| Subject | Date Asked |
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| my wife | 11/15/2009 |
Q: I have been with my wife for 3 years and she did cheat on me last year with a ex-boyfriend that she ...
A: Joe, I am very proud of you for coming to the Lord. You are still young in the faith and have a ...
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| business agreement | 11/15/2009 |
Q: So, my husband and I got married after finding out we were pregnant. I do not believe in abortion ...
A: Jennifer, You sound like you are asking me to confirm what you already know. You want to leave ...
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| follow-up | 11/12/2009 |
Q: You answered me last night about my ex giving conditions. I left him in part due to controlling and ...
A: Heather, No matter how he words it these are all about control. I do realize that a spouse wants to ...
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| conditions | 11/12/2009 |
Q: So, my ex told me he thought about possibly getting back together in the future. He is not sure but ...
A: Heather, I am not to sure about conditions. If he loves you he should be willing to accept you and ...
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| What standard should I live by? | 11/11/2009 |
Q: I am in a marriage that is completely loveless. It has become an arrangement that is very ...
A: Gennie, I am not sure that this passage is speaking about divorce in the same way as we consider ...
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| Cheating | 11/11/2009 |
Q: Ok i have been with my girl for seven years been married for almost about 1 year> in the last few ...
A: Art, If you love her and you can forgive what she has done then you need to get to counseling. I ...
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| no love, no sex -- divorce? | 11/3/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years this 28/Oct. But we have no sex for the last 2 ...
A: May, I would never want to mis lead you. From what you have told me it sounds like your husband ...
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| Marriage | 10/28/2009 |
Q: I can't believe that I am doing this but I have been married for 15 years and we have had a lot of ...
A: Deanna, I would like you to examine your life and see what you can do to make it better. You have ...
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| Need Help With My Marriage | 10/27/2009 |
Q: I am a 40 year old mother of 3. I have been married for 13 years. My husband and I have three ...
A: Lisa, The first thing I have to do is to let you know that you are not alone. I am sure that you ...
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| stressful marriage :best thing to do??? | 10/20/2009 |
Q: I am currently awaiting divorce would be finalized next month.But i still feel sometimes whether it ...
A: Tinkle, After reading your story I can only; say one thing. Your husband should have revealed this ...
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| Is husband too involved in hobbies? | 10/16/2009 |
Q: Dr. Tim, I would like to know what is a healthy, normal amount of time for someone in a marriage to ...
A: Colleen, You did not say if you gave him a timeline for the change. If he is going to change then ...
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| what will I do. | 10/13/2009 |
Q: I and my wife is married for four years. But will never have a child. My wife sister (my sister ...
A: I'm not really sure what you are concerned about. Nothing was fully explained and I'm not really ...
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| Sex frequency in marriage | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Married for 4 and have digressed from 6 -8 times a week to once during the week and maybe once on ...
A: Michael, I think that the first step for her would be to seek medical advice. She might have ...
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| Drugs and Husband | 9/29/2009 |
Q: Ok, Ive known my husband since 4th grade. We have been married since April of 09. We have a son on ...
A: Ashley, What you are describing to me is addictive behavior. He seems to be willing to stop, but he ...
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| Disgusting interests | 9/23/2009 |
Q: Let me preface this question by saying that I am not trying to be disgusting and I'm not joking. I ...
A: MJ, What you are describing is bestiality and is strictly forbidden. God gave rules that we were not ...
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| Son's wedding | 9/22/2009 |
Q: My son is getting married Nov the . His fiance asked me to help her plan a gazebo wedding in my ...
A: Margie, Your son sounds like he is a guy that would bring home injured animals and try to save their ...
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| Is husband too involved in hobbies? | 9/22/2009 |
Q: Dr. Tim, I would like to know what is a healthy, normal amount of time for someone in a marriage to ...
A: Colleen, Not to make this simple but yes. I think that your husband is spending to much time on ...
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| Marriage/son issues | 9/18/2009 |
Q: Married 25 years. 3 children 12,13,19. Problem with 19yr old - moved out as unwilling to follow ...
A: I see where you are at and I was also in a similar place about the time my daughter started acting ...
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| confusion | 9/11/2009 |
Q: we r married(2nd marriage for both of us, he 34 & me 30 yrs old) for 15 months, i am living in my ...
A: Mala, I do not really understand about the passport issue and also about you being married but not ...
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| Strange Dreams about my husband | 8/24/2009 |
Q: Dr. Tim, For the last three nights I have had dreams about my husband, the first one we were at some ...
A: Ericka, I believe that the reason you are having the dreams is because it is on your mind. You are ...
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| Is oral sex biblically okay in marriage? | 8/22/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 6 years and we have a one year old. Before we had our child ...
A: Melissa, Your asking about oral sex but I think there is something else going on here. You object ...
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| Step daughter problems | 8/21/2009 |
Q: My wife spoils her only daughter from a previous marriage, having her at 14yrs old in Mexico. My ...
A: You sound like you have done the right thing. Your wife needs to realize that she is enabling her ...
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| my husband wants to be single | 8/20/2009 |
Q: My husband says that he wants to be single. He says that their is nobody else that he is interested ...
A: Toni, I am not sure that you can make someone do something they really do not want to do. If he has ...
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| marriage | 8/19/2009 |
Q: I have been very sad with my self and start crying when my husband is always saying bad things about ...
A: Rehana, If you want to get some help then I would suggest trying to find a pastor that can do ...
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| Her sex drive is gone | 8/19/2009 |
Q: I've been with my wife now for 22 yrs, we've been married 19 yrs God has blessed us both with 3 ...
A: I suspect that this may be a medical issue. Women when they get older usually develop a higher sex ...
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| Please Help | 8/18/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 8 months now. I have 2 children (ages 4 and 8) from a ...
A: Jen, I would not suggest that you divorce. I am very committed to couples working out their issues ...
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| Please Help | 8/18/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 8 months now. I have 2 children (ages 4 and 8) from a ...
A: Jen, I have to say this is a very unique situation which I really had to think about. You got ...
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| is martial bliss obtainable?? | 8/13/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 7 years. My husband has two children, 12 and 11, from a previous marriage ...
A: Lisa, The best thing to do here is to make sure your son is ok with the move. If things are going ...
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| I'm lost. | 8/12/2009 |
Q: My husband and I are 1 week away from our fist anniversary. We have no biological children together ...
A: Mandi, The first thing I see here is you are very busy. When you get busy and have little time for ...
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| is martial bliss obtainable?? | 8/10/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 7 years. My husband has two children, 12 and 11, from a previous marriage ...
A: Lisa, I believe that bringing the kids back together slowly would be a good idea. The kids will ...
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| Should I stay or go | 8/10/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 27 years, for about 20 years of our marriage my husband has gone ...
A: Ida, This is hard to say, but you may be justified to leave. I would not recommend getting involved ...
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| Trying to balance needs of husband and parents | 8/10/2009 |
Q: we have three young children and have lived away from my parents the entire time we have been ...
A: Jennifer, This is very delicate and needs to be handled very carefully. Your parents just want to ...
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| End of the Road...what took me so long? | 8/5/2009 |
Q: I have decided to divorce my husband of 20 years. Our problems are unique. He is 57 and I am 48. ...
A: I am so glad to hear that God was able to speak to you. This is a difficult time and God will give ...
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| End of the Road...what took me so long? | 8/5/2009 |
Q: I have decided to divorce my husband of 20 years. Our problems are unique. He is 57 and I am 48. ...
A: Brenda, I can see that you think that I am saying that you should not get a divorce. I am just ...
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| Husband punishing me by not having sex | 8/5/2009 |
Q: I'm 21 years old and have been married for 2 years. My husband told me flat out that he was ...
A: The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. (1 ...
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| End of the Road...what took me so long? | 8/4/2009 |
Q: I have decided to divorce my husband of 20 years. Our problems are unique. He is 57 and I am 48. ...
A: Brenda, What I see here is that you wanted to fulfill your vows you made. When we take those they ...
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| I have trust issues | 7/31/2009 |
Q: Dr. Tim, Hello I have a problem trusting my husband. We have a 17 month old daughter together. He ...
A: Liz, I understand that with him being away why you might have the trust issues. When you discover ...
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| Leviticus and Tatoos | 7/30/2009 |
Q: Before we were married, my wife had tattoos. She wanted more and even mentioned a mild addiction to ...
A: Steve, You sound like you are concerned about your wife and the tattoo issue. The best thing to do ...
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| Leviticus and Tatoos | 7/30/2009 |
Q: Before we were married, my wife had tattoos. She wanted more and even mentioned a mild addiction to ...
A: Steve, You are correct in your interpretation of these verses. We do have Christian liberty and to ...
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| Faith and Divorce | 7/30/2009 |
Q: My wife kicked me out of the house 3 months ago speaking of divorce. In that time I have repeatedly ...
A: Steve, I have to agree that God doesn’t like divorce. He made the provision for divorce in very ...
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| Husband-Wife Relationship | 7/28/2009 |
Q: I have been married for more 10 years, and have endured many years of silent treatment from my wife, ...
A: If you believe that she may become very upset then you may enlist some help from someone she trusts. ...
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| gaining back trust in your marriage | 7/23/2009 |
Q: My husband of 5.5 years and I are experiencing difficulty in our marriage. This past April, I ...
A: Jen, I thought he may react this way. He feels that you think he is some kind of bad guy because he ...
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| gaining back trust in your marriage | 7/23/2009 |
Q: My husband of 5.5 years and I are experiencing difficulty in our marriage. This past April, I ...
A: Jen, From what you have said here it sounds like your husband is telling you the truth. He sounds ...
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| husband and trust issues | 7/22/2009 |
Q: My husband is a professional and in his line of work he does work in various county court houses. He ...
A: Sandra, I have to say that I believe that you may be adding a lot to this simple communication. I ...
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| my family dont want me around because i tried to kill myself | 7/16/2009 |
Q: well let me give you a quick run over of what happen. Jun 30 of this year i tried to kill myself ...
A: Bill, I have to say that from what you have told me you are on the right path. You are in ...
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| Help | 7/7/2009 |
Q: My husband and I were divorced on paper 7 years ago, since then we've had doubts about that decision ...
A: Angie, I can’t say for certain but I can give you an educated guess. It sounds like he has been ...
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| second marriage, adult children and ex bf | 7/6/2009 |
Q: First of all, I posted a few days ago and I may have given a wrong email address. It is similar to ...
A: Bryan, I am sure that you have read my last advice. I had suggested that if she did not change that ...
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| how to show love | 7/6/2009 |
Q: I am the jealous type husband. Been married 4 years and i have come along way and relaxed with alot ...
A: James, I am not sure that something you don’t like is reason to be jealous. Texting has become an ...
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| second marriage | 7/5/2009 |
Q: Well, here goes. I am 51 and my wife is 42. My previous marriage lasted for 24 years and i have two ...
A: Bryan, You sound like you have come to the end of your wits. Your wife sounds like she has taken you ...
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| husband's addiction | 7/1/2009 |
Q: I caught my husband on the computer again looking at naked girls or women. Now we've been married ...
A: Monika, I can understand that you would like to get your life back to normal. You have to look at ...
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| Question about our anger | 6/16/2009 |
Q: I have had a great husband for the last 3 years. I just had my secand child and things have gone ...
A: Laura, Well this sounds like the second child has set things off. I am not saying that it is the ...
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| trust issue & acusations | 6/9/2009 |
Q: my wife constantly accuses me of being with other women and degrades me hates the idea of me going ...
A: Syd, I have to say that the Bible does have answers, but it also needs to be useful. If she is ...
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| Jelousy | 6/8/2009 |
Q: My husband and I are both Christians. We are both middle aged and have been married less than five ...
A: Elma, I am sure that your psychiatrist has told you that to have feelings for your therapist is a ...
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| Romance | 6/4/2009 |
Q: I know that my husband loves me very much. But I dont receive hugs or kisses from. I do get very ...
A: Merlin, I am not really sure that you can make someone romantic. I believe that if you can openly ...
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| Marriage in Sepration | 6/2/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have only been married 9 months and now we are separated. First let me lay some ...
A: Steve, I understand that this is your first marriage, but you are 50 and should have a basic ...
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| I'm confused | 5/27/2009 |
Q: Where to start. I have been with my husband for 14yrs, but married 4. He had a really bad alcohol ...
A: Alicia, I cannot imagine a pastor that would not want to save a marriage. I would always tell a ...
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| husband and his friend and friend's wife. | 5/20/2009 |
Q: I am having marital problems and one of the big issues in our marriage is my husband's obsession ...
A: Leah, This is a new one for me so here goes. The level of interference from this couple in your ...
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| her and her ex | 5/20/2009 |
Q: I recently saw an e-mail from my wife ex to her about the way they used to be. since then I've ...
A: Rico, The only thing I can think about in this situation is they were married and it sounds like ...
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| what to do? | 5/20/2009 |
Q: My husband lies and even about stupid things. We have been together off and on over 10 years...I met ...
A: Sandy, I can understand where you are with this man of yours. I am sure that if you feel he has ...
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| Marital Woes | 5/19/2009 |
Q: 2009-05-15 10:39:09 I am Tired of it! Having been married 10 years I thought I knew my dh.Instead ...
A: Julie, I hear you saying that you are already done with him. I would be the first one to say that if ...
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| wives and bars | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I am to be married in 1 month to the most beautiful woman. We have a child together but live apart. ...
A: Mario, The first question I have for you is this. If you are getting married in a month have you ...
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| gift | 5/12/2009 |
Q: My husband has a nephew who he hasn’t spoken to or seen in MANY years. The reason is because of his ...
A: Alexis, I can see your point very clear. I think that you have a valid point to your husband. $100 ...
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| Can I trust my husband again? | 5/9/2009 |
Q: Need a Christian Perspective: I have been married for almost 4 years. Our relationship used to be ...
A: Patrice, I can see where you are and understand completely. He did not need to be all up in her ...
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| Deployed | 5/9/2009 |
Q: I have a wife and a daughter and have been married for one year. But for the last 9 months I have ...
A: Leo, I think that you should expect your wife not to be involved with an inappropriate relationship ...
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| i cant trust my husband | 5/8/2009 |
Q: My husband & I met in college and have ben together for four yrs, we married a 1yr & a half ago and ...
A: Ave, I had to read your question a few times. Something just struck me as odd. If your husband says ...
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| Household out of control. | 4/30/2009 |
Q: I am feeling terribly confused about wether I am the problem or I am being unreasonable. I am in a ...
A: Nathan, The number one issue here seems to be your 12 year old step son. He sounds like he is out ...
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| Everything is wrong | 4/23/2009 |
Q: I was married once before to a drug addict. I was then a single parent with 3 children. I met and ...
A: Carrie, I do not know your husband but he sounds like he is concerned. He is from my assessment not ...
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| Husband tells me I'm mental and need help | 4/14/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 25 years. All was great until he started working out of town ...
A: Donna, If this behavior has been happening for a long time it may be hard to change. Your husband ...
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| Mother-in-law destroying marriage | 4/2/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been together for three years now and we've got a two year old daughter and I ...
A: John, I am not sure what you can do to save the marriage. I have seen this many times before but it ...
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| my husband treats me like I'm dumb | 4/1/2009 |
Q: why does my husband always talk to me like I'm dumb? I love him very much, but, when I'm sad and ...
A: Julia, I would have to say in this case here that you may want to start looking for a place to ...
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| my husband treats me like I'm dumb | 4/1/2009 |
Q: why does my husband always talk to me like I'm dumb? I love him very much, but, when I'm sad and ...
A: Julia, This is a little hard because you didn't let me know what you have already tried so here ...
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| Crossing the Boundaries | 3/31/2009 |
Q: My widowed mother lives with my wife and family. I travel for work leaving my wife to being the care ...
A: Billy, That helps much more with a little more info and a clear question. You and your wife should ...
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| My Husband left me.... | 3/25/2009 |
Q: I'm replying to the first reply I had gotten. My husband didn't go to the club because the woman ...
A: Bev, When a man shows signs of caring that can be just habit. I know that sometimes we all do ...
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| lost feelings | 3/25/2009 |
Q: My husband left me for 7 wks and lived with another woman for most of that time. I prayed everyday ...
A: Debbie, I am not sure that your feelings will leave you. I am sure that if you love him then you ...
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| lost feelings | 3/24/2009 |
Q: My husband left me for 7 wks and lived with another woman for most of that time. I prayed everyday ...
A: Debbie, I have to say as a pastor I would want to meet with someone having these issues. If I would ...
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| I am married but i want to leave and get out | 3/24/2009 |
Q: How do go about this, I have married for 23yrs, now child is grown and left. all the hurt and is ...
A: The first thing you need to do is to contact a lawyer. If you want any kind of protection then a ...
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| Pursuing a woman | 3/20/2009 |
Q: How does a man pursue a woman. How does a man show he is in love with her and interested in her. ...
A: Dana, I do not think normal guys would ask a girlfriend for 4000 dollars. If he is asking you for ...
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| Husbands ex girlfriends | 3/18/2009 |
Q: My husband was dating this girl who was 8 months pregnant. They broke up when the child was 8 months ...
A: Kim, You are right to feel the way you do here. He does need to not focus on this other women’s ...
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| lost feelings | 3/13/2009 |
Q: My husband left me for 7 wks and lived with another woman for most of that time. I prayed everyday ...
A: Debbie, If he is telling you that he does not love you like a wife. The first thing to ask is does ...
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| Money | 3/4/2009 |
Q: We have been married for 20 years, 2 children. Our marriage was based upon the the love of Christ. ...
A: Jeff, Consider this small comfort. When you have a right relationship with Christ then you gain ...
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| how do I get through to him? | 3/4/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years and always have been able to talk and ...
A: Dot, The first and most important thing to remember is that he is not saved. I would not say that ...
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| husband can't let go of ex | 3/3/2009 |
Q: We have been married a little over two years. During this time he has repeatedly had difficulty ...
A: Kare, The divided heart may be a psychological event because of the co-dependence. He needs to get ...
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| Money | 3/3/2009 |
Q: We have been married for 20 years, 2 children. Our marriage was based upon the the love of Christ. ...
A: Jeff, The idea that you are admitting to being a hypocrite is a start. If you know that you are ...
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| Marriage | 3/3/2009 |
Q: I have been with my husband for 21 years we have not had sex in 2 years. We are 46 and 47. We have ...
A: BJ, I had to look up you sons disorder and found it to be very interesting. I have been around ...
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| husband can't let go of ex | 3/2/2009 |
Q: We have been married a little over two years. During this time he has repeatedly had difficulty ...
A: Kare, He may just not be willing to let go because she made him feel like he could not do anything ...
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| my cousin Chad | 3/2/2009 |
Q: My cousin Chad is married with 3 young children ages 3 to 14. His wife is having an extramarrital ...
A: Lori, The first thing he can do is to have her removed from any accounts that she is joint on. He ...
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| whats in a denomination?? | 2/26/2009 |
Q: I am a baby in Christ. I attend an Apostolic/Holiness church and my pastor is always talking about ...
A: Zach, I understand how you feel about this pastor. So many pastors that are old forget that the ...
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| cheating | 2/24/2009 |
Q: My husband has cheated on me through out our 45 year marriage. He has always flirted with woman ...
A: Ann, I have no question here that I can see. I do encourage you to just remember that you have been ...
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| Should I stay or go | 2/23/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 27 years, for about 20 years of our marriage my husband has gone ...
A: Ida, I am not sure that your husband is sure what he wants. he seems to have a personality that ...
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| husband -wife relationship | 2/19/2009 |
Q: My husband has a ffriend (girl) from last 10 years before our marriage too, she used to call him up ...
A: Rudi, I think that you can solve this if he will stop spending so much time with her. He should ...
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| Wife hates me 15 days after marriage and wants divorce | 2/18/2009 |
Q: Now it has been 2 months after my marriage. Just two weeks after marriage wife went back to her home ...
A: Alex, If she hates you and does not want to be with you there is not much you can do. If she is ...
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| marriage | 2/17/2009 |
Q: What I'm supposed to do when my husband is very disrespectfully, calling me names, never reveals our ...
A: Ramesh, I am not sure that what I will tell you will help. I base my advice on the Word of God and ...
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| Sex and Trust Issues | 2/11/2009 |
Q: I have two issues. #1. My husband doesn't seem to want to have sex w/ me very often. It's pretty ...
A: There are several men who are just shy and scared of sex. They are worried that they will not be ...
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| marital problems | 1/31/2009 |
Q: been married for 4 years having met my husband 10 years ago while he was still married but was not ...
A: Emily, I am sure that times will get better. When we find times getting tough we have to depend on ...
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| The Intimacy in my Marriage is Gone | 1/31/2009 |
Q: My husband and I are both Bible believing Christians. We've been married about five years. I was 39 ...
A: The best thing you can do at this point is have him get some medical help. He is at the age that he ...
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| marriage | 1/26/2009 |
Q: "I'm a Christian but rather still "new" in the lord. Back in 2005 I met a man who was from another ...
A: Sandra, I am happy to give you some perspective. You did the right thing with the divorce. I would ...
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| my marriage | 1/26/2009 |
Q: I have been married for about 2 years now. My husband has 3 children from a previous marriage and ...
A: Lynessa, You do not deserve to be treated this way. If he wants you to stay then he needs to learn ...
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| Husband hanging out with another woman | 1/25/2009 |
Q: I was recently married this past June and have a 4 month old baby. My husband had asked me if it ...
A: MIchelle, There would be a few questions I would ask you. Does he really enjoy mountain biking and ...
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| Separation | 1/22/2009 |
Q: My wife and me separated this past Saturday its being very hard on me I miss her so much and I ...
A: Juan, I would suggest at this point to give her some space. If you want a chance to get her back ...
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| relationship with husband | 1/17/2009 |
Q: My husband swears he loves me but I cannot get him to spend any time with me at all. We live in a ...
A: Jan, He sounds like he may just not know how to be close to you. He may think that he is just not ...
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| A selfish, self-centered husband | 1/17/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years. We're both active in our church and Christians. ...
A: Sheri, I am sure that he may be unintentional in his actions. Guys sometimes do not know how to sa ...
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| Is this how a marriage typically ends? | 1/16/2009 |
Q: Four months ago I came home from work to discover that my husband of 3 years (together for 7) had ...
A: Jenny, I have not seen to many guys that would do this. He sounds like he did not have enough guts ...
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| Debate over where to live! | 1/15/2009 |
Q: My wife and I are newly married and expecting our first child. We live in the outer suburbs of a ...
A: I would have to side with you. The city is really no place to live for a child. I know there a lot ...
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| Marriage or Divorce | 1/13/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 5 years although living with him for 4 years. He is an immigrant and we ...
A: This sounds like a marriage that is in no way based on love and partnership. If you can leave him ...
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| Ex-girlfriends and lovers | 1/7/2009 |
Q: Do you think it is appropriate for a married man to continue to have a close relationship with an ex ...
A: Rita, You are not out of line to expect him to end the long talks. If they need help from him and ...
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| i don't like my husband | 1/6/2009 |
Q: my husband and i just had our 8th anniversary a couple weeks ago. i am really confused because i do ...
A: to answer your final question. I have seen people get divorced for porn because if you commit it in ...
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| i don't like my husband | 1/5/2009 |
Q: my husband and i just had our 8th anniversary a couple weeks ago. i am really confused because i do ...
A: Elizabeth, This sounds like you need to speak to your pastor. This is just exactly what they are ...
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| relaionship and sleeping with dog | 1/4/2009 |
Q: Gladu - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, it's all been fairly good although we have ...
A: Barb, The only thing I can think of is to tell him the dog has to sleep somewhere else. I know that ...
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| Does this constitute psychological abuse? | 1/2/2009 |
Q: I am writing to you because I am currently separated from my husband of 10 years, he left about 4 ...
A: Charlene, The issues that you have sound like you are going in the right direction. If you both ...
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| hello | 1/1/2009 |
Q: I'm beginning to stress badly!!! Me and my wife of 8 months are struggling...things are going down ...
A: Shaine, you gave me a lot of info about you but little about your wife. If you think she may have a ...
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| is my husband dominant and a dictator? | 12/19/2008 |
Q: tim "i am 28 1/2 old woman married for 4 1/2 yrs.I am an Indian citizen. i m not at all happy with ...
A: Neha, I have to tell you that I do not understand your culture and can not answer to any of those ...
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| cleaning | 12/19/2008 |
Q: My wife and I are both 40 and married 15 years with 3 kids. She is a stay at home mom and I work ...
A: Scott, I can understand how you feel and why you would expect her to clean. She may have never been ...
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| How to make your husband a priority | 12/18/2008 |
Q: 32 yrs. of marriage, an affair that lasted 1 year I had with a married man (2-1/2 yrs. ago), cut off ...
A: Debbie, I would say that you just have to sit him down and ask him what he expects. Make him give ...
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| Adultery and Forgiveness | 12/15/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 11 years. My story is like many others. I've had a normal, happy, ...
A: Tony, I think you are right about the depression. She does need some major help and if she is not ...
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| Help! Not so happy right now | 12/13/2008 |
Q: Sorry for the length of this, but I think I need to give a little background. I have been married ...
A: Laurie, I am sure that he may have just been telling the truth. I can agree that sometimes you ...
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| spouse employed in corrections | 12/12/2008 |
Q: How can I help my Christian husband cope with the life and atmosphere of working in a prison? He has ...
A: Kim, He has to find a way to let go before he comes home. The best way to do that is to exercise or ...
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| My husband. | 12/10/2008 |
Q: My husband always blame for everything.Yesterday was our anniversary and I was talking about y ...
A: Shauntay, I am sure that you are aware that your husband is not treating you very well. He is a man ...
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| Husband wants a roommate | 12/4/2008 |
Q: Married May 2008. I agreed to keep 50 yr-old male roommate in the house when we first got married, ...
A: Elle, I am sure that you are not sure how to really speak to your husband. You have to let him know ...
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| Wife says has resentment/Doesnt think I will change | 11/18/2008 |
Q: she with her mother and me working to pay bills and such from a far. We have been having trouble, I ...
A: Mark, I understand exactly where you are. My wife lives about 2 and 1/2 hours away and comes home ...
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| My husband spends more time with friends than me and our children | 11/12/2008 |
Q: How do I explain to my husband the importance of spending time with his wife and children versus his ...
A: Missy, He sounds like he is having some trouble accepting his life with you and the kids. he wants ...
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| grief and my husband | 11/10/2008 |
Q: Three months ago we lost our 48 year old son to primary liver cancer. I am unable to hide my grief ...
A: Gail, You have been through something that will take some time to deal with. I would not want you ...
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| my wife | 11/4/2008 |
Q: i have been married for 5 years and i have been with my wife for 8. for the first 6 years we never ...
A: Bruce, I do understand where you are and how you are feeling. I felt the same way you do about my ...
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| She is so close to her ex and I don't understand why | 11/2/2008 |
Q: I've been with my fiancee for 4 months. We're more like high school sweethearts. The only problem I ...
A: Alex, She needs to end the relationship with this guy. If you are going to be able to have a chance ...
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| Husband says he doesn't love me | 10/31/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for three years. We have a two year old daughter, and he ...
A: Nancy, I am really unclear what you are really asking. He sounds like he has maybe been talking to ...
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| Ex-wife issues, are they my issues or his?? | 10/28/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have only been married a couple of months after dating for about 2 years. This is ...
A: Deb, It sounds like he is just trying to hold on to his old life. he needs to completely end it ...
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| how to reconnect | 10/28/2008 |
Q: It is 3 days from my 9th anniversary, and I feel so far away from my husband. We are a christian ...
A: Amber, I am sure that this may sound like a pastor answer but here goes. I would recommend that you ...
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| Loveless Marriage | 10/28/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 18 years and have 3 children. Before we got married, I had ...
A: Mary, The first thing you have to do is to speak to your husband about all this. he needs to know ...
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| Husband's authority over wife | 10/27/2008 |
Q: We are newly married Christians. My husband decided to "exercise his authority" over me in a trial ...
A: Meichell, You husband needs to understand the difference between submissive and authority. The ...
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| my marraige | 10/27/2008 |
Q: recently I talked to a family memeber about an issue I was having with my husband and she in turn ...
A: The only thing I can think of is to prove it. You will have to show that the brother is lying and ...
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| marital problem | 10/23/2008 |
Q: i work 60 hrs. a week.my husband stays home with the kids after school.he leaves all the housework ...
A: K.S. I have to take a page from my own life here. I did a lot of the things your husband did. I ...
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| married for 24 yrs but thinking of leaving | 10/22/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 24 years, and we have 6 children, for the past 22 years my husband has slept ...
A: Lulu, The chances are that he will continue to try more and more depraved types of porn. When and ...
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| married for 24 yrs but thinking of leaving | 10/21/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 24 years, and we have 6 children, for the past 22 years my husband has slept ...
A: Lulu, You have really thought this out and already said many of the things I would advise. Your ...
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| wife has no time for us | 10/20/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for about 3 1/2 years. My wife works a lot. so much I feel like a ...
A: MIke, She sounds like she is trying to avoid taking care of your baby. Some women do not want to be ...
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| marriage | 10/16/2008 |
Q: I think a lot about my husband and myself breaking off our 5 year marriage, then I remember my kids. ...
A: April, The only thing you could do at this point is to call his bluff. If he thinks that you will ...
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| Marriage | 10/10/2008 |
Q: Do a wife come before everyone else except for God?
A: Antoinette, The book of Ephesians tells men that they are to love their wives as their self. We are ...
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| I need help! | 10/9/2008 |
Q: I am unsure of how to proceed with my wife. Quite frankly, if not for our 2 year old daughter, I ...
A: Chris, Your wife sounds like she may need to have some major counseling. I understand where you are ...
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| wife has a male friend she keeps calling | 10/7/2008 |
Q: I was wondering about my wifes relationship with a single male friend. This guy is a friend of my ...
A: You may just need to confront him. If he has any honor then he will see that you love your wife and ...
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| my wife is driving me crazy and treating me as a child | 10/7/2008 |
Q: Why my wife keep accusing me of things I am not doing and why do she keep treating me as I am a ...
A: Charles, The best Christian advice I can give is this. She needs to respect you as head of ...
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| Out all night | 10/6/2008 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 6 years.He has been to AA for drinking and quit.But recently ...
A: Amanda, You sound to me that you have already handled the situation. He may need to really consider ...
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| Not sure if Im right or wrong in this matter | 10/2/2008 |
Q: I have been married 25 years to my husband, we have 2 daughters, ages 17 and 18 years of age. My ...
A: Sandra, I agree that Bill needs to be more responsible. You are not being harsh and he needs to ...
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| WIFE | 9/20/2008 |
Q: I AM NOT WORKING RIGHT NOW SO I AM AROUND THE HOUSE MORE THAN NORMAL, BUT EVEN WHEN I WORK, MY WIFE ...
A: Brian, She is trying to get a better job I am sure that is why she is taking classes. The best ...
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| Cheating Spouse... | 9/20/2008 |
Q: Tim, I was informed about a month ago now, that my husband of 8 months was cheating. I was told by ...
A: You will need to start by just simply giving him the gospel. This will give him the truth and the ...
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| WIFE | 9/19/2008 |
Q: I AM NOT WORKING RIGHT NOW SO I AM AROUND THE HOUSE MORE THAN NORMAL, BUT EVEN WHEN I WORK, MY WIFE ...
A: Brian, The first thing you have to do is to find a way to ignore what she is doing. Make it appear ...
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| Cheating Spouse... | 9/18/2008 |
Q: Tim, I was informed about a month ago now, that my husband of 8 months was cheating. I was told by ...
A: Georgette, If you truly do not want to leave him then don't. You never have to have a divorce, that ...
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| Is He Telling The Truth???????? | 9/16/2008 |
Q: My husband had an affair that started on May13. I was in China for 2 weeks when he had me her. She ...
A: Susan, I am not really sure what you are asking so here goes. He sounds like he is hiding something ...
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| Celebrating special occasion | 9/16/2008 |
Q: My husband & I have been married for 15 years & we're both Christians. He's not very thoughtful & ...
A: Christel, Well he should at least try to make a date for just the two of you to be alone and make ...
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| Celebrating special occasion | 9/16/2008 |
Q: My husband & I have been married for 15 years & we're both Christians. He's not very thoughtful & ...
A: Christel, You should get treated special on your birthday. You are not wrong for feeling this way, ...
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| its our marriage going to last? | 9/12/2008 |
Q: . im 20 i been married for almost 5 month and it seems like for a long time.. my husband and i been ...
A: Massiel, The first thing you have to remember is that marriage is not a sprint. Marriage is a ...
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| Stay or go? | 9/6/2008 |
Q: I've been married for 7 years. We have a 19 month old and I am 3 months pregnant. My husband ...
A: Tami, The wise thing to do would be to stay. When you look at the big sceme him slipping and ...
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| Husband has no interest in sex | 9/4/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have only been married for 2.5 months. We dated for about 2 years prior and had a ...
A: Anne, This is very hard to answer without his side. You need to have him checked out. If he is ...
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| My girlfiend is getting distant. | 9/3/2008 |
Q: I met this girl over a year ago. We had been working together at a Shoprite (we're both 21). On our ...
A: James, you need to let her go because she is about to enter into a different world. I know from ...
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| do I wait | 9/1/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. He left a marriage before we got together, ...
A: Sam, If they are still married then he should try to go back to his wife. You both may have been ...
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| Confussion | 8/31/2008 |
Q: How do i prove to my husband that i have been faithfl to him? He has gone beyond the limits to ...
A: Lori, He sounds like he has some really major trust issues. He needs to seek some major counseling. ...
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| Confussion | 8/30/2008 |
Q: How do i prove to my husband that i have been faithfl to him? He has gone beyond the limits to ...
A: Lori, I am not sure what you are really asking. The only thing I can think of is maybe ask him for ...
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| unhappy marriage-newly separated | 8/28/2008 |
Q: I will try to keep this brief, but there is a lot of background info. My seventh anniversary is in 3 ...
A: Charlene, The information you have given me has painted a clear picture. You feel that you have an ...
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| boy problems | 8/25/2008 |
Q: i had this ex boyfriend last year, Joey. and he was a little older then me, and we went out for ...
A: Kori, I know that at 15 you feel that this is the guy for you. You have a few years before you can ...
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| Wife has fallen out of love | 8/25/2008 |
Q: Dr. Tim, March of 2005, my wife admitted to having been in an affair for several years. Initially, ...
A: Chuck, You are not wrong for feeling thrown away. She has to realize that she is the one that ...
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| boy problems | 8/25/2008 |
Q: i had this ex boyfriend last year, Joey. and he was a little older then me, and we went out for ...
A: Kori, Not knowing your age I have one thing. You need to listen to your parents. They are looking ...
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| Abused Spouse Support for Husband | 8/22/2008 |
Q: My wife was sexually abused as a child. To make a long story short, I signed us up for counciling ...
A: Phil, I will give you a list of books that you will be able to find online or maybe Amazon. ...
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| Husband is not spending enough quality/alone time with me | 8/19/2008 |
Q: Dr. Gladu, I am a recent newlywed and haved lived with my husband for 8 months. He has a very, very ...
A: Amy, You are right to belive that he feels that he does not to do anything special. He has found ...
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| My Feelings Don't Matter | 8/19/2008 |
Q: My fiancee and I have been dating for a little over a year. We're getting married in 6 weeks. I ...
A: Niki, You are right about the abandoned issue. He has never been taught that a mother/woman needs ...
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| Family Tree - Online | 8/6/2008 |
Q: We recently began using a family tree online service to keep our family in touch. My fiance is ...
A: Scott, If you have children with your ex then she is in the family tree. Your fiancé may not ...
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| Social life | 8/6/2008 |
Q: Glad, I am 57 years old.I am still in good shape and try to keep myself attractive.I work part time ...
A: Linda, This sounds like he is just a little insecure about you. He wants you to know that he ...
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| the ex and him are going on vacation together with their kid!!! | 8/5/2008 |
Q: I started dating this guy who has a child with his ex. The child is turning 5 years old soon and he ...
A: Sara, The only reason that I can think that they would want to take the child together is for the ...
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| shall i wait or let him go? | 8/4/2008 |
Q: Me and my husband has been married for 5 yrs now and then last yr. he was cheating on me. We broke ...
A: Jane, You need to be strong and just make what you want clear to him. If he wants to have you back ...
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| credit cards | 8/4/2008 |
Q: i recently filed for a divorce on grounds on physical abuse after 11 years. We have a six year old ...
A: Elishia, I do not really know the answer to this question. If you are on the account you should ...
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| mariange | 8/1/2008 |
Q: my husband and I have been mariage for about 1 yr and a half now. We meet at work and soon fell in ...
A: Sarah, The first thing you need to do is to get into some good counseling. The balance that you ...
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| Ex wife problems | 7/31/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for seven months. We're both in our late 40's. My problem is ...
A: Sandy, Sounds like your husband needs to decide who he wants to be with. If he is married to you ...
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| privacy in a marriage | 7/23/2008 |
Q: How much privacy is normal in a marriage. My husband has had an affair during our short marriage ...
A: Tammy, There is a certain level of privacy in marriage. I do not check my wives e-mail and cell ...
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| unfaithful wife | 7/22/2008 |
Q: my wife has told me she loves another man and she wants out our marrage she told me she cares for me ...
A: Jose, Your wife has already moved on and it sounds like you may just need to allow her to move on ...
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| I'm born again, my husband is an atheist | 7/16/2008 |
Q: Well, for starters a little backgound. I was raised in a christian home & until recently (past 2 ...
A: Ann, You are doing the right thing. He will not fully understand you and your beliefs until He has ...
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| im getting married but i am very jealous! | 7/16/2008 |
Q: my name is Joy, im 19 and I am getting married at the end of the summer in August, but I have a real ...
A: Joy, You need to make sure that you speak to your husband to be about this soon. He needs to know ...
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| marriage | 7/13/2008 |
Q: I dont know if my wife really loves me like i love her..we have been married for 1 year.i work ...
A: Bo, Women are a mystery to us all. They are so much different and hard to understand that sometimes ...
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| Feelings of Inadequacy? -coping through hardship to maintain commitment | 7/12/2008 |
Q: I've lived on my own since @ 22 (literally alone in a rented room or together with ...
A: Mark, You sound like you are at a turning point. The best course of action at this point would be ...
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| Marriage Separation | 6/25/2008 |
Q: Last year in May I found excessive text message. I tracked them back to March and there were many ...
A: Debbie, The question you have to ask is do I want to stay married or get divorced. Your husband has ...
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| married but living alone | 6/23/2008 |
Q: MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS AND HAVE ONE CHILD. WHEN MY SON WAS AROUND 2 MY ...
A: Lynn, The first thing you have to do is to reconnect with your husband. he has lost out on so much ...
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| Marriage Issues | 6/20/2008 |
Q: Dr. Gladu, My husband & I are both 40, we've been married 8yrs and have 1 child. I'm not sure that ...
A: Lynda, You do have a chance to save both your marriage and yourself. You need to get some ...
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| me and my wife | 6/19/2008 |
Q: please help me i feel as if him going out of my mind with worry and grief .my wife and i have been ...
A: Ken, If you want to have a chance with her this is what needs to happen. You both need to be ...
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| Husband's Behavior | 6/12/2008 |
Q: I've been married to my husband coming up on 3 years. Before that I dated him for close to 5 years. ...
A: Linny, The type of behavior that he is displaying is a bit unusual. He is either seeing someone ...
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| Confused! | 6/11/2008 |
Q: My husband and I met in 2003. We began dating and after three months of dating seriously we decided ...
A: Dee, You sound like you have already made your decision. You have moved forward and put him and his ...
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| arguments over dogs | 6/8/2008 |
Q: I have a small but big problem and hope that it can be helped. I've been browsing and looking for ...
A: David, I can understand that you would not want a dog. This is one of those issues that should not ...
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| diffrence of hights ? | 6/7/2008 |
Q: One guy wants to ask my hand, i like all his qualities, but something make me not sure. He is a ...
A: Miss, I really do not understand your measurements. I deal in inches and pounds. I can see that ...
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| Celibate marraige | 6/6/2008 |
Q: My husband & I have been married 26 years. In the first 16, sex was very infrequent, with my ...
A: Ruth, The number one thing you need to do is get your husband to the doctor. I would think that he ...
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| my husband lies and deceives me | 6/2/2008 |
Q: i recently started to read my husbands emails,they are inappropriate as support emotional ...
A: Sharon, The first thing to remember is that you have to first examine your own behavior and ...
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| silent treatment | 5/31/2008 |
Q: Gladu, Hi,I hope you're fine and in good condition.,I would like to seek ur advise regarding my ...
A: Hunnie, The first thing to remember is that most guys do not like confrontation. He may just think ...
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| Why does my wife fuss all the time? | 5/31/2008 |
Q: What makes my wife fuss all the time?She takes my smallest mistake and turns it into a mountain. I ...
A: William, After 21 years of marriage the best advice I can give you is this. Listen to your wife she ...
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| husband has lost interest in sex life and time alone with wife | 5/30/2008 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for almost 4 years now, in the beginning the sex was great but ...
A: Susan, The best way to proceed at this point is to give you husband a ultimatum. He needs to ...
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| husband has lost interest in sex life and time alone with wife | 5/29/2008 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for almost 4 years now, in the beginning the sex was great but ...
A: Susan, This sounds like your husband has forgot that you have the need for intimacy more then even ...
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| Paying Bills | 5/7/2008 |
Q: My wife tends to think that it is my sole responsibility to pay all of the bills and the money she ...
A: I am going to give you some scripture on husbands and wives. No where does it say the man has to pay ...
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| Paying Bills | 5/7/2008 |
Q: My wife tends to think that it is my sole responsibility to pay all of the bills and the money she ...
A: Reg, I understand where you are coming from. I also have this same issue. I take care of most of ...
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| smoking pot | 5/6/2008 |
Q: I have been caught smoking pot again by my wife she told me the last time this would be the last ...
A: Ed, The best thing for you to do is to stop smoking Pot. When you get the urge do something else. I ...
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| Re: Not feeling the love | 5/4/2008 |
Q: I saw an answer you gave to a woman that actually sort of sounded like you thought divorce was an ...
A: Lisa, I try to give answers based on the available information. I also do not usually suggest ...
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| how can i help him forgive | 5/3/2008 |
Q: my husband and i have been married for 4 years. our marriage wasn't perfect but we were happy.last ...
A: Melisa, This may not be all that easy. You have both done wrong and you are both going to have to ...
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| My Marriage | 5/2/2008 |
Q: I have a problem. My husband and I have been together for 16 yrs.My problem is that he does not seem ...
A: Betty, The best thing you can do is not to dwell on the bad look at the good. If he is spending all ...
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| marriage problems | 5/1/2008 |
Q: me and my husband have been married for 8 years and been fighting on and off now the whole marriage ...
A: Kitty, You have every right to want to protect your children. I know that when my daughter did not ...
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| Pregnancy | 4/30/2008 |
Q: My wife is 5 months pregnant and looking more beautiful than ever. It seems like every time we talk, ...
A: Andrew, During pregnancy women do have different ideas and their personality may be different from ...
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| Wife is Jealous of Friends | 4/24/2008 |
Q: Let me give you my scenario and then I will ask you my question. My husband and I have been married ...
A: Monica, Wanting to spend time with your husband is fine. jealousy is not a good thing, but you ...
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| seperation | 4/24/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 13 years. Just recently he has been in a depression and has ...
A: Laurie, If he is abusive then you need to get away from him. There is never a good reason to hit ...
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| I'm Hurting | 4/23/2008 |
Q: My husabnd left me with a 3yr old and ever since he left it's been lonely and it's been hard for me ...
A: I do not think you are a fool you just want things to work out for the better. let him go and move ...
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| My husband's temper | 4/23/2008 |
Q: I've been with my husband two years and in that time I've never been afraid of him but for him ...
A: Delilah, he sounds like he is showing signs of Bi-polar personality. he has highs and lows. The ...
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| Wait or go... | 4/15/2008 |
Q: ..I have been married for almost 3 years now and I have been w/ my husband for about 4 years. When ...
A: Vee, You sound like you have already made up your mind. He has not been able to really see what he ...
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| HELP! I HAVE AFFECTION ISSUES | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I have been in a serious relationship for 7 years now with someone who I know is the one for me. ...
A: Philishia, Well the first advice I have to give is simple. You need to be married to be thinking ...
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| my husband | 4/2/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been arguing so much more since the birth of our son back in Jan. 07'. He'll ...
A: Tammi, Your husband sounds like he may be going through some kind of depression. he is showing the ...
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| my husband | 3/28/2008 |
Q: i even started to think he was cheating on me he stared coming home from work later not to much ...
A: Neva, Just from what you have described it sounds like he is depressed. He is displaying all the ...
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| Wife doesn't want to have children | 3/14/2008 |
Q: Good morning, My wife and I have been married for a year, and both love each other more every day. ...
A: Paul, You wife needs to get with some good reproductive counseling. She needs to understand what ...
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| Big Changes! | 3/12/2008 |
Q: I'm 22, I've been living with my boyfriend and his daughter for 2 years. I moved from family, ...
A: Chris, If you are going to school and will not be close enough to live together then you will find ...
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| Husband not wanting to attend church | 3/11/2008 |
Q: I've been saved for over 15 yrs. my husband of 8 years has been saved for 8 yrs. Has expressed no ...
A: Yolie, You can not hold yourself responsible for him. He is making his choice clear. You still need ...
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| Trying to Turn Marriage Around | 3/11/2008 |
Q: Dr. Gladu - My wife and I have been married for almost 14 years (we have no children). It's been a ...
A: JG, I think that you are heading in the right direction. Women need to know that you are going to ...
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| husband wants friendship with woman from his past that he says he never had sex with. | 3/5/2008 |
Q: I was devasted today to learn that my husband had been emailing back and forth with a woman who was ...
A: Anna, You may be over reacting a little. I know that I had friends that were girls and I have ...
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| Husband upset about cop-calling | 3/3/2008 |
Q: Two months ago my husband and I got into an argument about me spending too much money on a birthday ...
A: Brealyn, I do not think you were wrong to call the cops. if someone has become violent then they ...
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| How to rebuild trust, sex life. etc | 2/28/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are christians. We have been married for 12 years and have 3 children. I caught ...
A: Carla, You sound to me that you are doing all the right things. The marriage counseling. The faith ...
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| Husband's lack of character | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I filed for divorce one year ago after 11 years and we have a four year old daughter. From the ...
A: Shannon, The bazaar behavior is something that will be a life long thing. Continue to be strong for ...
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| Just don't know | 2/26/2008 |
Q: I am 37, my husband is 34. We have been married for almost 8 years. During the 8 yr marriage we have ...
A: Lisa, You are very away of your situation. So many people have no idea of what is going on. You ...
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| abusive wife/ should i reconcile | 2/24/2008 |
Q: i have been married for 4yrs, my wife and i have two girls, ages one and two. i am a computer tech ...
A: Dame, She needs to make the first move toward reconciliation. She has been the one to start and it ...
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| extended family | 2/23/2008 |
Q: my husband & I have been married for more than 3 years but living all this time in different ...
A: Di, I am not one to advocate divorce, but in your case this is what I suggest. If you have not ...
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| Wife wants a Divorce | 2/16/2008 |
Q: First let me start out by saying both my wife and I are Christians. On July 20, 2007 my wife left me ...
A: Bennie, You have to do what is right for you and your family. If you can relocate to where your ...
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| how to leave | 2/12/2008 |
Q: i am in a 7 year marriage/10 year relationship to an unfaithful husband. he constantly cheats all ...
A: Lisa, You need to tell him that you are going to leave and the house needs to be sold. If he ...
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| How Husband Treats Me VS How He Treats Others | 2/2/2008 |
Q: I have been married for many years, it seems I am always hoping and praying that my marriage will ...
A: Lisa, The first thing I would suggest is to get some time for yourself. Tell him that you are going ...
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| Marriage/submission | 1/23/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been separated for 6 months, after many years of mental and verbal abuse. ...
A: Angela, He is committing just as big a sin as you are so he has no ground to stand on. You are to ...
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| Marriage advice and how to deal with it | 1/23/2008 |
Q: my husband left me 6 weeks ago now, saying that we were over and that was it,he is staying in a ...
A: Dawn, I believe that you husband may just need to be away from you for a while. I think you should ...
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| Porn | 1/16/2008 |
Q: I am a 21 year old christian and am to be married this August. My fiance told me before we started ...
A: Jessica, Guys do some times have a little bit of an issue with visual stimuli. He can control it if ...
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| My wife will not let me bring the kids to see my mother | 1/15/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 10 years. My wife has never cared for my mother. It got bad when my son was ...
A: Mike, you are in a tough situation. I have been there in a way. My wife and mother did not get ...
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| Calloused Heart | 1/11/2008 |
Q: My husband Michael is a great father, devout Christian, excellent employee for his company, he's ...
A: Lavica, The loss of libido in males is usually because of low testosterone levels. This is ...
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| why my husband refuse to discuss the 20 yrs. affair with the same women | 1/8/2008 |
Q: my husband had a 20year affair with the clean up woman at work.ijust found out 6months ago he refuse ...
A: Bonnie, If you want to save the marriage, then you have to be willing to seek counseling. Start ...
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| step children are ruining my marriage | 1/7/2008 |
Q: I have been married for almost two years now. My husband and I both had 4 children from our previous ...
A: Jody, The best thing you can do at this point is to get some counseling. if you truly want to save ...
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| My wife online | 1/7/2008 |
Q: My wife has been openly flirting online with a man from Morocco on Skype. I found his phone number ...
A: Mike, She should not be flirting with guys online. This is not right behavior. Make it clear how ...
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| Calloused Heart | 1/4/2008 |
Q: My husband Michael is a great father, devout Christian, excellent employee for his company, he's ...
A: Lavica, I am not sure what to say. I did not see any question, so here goes. I feel that in love ...
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| Marriage Intimacy | 1/3/2008 |
Q: Dr. Gladu, Thanks for reading my inquiry. I have been married to my wife for almost two years. ...
A: Juan, With not to much to go on there is little to say. The first thing I would think is that there ...
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| why wouldn't he stop? | 1/2/2008 |
Q: I was in a relationship with a man who would follow around or go out of his way to have a better or ...
A: Marie, If you have not taken the final step of divorce please think about it. I understand how you ...
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| Concerned about newly uncovered lie from husband | 1/2/2008 |
Q: To give a quick background: My husband and I have only been married a month. We dated for a year ...
A: I can understand how you feel. You are right to tell him that this is not appropriate for him to ...
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| How to recover from rejection | 1/1/2008 |
Q: We have been married for 12 years and are both saved Christians. We have not been able to have a ...
A: Andre, I know that rejection can be hard to over come. When you get turned down so many times you ...
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| Lack of sex after mariage | 12/31/2007 |
Q: I have been married for almost 3 years. My wife and I rarely have sex. It seems as if, our sex ...
A: Tony, The first thing I have to ask is this. Have you ever been to a counselor that specializes in ...
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| I want to sleeping next to my Wife again.. | 12/31/2007 |
Q: I will hope to explain my concerns without writing a novel (smile)…This is very hard for me to ...
A: Otis, I really feel for you and I understand. My son slept with us until he was about 5. The ...
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| Am I over reacting | 12/28/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 20 years. We do not have children together, however he helped to ...
A: Carol, I am not sure what you are overreacting to here. I guess I have to ask who owns the company ...
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| my husband says he is not sure if he wants to work on our marriage | 12/27/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married a little over 4 years now. Recently he lost his brother at 42 ...
A: Sandi, If you are in a church then seek out the pastor. This should hopefully be an option for you. ...
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| im a possessive husband | 12/27/2007 |
Q: how do i over come being possessive,my wife is hot and outgoing and i an a hermitt crab,i think it ...
A: Sean, I hope that you have been in counseling for these issues. The problems sound like they can be ...
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| Disinterested in sex | 12/18/2007 |
Q: I am a strong believer in Christ and I have been for five years now. My husband is also a Christian, ...
A: Kristina, I understand where you are, and I hope I can help. You need to see sex as the most ...
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| work | 12/11/2007 |
Q: Me and my wife have been together for almost four years now. I started working as a stock broker and ...
A: Jason, You do have some tough decisions to make here. She wants to have the money and you at the ...
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| my wife | 12/8/2007 |
Q: I'm 38 and my wife is 53.. she gets so upset with the things that I say.. It's getting whereI can't ...
A: Michael, Try to remember that she is 15 years younger so her point of view may be a little ...
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| My man wants visits his kids and stay overnight at his former women's houses. | 12/7/2007 |
Q: Mr.K and I have just started dating but we have already talked about living together. I love him and ...
A: I think you need to get away from the entire situation. This guy is trying to have as many women as ...
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| My husbands ex-girlfriend sends him cards | 12/7/2007 |
Q: My husband & I are christians and we recently had an argument about the fact that his ex-girlfriend ...
A: Michele, I can understand your feelings. I also want you to think about one issue. He know this ...
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| Insecure Husband | 12/4/2007 |
Q: I have been married 12 years with 3 kids. The past couple years he's had some health issues. Since ...
A: Kelly, I do not think that he really needs counseling. He just needs to realize that you both ...
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| sexless marriage | 12/1/2007 |
Q: Dr. Gladu, I've been married for 13 years. My husband and I have "survived" a great deal...extended ...
A: Carly, The first thing to do is to get to the root of the issue. He has decided not to have sex. ...
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| I don't want a divorce | 11/29/2007 |
Q: what do you do when one person wants out of the marriage and the other desperately wants to save it? ...
A: Tammy, You said it right at the last. He is following his own desires. He is not concerned about ...
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| trust | 11/26/2007 |
Q: I am 23, and have been in one lonterm relationship, and several not lasting more than 3 months.The ...
A: Rhonda, Just from what you have told me it sounds like you may need some time alone. I hear this ...
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| husband (apathy) | 11/26/2007 |
Q: we have been parried for 31 years. we are Christians who go to church faithful, and active in the ...
A: The skoll could be affecting his libido. he needs to see a neurologist and make sure that he does ...
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| committing to marriage | 11/21/2007 |
Q: I am divorced and engaged to a man I knew when we were children. I left my husband of 16 years ...
A: Angie, I am sorry for the delay but with the holiday this is the first chance I have had to get to ...
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| My husband seems uninterested in sex | 11/19/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for two months. We are both Christians who love the Lord, and my ...
A: Diane, I do not believe that your husband is cheating on you. It sounds like he is just very tired ...
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| question | 11/14/2007 |
Q: I need some advice...I'm wondering if I'm terribly insecure and making a big deal out of nothing, or ...
A: Erin, I have a feeling that you may just need to wait for a while and see if it may be more of ...
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| Husband wants out | 11/14/2007 |
Q: For the last several months my husband and I have been fighting horribly. he says its over my ...
A: Michele, I think that in this case you may have the justification for divorce. God made this ...
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| Husband wants out | 11/12/2007 |
Q: For the last several months my husband and I have been fighting horribly. he says its over my ...
A: Michele, I do not believe that God has given you nothing. This may be difficult to hear but God has ...
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| is husband cheating? | 11/7/2007 |
Q: My husband said that he was going to a ball game last Friday. On Mondy, I drove his vehicle and ...
A: You have to make a decision. If you truly believe that he is cheating then confront him. Then you ...
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| Extended Family | 11/7/2007 |
Q: How can I get my husband to move our family to Florida where my whole extended family lives. I feel ...
A: Debbie, I do not know what his job situation is so it makes it harder to give you complete advice. ...
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| marriage | 11/1/2007 |
Q: When my husband and I had a fight and he was yelling at me, I tried to calm him down by putting my ...
A: The mouth thing is probably not a good idea. I know that if someone put their hand over my mouth it ...
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| TRUST/FREEDOM IN MARRIAGE | 10/30/2007 |
Q: I have been married going on 6 years. Have always been uncomfortable with having friendships of the ...
A: Jill, I can see this from both points. He wants to be trusted and that is to be understood. You ...
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| selfish husband | 10/29/2007 |
Q: I think my husband is very selfish....I am so unhappy and think about divorce often. When he is ...
A: Jennifer, I am not sure how to answer. What should I do is a little open ended, but here goes. He ...
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| sex | 10/27/2007 |
Q: what if my partner won't have sex with me when I ask
A: Frances, God tells us that sex is for marriage and that it should be done to strengthen the bond we ...
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| Looking for two answers to marriage questions | 10/25/2007 |
Q: I've had them on my mind for quite a while, and I was wondering what one might say when applying the ...
A: Emily, Thanks for choosing me to ask. First to have sex outside of marriage is sin. Just because ...
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| Husband is smoking marihuana | 10/24/2007 |
Q: I need some advice on what to do regarding my husband smoking marihuna. We have been married for a ...
A: First I am sorry it took me so long to get back to you. He is faced with an addiction and he needs ...
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| Rape | 10/10/2007 |
Q: I don't know if this is the right section to ask but I will anyway. My wife was raped not too long ...
A: Tom, I will keep you i my prayers. God is the only one that can get you both through this very hard ...
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| Rape | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I don't know if this is the right section to ask but I will anyway. My wife was raped not too long ...
A: Tom, There is little that I can say to make you feel better. I do not know what I would do in the ...
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| help | 10/4/2007 |
Q: my husband and i have been married for 8 years we have three children whou are active in sports and ...
A: Lil, Not knowing any thing more I will just give you my best assessment. If you can try to cut back ...
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| dominating and egoistic husband | 10/4/2007 |
Q: My husband is very dominating and has a big ego. He does things and make decisions without telling ...
A: MS, I will keep you in my prayers. I would just encourage you to try to get away from the ...
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| SEPERATION? | 10/2/2007 |
Q: I AM A 28 YR. OLD MOTHER OF 3. I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND SINCE I WAS 12 YRS. OLD. HE FELT ...
A: You are right he needs to show some form of sacrifice. Give him some time and let him show that he ...
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| SEPERATION? | 10/1/2007 |
Q: I AM A 28 YR. OLD MOTHER OF 3. I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND SINCE I WAS 12 YRS. OLD. HE FELT ...
A: Krystal, When it comes to saving a marriage, I believe in flexibility. If he is willing to seek ...
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| Marriage | 10/1/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married 25 years wonderful years he is 53. in 2001 he started not ...
A: Melissa, The first thing you need to do is to find the source of his displeasure. He is most likely ...
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| sex/marriage | 9/28/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 3 years. In that time we've had 2 children. My last child was ...
A: Peter, There is not much else I can say. She needs to find what in her life is missing. When a ...
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| SEPERATION? | 9/28/2007 |
Q: I AM A 28 YR. OLD MOTHER OF 3. I HAVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND SINCE I WAS 12 YRS. OLD. HE FELT ...
A: Krystal, If he truly wants to work out your issues then start with counseling. if you do not want ...
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| Marital Issues | 9/28/2007 |
Q: I want to be explanatory so you get the whole picture. I work full time and my wife is a homemaker, ...
A: Sean, There is not much left for you to do at this point. She sounds like she loves the kids but ...
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| sex/marriage | 9/26/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 3 years. In that time we've had 2 children. My last child was ...
A: Peter, You are right to feel some disconnect. If you have not had sex on a regular basis at this ...
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| After the affair | 9/24/2007 |
Q: This will be long... This is how it goes. Married presently with two kids and my wife had a 3 month ...
A: Ben, With your past history with this woman you may both be better off away from each other. Stay ...
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| betrayed | 9/22/2007 |
Q: I am 43 and have been married to the same man for 21 years. I found out a couple of months ago that ...
A: Tammy, You sound like you have taken the right steps. He also sounds like he is trying to make ...
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| betrayed | 9/20/2007 |
Q: I am 43 and have been married to the same man for 21 years. I found out a couple of months ago that ...
A: Tammy, The feelings that you have a normal. He has betrayed you to a point. You feel that he has ...
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| Pastor and pastor's wife disagree | 9/18/2007 |
Q: My husband and I are running a ministry that includes a men's homeless shelter since Feb. 2007. One ...
A: Deborah, I can feel for you because I to was once a major procrastinator. I have a type A wife that ...
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| He loves me..He loves me not | 9/18/2007 |
Q: This is something i didnt wanted to share with anyone,but after reading a lot of such questions,i ...
A: I am glad you asked this question. Most wives just try to change their husbands and forget that we ...
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| supporting my husband | 9/18/2007 |
Q: we were at my 6 year old son's soccer game and another kid got kicked in the face with the ball and ...
A: Carolyn, I think you were right. If he was wrong he should have said he was sorry. Men so often ...
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| My husband and my mother | 9/17/2007 |
Q: My husband and my mother have been arguing. They are both stubborn and do not agree on a lot of ...
A: Angie, My mother in law passed away when I was married only 3 years. I was also in Germany for most ...
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| husband has hot temper | 9/17/2007 |
Q: I have been married 6 years to a wonderful man ( when he isn't angry.) We are Christians and try ...
A: Nancy, You were justified in asking him to leave if he could not control his anger. He needs to ...
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| do I want to stay married?? | 9/17/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 24 years, I have so much HURT, I pretty much stayed married because of the ...
A: Loretta, If you are looking for some kind of group to attend for help, you should look if there is ...
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| do I want to stay married?? | 9/16/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 24 years, I have so much HURT, I pretty much stayed married because of the ...
A: Loretta, Then it sounds like you should maybe try a trial separation. This way you are not there ...
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| do I want to stay married?? | 9/15/2007 |
Q: I have been married for 24 years, I have so much HURT, I pretty much stayed married because of the ...
A: Loretta, If he truly loves you he will step up and show you. He needs to make those steps to show ...
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| marriage | 9/10/2007 |
Q: My husband spends every free minute rather with friends than with me or at home. I don't feel its ...
A: Linda, Not knowing his age or how long you have been married would help. I can suggest that you ...
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| no passion in this marriage | 9/10/2007 |
Q: Dr. Gladu, thanks in advance for you answer. When we married 23 years ago, my wife was a virgin but ...
A: Joe, I understand everything about not wanting to talk to the pastor about this. I am also in that ...
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| Spouse has gay best friends | 9/5/2007 |
Q: I just got married to a beautiful lady (Kay) and love her very much. When we started dating she ...
A: Mark, I give you a lot of credit for the restraint you have been able to show to this point. You ...
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| Insecure Husband | 8/30/2007 |
Q: I have been married for almost 4 years and my husband does not trust me. I have never given him any ...
A: Donna, I do understand where you are at this point. I would like to suggest one more thing. I would ...
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| Insecure Husband | 8/29/2007 |
Q: I have been married for almost 4 years and my husband does not trust me. I have never given him any ...
A: Donna, You are not the problem. I am sure you know that so let me see what I can do. he needs to ...
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| My wife is overreacting | 8/26/2007 |
Q: I just have a question about my wife. I can do the smallest thing in the world and it pisses her ...
A: John, I am sure that you have sat her down and spoken to her about this. She may not realize what ...
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| Marriage advice needed | 8/26/2007 |
Q: Please help. Both my wife and I are of Indian origin. I’ve been married for 3 years, but have been ...
A: It is not wrong to stay with her and continue to help her understand what it means to have that ...
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| sex | 8/26/2007 |
Q: I want sex alot from my wife all the time, and I told her that I don't want to be selfish and wait o ...
A: The first thing you need to understand that yes the Bible does state that your body is not your own. ...
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| Husband always going out | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I am 22 yrs old and have married for just over a yr. Before I got married, I knew my husband was an ...
A: Cathy, I know that at his age he is trying to live out his wild side and thinks that he has to do ...
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| blended family | 8/24/2007 |
Q: I have been married for ten years to a great man. I had three children from two previous ...
A: This sounds like you need to get into get together as a family involved in church and allow some ...
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| Marriage advice needed | 8/24/2007 |
Q: Please help. Both my wife and I are of Indian origin. I’ve been married for 3 years, but have been ...
A: Varghese, I would always say to try to work things out first. As a Christian you should try to find ...
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| Wifes lack of affection | 8/20/2007 |
Q: I am a father of 2 and have been married for 10 years to my high school sweetheart. Overall our ...
A: Brian, This sounds like something has happened in your lives to make this change. Guys are not the ...
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| Flirting | 8/20/2007 |
Q: I am 24 years old and my husband is 25. We have been married for almost 4 years and have two kids ...
A: Melinda, he may not be able to see what he is doing. I know that I have been told that I am ...
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| Unhappy | 8/19/2007 |
Q: I am a Christian and I don't know what to do. I feel this is really the end for my five year ...
A: Peaches, The issue about ministry is a hard one for most people to accept. I know that when I ...
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| question | 8/18/2007 |
Q: how can i deal with my virgin wife in our first sex?
A: Ahmed, You just need to be gentle and discover what she wants to do. You will both discover each ...
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| Husband will not talk about affair | 8/1/2007 |
Q: We have been married for 23 years and have had some issues of course during the marriage. About 18 ...
A: Toni, You have to consider that he may actually be telling the truth. You have been married for a ...
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| husband and step-dad conflict | 7/30/2007 |
Q: today my husband and step dad had a terrible argument with verbal words said, and neither want to ...
A: Izzy, This sounds like they just need to sit down and decide if they can get a long because of you. ...
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| First or Second Marriage | 7/24/2007 |
Q: Neither my husband or I have been (legally) married before. We both have children from previous ...
A: I am sorry also because you are right it was a little unclear. I know well how in-laws act. My own ...
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| First or Second Marriage | 7/23/2007 |
Q: Neither my husband or I have been (legally) married before. We both have children from previous ...
A: Nichole, There is nothing about living together or having children with someone. All Biblical ...
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| My Marriage is dissolving because of someone else. | 7/9/2007 |
Q: my name is Jamal. I have been married to my wife for over 3 yrs. I love my wife very much and I ...
A: Jamal, It sounds to me like your wife does want to solve the problem and move forward. I am glad to ...
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| Trust issues | 7/4/2007 |
Q: I have been married for over a year and got married after 6 months of dating. I just found out that ...
A: Selesha, I understand wanting to stay for your baby. I agree with that also. I also believe that ...
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| Newly married | 6/27/2007 |
Q: I am newly married and less than a year. I married after dating for 6 months. Two issues. Hopefully ...
A: Matt, There is bound to be some insecurity, but as your marriage gains time she will come to ...
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| what do i do when he really wont quit? | 6/27/2007 |
Q: im 19 and i have a 10month old son. i got preg at the age of 17 my senior year of high school by my ...
A: Kristen, He has an addiction. The addiction will continue to grow until he can no longer be ...
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| Is he taking advantage? | 6/27/2007 |
Q: My story goes like this, 2 years ago summer of 2005 my husband cheated on me with my best friend and ...
A: Heather, Your husband needs to be in marriage counseling. He also needs to start treating you like ...
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| Newly married | 6/26/2007 |
Q: I am newly married and less than a year. I married after dating for 6 months. Two issues. Hopefully ...
A: Matt, I am glad to see that you are concerned about these issues and it shows that you really care. ...
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| Cheating | 6/25/2007 |
Q: My wife and I have been together for 7 years. The first 6 years I was very violent and mentally ...
A: Octavio, I always say that we should try to stay together because, God never wanted us to divorce. ...
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| medical treatment | 6/23/2007 |
Q: My wife is an alcoholic. I know I can`t force her into treatment for her alcohol abuse but recently ...
A: Glen, You need to get her into treatment as soon as possible. She is clearly at a point of her ...
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| Unequal Marriage | 6/5/2007 |
Q: I am frustrated and upset by an unequal marriage. I have supported my husband to put him through ...
A: Marie, You have every right to feel that you should have the 50/50 marriage. He also needs to ...
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| gawking gone too far? | 5/16/2007 |
Q: I'm male 48yrs old, we have been married 10 mos and together around 5yrs. 5 mos ago I disclosed ...
A: Randy, I can tell you that your wife is going to be a little suspect of your actions. You are going ...
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| husband | 5/15/2007 |
Q: my son just turned 18 a month ago my husband expects him to be looking for work;but i am not allowed ...
A: Dee, This sounds like you stuck in the middle. If someone does not take him to get a job how is he ...
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| GAY MARRIAGE | 5/13/2007 |
Q: what does the bible.say about gay marriage? ANSWER: John, Here are some scripture that I would ...
A: John, Right love your neighbor as yourself. That is correct, but you can love someone and not ...
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| Is my marriage really over? | 5/9/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years, together for 6. He's 28, I'm 32.Our ...
A: Lori, I have to say that you sound like you are a very strong person. Your husband sounds like he ...
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| Children | 5/8/2007 |
Q: I dated my husband for nine years and we were married 3 years ago. My husband wanted children ...
A: I have had this same problem many a time. Men will promise so many things before marriage, but when ...
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| SHOULD I HOLD ON TO MY MARRIAGE | 5/7/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been married (going on 10 years in July) we have had some good times in our ...
A: Toni, You have been through a lot to this point. If he will not go to counseling and will not seek ...
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| Conflict? | 5/4/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been going through problems with respect in the family. Since my husband and ...
A: E, It looks like you are worried about the rules of your house more than anything else. You are ...
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| Wife not in will | 5/3/2007 |
Q: We have been married for 3 years, very happily. This is the second marriage for each of us. My ...
A: Kim, It sounds to me that your husband is trying to ask for your trust. If he has not given you a ...
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| sex | 4/28/2007 |
Q: Is sex an important part of a marriage? And,how important is it?
A: Tim, I would consider sex to be important if you want to have children. Most people feel that it ...
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| GAY MARRIAGE | 4/25/2007 |
Q: what does the bible.say about gay marriage?
A: John, Here are some scripture that I would like you to look at and get back to me. Do not lie ...
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| marriage | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I'm 22 years old and my wife is 21 years old, been together 4 years and married for 4 month and ...
A: Brian, I have to tell you that God does not want you to break up. God hates divorce and wants ...
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| marriage | 4/25/2007 |
Q: I'm 22 years old and my wife is 21 years old, been together 4 years and married for 4 month and ...
A: Brian, It sounds like things are going better than I thought at first. Keep up with what you're ...
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| marriage | 4/23/2007 |
Q: I'm 22 years old and my wife is 21 years old, been together 4 years and married for 4 month and ...
A: Brian, The first thing you need to do is get some counseling. I would also suggest maybe ...
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| forgiveness | 4/11/2007 |
Q: Tim, half a year ago i cheated on my boyfriend, who is now my fiance. I told him about it, and we ...
A: Andrea, Sometimes it is the hardest thing to do is to forgive yourself. God forgives and forgets ...
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| marriage-relationship | 4/10/2007 |
Q: If my husband brings out old pictures of girlfriends and shows them to me, what is he really trying ...
A: Nona, I think he is just remembering the past. I know that when I think about the old days I am ...
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| Husband doesn't want me | 4/8/2007 |
Q: I have been married going on five years. For some reason my husband doesn't want to have sex with ...
A: Tomgirl, I know that as a man I sometimes do not want to have sex. I do not believe that it has ...
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| HELP PLEASE | 4/3/2007 |
Q: We have been seperated about 4 times and have gotten back together... we are now on our 5th time and ...
A: Kande, If you want to get back together with thisman then you should . For the sake of your ...
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| Problems after 25 years | 4/2/2007 |
Q: Tim Gladu, I do not know if I am right in doing this but I need your help. I have known my husband ...
A: Sam, After reading your story I can really only say one thing. Your husband needs to step up be a ...
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| husband going out to bars | 3/30/2007 |
Q: Do you think it is ok for men to go out to bars late with their friends without their wives several ...
A: Susan, What you have to ask is what is he doing there. If he is just hanging out with the guys and ...
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| Prov 31 Wife.... | 3/26/2007 |
Q: Dr. Gladu-I am a born again believer as is my husband. We have three children (from my previous ...
A: Michelle, I fully believe that both men and women have certain responsibilities. There are certain ...
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| How many wives are 1+ years older than their husbands? | 3/20/2007 |
Q: Have you ever seen a statistic on approximately how many American wives are more than a year older ...
A: Steve, I have not seen any stats on husband to wife age ratio. I have seen a lot of data on divorce ...
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| need help!!` | 3/19/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 7 years. We’ve been married for almost 5. This is the 2nd ...
A: Gina, I believe I already answered a question similar to this. I still feel the same about your ...
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| need advice | 3/19/2007 |
Q: my husband and i have been married for 5 years. this is the 2nd marriage for both of us. We both ...
A: Gina, I have to agree with you on the time away. I have spent a lot of time away from my family ...
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| diff in age??? | 3/15/2007 |
Q: usually woman gets aged sooner than man(husband of same age) and their look decreases,,so (80%) of ...
A: That is not always true and if you truly are with the one that you are going to be with then you ...
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| smoking | 2/25/2007 |
Q: I suppose the smoking has won as I have already used the tuff love situation and the smoking ...
A: I do not think that someone smoking is a good reason for divorce. I am at a disadvantage here ...
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| husband doesnt want sex | 2/24/2007 |
Q: My husband and I have been together for 2 years, hes 43 and Im 25. Our sex life was never "amazing" ...
A: Stephine, I have to tell you first as a minister the first thing I would suggest is your line of ...
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| I do not want a divorce | 2/20/2007 |
Q: My husband has moved out of our house and I feel like my world has just stopped. We have 3 grown ...
A: I want to be completely honest. I am Southern Baptist and therefore I will be giving you the ...
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