he is using this holiday as a means to help him relax with someone he would refer to as a ... | |
| Threesome with best friend | 11/4/2009 |
| Q: I promised you an update and you were so helpful I wanted to follow up with you. As I stated in ... A: I have to admit I think your friend is just trying to coax you into having a threesome with her so ... | |
| no love, no sex -- divorce? | 11/3/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years this 28/Oct. But we have no sex for the last 2 ... A: I have answered some of this in your follow up email. However I would also question his desire for a ... | |
| Problems about sex with wife | 10/30/2009 |
| Q: I have been trying to get my wife too do new things for about 4 years the only thing she tryed for ... A: I am not sure what you want her to do but it may help if you discus what turns her on and what turns ... | |
| Loss of Sexual Interest | 10/29/2009 |
| Q: I am a stay at home mom of 2 children ( 2.5 yo & 1 yo ). My husband and I have a very good ... A: There are several things going on here and they need attention. First your breasts. I wonder ... | |
| marriage without any affection | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: I am a man in his mid fifties and have been married for nearly thirty years. My wife comes from ... A: I have to admit I think your wife is suffering from a prolonged bout of post natal depression. Her ... | |
| Wife has no sexual feelings or urge | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: Let me try to describe my problem as much as I can so that its clear to you because its hard to ... A: She has to learn to trust you as much as you trust her This programming is an important part of her ... | |
| Wife has no sexual feelings or urge | 10/26/2009 |
| Q: Let me try to describe my problem as much as I can so that its clear to you because its hard to ... A: You have a very narrow opinion of your wife. I have to say I have come across similar actions by ... | |
| My husband cheated on me and I can't get images out of my head | 10/21/2009 |
| Q: I was recently contacted by a woman my husband had sex with over a year ago. When I asked my husband ... A: This is difficult. You are fixated by this action that happened over a year ago. You need to take a ... | |
| communication gap | 10/19/2009 |
| Q: i seriously dont know where to start this but my feeling, problem is that my husband does not like ... A: Deepika I think her is suffering from stress and needs to visit his doctor. As long as he is not ... | |
| I don't know what to do to save my marriage. | 10/10/2009 |
| Q: I really don't know how to start this question, so bare with me and answer the best way you can. ... A: I believe that he is suffering from stress certainly and some uncertainty as to the actual state of ... | |
| Married to a Crossdresser | 10/9/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 yrs. He really is a wonderful man, very good to me and ... A: You are right about addicitons. You can in time wean people off various addicitions like drink drugs ... | |
| trouble in paradise | 9/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm concerned about my husband. We have been married since 2003 and at first things were great. We ... A: I could suggest an online session between you, your husband and maybe me or another free counselor. ... | |
| trouble in paradise | 9/16/2009 |
| Q: I'm concerned about my husband. We have been married since 2003 and at first things were great. We ... A: I am sorry about the way things are going. I suggest you contact his doctor and explain that your ... | |
| Common or abnormal | 9/15/2009 |
| Q: I am a 30 year old woman, married for 2 1/2 years with my husband (together for a total of 7 years). ... A: I would recommend several things here. First take a long look at yourself. Are you attractive ... | |
| Fallen out of love | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: I have just returned to work from 2 weeks leave with which I spent the time with my family. I have ... A: First there is an element of jealousy involved here. He is jealous of your son and this is shown by ... | |
| my husband | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: I am quite concerned about my husband of 3 years. Let me start with a few months ago... I received ... A: You do have a right to have concerns but I would ideally like a little more information about the ... | |
| No affection, Unloved | 9/3/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for 10 years. We have two children 6 and 8. I spend most days and nights ... A: Sorry it took a little time to answer You are both facing this uncertainty out there and it is ... | |
| Confused | 8/15/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married just over a year. We've had struggles in our first year as there ... A: You do need counselling. He needss to be involved in this and I would recommend that he take up this ... | |
| Problem regarding Sex and Child Birth | 8/13/2009 |
| Q: .We both have an same Blood Group(A+).Is there any problem in child Birth? and moreover what baby ... A: You are both OK as regards blood grouping so should have no problems in child birth, from the point ... | |
| Sex as an antidepressant | 8/13/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I separated a year ago after a difficult marriage with almost no sexual contact. In ... A: I have heard of this phenomenon before but it is based on other issues and not as you think semen. ... | |
| my relationship | 8/12/2009 |
| Q: I have started a relationship last year.We are living together. I understood he has many phone calls ... A: I am unsure what to suggest here. He has a past just like you, but he appears to be still holding on ... | |
| He's lost interest in me since I got pregnant | 8/11/2009 |
| Q: I haven't really discussed it with him because I don't want him to have sex with me just to make me ... A: There are a few things you should be aware of here. First some men do panic when their wives become ... | |
| Suddenly bf wants me to wear sexy lingerie after 9+ years of dating, why? | 8/10/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend all of a sudden wants me to start wearing lingerie after having dated 9 or more years. ... A: This is a typical role reversal happening to you. Over time you have become accustomed to being ... | |
| confused | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for almost 21 years. We have two children, so at one point or another we ... A: You are NOT out of line questioning this. The marriage is a joint venture for two people and this ... | |
| confused | 8/8/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for almost 21 years. We have two children, so at one point or another we ... A: Tell him you are not dwelling on the past but trying to resolve your future He obviously has an ... | |
| PROBLEM DURING INTERCOURSE | 8/7/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for 1 year and 8 months and I don't really penetrated her all this while because ... A: Because you are both new to sex I think you are having trouble penetrating her. I would suggest that ... | |
| i do not know how to make a desicion about my marriage? | 8/6/2009 |
| Q: i've been with my husband for 7 years, 6 married and 1 year engaged. When I got married my husband ... A: I am a little confused here and finding it difficult to arrive at any advice for you. Please do ... | |
| sex and marriage | 7/28/2009 |
| Q: I am 30 year old man and have been married for 3 months. Some background, Both, my wife and I are ... A: She would be described as very prudish in nature. How to resolve this. Well you will need the help ... | |
| Foreplay | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: We have been married for 25 years. Always had a great sex life. Age 50's. Problem is orgasm. As a ... A: It could be erectile dysfunction. He is of an age when this condition does raise its metaphorical ... | |
| sex and marriage | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: I am 30 year old man and have been married for 3 months. Some background, Both, my wife and I are ... A: Sex is often instinctive and the act will be natural but you two need to be encouraged to get ... | |
| sex issues with my husband | 7/27/2009 |
| Q: i have been married for 4 months and sex is getting worse instead of better, my husband i feel is ... A: He wants doggie style because then he can be sure his penis is inside you even when it is slightly ... | |
| threesome with best friend | 7/26/2009 |
| Q: Is it possible for my husband and I to have a threesome with my best friend and not adversely effect ... A: Is a thressome a good thing. Well if you want me to condone adultery (lol) then yes it can be a very ... | |
| sex and marriage | 7/25/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for 35 years. I love and desire my husband more with each passing year. ... A: Tabatha I am glad that my reply has provoked you into action that is good. Lose the predictability ... | |
| sex and marriage | 7/24/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for 35 years. I love and desire my husband more with each passing year. ... A: Do not give in to this sexual blackmail, for that is what it is. He wants to take advantage of his ... | |
| sexless marriage | 7/20/2009 |
| Q: I know my life could be far worse, but I live in a sexless marriage. I've been married over 24 ... A: First even at 50 there is love out there I promise you. You would never be alone or over the hill ... | |
| My Husband Masturbates When I am out | 7/19/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for more than ten years. His sexual preferences are fairly kinky, and I ... A: I am sure you are feeling somewhat abused by your husbands approach to sex. He is behaving very ... | |
| Genital TB | 7/19/2009 |
| Q: Ray, Tks for answering my previous question. Have another question for you. I have Genital TB and ... A: I would not recommend having sex whilst you are being treated for this condition. The bacilus is ... | |
| Is this even "ok"? | 7/18/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married 2 years. Im a bit gun shy, he cheated on me just before he asked ... A: You have every right to be angry. He knew the consequences when he arrived at the bar and saw three ... | |
| Need help ... | 7/18/2009 |
| Q: . I am 19 years old girl and I want to ask certain question about the whitish liquid coming out of ... A: when women become sexually aroused, the vagina often self-lubricates. That fluids tends to be thin ... | |
| Sex Frequency | 7/18/2009 |
| Q: I am married since 6 yrs and donot know what should be the Sex Frequency to have a good relationship ... A: You need to try to inject some romance back into your marriage. I think your husband has now reached ... | |
| Relationship & Motorcycle | 7/17/2009 |
| Q: When my husband and I lived in a different city, we bought a motorcycle. We both enjoyed riding ... A: This is very chauvanistic behaviour on his part. I wonder how difficult it would be for the 'wives' ... | |
| No Sexual Life | 7/16/2009 |
| Q: My Husband and i have been married for the last 5 years and have 2 1/2 yr old son.Everything was ... A: Two things come to mind here First it seems like your husband is suffering from stress and this has ... | |
| lost interest in Sex | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for last 7 yrs and now we havea kid of 3 1/2 yrs. My wife doesnt like to have ... A: Ok what you might need to think about is start and romance her as you think a woman should be ... | |
| what to do ??? | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: We were both virgins when we got married at 22. Church and God were high priority at the time. I've ... A: This is a bit of a mess and you need to determine just what you want from this relationship. You ... | |
| lost interest in Sex | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for last 7 yrs and now we havea kid of 3 1/2 yrs. My wife doesnt like to have ... A: I wonder if your wife's religion has a bar on sex and enjoying the act. I apologise if this is not ... | |
| marriage and sex | 7/4/2009 |
| Q: For immigration reasons my husband and I have been separated for 15 months. But I saw him last 2 ... A: I am not sure what you want me to say here I have reservations about his love for you. Are you sure ... | |
| Sex in Marriage | 7/4/2009 |
| Q: Well, I wonder if i am dealing with this issue the wrong way, anyway here is my dilemma. I have ... A: There are a few 'old wives tales' still knocking about concerning navy men and this is one of them I ... | |
| Wife's Affection has suddenly vanished | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: Im 31 and my wife is 29. We've been married for a little more than 3 and half years and dating for ... A: As you live in the US i am not sure how you would get to see a psychiatrist, here in the UK we could ... | |
| Wife's Affection has suddenly vanished | 7/3/2009 |
| Q: Im 31 and my wife is 29. We've been married for a little more than 3 and half years and dating for ... A: Your wife is going through a turmoil similar to post natal clinical depression. The visits to the ... | |
| sex | 6/26/2009 |
| Q: How can i get my girlfriend to have more sex with me don't get me wrong when we do have sex it's ... A: What are you expecting from her in this relationship. If you think this relationship has to be a ... | |
| sex | 6/26/2009 |
| Q: How can i get my girlfriend to have more sex with me don't get me wrong when we do have sex it's ... A: Just like men some women can have a low sex drive. Perhaps your girlfriend has a low sex drive, she ... | |
| Blood Group Matching | 6/26/2009 |
| Q: Hey Wigley, My blood group is A negative and my would be's blood group is B positive,can you detail ... A: It is absolutely normal for an individual to be Rh–negative. The problem pops up when an Rh-negative ... | |
| husbands hesitance to recomitt after an affair | 6/25/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been separated for 4 months now due to his midlife crisis resulting in him ... A: You are asking if it is possible to feel that passion again after having a steamy sex with a younger ... | |
| question of trust | 6/24/2009 |
| Q: Dr. Wigley, I have been married to my husband for several years. I have never known him to cheat ... A: I think you are hanging a lot of assumptions on a piece of wood. It could be significant or ... | |
| husbands hesitance to recomitt after an affair | 6/24/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been separated for 4 months now due to his midlife crisis resulting in him ... A: I think your view of your husband is a little fogged by his previous actions. He is confused and ... | |
| blood mismatching and new born child problems | 6/23/2009 |
| Q: my blood group is AB+ and my wifes is B-. my first child has many prblems after birth. my second ... A: Many children of 5 or 6 do give truthful answers when asked questions about what they can or cannot ... | |
| sex in a marrige | 6/21/2009 |
| Q: hey ray im 18 yrs old married 4 about 1yr and 4months i have 1 child. my question is ive lately been ... A: I think you are somewhat too hard and direct in what you are trying to achieve with your wife. She ... | |
| Husband -Wife relationship | 6/21/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We never started having ses. Over the years he has ... A: I have ot ask some leading questions so please do excuse me but try to answer them off line if you ... | |
| relationship | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: Actually i'm from Nepal and got married to Gujrati....i'm trying to adjust in this new enviroment as ... A: I do believe that honesty is the best policy. Treat their food as if it were meat and you are a ... | |
| relationship | 6/19/2009 |
| Q: Actually i'm from Nepal and got married to Gujrati....i'm trying to adjust in this new enviroment as ... A: I think you must take the bull by the horns here and tell your family that you have different tastes ... | |
| sex problem with my husband | 6/17/2009 |
| Q: I always have trouble with my husband in bed. I am very active and wants it, and he only wanted at ... A: You do not say how old he is. He could be having stress troubles. Also he may just have a low sex ... | |
| Q abt sex... | 6/16/2009 |
| Q: i want to know that how can i know that my wife has got orgasm.? means in case of men,we can say ... A: To locate and master the woman's G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert ... | |
| Husband Loves Me but Can't Show Affection | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: My problem is that I've been married to my husband for 20 yrs & about 7 yrs ago he told me that he ... A: I can understand your frustrations and I do believe that he is going through the mid life crisis. Do ... | |
| Husband Loves Me but Can't Show Affection | 6/15/2009 |
| Q: My problem is that I've been married to my husband for 20 yrs & about 7 yrs ago he told me that he ... A: This is difficult. You are both having some form of counselling which you say is not really helping ... | |
| Sexual Intimacy | 6/13/2009 |
| Q: My husband had a vasectomy reversal 3 years ago and since then, our sex life has completely changed. ... A: I think this screams stress and pressure I also believe it is time to consider the little blue pill ... | |
| wanting reconciliation | 6/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for 20 years and married for 15. He's the only man I have had a physical ... A: I wonder if he is just becoming a lodger with fringe benefits, what do you think? I can understand ... | |
| Intimacy concerns | 6/9/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married about a year and have been together for six years. We both work ... A: Yes he is suffering from major stress. If you want to help him gain some sex drive then you could ... | |
| wanting reconciliation | 6/6/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for 20 years and married for 15. He's the only man I have had a physical ... A: There is a lot happening here and it needs some reflection and work to try to resolve this. First ... | |
| Q abt sex... | 6/4/2009 |
| Q: i want to know that how can i know that my wife has got orgasm.? means in case of men,we can say ... A: Once a man has orgasmed it is unusual for him to be able to carry on and ejaculate again for quite a ... | |
| Marital Concerns | 6/3/2009 |
| Q: my husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now. I am 25 and he is 26, he just got out of ... A: I think he is suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder following his deployment. I know many ... | |
| Tired and worn out from relationship | 6/3/2009 |
| Q: I am 38 and have been married for 15 years. I have now reached the point where I do not want to be ... A: There are anger management counsellors who can help But they can only do so on a one to one basis, ... | |
| Q abt sex... | 6/3/2009 |
| Q: i want to know that how can i know that my wife has got orgasm.? means in case of men,we can say ... A: woman's orgams may be like men, fluid discharge but could also be them moaning very loudly and ... | |
| Tired and worn out from relationship | 6/3/2009 |
| Q: I am 38 and have been married for 15 years. I have now reached the point where I do not want to be ... A: This is not usual behaviour for a man I wonder if he is suffering from stress through work or home. ... | |
| Low confidence during the Sexual meeting | 6/2/2009 |
| Q: I'm an Indian and as my Husband keeps blaming me for the wheatish complexion I owe...he says the ... A: I think a case of women's lib is called for here He is denying you satisfaction and is very selfish. ... | |
| Long-standing sex problem. | 6/1/2009 |
| Q: I'll give you a brief background on me and my partner. We're both 27, met at 16 (first relationship ... A: I think it is time to start drawing lines and starting afresh. Have you tried role play to see if ... | |
| Long-standing sex problem. | 6/1/2009 |
| Q: I'll give you a brief background on me and my partner. We're both 27, met at 16 (first relationship ... A: My suggestion would be to try to take time out of your normal life to try and instill some romance ... | |
| Changes | 6/1/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I were just married around 3 weeks ago. Before the wedding, we were incredible ... A: I am not sure if he is trying too hard. Perhaps he feels the lifestyle is something that you want ... | |
| Husband does not want to accept separation | 5/29/2009 |
| Q: I am married for 34 years and for the last 10 years I am having problem with my husband. He tries to ... A: Your husband is guilty of mental cruelty. He is denying you his attention and always arguing and ... | |
| my partners past sex life | 5/20/2009 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for around 7 years with my current partner and we have 1 little one ... A: I can sympathise with you and I believe that your daughter should not grow up like her mother Have ... | |
| my partners past sex life | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: I have been in a relationship for around 7 years with my current partner and we have 1 little one ... A: First I think you need to understand we all come to relationships with past history, some we are ... | |
| My husband is still in love with his lover. | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: My husband has just admitted he is having an affair, but he also says he has connected with her and ... A: I think the time has come to consider you and your children. You need to realise if your 'husband' ... | |
| Marital Problems | 5/19/2009 |
| Q: 2009-05-15 10:39:09 I am Tired of it! Having been married 10 years I thought I knew my dh.Instead ... A: Jane I think several things need to be addressed here 1. You are stressed and depressed. 2. The man ... | |
| my daughter/son-in-law | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: I don't know if this is the right section but I am sitting here desperate. I was informed today that ... A: Essentially your daughter can put any name on the child's birth certificate but in the reality will ... | |
| Lonely corner | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: I have a special lady. She is the kind of person who is rock solid and stable. She is probation ... A: This screams stress Your partner is under so much stress at work that she is bringing it home and ... | |
| my daughter/son-in-law | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: I don't know if this is the right section but I am sitting here desperate. I was informed today that ... A: If you let this go then can I just outline a scenario to you and let you make your own mind up. ... | |
| my daughter/son-in-law | 5/16/2009 |
| Q: I don't know if this is the right section but I am sitting here desperate. I was informed today that ... A: Ok this is a delicate one so here is my advice to you Your daughter is the rightful mother and her ... | |
| confused about my wife's sexual preference | 5/14/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my wife for over 5 years. Her opinion on porn and masturbating while in ... A: I think you both need to sit down and talk and I mean really talk. But this time you need an ... | |
| confused about my wife's sexual preference | 5/14/2009 |
| Q: I have been with my wife for over 5 years. Her opinion on porn and masturbating while in ... A: You are right that your wife may and I emphasise MAY have bi sexual tendencies. She certainly may ... | |
| gift | 5/12/2009 |
| Q: My husband has a nephew who he hasn’t spoken to or seen in MANY years. The reason is because of his ... A: This is a delicate problem and I can see your dilemma. Now if you will let me give you some advice ... | |
| My husband not interested in sex | 5/12/2009 |
| Q: My question I am sure is pretty common. I have been married for four years and in the beginning it ... A: I think your husband may also be suffering from low sex drive. This can happen through stress. I ... | |
| rejecting all the time | 5/11/2009 |
| Q: I've been with this girl for 8 years and before we use to make love all the time. Now its like ... A: I am sure people can have sex several times a week but there are women who simply have what is ... | |
| Frequent quarrels | 5/10/2009 |
| Q: I have been married since one year now. My wife is well educated and has done her M.sc. But i feel ... A: It appears to me that you are resigned to a divorce I would therefore suggest that you approach your ... | |
| i love my husband yet he always accuses me of rediculos things | 5/10/2009 |
| Q: How can i get through to my husband of 3 months that i dont talk to other men ,i havent lied to him ... A: The more you deny the worse it will become You must confront him direct and ask him where he is ... | |
| rejected | 5/5/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years and we have two children aged 7 & 2. We have had sex ... A: I wonder if you can determine exactly what caused the initial drift in your relationship. It must ... | |
| PLEASE EXPLAIN | 5/3/2009 |
| Q: I was wondering would you please explain to me: what is a soul mate? Thanks A: A soul mate is someone whom you can relate to on issues more than just the physical plane. I mean ... | |
| Frequent quarrels | 4/29/2009 |
| Q: I have been married since one year now. My wife is well educated and has done her M.sc. But i feel ... A: I think in this situation you should be talking to her parents and telling them to reprimand their ... | |
| Getting turned on -off? | 4/27/2009 |
| Q: I'm having trouble accepting my husband's caresses as we begin foreplay. Whenever he touches me, I ... A: Something has happened causing you to becomne tense and frustrated and possibly stressed. It is ... | |
| husband/wife | 4/27/2009 |
| Q: I have been a stay-at-home mom for 6 years now. I have found that my husband has become more and ... A: I see the green devil here and wonder if your husband is suffering at work in the current economic ... | |
| My husband has no interest in me | 4/26/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for 5 years. In the beginning our sex life was great. The first 3 years he was ... A: Unfortunately this situation is becoming more and more common in the current climate. Husband ... | |
| marrage problems | 4/25/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I have been together for 12 years (married for 6 and have two kids 5 and 3) She has ... A: I think if counselling has been mentioned then this is a good place to start Attraction comes in two ... | |
| Infidelity | 4/24/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I went out with her coworkers and she sat with them leaving my at the end of the table ... A: Dan I am not sure how much more I can help here Can I ask are you still romancing her. Do you ... | |
| Infidelity | 4/24/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I went out with her coworkers and she sat with them leaving my at the end of the table ... A: There is no clear scientific explanation for this. My other resolve is to suggest it may be residue ... | |
| Infidelity | 4/23/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I went out with her coworkers and she sat with them leaving my at the end of the table ... A: You suspect your wife is playing around and have panties to suggest this. I am not sure that stains ... | |
| question about blood group compatibility in marriage. | 4/21/2009 |
| Q: Can husband and wife be of same blood group? for Eg:- If husband and wife are of same blood group ... A: Yes Husband and wife can be of the same blood group. There are four main blood groups, A B AB and O ... | |
| lesbian | 4/19/2009 |
| Q: In your expert opinion, are there husbands who wish their wives would try a lesbian affair? If yes, ... A: Unfortunately I only have tentative information on this as only 35 actually completed the survey out ... | |
| lesbian | 4/19/2009 |
| Q: In your expert opinion, are there husbands who wish their wives would try a lesbian affair? If yes, ... A: It is estimated that 62% of hetersexual males in a male/female relationship would like their partner ... | |
| Our married life issue | 4/17/2009 |
| Q: we were married for 5 years. My issue is my husband do online chatting a lot with some girls. He is ... A: Your husband is what is known as an internet adict and has taken things a little too far. His ... | |
| wife does not want to touch me | 4/16/2009 |
| Q: My wife and I are going on two years of marriage. She likes to be romantic one month then cut off ... A: I wonder how old your wife is I have to say that some women go through a stage called the menopause ... | |
| Married 12 years, husband was a virgin I was not | 4/13/2009 |
| Q: I have some concerns about my marriage. My husband and I have been married going on 12 years this ... A: The first time he 'has meaningless sex' with another woman will spell the end of your marriage. He ... | |
| Is my husband gay? | 4/11/2009 |
| Q: My husband has been looking at gay porn online. He doesn't know that I know this. I discovered it ... A: This is a very big thing for a clergy to admit to themselves let alone their family. It is aparent ... | |
| a boring marriage or just me? | 2/4/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 11 yrs. The past 7rs we haven't had musch of a sexual ... A: I am glad that it helped. It just takes another pair of eyes to look at the problem. Now remember to ... | |
| a boring marriage or just me? | 2/4/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 11 yrs. The past 7rs we haven't had musch of a sexual ... A: I feel that what has happened is that you have both grown older. As a result of growing older some ... | |
| Is this Normal? | 2/3/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years, together 4. We have a three yr old daughter. ... A: His obsession with your backside does not make him gay, but it does place him outside the so called ... | |
| Sexual Intercourse | 1/31/2009 |
| Q: I want to know that how long before delivery of wife we can make intercourse, as i heard there is a ... A: You can make love to your wife up to one day before the baby is due, or until her waters break. ... | |
| My wife shows no affection | 1/31/2009 |
| Q: I really don't know what to do. I'm 29, my wife is 27, we have been married for just over 4 years ... A: I am not too sure what to suggest here. She may well suffer from post natal depression after the ... | |
| How may times | 1/29/2009 |
| Q: after we got married we use to make love sometimes even twice a day..now it has been three years ... A: What you experienced was something called mating vigour in the early stages of marriage. You ... | |
| SEXUAL CONNECTION IN MARRIAGE | 1/28/2009 |
| Q: I've been with my husband for 4 years now and for the first 2 yrs our love life was the best in ... A: Sorry for the delay in getting back to you So how do you get him back Well you have to woe him back ... | |
| SEXUAL CONNECTION IN MARRIAGE | 1/28/2009 |
| Q: I've been with my husband for 4 years now and for the first 2 yrs our love life was the best in ... A: Its not you, and I hate to say this but it is the baby. Now before you lose it let me explain, ... | |
| Internet Porn | 1/27/2009 |
| Q: My wife found some history of porn vidoe on my computer. She is not happy about it? I am not ... A: The occasional porn view is just like the occasonal cigarette. You can do without it whenever the ... | |
| Marriage without true love and abuses | 1/26/2009 |
| Q: Help me please, I am very depressed and confused as it relates to my relationship with my husband of ... A: Tell me where you live and how this marriage came into being What spurred you to marry him How old ... | |
| My Husband and I are constantly having our feelings hurt over sex | 1/26/2009 |
| Q: When my husband and i were dating we had sex alllll the time. As a result, i became pregnant. I ... A: Get the kettle on, tea bag in the cup, sugar and milk standing by, pour the water, put in the sugar ... | |
| Husband Does waht ever he wants | 1/25/2009 |
| Q: I hav been with my Husband for 15 years and we have two kids together, my issues is that he is like ... A: If this has just started then I would say that he is going through a mid life crisis but he should ... | |
| sexual and marital problems | 1/24/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for 13 years to my wife who I believe I love wholeheartedly. We have had 6 ... A: the plain facts here are that she is totally disappointed with your lack of sexual stamina. She sees ... | |
| sex question... ?? | 1/23/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married (very happily may I add) for about a year and a half. We have ... A: You have had many minor orgasms and now you are experienceing a full blown vaginal orgasm. The fluid ... | |
| Husband and the internet | 1/20/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married only 2 months. On his computer,I found women that he had sent ... A: Can I just add that I agree when you are in a relationship you would expect committment. However so ... | |
| What does this truly mean? | 1/18/2009 |
| Q: But sometimes when I don't like my favorite band anymore,I lose a little bit of interest in just ... A: Yes it does sound like that You need someone to tell you that everything is OK and it is normal to ... | |
| Husband and the internet | 1/18/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married only 2 months. On his computer,I found women that he had sent ... A: I do notice that you say most of this happened before you were married. Do remember everyone has a ... | |
| What does this truly mean? | 1/18/2009 |
| Q: But sometimes when I don't like my favorite band anymore,I lose a little bit of interest in just ... A: You are doubting your own feelings and just need confirmation. Yes it is normal, people doubt many ... | |
| What does this really mean? | 1/18/2009 |
| Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ... A: How would I feel if you told me Well I would be proud and glad that you chose me over any other ... | |
| What does this really mean? | 1/17/2009 |
| Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ... A: I believe that you desperately need a reason for having married your husband. I have to be straight ... | |
| Is this how a marriage usually ends? | 1/16/2009 |
| Q: Four months ago I came home from work to discover that my husband of 3 years (together for 7) had ... A: You are certainly going through the mill Yes he is passive aggressive about al that has happened ... | |
| What does this really mean? | 1/15/2009 |
| Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ... A: Your e-mail certainly explains a lot and I think kit needs some detailed response. First I think ... | |
| don't understand | 1/11/2009 |
| Q: Well I don't know why but my husband ask just about every night/day for a blow job. If he doesn't ... A: Being out of work for over 14 months is playing hard on his mind. Do you work for instance. His ... | |
| Marriage/Affair | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for almost 18 years and we have two children 9 & 7. My husband and I have ... A: It seems you have reached an impasse in the marriage. You say you are better apart than together. He ... | |
| Husband can eat / drink wife's sperm / milk | 1/5/2009 |
| Q: I have recently got married, according to my wife it is good to eat each others semen/sperm, is it ... A: First you need to understand that only the man produces sperm/semen. The woman can produce milk but ... | |
| Relationship issues | 1/2/2009 |
| Q: I met my present wife through the internet and we fell in love and married. She had to move all the ... A: You two do need to sit down and talk. This is the only way to resolve this situation, but I laso ... | |
Marriage and the Husband-Wife Relationship
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I can answer questions on sexual problems suffered by single people or couples in a relationship. I have been a sex therapist for eight years and involved in private practise all that time. I am also a psychiatrist so can discuss all aspects of the human interaction on a pure confidential and professional basis.
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I have studied sex therapy for over 12 years and practised for eight years. I regularly provide private clinics in southern England for patients undergoing therapy following medical conditions like heart attackes strokes etc,
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I have written articles for a number of forum magazines
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Doctorate in Medicine, PhD in microBiology
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