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| Oedipus Complex in my husband! | 11/13/2009 |
Q: My husband has explicit sexual fantasies about his mother and during our lovemaking he wants me to ...
A: He needs professional psychiatric help, take him to an expert. Let him know that it's shocking for ...
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| betrayal | 11/11/2009 |
Q: my husband and i divorced nearly two weeks ago.BUT he is still living wih me.He was having an affair ...
A: Just get this man out of your house and your mind and heart. Call up his family or friends and ...
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| bld gp between me & my wife | 11/6/2009 |
Q: I have bld gp O- My wife bld gp O+ , Any problems may occur to childs in future
A: This should cause no problem in pregnancy if you both are healthy and fit. To be on the safer side, ...
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| No interest in French | 11/3/2009 |
Q: My name is Shelly. I am married now only for about a week and a half to a man I do love very much. ...
A: It would be unpleasant to be at a family function and sit like an outsider just because you can't ...
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| Relation | 10/29/2009 |
Q: Mine is an arranged marriage and my husband is extremely dominating and egoistic.He is jealous of me ...
A: If you don't have a permit and can't work, you are dependent on him for all finances. If you ...
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| turning violent | 10/22/2009 |
Q: I am an Australian who has moved to Algeria to be with my husband who is Algerian. recently we have ...
A: I may sound cliched but try yoga and meditation, it really works wonders especially in anger ...
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| YOUR ADVISE | 10/20/2009 |
Q: my hubby is an abuser,we got married 3 years ago wit 2 lovely boys,2 and 1 but i now realise we are ...
A: Please take your kids away from him as soon as possible. If he cannot respect their mother what ...
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| Problem with wife | 10/19/2009 |
Q: I'm married since last one and half years. from last 2-3 months i am undergoing so much mental ...
A: You have to set this right with lot of caution. Take her out over this weekend for a short vacation, ...
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| after 16 years | 10/15/2009 |
Q: i have been married for 16years now. my husband used to be a very nice family man and a great ...
A: This cannot be a sudden decision, he must have been planning for this since months. Am sure you must ...
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| i an 3 affairs during 10 yr marriage | 10/7/2009 |
Q: my wife and i have been married for the past 10 years, we have a 4yr old son. during the marriage i ...
A: You knew it will hurt her but still you did what you did!! What can now prompt her to trust you ...
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| husband listening to his parents | 10/1/2009 |
Q: We r married since 2yrs.my husband always listens to his parents and supports them financially and ...
A: Just try and put yourself in his shoes and think, what if your parents needed your help? If he is ...
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| misunderstanding | 9/24/2009 |
Q: I am jayanta ( male) 48 years, married with a bengali girl now 43. She is beautiful and we were ...
A: Can you get her best friend or cousin involved? Someone younger, your age who would understand what ...
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| Love Marriage Problem. Confused | 9/19/2009 |
Q: I am 25 years old married for 3 years now. Ours was a love marriage. We have been together (in love) ...
A: All this is not having a good effect on your baby, please stop thinking negative and don't take too ...
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| Lost | 9/18/2009 |
Q: Married 5 years. Wonderful Marriage. I thought i was the luckiest lady on earth. Unfortunately there ...
A: If you feel that you really need to have kids of your own, this is the right time to either adopt or ...
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| confusion | 9/14/2009 |
Q: we r married(2nd marriage for both of us, he 34 & me 30 yrs old) for 15 months, i am living in my ...
A: Give him time to sort things out in his heart and his head. Tell him firmly that you would want the ...
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| misunderstanding | 9/13/2009 |
Q: I married in 1992,have two kids ,one daughter 15 yrs and son 11 yrs taking education in best school ...
A: How can you be so sure that she actually wasn't just joking or made that comment in sarcasm? You ...
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| A seperation I do not want | 9/10/2009 |
Q: my wife and I have been married for a little over two years and have know each other for 6. Well two ...
A: If it were to be the 2 of you, I would say 'hang on', don't let her go. But in this case your son is ...
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| stop being physically abusive | 9/8/2009 |
Q: hi vani i have been married going on to two years but i am physically abusive to my wife but not on ...
A: You need to do some anger management and only an expert can help you. Please contact a counsellor on ...
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| Cant Live Any more Together | 9/7/2009 |
Q: Vani, I met this girl online on tha matrimonial site. she is well educated and beautiful. Gor marred ...
A: There is no point in continuing this relationship since her parents seem too busy to care about ...
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| my fiancee does not trust me | 9/4/2009 |
Q: I am 23 Lyra old, working in software company. I love one guy who is doing DMRD(medical). He does ...
A: Believe me this guy is just bluffing his way through, he will never ever kill himself. Just plain ...
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| Confused | 9/1/2009 |
Q: I m married last six years. It was a love marriage and we were very happy in our married life. I ...
A: His job can be one reason why he is behaving in such a manner, quite likely that girl empathized ...
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| Abortion (D & E) | 8/29/2009 |
Q: I married a woman who had a daughter. I accepted the child. Within 6 months of mariage I had a baby ...
A: She is your wife and the mother of your child, think about the kids before you decide. She has made ...
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| Getting Depressed with my husbands behavior | 8/25/2009 |
Q: I am Kiranmai, I am married 1 year back o my lover. Previously we know each other from 4 years. We ...
A: You want to save this marriage at any cost and he won't stand a face which is not attractive. There ...
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| Confused | 8/23/2009 |
Q: I'm a recently married 34 y/o man (2 months). In total, almost everybody around me knows that I take ...
A: Let's put it this way -- you found an extremely beautiful girl and married her. It was a fairy tale ...
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| post partum depression and the effects on the marriage/relationship. | 8/21/2009 |
Q: When I first met my wife to be I knew from that very moment that she would be a very important part ...
A: I am so sorry to hear this, she is giving up on a soul mate !! Now this story about post partum ...
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| mother inlaw's interference | 8/19/2009 |
Q: We've been married just a few months, dating for 3 yrs before tying the knot. My hubby, only son of ...
A: Yes, it is an attitude problem and old habits die hard. But since you would want a life of peace, ...
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| My life Issue | 8/18/2009 |
Q: I want to explain the big story of my life. We were married for 5 years. Our married life is full of ...
A: This chat and stuff is pretty harmless, what if he actually travels and meets her? Or what if she ...
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| feelin lost n scared | 8/17/2009 |
Q: how do i remedy my husband not talking2me anymore.says he has nothing to say2me.i have til the end ...
A: You know that the job is the cause of all this stress and irritability. Just hang in there, don't ...
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| Marriage Problem | 8/3/2009 |
Q: I feel so confused about our marriage, and want to know if there is any hope, or i m fighting a lost ...
A: We have just one life and there is no way can you lead it with remorse and regret!! Does this ...
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| mother inlaw's interference | 7/29/2009 |
Q: We've been married just a few months, dating for 3 yrs before tying the knot. My hubby, only son of ...
A: Please stop discussing your MIL problems with your family, they are for you to solve. Your family ...
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| Is it really worth me staying | 7/23/2009 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for a couple of months. He doesn't do anything around the house. I ...
A: There is no point in arguing with him about this. Instead when he is in a calm mood, talk to him and ...
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| Hubby's a Pervert | 7/21/2009 |
Q: I think my husband is a pervert. He got in trouble at work for making rude, sexual comments to women ...
A: You cannot expect him to change overnight, so decide now if you would be able to forgive his ...
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| Husband does not trust me | 7/13/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 2 years now and ours was a love marriage.From the starting days of our ...
A: This is a real surprise that he cannot trust you even after 2 years of marriage. It's good that you ...
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| husbadn is divorcing me because i don't like his brother staying in our house | 7/10/2009 |
Q: Me and my husband we both are physician and staying in USA . me and my husband met in the hospital ...
A: You are not left with much choice, either agree to his conditions or to the divorce. You should not ...
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| my future | 7/7/2009 |
Q: "...my husband use to support me ealrier but even he is not doign that now .. as i am stayign with ...
A: First you need to get some financial freedom by taking up a job. No need to bear this torture, you ...
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| Love marriage and second kid planning | 7/4/2009 |
Q: I am looking for your expert advise on having second kid. We have one 3 1/2 yrs old baby girl. I ...
A: If your second kid is born in 2011 then the gap between the kids will be hardly 5 years. There is no ...
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| Love marriage and second kid planning | 7/2/2009 |
Q: I am looking for your expert advise on having second kid. We have one 3 1/2 yrs old baby girl. I ...
A: You are both young and there is no hurry, there is no biological clock ticking. Instead till 2011 ...
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| what type of blood group person should marry what blood group women and vice versa | 7/1/2009 |
Q: what type of blood group person should marry what type of blood group women and vice versa
A: An adult can marry a person of any blood group if both partners are active, healthy adults. Have a ...
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| Need Help. | 6/26/2009 |
Q: I am a 30 year old Indian female. I am married for 2 years now after a courtship of 6 years. But ...
A: What ever you decide, you will break one heart. So there is no way in which you can keep both of ...
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| Problems with Marriage | 6/21/2009 |
Q: How are you? I need your advise & thoughts....a long story but need your advise.... I have been ...
A: I have read your life story many a times and each time I could see how hurt you are and how much in ...
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| conglict management | 6/16/2009 |
Q: Simrun has some misconception about her husband Mr. Ali, that he has closed relation with his ...
A: One way is to call the personal secretary home and introduce her as a friend and ensure that she ...
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| Pl. help me out | 6/13/2009 |
Q: I am in such a situation right now that nothing is coming in my mind what should I write..... I am ...
A: You have compromised far too much over this issue because you bowed down your MIL drove you to the ...
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| what me and the children are intitled to | 6/3/2009 |
Q: me and my husband have been seperated now for about 2 years, we were all living at his moms so you ...
A: You will have to let me know which State you reside in, as each may have different marital laws. ...
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| Help | 6/1/2009 |
Q: Im a catholic married to a hindu. My husband loves me a lot, however is extremely childish all the ...
A: I may sound cliched but try yoga and meditation, it really works wonders especially in anger ...
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| confused | 5/30/2009 |
Q: My husband lives in Egypt and I live in the United States. I called my husband last week and I ...
A: Hope you have heard from him by now. If he is still not taking your calls and not replying to mails, ...
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| Help | 5/26/2009 |
Q: Im a catholic married to a hindu. My husband loves me a lot, however is extremely childish all the ...
A: It would be really unwise to fight over religion especially when the kid has not arrived yet. All ...
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| Arguments | 5/22/2009 |
Q: My husband and i have been married for 26 months now but we have been through so mcuh together and ...
A: In fact you understand each other so well and share an empathy as you both have gone through a lot ...
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| how to bring sex back into a married life? | 5/19/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have ceased having sex for several years now. It never was very exciting nor frequent ...
A: There is professional help available, please consult a counsellor. soon. Regards, Vani ...
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| i wonder what she is thinking | 5/15/2009 |
Q: my wife has a chronic illness (lupus) and recentlky asked me for a separation. things in our ...
A: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systemic_lupus_erythematosus#Environmental_triggers You have to be her ...
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| marriage | 5/15/2009 |
Q: how do you know the person is the one? I always had ideals of similar background, economics, etc ...
A: Yes, you would just know that he is the one, and your heart will stand witness. But this is just not ...
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| my fiance talks bad about me. | 5/9/2009 |
Q: My fiance talks bad on my back about me. I have asked her to don't discuss about me anywhere else, ...
A: How are you so sure that she talks bad about you? If you heard it from someone, take that person ...
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| Money Issues | 5/8/2009 |
Q: Myself and my husband are married for 2 years, we are from India, living in US for past 5 years and ...
A: It's best to have separate accounts and it was a wise decision to share the burden of the mortgage. ...
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| My life is fully confusied. | 5/7/2009 |
Q: I love one boy even he love in starting but now he is ignoring me. I was in other sate but after ...
A: Use the power of the internet, it's easy to find a suitable groom : www.shaadi.com ...
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| dealing with close friends of wife | 4/25/2009 |
Q: I have been married recently but due both of our jobs we are staying miles apart.My wife has a very ...
A: This is pretty normal, in your case this feeling is a bit stronger since you are miles apart. Don't ...
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| Wife having more affection with mother | 4/17/2009 |
Q: Me and wife married for last 7 years.We have 2 childrens.One daughter 2 years and new born boy 2 ...
A: Just think that your MIL is there for few days, then the whole year round you can take care of your ...
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| quarrelsome wife | 4/4/2009 |
Q: I have been married to a so called educated teacher who is highly self centered and quarrelsome.I ...
A: You can always shift to another house with your son without giving her a divorce. She can continue ...
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| husband problem | 4/1/2009 |
Q: i know hindi u can better answer me in hndi my husband is very bad all the time blaming on me that ...
A: If it is possible try and take up some part time job so that you can keep yourself busy and at the ...
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| husband loses his temper A LOT | 3/30/2009 |
Q: i recently got married, love marriage. we are both indian, he's from india and i'm from the US. he ...
A: This is too early to jump to a conclusion yet but if he talks about killing and all, you'd better ...
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| My wife doesn't understand respect and value of being together | 3/29/2009 |
Q: We have been married for over 18 years. Have two kids 11 and 12. She doesn't work and watches kids ...
A: The kids are still young, they can be moulded. When ever you are home, be with them, talk about ...
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| i have love problem | 3/23/2009 |
Q: we both loving each other for past 6 years.on the time of love we lived like a husband and wife.she ...
A: Get married with your parents' blessings and start a great life together. Her parents are orthodox ...
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| snooping is ruining my marriage!! | 3/17/2009 |
Q: i am always accussing my husband of cheating, i always ask questions every day i snoop around the ...
A: On one hand you are afraid that you may lose him and on the other you are driving him to the wall, ...
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| Second Child - have or not to have | 3/11/2009 |
Q: I am in a confused state of mind. I have a 21 month old girl child and wish for a second one. But my ...
A: I think it's a good idea to agree to your husband. You have only enough time to bring up one kid and ...
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| Boyrfriend troubles | 3/4/2009 |
Q: I am 26 yrs old with a boyfriend for 3 yrs. During these yrs we have been trying hard to keep the ...
A: Marriage can solve all this mess, as the fact that you have to be dedicated would take away all ...
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| Marriage | 3/1/2009 |
Q: I love this person from last 12 years. When our affair started we were too young and thought that ...
A: Just quickly get married in a simple ceremony or may be have a registered one. Trust me, once you ...
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| help | 2/27/2009 |
Q: i have been married for 10 years. i want to know what i can do to make my husband love me again. he ...
A: Try and think what has actually happened, was it a fight about some issue, or was it something ...
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| low libido husband | 2/26/2009 |
Q: It's difficult to be married to a wonderful guy whom I love and respect, yet he has little interest ...
A: Have you really tried and spoken to him about this problem, not as a complaint but as an issue ...
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| I Want Marriage Counceling but She Doesn't | 2/19/2009 |
Q: Okay, I've been married for about a year and a half. To be honest it was rough even 2 months into ...
A: You have to get a close friend involved in this, someone whom she trusts. She needs help and is ...
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| Please help me to solve this confusion | 2/13/2009 |
Q: I'm a 25 year old woman.I'm married for 3 years now and yet to have kids. Ours is a love marriage. ...
A: Nobody strays in a marriage unless there is something missing - try and take a day off, go out with ...
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| Husband giving more priority to his sisters and parents | 2/10/2009 |
Q: I married for 1 year.My husband belongs to a conservative north Indian family from a small town and ...
A: It will not change much since they are a closely knit family. You will have to be on your guard by ...
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| Husband giving more priority to his sisters and parents | 1/31/2009 |
Q: I married for 1 year.My husband belongs to a conservative north Indian family from a small town and ...
A: One way out is to find a real good job for him in another city a bit far away but in this time of ...
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| Child Custody | 1/12/2009 |
Q: I had been married to Hindu girl. Before marriage, she got herself converted to Muslim and accepted ...
A: You have a strong case to get the custody of the child. But since he is too small, for next 2-3 ...
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| Marriage/Affair | 1/6/2009 |
Q: I have been married for almost 18 years and we have two children 9 & 7. My husband and I have been ...
A: For the children's sake, you both want to give this marriage another chance. Talk to him when he is ...
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| couple relation | 1/5/2009 |
Q: i am making a movie on Telugu marriage system, for that i need the every quality that a man should ...
A: The best experts on this would be old ladies and men who understand the Telugu marriage system. In ...
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| Divorce or hang in there? | 1/2/2009 |
Q: For 14 years nowm I have been asking my husband to give up porn, and I continuously find it in my ...
A: If it has become an addiction with him so much so that he avoids the real thing or spends huge ...
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| husband silence | 12/31/2008 |
Q: i got marrried 6 mths before, for2 mthwe had normal married life,my mil started interfering in ...
A: Just on his mother's whims he cannot separate from you. If you try to call him up or send a mail, he ...
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| Please Help | 12/29/2008 |
Q: I am going through over a critical phase, my life has become so miserable that i cannot judge what ...
A: There is no point in staying with this man any longer as he is a bad influence even on your kid. He ...
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| help me | 12/28/2008 |
Q: Two years gone of my marriage.we have a kid. My husband is really good in all other factors but ...
A: If he does this once in a while, it's ok to give him some space. But if he does it almost every ...
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| Am in a fix | 12/25/2008 |
Q: I am selecting you for help as you an Indian and you would b able to relate to me culturally. I am ...
A: I fully understand the anguish you are going through, trust me you have gone beyond the call of duty ...
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| divorce or stay on | 12/12/2008 |
Q: we got married in 2004.we have a 9 months old son.i found out through email that he was cheating on ...
A: A spouse is supposed to be a support but he is only a burden for you. If you have a family whom you ...
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| Should I leave my husband | 12/3/2008 |
Q: I have known my husband for the last 10 years & have been married for 3 years now. Right from the ...
A: If both of you feel that you have nothing more to give this relationship, am sure that a separation ...
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| Pre Marital Help Required | 11/28/2008 |
Q: Am from Mumbai. I luv a gal. She trusts me. However she says she loves somebody else. That was a luv ...
A: If she is confused, she will have to make up her mind soon. It's about marriage and not about ...
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| husband's intimacy with girls including internet friends. | 11/21/2008 |
Q: I am married to my boyfriend for last 4 years and carrying his baby which is due next month.The ...
A: Till this fancy remains relegated to the Internet and chat rooms, it's harmless. Yes, if he goes any ...
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| future Husband wants a roommate after wedding | 11/12/2008 |
Q: Actually, we are married now, and although I agreed to try out keeping his male roommate in the ...
A: It's simple, request him that you want exactly two months of privacy; after that you will agree to ...
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| marrigae | 11/10/2008 |
Q: Iam getting married with a guy whom i happen to know before 2 years,after acquitance he wanted to ...
A: Firstly, you need to make sure that he is not carrying on a relationship with her even now. Marriage ...
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| marriage not working | 11/6/2008 |
Q: I live outside India and married a girl from India in early this year. Since beginning we have been ...
A: To avoid any tussles and chaos later on, its best that you go by the proper legal route though its ...
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| husband wife relationship | 11/3/2008 |
Q: 31 married for 11 years now.i married against my and his parents wishes and both come from different ...
A: You are still living in the past and are just not able to forget or forgive. You will have to now ...
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| problems | 10/19/2008 |
Q: My husband and i are married for 6 years now, he is 34 and i an 26 and we have 2 beautiful boys. ...
A: Believe it or not, but deep down in your heart you still love him and want him to be with you. I am ...
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| Confiding | 10/17/2008 |
Q: Should a wife and husband tell eachother everything?? About their past present and future?? ...
A: Its just not required to share each and every detail. A couple can only be happy if they skip the ...
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| Husband Is Distancing himself from us | 10/1/2008 |
Q: Vani, Thanks for your advice on my issues with my inlaws. I'm now deeply troubled by my husband's ...
A: That's his way of getting back at his own Dad and taking out his resentment. Try to be both a mother ...
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| My relationship with my husband | 9/24/2008 |
Q: How do I start liking my husband again? I just never feel appreciated by him, he hardly is around, ...
A: Ask him to give more monetary support saying you need to hire a baby sitter or governess since its ...
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| Question about my husband and a family member | 8/28/2008 |
Q: My problem is with my husband and a family member through marriage. My husband and i were having ...
A: You need to do some plain talk with him. Its fine if he were to take this person as a friend, but he ...
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| my husband ex girlfriend | 8/27/2008 |
Q: I got married to my husband 2 months back and now i got to know that he married me jus coz his ...
A: The most important part would be not to ask him much about his past, the more he talks about it, the ...
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| husband very distant when I am sick | 8/22/2008 |
Q: I am a married for 11 years with two daughters ages4 and 9. Its our love marriage and I love my ...
A: He is really very worried for your health, though he does not show it. All this physical stress that ...
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| Depressed After marriage | 8/15/2008 |
Q: Hey Vani, I am sending you this mail in confidence and hope to get a quick reply. I am married from ...
A: A divorce is the only way out, but don't you think it would be unfair and inhuman to this girl whom ...
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| blood relation | 8/14/2008 |
Q: my blood group is a+ and my spouse group is b-. will any problem occur if we both get married?
A: There should be no problem in conception at all if both partners are healthy. When a mother is Rh ...
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| Husband's friends come first | 8/12/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 30+ years. My hunsband has a hobby/business in cattle. There is a younger ...
A: This actually sounds a bit weird since he has been happily married , has a son and suddenly became ...
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| about selection of life partner. | 8/3/2008 |
Q: i m male having blood group o negative. will there any problem if my wife will have rh +ve ...
A: It would cause no problem whatsoever in conception and there are no chances of a blood related ...
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| about wife taking charge | 7/22/2008 |
Q: i too am from india and i have a question, the subject of which is not common in india. i want my ...
A: In India kids are still brought up with pre-defined gender roles, this bias still exists here. Am ...
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| difference of opinion | 7/21/2008 |
Q: Its a love marriage. I am hindu and he is muslim but we have this difference of opinion. We ...
A: This is just a difference in the way both genders react to situations. It may sound cliche' but its ...
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| abt marraige life | 7/18/2008 |
Q: here its starts,My husband marry to me just because of money(he's cousin of my jijaji.he came to ...
A: You cannot stay with this man your entire life and neither is he going to change, so you have to ...
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| troubled relationship | 7/15/2008 |
Q: I have known my husband for 10 yrs and married for 20yrs,have 2 girls 18 &8 yrs.My trouble started ...
A: I think you need to sit with him and talk it out that because of the education of your kids, its not ...
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| problems | 7/11/2008 |
Q: 1.I am having a steady relation with my boyfriend for the last 6yrs.our relationship didn't start ...
A: Its natural to face a few issues as you both know that marriage will mean an added responsibility ...
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| successful working women and husband's jealousy | 7/9/2008 |
Q: I am doing the feature on the issue of expatriate women who are well educated and career oriented. ...
A: These women should try and connect with like-minded women at their work place. Even if a quick fix ...
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| Sex in marriage life | 7/4/2008 |
Q: Last to last week my wife undergone for laproscopic surgery for opening fallopian tubes. After 2 ...
A: Try and talk to your wife about it. Your wife loves you so much and wants to bear your children, so ...
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| Stepkids | 7/3/2008 |
Q: first of all let me thank your time on reading my problem. I'm 30 years old and my husband is 55 ...
A: In this case, give your husband some time. Do not raise this issue but sit with him and make a plan, ...
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| Sex in marriage life | 7/2/2008 |
Q: Last to last week my wife undergone for laproscopic surgery for opening fallopian tubes. After 2 ...
A: A doctor is someone whom you have to trust to get cured. What if a husband has some urinary tract ...
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| wife wants divorce..., but i dont ..! | 6/18/2008 |
Q: my wife is looking for divorce, but i dont want, just four months back we got married, for last to ...
A: You have to meet her alone somehow, may be she goes to a temple or to a friend's place or to the ...
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| I don't think my husband loves me anymore | 6/10/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 years and dated a year before that. We come from two ...
A: This happens in many marriages - the aspects which look so rosy during the courtship tend to wither ...
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| wife wants divorce..., but i dont ..! | 6/9/2008 |
Q: my wife is looking for divorce, but i dont want, just four months back we got married, for last to ...
A: The only way out is to meet her somehow and let her know about your true feelings. You can involve a ...
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| Whether or not to continue | 5/26/2008 |
Q: I am addressing this issue to you as being an Indian; I suppose you would understand our Institution ...
A: You have gone through a lot in your life and this has made you an independent woman. This baby's ...
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| Asking wife acceptance before buying something | 5/16/2008 |
Q: I am an American married to an Indian. We both have the same income. We are not having any ...
A: Normally she should actually be happy that you manage all finances but I guess she feels she should ...
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| my silent girlfriend | 5/4/2008 |
Q: my girlfriend of 15yrs dont contribute anything to our relation, we have 2 kinds of 12 and 4. the ...
A: This is surprising as normally such a long period is enough to make a person very caring and ...
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| Am i setting myself up to get hurt? | 4/16/2008 |
Q: My name is Darrel. My wife left me about a year ago, we have 3 children together two boys 8 and 3 ...
A: I guess just enjoy her company as a friend and do not expect more, for the time being. Since you ...
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| help | 4/1/2008 |
Q: In the past I was in love with one girl.In that time she refused to accept my love.but now she ...
A: You need to talk with this girl as to why she decided on this after 9 long years. This needs a long ...
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| What she Wants | 3/22/2008 |
Q: We know each other for 9 years, spent first year at college together and then she migrated to USA. ...
A: Its best that you seek a divorce. She cannot take you for granted. She is ruining your life with ...
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| im not happy with my marriage | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I have been married about seven years now and things well Im just not happy you see I was pregnant ...
A: Its best to step out of a loveless marriage but when kids are involved you may at times think of ...
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| She doesn't care until I say I'm getting divorced | 3/10/2008 |
Q: My wife doesn't seem to want this marriage until I say I'm going to end it. It appears as if she's ...
A: Most people take a relationship for granted unless a threat is visible, its then that they see the ...
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| Wife and my mother | 3/8/2008 |
Q: How are you doing? I am a guy who has been married for 18 months now and it has been great most of ...
A: As they say an empty mind is a devil's workshop. You wife has no work and heaps of time, she takes ...
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| husband lies | 3/7/2008 |
Q: At dinner, my husband stares down ladies shirt, then lies telling me I'm crazy he never knew what I ...
A: If he does have a roving eye, you need to pay him back in the same coin. Start chatting up perfect ...
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| Husband no longer interested | 2/3/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have 3 children over the past 2 years he has ...
A: This is just a case of mid life crisis and don't take any drastic steps on this. You now have to ...
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| wife's ego | 1/21/2008 |
Q: I want to ask you Question regarding behaviour of my wife. I got married on 9th Feb 2007. Then I ...
A: Take an elder person who can mediate and go to her parents' house immediately to sort issues. There ...
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| taken advantage of | 1/12/2008 |
Q: My husband makes me cry a lot in fact I am crying right now our relationship is really going down ...
A: He is just behaving like this as may be he feels a bit over burdened. You need to involve your ...
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| My Ex husband .. | 1/9/2008 |
Q: Today my ex husband told to my 5 years old son that he is in love with another woman(his partner). ...
A: He is too young to understand any complicated human relations, so best is just tell him that his Dad ...
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| I ditched my wife feelings | 1/6/2008 |
Q: i am typical Indian family boy 30year old,in Punjab, married 5years back ,arranged marriage,working ...
A: Like any normal Indian wife she cannot trust that you were just taking your ex girlfriend's advice. ...
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| Husband/ Wife Relationship | 1/1/2008 |
Q: I know my wife loves me. She has everything she needs and almost everything she wants. I have a ...
A: One reason could be that she has plenty of free time at hand and does not know how to utilize it. ...
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| AGE difference in marriege life | 12/17/2007 |
Q: I AM 35 years old , I am palaning to marry some one at the age of 20 years will it be problem in ...
A: Get these done : Complete Physical Examination by a physician Haemogram (Complete Blood count) ...
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| AGE difference in marriege life | 12/11/2007 |
Q: I AM 35 years old , I am palaning to marry some one at the age of 20 years will it be problem in ...
A: This will have no implications if you are perfectly healthy. Best way is to get some basic medical ...
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| Problem with husband | 12/10/2007 |
Q: I love my husband and he loves me too.But my problem is that he does not like to interact with any ...
A: You can write to me when ever you feel like. Is there any body in the family whom he listens to, ...
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| problem with husband | 12/7/2007 |
Q: Sorry for my poor english I got married in april of 2007. It's a arranged marriage. ours is a joint ...
A: Try and act sweet with him, do not talk about his mother and her antics. Ignore all that is not said ...
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| Problem with husband | 12/6/2007 |
Q: I love my husband and he loves me too.But my problem is that he does not like to interact with any ...
A: In India, boys are reared so that they develop a superiority complex. Play it cool and don't argue ...
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| Problem with husband | 12/5/2007 |
Q: I love my husband and he loves me too.But my problem is that he does not like to interact with any ...
A: Do you share a great rapport with his family? Do you mix well with his parents and siblings? If yes, ...
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| marriage adjustment and Problems | 12/4/2007 |
Q: First of all - thanks for the great help and answers you are providing to people. I am a 31 year old ...
A: She is lonely, lacks confidence and you are her only friend around. Remember she loves you and so is ...
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| i dont want divorce | 12/2/2007 |
Q: I am 30 years old lady and my husband is 33 ,we are married last 7 years (2001),i don't like his ...
A: Try your best to convince him to take you both along when he visits next. Don't argue, just try to ...
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| Unbearable Situation | 12/1/2007 |
Q: "Lately I am feeling very sad and depressed. I am in a common law relationship for the past two ...
A: You are with a man who is actually feasting on your hard earned money. I think that's unfair. Try ...
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| Should I leave home after being married for 6 months | 11/30/2007 |
Q: My husband has made it quiet clear he doesn't want to work on our problems. Today is my birthday, ...
A: I can understand that you will face a lot of pressure from family and friends to reconcile. Try ...
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| Please Advice | 11/29/2007 |
Q: I have been a victim of emotional abuse from my wife and her family. Iam from banaglore(INDIA) and i ...
A: A lot of women are actually taking undue advantage of this law which protects their rights. I am ...
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| My rights..... | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I need to know what rights I have as a wife that has been abandoned by my husband. I just started ...
A: I am assuming that you are in the US of A, and so here are some resources : ...
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| 6 months of marriage & already problems | 11/27/2007 |
Q: I don't know what to do anymore I feel so alone. I have only been married for 6 months & my husband ...
A: By asking him to pay attention to you, it won't work. Best is to ignore him when he wants to be ...
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| I feel my husband has lost interest | 11/26/2007 |
Q: I am 29 & my husband is 32. We are only married now for 6 months. He tends to get moody about alot ...
A: Try and find out indirectly is something bothering him at work, is he healthy and eating fine? Is ...
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| Regarding my wife's behavior | 11/20/2007 |
Q: To introduce my family, I & my wife live in United States while, my parents stay in India. We stayed ...
A: Her problem is time, yes she has heaps of it and an empty mind is a devil's workshop. You have to ...
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| Should I Marry Him? | 11/17/2007 |
Q: I have been with my fiance for five years, have two children together (3 and 1 years) and have our ...
A: This man has gone through a lot in his life and your love can cure it all. But I am not sure why he ...
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| frustrated by the situation I have here | 11/8/2007 |
Q: I have got frustrated by the situation I have here: I am 26 years old, Iranian, I met V, a nice ...
A: You love him and that's what counts. The therapy will take time to show results, and I can ...
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| Husband said he doesn't love me the same | 11/6/2007 |
Q: We've only been married a little over a year. we are both 38 yrs old and this is his second ...
A: Even if things do perk up and what if again he decides to walk out? This chaos will take its toll on ...
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| frustrated by the situation I have here | 11/3/2007 |
Q: I have got frustrated by the situation I have here: I am 26 years old, Iranian, I met V, a nice ...
A: All drugs taken to cure a mental disorder have side effects which come to the fore even years after ...
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| New boyfriend/fiancee left wife for me | 10/13/2007 |
Q: Jason and I met about a year ago. I was at the time living with my previous boyfriend who I have two ...
A: Best way would be that you initiate and ask him once in a while to bring his kids home. That would ...
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| My Marriage !!!!! Are we happy or Sad? | 10/3/2007 |
Q: PLEASE NOTE THE I WILL BE VERY MUCH GREATFULL IF YOU COULD GIVE ME AN IMMEDIATE REPLY AS THIS THING ...
A: You will now have to handle this with a lot of caution and make a fine plan. Best way would be to ...
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| I NEED UR HELP | 9/21/2007 |
Q: i have written u earlier also but wont get any reply.i have been married for 2.8 yrs and ours is ...
A: You should not take stress at this juncture, just ignore them all. Once you are a mother, you would ...
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| Wife too pessimistic? | 9/17/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been dealing with communication issues. She wants to spend more quality time ...
A: I guess she shares all her problems with you seeking a solution or at times just needs a sounding ...
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| Confused about my life and my marriage | 9/11/2007 |
Q: I dont know where to start. A brief summary of my life. I was 19 when i met my future husband, he ...
A: You have shared all your joys and sorrows with this man for such a long period, you think now things ...
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| MY HUSBAND LIES TOO MUCH | 9/9/2007 |
Q: My husband has been lying since I know him but I didn't know that.He was lying about business and ...
A: If lies are harmless, its fine. But what if one day his lies cause great harm or hurt you or any ...
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| relationship | 9/8/2007 |
Q: i and my husband are of 29yrs and i am in india with my in laws were as my husband is working abroad ...
A: If your husband does not feel like taking you with him, you can't do much about it. If you talk with ...
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| trying to rebuild a life with my ex-husband | 9/6/2007 |
Q: We had been married for 13 years and 52 weeks before our divorce was final. I made some huge ...
A: Its best to be friends with him, meet once in a while and have fun. The spouse thing didn't work out ...
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| I NEED UR HELP | 8/24/2007 |
Q: i have written u earlier also but wont get any reply.i have been married for 2.8 yrs and ours is ...
A: I replied on the same day to your query. The SIL who is divorced would always be involved in your ...
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| husband and best friend | 8/23/2007 |
Q: I have talked to your previously regarding my problem with husband and his best girl friend. I did ...
A: I fully understand your hurt but why show it to that lady? If you send a sarcastic mail, she would ...
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| i need ur help | 8/22/2007 |
Q: i m indian i m not married but had great emotions for women................i wont want fight in my ...
A: It depends on how a couple want to lead their married life and how experimentative they are with ...
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| i need ur help | 8/21/2007 |
Q: i m indian i m not married but had great emotions for women................i wont want fight in my ...
A: There are no golden rules for a happy marriage, the only way is to be understanding, caring and ...
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| how to deal with jealously! | 8/20/2007 |
Q: am a 25 year old female, married to an above average looking doctor. my problem is am way too ...
A: You have won half the battle already as you know what the problem is and also accept the situation ...
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| marriage | 8/19/2007 |
Q: been in a marriage 10 years actually 3 years married rest lived together I'm not happy been jumping ...
A: You do care for her, so I do not see a point in just leaving and going away. You need to be more ...
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| solution | 8/18/2007 |
Q: i'm 27&hubby 30. 2 yrs back we got arranged marriage .we r pursuing PG.we r in teaching field.we ...
A: You want to live with this man for your child, and what if one fine days his family insults you in ...
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| can you help me | 8/14/2007 |
Q: i feel like my husband never want to spend time with me after work at all. we been married for two ...
A: You would have to give me more info. Does he visit his friends or family after work? Is he busy in ...
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| Husband wants to be alone | 8/12/2007 |
Q: My Husband and i have bee together for 8 years married for 7. We have 3 beautiful children. At time ...
A: Each individual has a different way to cope up with stress, boredom or plain ill health. Your ...
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| question | 8/10/2007 |
Q: meri shadi hum donon ki marzi aur humare ghaar valon ki marzi se hui...shuru ek 2 month bahut acche ...
A: Kyonki aapne bahut saha hai, iska matlab yeh nahin hai ki aap hamesha sahti rahen aur chup rahen!! ...
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| marriage | 8/9/2007 |
Q: i have been catholic married married for seven years and have two lovely kids one son of 3yrs and ...
A: I am sure that you love him a lot but its not advisable to remain in an abusive relationship. He can ...
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| Does blood group of couples decide gender of baby? | 8/5/2007 |
Q: I am 26 year old male, and my parents are looking for a bride to me. mean while I heard that one ...
A: No paticular study exists which says blood groups can control the baby's gender. You can read this ...
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| husband and best friend | 8/3/2007 |
Q: we are married for over 6 yrs and have a daughter. When we got married,after few days, my hubby told ...
A: I think you need to speak to him, no friend would call and talk for hours however close they might ...
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| name change after marriage | 8/2/2007 |
Q: I am a freshly passed doctor living in Maharashtra. My maiden name is Dr.Sushama Eknath Khosare. I ...
A: You can use same name as in your PAN card. Regards, Vani =============== Hi Sushama, You wrote ...
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| A non-understanding husband! | 7/27/2007 |
Q: My husband and I had an affair of 7 yrs before we got married. he is 28 and i'm 27. i had been ...
A: Right now its not good for you and the baby to take too much pressure. Try getting together with old ...
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| I don't know what has happened to our relationship | 7/22/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married almost 7 years but have known each other for 8 years. We have 2 ...
A: In most marriages, monotony sets in once both partners have well defined roles. In early years of ...
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| Unsupportive husband! | 7/21/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 2-1/2 years but my husband is in goverment job and was posted to an area ...
A: Women‘s bodies work in cycles, and they are only able to conceive in one particular part of their ...
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| My husband | 7/18/2007 |
Q: Ours was a love marriage for 6 yrs. My husband loves me very much. Hez a caring person. His only ...
A: You are spoiling a perfect married life by being suspicious. He works outside and has a female ...
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| Streneous relationship with wife | 7/17/2007 |
Q: According to my wife I am the most UNCARING husband in the whole world. Now I wanted to know what ...
A: I think you are a perfect father and a fairly good husband. She is under some stress due to the ...
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| Can this marriage be saved? | 7/16/2007 |
Q: I am a 44 year old alcoholic....I am on my second marriage and just had, not celebrated, our 10th ...
A: Take this as a test, talk to him and set a firm deadline, like you will stay sober for 6 weeks or ...
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| Please Guide | 7/13/2007 |
Q: My Friend who married to man for last ten year. Guy is working as marine enineer. They have two ...
A: For all practical purposes this marriage is over, if she forgives him now what's the guarantee that ...
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| Dominating husband and terrifying in laws | 7/11/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 9 years with a 3 year old child. My husband is very dominating and stubborn ...
A: I think he is very apprehensive about some things in life, else he won't pay heed to what his ...
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| realationship trouble | 7/9/2007 |
Q: I have been with my other for awhile now and we are engaged. I love her more than I have ever ...
A: This is a very normal reaction of a kid, as she fears she is losing her mother to you. But am ...
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| moving in once married | 6/29/2007 |
Q: I have a question about living arrangements once married. I have my own apartment and so does my ...
A: You can always redecorate it gradually once you move in with him. Some extra stuff which you don't ...
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| relationship | 6/27/2007 |
Q: i am marrid from last 20 yrs. i hv two kids. they are teen ager. i hv no parents. my husband is not ...
A: Things are changing now in this country too. Divorce is no longer a taboo. Since you are working, ...
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| marriage compatibility | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I am a 29 years old male with B (+ ve) blood group.and my would be wife is 26 years old with O (- ...
A: There should be no problem in conception at all if both partners are healthy. When a mother is Rh ...
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| is it OK to appologise all the time | 6/24/2007 |
Q: Me and my husband been together for 13 years. He has changed lately and enjoys more drinking and ...
A: Is it possible that you are occupied with the kids and the household chores a lot? Then its quite ...
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| My Husband and his brother | 6/20/2007 |
Q: My husband just got back from Afghanistan. He has been over e for a year. We have been getting ...
A: Its quite possible that he has a lot to share about his trip with his brother, things which he feels ...
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| No trust/sex in my marriage | 6/19/2007 |
Q: I have been married for about a year. Before getting married, my husband and i had chatted and ...
A: I think he is not feeling betrayed, he is finding it very difficult to anlayze his own self and ...
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| fathers | 6/18/2007 |
Q: Is it true that a bad father is better than no father?
A: This is such a difficult question. Now if a bad father takes care of the monetary needs of the ...
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| My wife's friend is troubling my marriage | 6/17/2007 |
Q: I am married for past 1.5 years. Immediately after the marriage, I saw some caring messages for my ...
A: May be you read too much into it when actually it was just a harmless friendship. Talk it out with ...
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| marriage | 6/15/2007 |
Q: we've bn married 2 years but havnt had sex yet. we'v tried but i find it too painful as dooes he. ...
A: You need to consult a Gynac very urgently. This pain if it has lasted for so much time, needs ...
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| MOther in Law getting in the middle of us. | 6/10/2007 |
Q: Well me and my husband been married for almost 2 years. I think his mother is very nice, we live ...
A: This is a very sensitive issue and so you cannot solve it by arguing. Yes, this kind of behaviour ...
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| Pastors | 6/9/2007 |
Q: I am married to a pastor that does not know how to balance church/home and it is hurting me and my ...
A: When you married him, you were clear about his leanings, and also the fact that he will devote his ...
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| Relationship losing warmth | 5/30/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 2 years now. Whenever we used to have issues, we used to quarrel, calm own ...
A: Few months after the birth of a baby, a woman may suffer from postpartum blues, a mild kind of ...
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| COMPATIBILITY OF BLOOD GROUP | 5/29/2007 |
Q: My son ( nearing 28) is AB+ and his would be wife (nearing 25) is B-. Can you tell me both these ...
A: When a woman is RH negative and her husband is RH positive, there are specific implications for ...
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| Husband and son | 5/18/2007 |
Q: I have 2 children from a previous marriage. They are 21 and 17. I divorced their father when they ...
A: Your kids are grown up now and soon will have a life of their own, they will marry and have their ...
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| marriage problem | 5/17/2007 |
Q: sir!i have a problem with my wife,we are married from 1 year and have a child.she is going very well ...
A: The only way out is to bring her to Lahore, shift her from the city where her parents stay. The ...
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| Picture this | 5/16/2007 |
Q: Vani, My wife and I have been married for 3 years and we lived together many years prior to this. I ...
A: I think she is not averse to posing for you fully clothed, but its the nudity that bothers her. I ...
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| marriage(interacial/international) | 5/7/2007 |
Q: I have been beside myself trying to figure out what exactly I want or what to do....I'm just totally ...
A: You will have to be a bit rude and curt may be, but tell him now that he has to hold on longer. You ...
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| Marriages Should Be Easy | 5/5/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for almost 16 years. We have two great kids together. Both of us ...
A: He is a good father, he respects you and cares for you, he is there for you in times of need, am I ...
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| Conflict? | 5/4/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been going through problems with respect in the family. Since my husband and ...
A: You are absolutely right and this is what manners are all about. Next time you feel some one ...
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| I'm 45 b/f he is 71 w/m married 3+ years | 4/13/2007 |
Q: Greetings, I feel like I'm on my way to divorce or separation. Currently I'm not talking with him, ...
A: Yes, enough is enough. You can't go on living with this man in the hope of happiness. If he is not ...
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| Husband Going Out | 4/7/2007 |
Q: I have a good man. He loves me and we are also best friends. We have known one another since we were ...
A: Its natural that you feel he is a free bird whilst you are stuck at home. Try and share a bit of the ...
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| Newlywedd-need advice | 4/3/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 7 months. I'm Mexican and my family is very family oriented. We meet once a ...
A: Best of Luck ! Virgo is typically a Moon sign of detail, practical know-how and serious instinctive ...
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| Please help, I don't know where to turn! | 4/3/2007 |
Q: I am having some major marriage issues and this weekend everything came into full swing and I don't ...
A: You speak from your heart so why not tell her all this? Go about putting it all in writing, a sweet ...
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| Newlywedd-need advice | 4/2/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 7 months. I'm Mexican and my family is very family oriented. We meet once a ...
A: You are two different individuals, and so your reaction to anger or hurt has to be different. You ...
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| neg. responses | 4/2/2007 |
Q: my husband and i have been married approx 3 yrs. pryer to this he was married 28yrs she passed, he ...
A: I am sure it must be felling bad to get the freedom still not being able to exercise it. Next time ...
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| My daughter | 3/27/2007 |
Q: I have a question as well i am very concerned about and for my daughter. My daughter is just turning ...
A: I can understand your concern and what you are going through. I am not sure about your country's ...
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| IS MY HUSBAND LOSING INTEREST? | 3/25/2007 |
Q: I met my husband 4 years ago on the internet dating service. We had a wonderful romance and ended up ...
A: There seems to be something wrong with his work life, there is some thing bothering him on that ...
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| need help!!! | 3/20/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 7 years. We’ve been married for almost 5. This is the 2nd ...
A: Its not selfish to crave to be with your spouse. You are right in thinking that he needs to begin a ...
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| Newlywedd-need advice | 3/12/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 7 months. I'm Mexican and my family is very family oriented. We meet once a ...
A: Don't take it all so harshly, its not easy to adjust to a married life. Since you have an ideal ...
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| The Queen Bee & Me...Fighting Over the Honey | 3/2/2007 |
Q: After a year or so of dating exclusively, my honey, mr. shah finally felt comfortable with taking me ...
A: Let's put it this way - you raise a son for 20 odd years, paying for his food, clothes, education, ...
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| Should I move on? | 3/1/2007 |
Q: I had been with my husband for 4 years when I got pregnant and we decided to marry. We've been ...
A: This is time you moved on. You both are hanging on to pieces of the past for nostalgia's sake. But ...
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| having problems with husband | 1/17/2007 |
Q: I have been married for almost 4 yrs. I have two kids. We live with my husbands mother and she has ...
A: This can be out of sheer love and concern for his mother or it can also be as an action of gratitude ...
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| newly married....ooops or not | 1/12/2007 |
Q: Vani, My new husband and I very much believe in God, yet have not practiced our faith in some time. ...
A: I think you have to sit with him and chalk out a proper plan. He is not going to become considerate ...
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| Married young, completly different | 1/10/2007 |
Q: I am 24 years old and I have been married for just over 6 years. My husband is hispanic and comes ...
A: His upbringing cannot make him shun his responsibility, if he wanted to change, he could have. I ...
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| My wife wants to leave | 1/10/2007 |
Q: Two days ago my wife told me she wants to leave me. The only reason she has not left me yet is ...
A: I am sorry that you and your children will have to endure this. Yes, you need to give her some space ...
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| Problem in my marriage | 1/7/2007 |
Q: Vani, Earlier too I'd written to you and you suggested that I hire a advocate. I've done that. But ...
A: I don't think so that you should actually continue with this relationship any longer. You should ask ...
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| Relationship | 1/6/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for three years and he doesn't believe in God, but I ...
A: Yes, it would last if love and respect for one another remain. A partner is not for changing your ...
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| trying to be a good wife | 1/5/2007 |
Q: i feel like a good home manager and housekeeper and a good mom. but i don't feel like i'm a good ...
A: You should actually stop trying too hard. If your husband and kids are happy with you and say so, ...
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| lazy husband? | 12/26/2006 |
Q: We have been married for 2.5 years we got married 3 mos pregnant and we have had problems since the ...
A: You may be a bit more upset as the hormones are playing truant. But if you are sure he doesn't care, ...
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| neglected | 12/23/2006 |
Q: My husband rarely wants sex with me, but he just admitted that he gets off watching porn
A: This problem can be solved with help from an expert or a counsellor. Talk to your husband and let ...
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| wife not love me. | 12/19/2006 |
Q: Brother Sub: For happy married life. Date of marriage: January 17th 2006. Mode of marriage: ...
A: If you are sure about these conditions and incest, you should opt out of this marriage with a formal ...
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| coping with internet chatting and his loss of sexual drive due to his age | 12/14/2006 |
Q: My husband has always looked at porn i dont have a problem with that!he has become unable to have ...
A: Its not easy for him to handle his own situation, this chatting is just his way of coping with this ...
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| Protection | 12/14/2006 |
Q: After 21 years of marriage, I am now in question of whether my husband would truly protect me, ...
A: Have you ever thought of the possibility that may be he really wanted you to stand up for your self ...
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| my husbend | 12/14/2006 |
Q: how would i be able to help him be more romantic or let me now he loves me every day .
A: Slip a note next to his pillow saying 'You have to get flowers for Tasha today' or post it on the ...
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| My husband is not interested in sex or romantic things | 12/12/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We started out having sex and doing SOME things. ...
A: Is he rude to you, does he ignore you, does he shout back at you, does he get angry and irritated ...
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| husband's voyeurism issues | 12/9/2006 |
Q: My husand and I have been married for 4 years, and it's a 2nd marriage for us both. We honestly ...
A: Am sorry to repeat what you oft heard - he needs counselling badly. Its the only way to save your ...
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| family | 12/7/2006 |
Q: i'm 26 years old, a mother of a 7 year old boy and 10 year old girl, married to an american for 3 ...
A: He is being practical but at the same time rude. I would advise if you really love this man, then ...
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| no love for husband | 12/4/2006 |
Q: I m married for 4 years by now, and dont have any kids. But problem with my husband is that his ...
A: Its hard to believe but a physical problem can at times weigh on a male's mind and actually impede ...
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| communication | 12/3/2006 |
Q: My husband and I always argue about how to rise our 2 yr old. For example, I am in charge of our ...
A: Why don't you make a cute little chart which depicts your baby's schedule, and hang it where both ...
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| help | 12/2/2006 |
Q: I am mom with 2 kids. My older one is 4 yrs and the second one is 3 months old. Also I work ...
A: I am sorry but it doesn't look like you can be a family staying together forever. They belong to a ...
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| Will my past break up our marriage??? | 11/28/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have dated for 4 years prior to getting married, one year ago this Saturday Dec. ...
A: Give it some more time and don't discuss this issue often. Yes, go up to him, look him in the eyes ...
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| marriage lies and family | 11/27/2006 |
Q: I love my wife, but I am losing trust in her mainly because I have caught her in lies (stupid stuff) ...
A: Your concern is justified, but am sure that she is so much in love of her mother that she can't see ...
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| Don't Know What To Think | 11/26/2006 |
Q: My name is Janice. I have been married for almost 35 years. About 7 years ago anytime my husband ...
A: Don't worry at all, if a marriage has seen the ups and downs for 35 years, how can it break now? ...
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| I think my husband doesn't like me anymore | 11/25/2006 |
Q: I'm 22 years old, I just married last year. Well the day before yesterday I checked the history of ...
A: Its not as if he doesn't like you, he is very much in love with you. He is aware that you won't like ...
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| relationship | 11/23/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 years. I feel like we are more roommates, than lifelong ...
A: If you still are in love, why not make it work? You can take medical help if he agress to it, there ...
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| INSECURE HUSBAND | 11/20/2006 |
Q: I have been married not quite 3 years. My problem is with my husband. He is an offshore oil worker ...
A: When you got married to him, you must have seen some qualities which appealed to you. You are right ...
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| Standards | 11/19/2006 |
Q: I am in the process of finding a partner for life. There are several criteria crowding my mind which ...
A: There is no sure shot formula for the success of a marriage. Yes, you have all the criterion right ...
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| Marriage problems | 11/16/2006 |
Q: VANI IM STAYING AND WORKING IN GURGAON. (INDIA). IM A HR PROFESSIONAL AND WORKING IN LIMITED ...
A: Then you have ample opportunity to settle all issues since you are working. You can always afford to ...
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| Marriage problems | 11/14/2006 |
Q: Iam Monica. im married, im 30 years and a mom of one sweet daughter. mine is love marriage. im ...
A: You had a love marriage so that spark can always come back, right? Just because he is not paying ...
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| Marriage advice | 11/12/2006 |
Q: I have been married for 4 years. I have a daughter of 20 months and am pregnant with our second ...
A: This looks like a case of office tension and stress that has lead to your husband's depression. This ...
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| Marriage | 11/5/2006 |
Q: my name is Sherry. I have been married for 4 years now and I still feel like I can not trust my ...
A: If you think you have a problem in trusting him, there must be a reason for it. Have you found him ...
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| If someone is declared dead... | 11/2/2006 |
Q: If a spouse is declared dead, and after 13 years is found to be not dead, then is the marriage still ...
A: Yes, its binding if the person who is declared alive again is able to get all his rights, securities ...
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| 2nd Marriage | 10/30/2006 |
Q: I recently married a man I've been with for two years. This is my 2nd marriage and I have four small ...
A: I am surprised but did he not plan this before he married you? I mean you both could have taken up ...
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| Is my marriage really over? | 10/28/2006 |
Q: I have a problem with trust. My dad cheated on my mom for 16 yrs. I have been married now going on 4 ...
A: Its never too late to begin afresh. Talk to him, ask for forgiveness, make him understand that it ...
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| Husband won't sleep with me | 10/27/2006 |
Q: My husband and I went through a period of separation. We are now back together, but not physically. ...
A: All human being differ in their libido and sexual desires, in fact it isn't also gender based as ...
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| marrigae | 10/18/2006 |
Q: well i have been married for about 2 monthes now...my husband was so loving before marrage ...we ...
A: This is too early to lose all hope, you are just married, the change must have been sudden for you ...
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| Wife has no desire for sex | 10/17/2006 |
Q: My wife claims that she wants to have sex however, do not have the urge for sex, ifn that makes any ...
A: Sorry for the delay in replying. To help you better I would need to know her age and how long you ...
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| Husband says he loves me but doesnt feel like he has lived his life | 10/10/2006 |
Q: My husband and I got married somewhat young. He was nineteen and I was eighteen. We have been ...
A: I am sorry but there is no future for this relationship. You are a caring and loving person, you can ...
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| please help urgent | 10/8/2006 |
Q: My name is Sandra and I'm 41 years old. Last year I married a man from Nigeria. I am an American. I ...
A: God gave you life to have fun and be happy with your loved one's, don't end it just because you are ...
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| Is it fare | 10/8/2006 |
Q: I've been married going on 2 years I'm hispanic and my husband is cucasian. I'm feeling that he ...
A: Why don't you speak to him about this, not as a blame game but the fact that you like a tidy house ...
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| my husband disserted me! | 9/29/2006 |
Q: my husband left one night while i was at my 15 year old daughters high school football game where ...
A: This must be a result of a long period of thinking that he decided to walk out one fine day. You can ...
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| Is this marriage headed for divorce? | 9/14/2006 |
Q: I was widowed in 2002 and left with 2 kids ( son-age 3 and daughter-age 1 at that time) I have been ...
A: Since you know very well that it happens due to PMS, and you also are aware that it happens at a ...
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| Marriage vs. Divorce | 9/12/2006 |
Q: I have been married 19 years, with 3 children. The marriage is not good. She is Mexican and ...
A: After reading about your case, I think you should go and meet the counsellor alone. That ...
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| my husband | 9/4/2006 |
Q: my husband doesn't like my parents even my brother,he doesnot talk 2 them n dont let me speak with ...
A: I would need to know the reason behind this hatred. Is it that he had a fight with them over an ...
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| suitabale woman | 8/26/2006 |
Q: iam 25 male indian telugu, my parents forcing to marry to their relative girl, if same blood group ...
A: Everyone is born with a certain blood type that is either Rh positive or Rh negative. Rh-positive ...
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| arguements | 8/20/2006 |
Q: how can i get my wife to forgive me for being selfish?
A: You can do it by being generous and helpful now, in all ways possible. Get her gifts, take her out, ...
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| How do i approach my husband? | 8/18/2006 |
Q: my husband and i have been married for 6 years and our love sex/life is good we have sex whenever we ...
A: Just because he doesn't feel like sharing an e-mail id with you, doesn't mean he is up to something. ...
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| about my husband | 7/28/2006 |
Q: I am 30 yrs old and married for last one year.My husband is 4yrs younger to me.ours is a love ...
A: You need to pay him back in the same coin - ignore him. Get yourself busy with whatever you can - ...
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| Question on Age Difference | 7/22/2006 |
Q: Is there any sort of an issue in the sexual relationship of a married couple when the woman is elder ...
A: Age difference can play a major role if its 8 to 10 years. But a gap of 1.5 years is virtually ...
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| Trial separation-a good idea | 6/13/2006 |
Q: He has found out in therapy that a lot of his behaviour/thoughts to back to the death of his mother ...
A: Yes, you should give it some more time. Therapy takes a while to take effect, and why let your ...
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| Trial separation-a good idea | 6/11/2006 |
Q: I have written a few times about the problems my husband and I have been having. It is not just ...
A: To my mind this is going to be tough on you. Staying under the same roof and behaving like ...
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| Doubts in marriage | 5/31/2006 |
Q: My husband and I have gone through some major issues since October. My mother died suddenly in ...
A: Both of you have gone through so much trauma and chaos that it has had an adverse effect on your ...
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| help my future marriage!!! | 5/19/2006 |
Q: Hi I'm not sure where to start..first of all I have a 6 month old son named Jayden(I adore him).I am ...
A: You are yourself claiming that he adores your son and cares for you, don't you think that's what you ...
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| Turkish and American Relationships | 5/17/2006 |
Q: I am married to a turkish man and I am an American woman and we are soo happy can you give me some ...
A: That's great that you are having a great married life, keep it up. You can go through : ...
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| Calling When You Go Out | 5/16/2006 |
Q: My wife and I are in a 95% happy marriage, and I'm being conservative. It might be closer to 99%. ...
A: Congrats, you are the best thing that could have happened to your wife, and she should feel proud of ...
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| I need some help | 5/15/2006 |
Q: I met a girl 3 months ago, and she's pretty and I like her a lot. the first time that we talked she ...
A: I do not think that you should go ahead in any manner before you are sure that she is married or ...
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| arguement | 5/14/2006 |
Q: --You are right I was thinking the same thing, another problem is that I move away from my family we ...
A: Its not so difficult to make friends again, start with your immediate neighbours or your office ...
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| Marriage | 4/22/2006 |
Q: I have been married only 4 months. But I'm afraid. We have a child, and I am a stay at home mom. The ...
A: No there is no connection with genetics, yes when a kid watches a high-strung parent he/she is ...
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| Lies | 3/23/2006 |
Q: Should a man and wife keep things from one another? My wife had a freind that told her something but ...
A: As they say, friends do have a way of confiding in each other by adding the tag 'dont tell anyone'. ...
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| Marriage | 3/6/2006 |
Q: I am Ugandan who has been married for about one year and four months to an American ...
A: You are a great partner since you care for her so much. But I am sure graduation cannot be the ONLY ...
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| Marriage Relationships | 2/14/2006 |
Q: I have been married for a little more than a year..We have love for each other but unfortunately we ...
A: Its very natural to happen as these are the 2 most important women in your life. Both feel that the ...
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| Marriage & Visa | 1/16/2006 |
Q: I have been dating a woman from Australia for three months here in Seattle. Although it is very ...
A: For question number 1, I will not be the right person to advise. But yes, one cannot stay even a day ...
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| Soul Mate | 1/16/2006 |
Q: Are there soul mates or any two individuals can have a successful relationship. thanks.
A: Yes, there is a thing called soul mates. But there is a more concrete aspect to it in today's world, ...
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| no sex in marrige | 12/12/2005 |
Q: My husband and i have been married for 9 mths and have not had intercouse even once.He says he loves ...
A: Please go through : http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/state/FL/Cape+Coral.html ...
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| no sex in marrige | 12/11/2005 |
Q: My husband and i have been married for 9 mths and have not had intercouse even once.He says he loves ...
A: You are pretty perturbed and I can make out how annoying and frustrating this situation might be. ...
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| I need help. | 10/31/2005 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for last 5 years and I think I have changed a lot after I got ...
A: Its good that you realise that there is a problem. Has in the past your husband done anything to ...
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| Please tell me is this normal ? | 9/24/2005 |
Q: We are married for ~ 5 years , no kids, we are no religious and we are in mid 30's . I was married ...
A: Since you have been with her for 5 years, that means love and care is still there. Both partners ...
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| Hi | 5/11/2005 |
Q: hope you r doing fine. I have a query. Well, my husband after our fight on any issue doesn't try ...
A: Am surprised that still you have not understood that he is simply frustrated of not being able to ...
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| How to handle? | 4/18/2005 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for five years. He has kids who live with us from a previous ...
A: Kim, I sure know how you feel, but actually you can't do much about it now. Before marrying him you ...
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| Husband's behaviour during arguments... | 4/8/2005 |
Q: How do u think i can set it right. He always complains i don't listen to him. Though this is not the ...
A: Be cool, and follow the steps I wrote about. Yes, a husband and wife cannot and should not be mirror ...
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| Husband's behaviour during arguments... | 4/8/2005 |
Q: He does this when he want me to stop talking on that particular issue. He always complains that "mei ...
A: Veenita, Then its certain that its more an act of frustration and not something else. Can I ...
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| Husband's behaviour during arguments... | 4/8/2005 |
Q: I am facing a very peculiar problem with my husband's behaviour. We have been now married for last ...
A: Veenita, There is much more to this than you can see. There is something else that's bothering him. ...
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| Another query-update | 3/31/2005 |
Q: Glad to know that u stay in India, Gujrat. I am in Delhi. I am sure it was not something that was ...
A: Hey Harshita, Don't lose heart. I am sure you can work it out. It could just be that you are ...
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| Another query | 3/31/2005 |
Q: I don't know whether i should direct this query to you or know. As i am myself not able to believe ...
A: Harshita, Are you sure that it was something not to be eaten? It could be a mix or salt etc. You ...
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| thanks a ton for your help | 3/30/2005 |
Q: I will try to do it. But u see my MIL is a house wife and i am working woman. I really find her very ...
A: I am sure how it feels when you can't even have some privacy in your own home. And you are right, a ...
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| Pls help | 3/29/2005 |
Q: I have a two year old son. I wasn't ready for marriage when the mother gave birth to him although i ...
A: Just by paying bills you cannot have an emotional bonding. I think she feels hurt by the fact that ...
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| Inlaw advice | 3/20/2005 |
Q: I could use some advice. How important is it to like your girlfriend's family? I've been going out ...
A: Firstly, set your mind right do you want a family or not. Your girl friend seems to be crazy after ...
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| How to live with him | 3/14/2005 |
Q: Im 22 yrs old and just married to my husband who is 31. We have a daughter. Im living with my ...
A: Joyce, In fact you should be asking do you love him any longer? I think if a spouse cannot be there ...
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| Do i love my husband? | 3/10/2005 |
Q: My name is upasana and i am married for the past 1 year....ours was a "love" marraige and at that ...
A: I am sure that since you had a courtship period of nearly 2 years, you were in love. You are now ...
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| confused | 2/27/2005 |
Q: but now he is 30 years old and he still watches them..im afraid this has become an obsession even ...
A: Lilian, Why don't you talk to him about this? Yes the lack of sex in your present condition may be ...
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| Friends Visit | 9/21/2004 |
Q: I have a very good friend that had told me she wanted to visit on Sunday, about 2 days after my ...
A: In this case nobody is wrong, ecah is thinking from his/her perspective. Yes, if he is wet he has a ...
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| Too fast !?! | 7/10/2004 |
Q: OK, here's the deal. I've been going out with this girl for like 7 months, and she will not shut up ...
A: I can make out that you are feeling being pushed into this thing called engagement, you are really ...
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| Problem in Family due to love | 4/20/2004 |
Q: I am Sridhar from India and currently 18yrs. I am here to request help from you. Right now I am ...
A: Right now both of you are too young to tie the knot. Try and get to know each other better, try and ...
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| Loyalty/Commitment | 4/12/2004 |
Q: I am sending this email today because I am a little confused regarding my 7 year marriage to my ...
A: I think I get a pretty good fix on your problem. You ought to realise that marriage is not a bed of ...
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| i she cheating! | 3/11/2004 |
Q: layely when i 've been going through my girl friends cell phone i've been finding unfamiliar phone ...
A: Method, This is no reason to doubt her credibility. If you really fear that, try dialling those ...
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| Dear Vani,
How are you?... | 12/9/2003 |
Q: How are you? You are doing such a wonderful service, May god bless you always. Referring to my ...
A: Am sorry for the late revert. I guess there is no point in arguing with him about all this. Why ...
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