| Subject | Date Asked |
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| marriage to the rebelious | 7/8/2008 |
Q: My husband has been engaging in pornography but going to great lengths to hide it. I had a suspicion ...
A: The books are on that website I mentioned. I suggest that you seek counseling with your pastor and ...
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| marriage to the rebelious | 7/7/2008 |
Q: My husband has been engaging in pornography but going to great lengths to hide it. I had a suspicion ...
A: It sounds as if your husband is a man who does not know God. If he did, and he was walking according ...
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| wife problems | 7/4/2008 |
Q: I'd like to explain my situation I turned 18 last year october and I was a trainer at YMCA and there ...
A: Abdullah, You have a choice to stay or a choice to go. If you make that choice to leave, then ...
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| Intimate relationship with husband | 7/3/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost four years and we have one 10 month old daughter. He ...
A: Can you answer some questions for me and then write back? How old are both of you? Has he recently ...
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| Marriage | 6/26/2008 |
Q: I am a Christian. I have been married for almost 13 years (my husband is also a Christian) and my ...
A: This pastor sounds like he is walking in deception, under the control of a spirit of pride and ...
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| marriage | 6/19/2008 |
Q: To answer your question first, I am a Christian and so is my husband. I have been married for 12 ...
A: You need to fall in love again. You have drifted so far away from each other that you feel like ...
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| Husband wants me to give up friends | 6/11/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 7 months. I am 41, he is 40. This is my first marriage and ...
A: If your friends are Christians, what behavior of theirs is prompting your husband to mistrust them? ...
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| Life | 6/4/2008 |
Q: I am a Christian, I don't have a church but I am a believer of Jesus Christ. My question is what do ...
A: It sounds as if you had more of a roommate situation than a marriage. If you would have at least had ...
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| lousy marriage | 5/22/2008 |
Q: I have been married to my 2nd husband for 4 yrs. I am a Christian, but my husband is not, ...
A: You prayed for an unattractive mate and that's what God delivered. He is unattractive in all ...
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| Marriage | 5/21/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 14 years and we have 4 children 4, 6, 7, 13. Although our relationship has ...
A: You asked for my opinion and I am going to give it, as God tells us to speak the truth in love. ...
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| Divorce | 4/22/2008 |
Q: I am a Christian. My husband wants a divorce, but I do not. He is unwilling to go to councilling. ...
A: One of the things that concerns me the most when it comes to a spouse committing adultery is the STD ...
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| Should the wife come first before the child | 4/11/2008 |
Q: My husband had an affair that produced a child due to be born in july. I have choosen to stand by ...
A: I think your husband has it all backwards and I would suggest for him to sit down with a pastor for ...
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| financially unequally yoked | 3/31/2008 |
Q: My question is this I am soon to be married, I am 44 and she is 45, I make very good money (upper ...
A: She is making very little compared to you, but if she is just a border right now, she should be ...
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| husband refuses all affection | 3/29/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are Christians. He has refused all affection and can't erase his bitterness toward ...
A: If your husband refuses to get help or see that there is a problem, then you have some hard ...
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| should i give up? | 3/28/2008 |
Q: Let me start off by saying thank you for reading this. Yes I am a Christian but my wife isn't. My ...
A: You really need to put this all in the hands of the Lord. I have known people who have stood for ...
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| financially unequally yoked | 3/27/2008 |
Q: My question is this I am soon to be married, I am 44 and she is 45, I make very good money (upper ...
A: Could you please provide me with more details? What are your living arrangements now...how much do ...
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| Something is definitley wrong | 3/18/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are both Christians. Firstly, Id like to give you a summary of our lives together ...
A: This is not an easy situation and I can't give you any easy answers. I'm sure that the stress of ...
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| I'm so lost | 3/17/2008 |
Q: I will try to make this as short as possible. I met my husband 10 years ago, got married 9 years ...
A: I don't mind listening...that's why I am here. After reading your letter I would say that enough is ...
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| Alcholic abusive husband | 3/15/2008 |
Q: I have only been married for 3 years. My husband is an alcholic and has physically abused me 5 ...
A: God does not expect you to stay in this hellish situation. If more people would understand what the ...
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| Marriage seems to be just 'bearing with her' now | 3/14/2008 |
Q: My wife and I are Christians, and have been married for 11 years last December. We got married at ...
A: Let me first say that your letter is difficult to answer because I am not hearing her side. What I ...
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| bring love back | 3/13/2008 |
Q: we hv got married since 6 months and my husband loves me a lot.before marriage, i used to live ...
A: So sorry you are going through this. You must feel very hurt and rejected. Do you suspect that he is ...
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| sex issuesecnaif | 3/6/2008 |
Q: I am 29 years old, engaged for 2 weeks, dating for 8 months to a friend of 13years. I met him at ...
A: There are quite a lot of issues here that need to be addressed. First of all, I would advise you to ...
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| Help | 3/4/2008 |
Q: Pastor Kimberly, I recently became a Christian. My info: My husband, Ryan and I have been ...
A: It feels good to get it off your chest, doesn't it? Feel free anytime to write to me... Your ...
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| separated and hopeless | 2/29/2008 |
Q: I am a christian.Aweek ago my husband and i separated after a marriage counseling session addressing ...
A: It is so hard to give a complete answer when I don't know all of the circumstances, especially about ...
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| wife not actin the same | 2/28/2008 |
Q: yes im a christian. hey i been married a year and a half now i been with her goin on 9 years though. ...
A: I don't think I am getting the whole story here. Can you tell me more about your relationship? How ...
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| boundries within family members | 2/14/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have in the last 6 months, gone through some very unpleasant times in our marriage. ...
A: I think your husband's actions are totally inappropriate. You need to tell him how you feel and ...
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| Feelings | 2/8/2008 |
Q: My partner and I have been together for four years. I have one daugher, who is five, from a previous ...
A: This is not an easy situation for you. You are living with a man who is a male chauvinist and one ...
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| Pregnancy Distant Husband | 2/3/2008 |
Q: My question is that how to I "wake my husband up". We have been married for nearly 6 years. We have ...
A: So many women have the same question. Not an easy answer when we are dealing with some men who just ...
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| Not sure what to do? Seperation? | 1/29/2008 |
Q: Lemler, I am currently considering separting my husband, I feel lost. I am catholic (though not ...
A: I'm sure this is very frustrating for you. Your husband, plain and simply, needs to grow up. He is ...
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| Finding The Right Mate As A Man of God | 1/28/2008 |
Q: Kimberly, First, I'm am a Spirit-filled believer, 33 years old, saved since November of 1994. My ...
A: Great question. The scripture I want to share with you is in Psalm 37:4: "Delight yourself in the ...
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| Forgiveness | 1/19/2008 |
Q: Pastor Kim: my husband of 7 years told me the week before our anniversary that he wanted out. that ...
A: Absolutely not...do NOT allow him to move back him. If were you I would put his clothes in a box ...
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| Husband wants a divorce every other day | 1/18/2008 |
Q: I am a Christian. I have been married for almost 2 yrs. During this time, my husband cheated on me ...
A: So sorry for your situation. It surely is not easy during this time. I am concerned for you and your ...
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| What is going on in my marriage? | 1/16/2008 |
Q: I'm looking for answers, here it goes. We've been married 10 years, together for 12. We have two ...
A: I am a woman and walking around in Meijer for an hour is a stretch for me...I can't see a man doing ...
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| stuck | 1/14/2008 |
Q: I've been married 20 years. I have a seventeen year old daughter. I'm married to an Italian who told ...
A: Can you answer some questions for me? Are you a Christian? If you are , do you have a home church? ...
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| how do you get that love back? | 1/11/2008 |
Q: We have been married 18 years, we have 3 children ages 17,15 and 8. he got back a year ago from ...
A: I really think that the first thing that needs to happen is that your husband needs to get some ...
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| marriage | 12/31/2007 |
Q: this is a follow up . Cant follow your advise unfortunately about making him not call her at all the ...
A: Men will alway lie until they are blue in the face just to get out of it. So you can assume that he ...
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| husband not helping name calling | 12/30/2007 |
Q: my husband hasnt been helping me with our son me and him both work at the same time but i am the one ...
A: Your husband is immature and needs to grow up. He is abusing you and needs to know the love of God ...
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| What should I do? | 12/29/2007 |
Q: Okay so I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 30... I know it may sound ridiculous but we truly do love each ...
A: There is a 12 year age difference between you. Not as much as some I have seen, but still, it is ...
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| marriage | 12/26/2007 |
Q: Ive been with my man 1month and were considering marriage.We are the same spirit, i feel that god ...
A: I think you need to give it 6 months to a year before you even consider it. One month is WAY too ...
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| My husband left me should I want him back? | 12/25/2007 |
Q: I am Jewish. My husband talked me into giving up my home and job and move to a different city to ...
A: I think the first thing you need to do is to hire a good attorney. There are a lot of legal issues ...
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| Unhappy Marriage | 12/24/2007 |
Q: I am a born again Christian married to a man who believes there is God but does not want to do ...
A: Your husband should be apologizing over and over again until he makes you believe it. It sounds like ...
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| Am I wrong for feeling this way | 12/24/2007 |
Q: First, I would like to say I am a christian and so is my husband. I love him so much but sometimes ...
A: I think your husband is a bit blind to this situation because this is his mother. He really needs to ...
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| Question about marriage | 12/22/2007 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for three years, and together with him for 6 years. We have a two ...
A: Your husband is the one who is wrong. He does not have a clue how to treat a wife. The Bible says ...
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| disinterested in sex | 12/18/2007 |
Q: I am a strong believer in Christ and I have been for five years now. My husband is also a Christian, ...
A: Your perception of forgiveness is what most Christians believe and it's wrong. If you keep asking ...
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| disinterested in sex | 12/18/2007 |
Q: I am a strong believer in Christ and I have been for five years now. My husband is also a Christian, ...
A: First of all, I want to say that whatever happened to you when you were younger was not your fault. ...
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| How to raise a Christian children when you have a catholic husband | 12/17/2007 |
Q: At this point, although my husband would sometimes join me in Christian services, he's still ...
A: This may be a struggle because you are unequally yoked. You are right about the consequences. God ...
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| marriage | 12/12/2007 |
Q: I was recently told by my husband of 6 years that he loves me like a friend, but is not "in love" ...
A: Men who do this kind of thing are acting like children and they need to just grow up. He is trying ...
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| My husband says he doesn't love me anymore | 12/11/2007 |
Q: My husband & i have been together for nearly 10 yrs & married for 5 of them. we have a 4 year old ...
A: I don't know what God is speaking to you. You really have to seek Him to get His confirmation. ...
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| My husband says he doesn't love me anymore | 12/5/2007 |
Q: My husband & i have been together for nearly 10 yrs & married for 5 of them. we have a 4 year old ...
A: I know this is so painful for you. I wish I could help to ease your pain because I know how that ...
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| husband doesnot provide | 12/5/2007 |
Q: Iam studying and living in Adelaide, Australia. I have some problems with my husband. He is ...
A: I am so sorry that you are going through this. This is painful for me to read your letter. I can ...
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| My husband says he doesn't love me anymore | 12/3/2007 |
Q: My husband & i have been together for nearly 10 yrs & married for 5 of them. we have a 4 year old ...
A: You are not in an easy situation, that's for sure. I always tell people that there are consequences ...
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| terribly concerned about my son and granddaughters | 12/2/2007 |
Q: Where can I find ...perhaps a book?...or help for my son. Married 5 years with a 4 and 2 yr. girls. ...
A: If you can't talk with her, then make sure your son reads Matthew 18:15-18 and he needs to find ...
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| Divorce and marriage - complex | 11/27/2007 |
Q: I am going through a nasty divorce - but then no divorce is "nice". My ex-husband left me after 18 ...
A: I see a few red flags in your situation. You are still going through a divorce and it's way too ...
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| What do I do? | 11/9/2007 |
Q: I am so unhappy at the moment. My husband and I are both christians. My husband and I barely touch, ...
A: Your question is what I hear from so many women. This is not easy to endure and I hear your ...
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| marriage | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I AM A BELIEVER MARRIED WITH A UNBELIEVER. HE DOESNT DRINK AND SMOKE AND HE DOES BELIEVE IN GOD.THE ...
A: Believing in God and being a believer are two different things. Satan believes in God, but is not a ...
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| My overprotective husband | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I am in need of some advice and prayer. I am a nursing student and my husband and I are christians ...
A: I am so sorry that this happened to you. I would check with an attorney about this. You may have a ...
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| need some help | 10/13/2007 |
Q: I just read an answer you had posted to someone regarding lack of affection from her husband, but ...
A: You say that you are not sure if your husband is a Christian...if you live with this man and you ...
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| losing husband | 9/27/2007 |
Q: I am not religous but I appreciate your previous advice to people. I met my husband at work 15 ...
A: First let me say that I try to teach people to NOT be religious. I am not religious. Jesus was not ...
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| Husband will not discuss sex | 9/26/2007 |
Q: I have posted this question before of another person who did not truly answer my question although ...
A: Can you please tell me more about your husband? Give me some details about his pornography patterns ...
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| Ex wife | 9/25/2007 |
Q: My husband recently went to another state to his daughter's graduation. He has kept in close contact ...
A: You have to make the decision if you want to stay in this marriage. Is you husband able to change? ...
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| lousy marriage | 9/21/2007 |
Q: I'm 43 and married for 22 years. Kevin is 45. We have three kids, 16, 13 and 9. I hate my life. ...
A: You are where so many women are in their lives. It is not a good situation and I know how hard it is ...
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| Step Parenting | 8/28/2007 |
Q: Both myself and wife are previously married. I have one son and she has total three, although ...
A: I believe that we all have a choice as to how we conduct ourselves. We can choose to be bitter and ...
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| Wife says she doesn't want to be married anymore | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I am a Christian who is wondering what the best thing would be to do now that my wife has moved back ...
A: I really do not have very much information to go on here...if you could elaborate on the details of ...
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| marriage | 8/16/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been married a little over a year. We have both had previously married, she twice ...
A: I am so happy that you have turned your life around and you are trying to follow God. Know that it ...
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| whirlwind marriage | 8/16/2007 |
Q: I will try my best to be very honest in my question because i want a very honest answer.... this is ...
A: There are a lot of issues here and there is no easy answer to this. I see fault on both of your ...
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| confused | 8/8/2007 |
Q: I've never been baptized but I feel I am a Christian. I am in a second marriage, almost 9 years. ...
A: I am really sorry for your troubles. Your husband is NOT acting like a husband is supposed to act ...
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| Husband won't initiate sex | 8/6/2007 |
Q: I am a Christian and delighted to see that your aim is to give advice from a biblical perspective. ...
A: I have some questions for you, so if you would answer these, I will get back with you with some ...
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| Pornography | 8/2/2007 |
Q: We got married after I met him on an online dating site, and had a child together. He's a great guy ...
A: Once a man gets a taste of porn, usually as a teenager, it's a hard thing to stay away from. So many ...
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| HUSBAND AND HIS EX | 8/1/2007 |
Q: MY HUSBAND IS IN PRISON AND HE STILL HAS CONVERSATION WITH HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND. SHOULD I BE CONCERN. I ...
A: He can have an emotional affair with her...it doesn't have to be physical. If she is a former ...
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| HUSBAND AND HIS EX | 7/31/2007 |
Q: MY HUSBAND IS IN PRISON AND HE STILL HAS CONVERSATION WITH HIS EX-GIRLFRIEND. SHOULD I BE CONCERN. I ...
A: If he were my husband, yes, I would be concerned. An "ex" should be exactly that...an EX. She should ...
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| My husband has a wondering eye | 7/27/2007 |
Q: 4 months ago I married a wonderful man, the only thing is he has a wondering eye for woman, any ...
A: Did you see any indication of this when you were dating? This behavior can be very hurtful and he ...
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| HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP | 7/26/2007 |
Q: I FOUND OUT THAT MY HUSBAND HAD LIED TO ME ABOUT TALKING TO ANOTHER WOMAN. I ASKED HIM TO DELETE HER ...
A: I can't tell you how far this is going to go, but you need to put your foot down and demand that he ...
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| I never loved my husband from the start | 7/18/2007 |
Q: Im a Christian trying to go back to church after a 10 yr gap. I read the question about a mans wife ...
A: Again , you really need to turn this over to God. He can turn your "like" for your husband into a ...
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| I never loved my husband from the start | 7/18/2007 |
Q: Im a Christian trying to go back to church after a 10 yr gap. I read the question about a mans wife ...
A: So many people in marriages are in the same boat as you. It's not an easy situation and there are no ...
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| Husband lost passion for 20 yr younger wife | 7/17/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 5 years; he's 48 and I'm 28 so perhaps the problem here is a ...
A: Most men would give anything to be in your husband's shoes. I'm sorry that you are having these ...
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| No Affection | 7/11/2007 |
Q: My wife and I are Christians and are striving to keep God at the center of our relationship, but we ...
A: I think it is pretty obvious that your wife has brought many unresolved issues with her into this ...
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| Husbands Dying/Sick Ex-Friend | 7/10/2007 |
Q: My husband and I are in a rock and a hard place right now and need an outside opinion/advice, ...
A: If you feel that strongly that she is going to harm you in any way, then don't go. But it is your ...
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| Husbands Dying/Sick Ex-Friend | 7/10/2007 |
Q: My husband and I are in a rock and a hard place right now and need an outside opinion/advice, ...
A: What's she going to do now that she is dying and in a hospital? She's not going to make trouble for ...
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| MARRIAGE ADVICE | 7/4/2007 |
Q: I have a fiance and we have been in courtship for two but refuse to see my Parent so that we can get ...
A: This is a question which I really can't answer for you. You will have to seek the Lord and ask Him ...
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| marriage | 6/27/2007 |
Q: My husband is bi-polar and drinks, he had a bad episode last year in May and then last week in of ...
A: ..if you are fearful, then it is not worth taking the chance. There may be way too many problems to ...
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| marriage | 6/27/2007 |
Q: My husband is bi-polar and drinks, he had a bad episode last year in May and then last week in of ...
A: I do agree that it is a good idea to have removed yourself from the home. And I think you need to ...
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| he cant quit and he tells me everytime he does | 6/27/2007 |
Q: im 19 and i have a 10month old son. i got preg at the age of 17 my senior year of high school by my ...
A: This is so hard for you and I am sorry that you are going through this. I have been through this ...
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| how many chances are too many? | 6/27/2007 |
Q: My story goes like this, It seems since we moved out of state 3 years ago my husband has ...
A: So sorry about this situation with your husband. He didn't have to go to that party...he had a ...
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| broken marriage | 6/27/2007 |
Q: I am a christian and regularly attend our local church. PLease help. My husband and i have 2 and ...
A: There are times when we suffer the consequences of our actions and there are times when the mercy ...
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| Husband stays out all night | 6/15/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for about a year and a half. A few months before our wedding he ...
A: Erin, you are not the idiot...your husband is!!! His behavior is totally unacceptable. It's bad ...
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| Wife's Affair and She Says She Never Loved Me... | 6/15/2007 |
Q: Greetings, I need some advice on how best to handle my situation. First, here is a little bit of ...
A: I am so sorry about this. It can be so hard to let someone go who has apparently moved on. Sometimes ...
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| value judgement and Yes I am a Christian | 6/13/2007 |
Q: “Is it proper for my new company to invite me with one week notice to a Sunday afternoon golf game ...
A: I think you probably should have discussed it with your husband first. It was not out of line for ...
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| my husband wild sex life before marriage and his porn addiction bothers me. | 6/13/2007 |
Q: My husband had a wild sex life before we got married. Of course he didn't tell me much about that ...
A: Porn is extremely unhealthy for a relationship. It is degrading for the wife and it tears apart the ...
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| my husband wild sex life before marriage and his porn addiction bothers me. | 6/12/2007 |
Q: My husband had a wild sex life before we got married. Of course he didn't tell me much about that ...
A: It sounds to me as if your husband cannot be trusted and I would be quite concerned if I were in ...
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| need an advice | 6/6/2007 |
Q: My husband and I got married almost seven years ago, seven happy years until today. I have to ...
A: I am so sorry for your situation. I'm sure it was a shock to you to find this out. It would break ...
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| my husband left to be with someone else | 6/4/2007 |
Q: I have been married for almost 3 years but together for 5 just one week ago saying that he is no ...
A: I am sorry for what is happening in your marriage. I know how much it hurts... I have known women ...
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| expectant father | 6/4/2007 |
Q: Obviously I am not doing the things my wife would like me to do while she is pregnant with our first ...
A: Your wife is going through a lot emotionally and physically right now. She really needs your full ...
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| Disagreement on the number of children | 6/2/2007 |
Q: My wife wants another child, and I don't. I told her that I was scheduling a vasectomy. She told ...
A: So you want a divorce??? She tells you that she will divorce you if you have a vasectomy and you are ...
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| No affection; no sex | 6/2/2007 |
Q: I am a Christian. I have been married 21 years to an alcoholic sober for 3 years. Recently, he has ...
A: I am so sorry for your situation. This is not easy for you. But it is certainly NOT worth taking ...
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| What am I feeling? | 5/30/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have had years of difficulty rearing his two children. Mitchell, my 20 year old ...
A: To avert responsibility, your husband is blaming you, and it's just not right.. Have you counseled ...
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| What am I feeling? | 5/30/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have had years of difficulty rearing his two children. Mitchell, my 20 year old ...
A: This is a very frustrating situation for you...especially since this is concerning your step-son and ...
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| Marriage without government | 5/23/2007 |
Q: I'm a 69 year old man wanting to spend the rest of my life with a wonderful 70 year old lady. We ...
A: What a good question. I certainly understand your concerns. Financially, it is sometimes harder for ...
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| Is this normal selfishness? | 5/18/2007 |
Q: My husband & I have been married for 2 1/2 yrs. I am 62, he is 64. Obviously we have had prior ...
A: I am glad I am not in your shoes...this has to be so frustrating for you. Just to be around a penny ...
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| What am I doing wrong here? | 5/18/2007 |
Q: I am a Catholic as is my husband. My husband and I are recently married and were best friends for ...
A: I can certainly understand your frustration. Been there and done that! It seems to me that there ...
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| What am I doing wrong here? | 5/18/2007 |
Q: I am a Catholic as is my husband. My husband and I are recently married and were best friends for ...
A: It sounds as if he has some jealousy issues that he needs to deal with. Was there another man in the ...
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| Blended Families | 5/17/2007 |
Q: Lemler, First and foremost let me start by saying that I am a Christian. I've been saved now ...
A: At this stage, your son is at a critical time in his life. He needs closeness with the male head of ...
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| Blended Families | 5/12/2007 |
Q: Lemler, First and foremost let me start by saying that I am a Christian. I've been saved now ...
A: This is not an easy situation. How old is your son? Early teens or later? Have you and your husband ...
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| ADULTRY | 5/11/2007 |
Q: iam a Christian and has been involved in kingdom work for the past thirteen years.Lately,i woman ...
A: The woman may have lured you, but you fell in with both feet because of a choice YOU made. You had ...
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| Porn and sexual abuse | 4/30/2007 |
Q: My husband hid his porn addiction from me for 14 years. On 4 occasions he raped me and sodomized ...
A: From my perspective, I would say that this man need some healing to take place in his life before ...
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| Wife has choose separation to think things over | 4/27/2007 |
Q: Where do I start. My wife and I are both Christians. Let me give you a little background before I ...
A: There are many things that I cannot answer for you because I am missing a very important part of ...
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| wife talking to male friends | 4/26/2007 |
Q: is it approiate for a married woman to talk and share secrerts about her husband to a male friend ...
A: The only way I could say yes to this in on the following condition- that your husband needed help ...
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| husband | 4/6/2007 |
Q: me and my husband have been together now for almost 8 years we have been married 6 years we have two ...
A: I don't have a lot of background information to go on, but I would say if your husband is spending ...
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| mood disorders, alcoholism, suicide attempt | 4/6/2007 |
Q: I am a Christian and my husband considers himself one also. We've been married a year. Before we ...
A: I am really concerned for your safety. Your husband needs deliverance, and that is why this behavior ...
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| self esteem, attention, worrying | 4/5/2007 |
Q: I am a Christian, and so is my fiance. We've been dating for a little over a year and are planning ...
A: I see a definite root in that old relationship of yours. You need to break all soul ties with him. ...
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| self esteem, attention, worrying | 4/4/2007 |
Q: I am a Christian, and so is my fiance. We've been dating for a little over a year and are planning ...
A: I would like to know more about your background so that we can pinpoint the source of the low ...
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| he doesn't love me anymore | 4/2/2007 |
Q: I'm a christian and my husband catholic we are 29 years old we've been married for 5 years have 2 ...
A: I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. It sounds to me as if he is carrying on an affair ...
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| accusations of cheating | 3/30/2007 |
Q: Well, my fiance has had some bad relationships in the past. His x's have all cheated on him. I can ...
A: Your fiance sounds like he is a very insecure person with low self-esteem. Obviously he has ...
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| am i taken for granted? | 3/30/2007 |
Q: my husband and i are both christians and bring our children up with christian beliefs. i love my ...
A: I know how frustrating this is for you. Has your husband been working long hours? Why does he seem ...
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| help | 3/30/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for going on 2 years and it was going good at first and then he ...
A: Your husband needs counseling. Can he get the counseling he needs through the armed services? It ...
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| Worried about my husband | 3/28/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married about 5 months now. We had a rocky past before and broke up. We ...
A: I'm sure he is haunted by that bad experience and if afraid you will leave him as well. It's good ...
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| Worried about my husband | 3/28/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married about 5 months now. We had a rocky past before and broke up. We ...
A: It sounds as if your husband is battling a spirit of jealousy and a spirit of anger. I am wondering ...
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| Texting Another Woman | 3/25/2007 |
Q: I found out recently that my husband had been both texting and calling a very young girl. A few ...
A: It sounds as if he has some real problems and you are right on target when you say that he needs ...
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| i dont know if my husband really love me anymore | 3/24/2007 |
Q: i am 22 years old and im marrieds we have two children under the age of three and he act like he ...
A: So sorry you are going through this. Do you suspect that he is seeing someone else? Have you ...
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| Texting Another Woman | 3/24/2007 |
Q: I found out recently that my husband had been both texting and calling a very young girl. A few ...
A: I am disturbed that he was contacting a high school student. If she wasn't 18 and they had some kind ...
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| hey | 3/21/2007 |
Q: because i was pregnant and now i feel depressed and lonely for my family and now i am finally ...
A: You were very young when you got married and missed out on a lot of your youth. I am happy that you ...
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| my husband lies to me when i know hes lying | 3/20/2007 |
Q: i browsed through our internet history and found my husband was looking at nasty hardcore porn, we ...
A: One hundred times out of a hundred, a man will lie about watching porn. Even though the proof is in ...
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| need help | 3/19/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 7 years. We’ve been married for almost 5. This is the 2nd ...
A: There is not an easy fix for this dilemma. I would tend to agree with what you have to say on this ...
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| divorceyes i am a born again christian but my husband is not | 3/18/2007 |
Q: my husband has been telling every day that he wants a divorce because we are having problems with my ...
A: I would say that you need to get him in pastoral counseling right away. Do whatever you can to step ...
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| divorceyes i am a born again christian but my husband is not | 3/17/2007 |
Q: my husband has been telling every day that he wants a divorce because we are having problems with my ...
A: It sounds as if your son needs strong parental guidance from both parents. I would also suggest ...
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| Finding out | 3/16/2007 |
Q: I was cleaning up, getting ready with a garage sale when I stumbled over a book, which I opened, and ...
A: I was wondering what he would do. It is interesting that you are discovering how you are feeling ...
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| feeling shattered, regret my marriage | 3/7/2007 |
Q: YES, HE IS WORKING AND WE BOTH ARE WORKING IN THE SAME INSTITUTION. WE ARE MARRIED FOR 6 YEARS, AND ...
A: My heart goes out to you. I feel your pain and I am so sorry.. Listen to me carefully...you NEED TO ...
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| feeling shattered, regret my marriage | 3/6/2007 |
Q: i am a christian with two children and my family. i do not feel i am loved or secure with my ...
A: I am so sorry that you are going through this. You sound very sad, lonely, and unappreciated. It's ...
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| my husband lies | 2/27/2007 |
Q: I ended up pregnant after my now husband had been cheating on me for 10 months with a co-worker. ...
A: I'm so sorry you are going through this. If he has a history of lying, then most likely this type of ...
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| My husband's guilt? | 2/26/2007 |
Q: He called and wanted to have lunch today. He wants to come home, but is afraid he is going to run ...
A: In the OT, yes, God did punish. But now we are past the cross and in this dispensation, we are under ...
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| My husband's guilt? | 2/26/2007 |
Q: I wanted to add to this that I spoke with him a bit ago at his ex's house. He is spending the night ...
A: Good Morning Angie, It is a very complicated situation, to say the least. I would recommend getting ...
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| My husband's guilt? | 2/25/2007 |
Q: This is confusing. I asked somewhat the same ? last week but now the situation has changed. My ...
A: The letter was very touching and although the psychologist said he wrote it out of guilt, there were ...
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| children and our family | 2/21/2007 |
Q: I completely agree that I would not purposely bring another child into our family against his will ...
A: Some women just have that internal desire to have many children. This is wonderful. Unfortunately, ...
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| children and our family | 2/21/2007 |
Q: my husband and I are not strong in faith although I do consider myself a christian. we have 2 ...
A: It sounds as though your husband is pretty firm about not having more children. Is this correct? And ...
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| reconciliation | 2/21/2007 |
Q: I'm 38 and a christian. I was married for 13 years. my ex and I seperated 2 years ago, because we ...
A: This is not an easy question for me to answer because I don't know your husband. Trust takes a long ...
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| infidelity | 2/20/2007 |
Q: I am a christian woman married for 27 years to a disabled man. Before 1994, he left me twice for ...
A: You certainly do have the right, as his WIFE, to demand that he STOP this behavior. If he thinks ...
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| sex | 2/12/2007 |
Q: 3 times a week would be fine with me. Most of the anger comes from the fact that they seem to get ...
A: I see a couple of different red flags here that warrant a deeper look...that is why I am ...
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| sex | 2/11/2007 |
Q: OK, I am 25 years old, the women have all been about my age. It seems that, as the relationships ...
A: You didnt' tell me how often you are initiating sex. Is this every night? For most women 2-3 times a ...
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| sex | 2/9/2007 |
Q: What information would you need about me? About the women I've been with?I worry that I may never ...
A: I would like to hear more about the women. Hormonal issues? Ages? Why do you think they stop...is it ...
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| sex | 2/9/2007 |
Q: I worry that I may never find a woman who will satisfy me sexually. In all three of the long-term ...
A: Men have a higher sex drive than women. You may never meet your match. It sounds to me as if you ...
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| wife leaveing | 2/2/2007 |
Q: my wife separated from me last may while i was in Iraq she meet a guy around that same time but said ...
A: First of all I would like to thank you for serving our country. We are all so thankful for our ...
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| Living a Lie | 1/27/2007 |
Q: ------------------------------------------- The text above is a follow-up to ... Yes, I am a ...
A: I would like to share my thoughts with you. One of the things I see so often is that "Christians" ...
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| HELP ME PLEASE? | 1/26/2007 |
Q: AFTER 23 YEARS OF MARRIAGE I FEEL I'M THE ONE THAT'S PAYING THE PRICE. MY HUSBAND IS A MINISTER AS ...
A: I am so sorry for your pain. I have been through this myself, as my ex-husband left me and moved in ...
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| Second marriage | 1/22/2007 |
Q: I have been married to a man for 2 years(together for 8 years). Second marriage for both of us. He ...
A: It can be very frustrating living with someone who is constantly angry. It really isn't your job to ...
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| Confused | 1/8/2007 |
Q: I am 27 years old and i got married at the age of 19. I got married because i got pregnant and we ...
A: It's hard to give you much advice based on a short letter, plus I don't know your husband to know ...
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| wife | 1/7/2007 |
Q: One major problem I am having and have been having more about 16 years is that my libido and my ...
A: I am so sorry that you are going through this. This is a major problem and unfortunately your wife ...
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| Affection | 1/4/2007 |
Q: It is nice to have a different perspective on the situation! I have over the years tried to change ...
A: ...if you don't want to give up..then don't! I applaud you for hanging in there. I understand the ...
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| Husband acting as fatherly figure to young single mom? | 1/4/2007 |
Q: I want to be as logical as I can with this situation.We've been married 16 years.We are both 37.Sex ...
A: I see big red flags here. Huge. This is not appropriate at all. If he stopped wanting sex, something ...
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| Affection | 1/4/2007 |
Q: I have been married for about 13 years to my high school sweetheart. We were married young, and have ...
A: This helped me see a little deeper into your situation. It sounds as if you are doing all the right ...
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| Affection | 1/3/2007 |
Q: I have been married for about 13 years to my high school sweetheart. We were married young, and have ...
A: I do understand your feelings as I have been through it myself.It is very hard to deal with.Very ...
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| Husbands Low Esteem/Self-Worth | 12/31/2006 |
Q: Lemler, Thank you so much for responding to me expeditiously. I agree and will "work on" not ...
A: I just don't know about a pending affair. That's hard to say. It is a "family" tie, so to speak, so ...
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| Husbands Low Esteem/Self-Worth | 12/30/2006 |
Q: I am really having a hard time dealing with My Husbands "Anthony" talking to Toni (his biological ...
A: Good Morning Deleve, Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story with me and ask ...
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| Relationship Building | 12/26/2006 |
Q: Rev. Lemler, Thanks for your insight. To give you more info, we have a 6 month old boy at home. My ...
A: It sounds like your wife has some deeper issues that are manifesting in displays of anger. I would ...
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| Relationship Building | 12/25/2006 |
Q: Rev. Kim, Thanks for volunteering! My wife and I have been married for 4 years but we definitely ...
A: Merry Christmas! Thank you for writing. I think for starters women need to get over the idea that ...
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| insecure husband | 12/22/2006 |
Q: I have been married almost 8 years. My husband and I have a 7 yr old son. My husband has been ...
A: It sounds as though this is a very stressful situation for you. It's not easy working 2 jobs and ...
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| mY HUSBAND SAYS HE FEELS NOTHING FOR ME | 12/21/2006 |
Q: I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 5 1/2 YEARS , MARRIED FOR 16 MONTHS.HE SAID HE WAS HEAD OVER HEALS ...
A: I am so glad that you wrote. It sounds as if you are really facing some hard times, and I empathize ...
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