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| Subject | Date Asked |
| Depression, Anxiety and Marriage | 4/19/2009 |
| Q: I have suffered from Depression and Anxiety for nearly 6 years and have recently decided to come off ... A: Sara I'm sorry but there is no easy solution to your problem. As a matter of fact I'm very hesitant ... | |
| 34Year marriage going bad | 4/5/2009 |
| Q: My husband of almost 34 years, 3 grown children has decided he wants to buy real estate and move to ... A: Karen sounds like your husband is going through some major Mid Life Crisis. Is he really willing to ... | |
| Husband prefers video games and buddies | 4/4/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 4 years and together for 7. We had our first baby 3 months ... A: Mallori I completely understand your frustration. I wonder though how a father of a 3 month old can ... | |
| girl-friend and mother | 3/28/2009 |
| Q: I'm 22 years old. I got back from Iraq in August 08 and was just hired through a fire department ... A: Robert First thing's first...if you feel that you have depression & anxiety you should be seeing a ... | |
| Why he cant let go of his past relationships | 3/25/2009 |
| Q: me and my boyfriend met a little under 2 years ago and started and started our relationship in ... A: Nicole, I'm sorry but based on what you're telling me it really doesn't seem like your boyfriend is ... | |
| my husband locks me out to masterbate | 3/20/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 6 years and are very happy. The only thing that has ever ... A: You have a serious problem your husband is addicted to porn He is right about being like everyone ... | |
| Talking without blame | 3/4/2009 |
| Q: Okay, my husband and I have been seperated for 5 months. I am very hurt and angry about him leaving, ... A: Anger is a very common but serious issue. Most people however, don't even realize that it's a ... | |
| Is this emotional infidelity? | 3/3/2009 |
| Q: I've been married for 21 years to a workaholic MD. I also work full time, but because he's always ... A: Frances you are absolutely right...you're husband has no business talking to this woman. You have to ... | |
| A Question of Infidelity | 2/23/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for three years, and I have a one year old son. I have recently returned to ... A: Yasmeene Being that I don't know much about you're cultural background, I may be way off on my ... | |
| husband wife relationship | 1/28/2009 |
| Q: .... .my husband loves me ,cares for me and a bit understanding too. At the same time he is ... A: Gavneet I would tend to agree with you that your husband is overly dominating, but I also think ... | |
| Wife, stepson, inlaws | 1/22/2009 |
| Q: This situation is a bit complicated. My wife and I got together when her son was 3. Everything was ... A: Richard Unfortunately there is no simple solution to your problem. The good news is that your ... | |
| New relationship | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: I hope you can offer some advice or perhaps some material that I can read to help me with my ... A: Mark although there is alot of books out there on decision making, I am not aware of any reading ... | |
| Husband has lied for 8 years | 1/19/2009 |
| Q: I recently found out that my husband has continued a relationship with his ex girlfriend and her son ... A: Lisa I think that you have every right to be upset with your husband and not trust his word in this ... | |
| Am in a fix | 1/17/2009 |
| Q: I am a 30 year old woman, married twice. My 1st marriage ended after a 7 year old courtship and 1.5 ... A: Sheetal You really need some professional help. Anytime someone mentions suicide in any question I ... | |
| My husband after 18 years has just left | 1/15/2009 |
| Q: well I am in a real situation. My dh has been tuned out of this marriage for about almost 2 years ... A: Krista I can't even imagine the pain that you are going through. You must feel terribly lonely and ... | |
| Im feeling very angry. | 1/14/2009 |
| Q: My husband and I met 15 years ago while I was working in Mexico City, during 11 years we keep long ... A: Laura The first thing you should do is sit down and talk to your husband. Tell him how you feel, if ... | |
| re-marriage problems | 1/7/2009 |
| Q: I need help finding the answers to every day drinking my husband is doing,he is driving me nuts with ... A: If your husband is an alcoholic, you will not be able to help him by yourself. He needs a program ... | |
| MARRIGE WITH A US MARINE | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: I HAVE BEEN MARRIGE FOR 2 YEARS I LIVE IN DENMARK N HE IS A AMERICAN HE CAME HERE AFTER BEEN IN ... A: Iza You are involved in a very dangerous relationship for both you and your baby. Your husband ... | |
| Marriage/Affair | 1/6/2009 |
| Q: I have been married for almost 18 years and we have two children 9 & 7. My husband and I have been ... A: June Obviously your question is way beyond the scope of this website. The two of you need some ... | |
| I have no trust/ no sex w/ live in boyfriend of 3+ years | 12/31/2008 |
| Q: I have been living with my boyfriend for more than 2 yrs but have been with him over 3. He says he ... A: Katie, I know it's emotionally hard but you can probably answer your own question. Why are you ... | |
| He won't communicate | 12/30/2008 |
| Q: Recently, an issue arose where I was accused of making a sexual advance toward a man (17yr old) that ... A: Brandy something is definitely off. Have a chat with your hubby... I think it's time to make a ... | |
| marriage | 12/25/2008 |
| Q: I have been married to my wife for 5yrs now, all of a sudden I now see her as a different person ... A: James I think the change that you wife has undergone is pretty clear. She wasn't working before & ... | |
| husband is asleep 15 to 17 hours a day | 12/24/2008 |
| Q: I am 47 I married a man 65 a few years back. I was in a midlife crisis when I met him and stupidly ... A: I think once again you hit the spot...you don't like being alone. I really think you should go for ... | |
| husband is asleep 15 to 17 hours a day | 12/24/2008 |
| Q: I am 47 I married a man 65 a few years back. I was in a midlife crisis when I met him and stupidly ... A: I think you know what you need to do, especially if he is abusive to you. The man is at least 70 ... | |
| husband goes out alot | 12/24/2008 |
| Q: I DON’T UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON. My husband of 25 plus years has a need to connect with other ... A: Jane Your instinct is correct something is definitely wrong. If he's not cheating on you yet, it's ... | |
| troubled marrige | 12/20/2008 |
| Q: I had a stroke in 2003 and my Christian husband became my cargiver in the mean time it took him by ... A: I'm not a lawyer or a priest so I cannot answer your questions on weather or not he can get a ... | |
| cleaning | 12/19/2008 |
| Q: My wife and I are both 40 and married 15 years with 3 kids. She is a stay at home mom and I work ... A: I know it must be very frustrating, but unfortunately some people are just slobs, and even if they ... | |
| Does she want me anymore. | 12/12/2008 |
| Q: recently she tried to give up life by taking sleeping pills,when she was hospitalized i was not able ... A: Shakeel If you wife attempted suicide she is seriously depressed and in need of counseling. This is ... | |
| Was it spousal abuse? | 12/10/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. He recently became angry over trying to get ... A: if your husband of 20 years has never been abusive to you, physically or otherwise, then you should ... | |
| Does she want anymore ? | 12/10/2008 |
| Q: i am a married aged 36yrs live in uae my wife is currently in india,our problems started when she ... A: Shakeel, unfortunately I'm not psychic so I have no way of knowing whether or not she has someone ... | |
| Torn | 12/8/2008 |
| Q: to start off I want to give a little bit of background. I was in a relationship with a guy who ... A: Rachel If you feel uncomfortable by the fact that your husband talks to another woman you should ask ... | |
| Communicating with my wife | 12/8/2008 |
| Q: I have a problem since I married my wife nine years ago. Sometimes, she indirectly says something ... A: Adam I herd a very wise comment once made by an expert in marriage & family relationships in regards ... | |
| little spats big hurts | 12/7/2008 |
| Q: mike and I haave been living together for 5 1/2 yrs with2 short term seperations,I am 49 mike 43 we ... A: I cannot answer all the maybes for you. You seem to know him well and you answer your own questions ... | |
| little spats big hurts | 12/7/2008 |
| Q: mike and I haave been living together for 5 1/2 yrs with2 short term seperations,I am 49 mike 43 we ... A: Linda First, I think that you should be honest with how you feel and tell him that his words hurt ... | |
| Wearing rugged clothing | 12/4/2008 |
| Q: My husband often wears clothing and shoes until they are totally worn out, with holes etc. For ... A: The easiest thing for you to do would be to go shopping for him. If he agrees to wear the clothes ... | |
| wife does not know if she still loves me | 12/1/2008 |
| Q: My wife and I have been together for 11 years now and have two wonderful boys (4,2) Over the last 5 ... A: Bryan, "snapping out of it" is not going to happen. Unfortunately, all marriages loose their passion ... | |
| should I stay or go | 11/24/2008 |
| Q: my wife had an aaffair with my best friend and then my boss at the same time. I found out by reading ... A: You are 100% correct. You wife should have no business talking to a man that she cheated on you with ... | |
| crsf1@live.com | 11/23/2008 |
| Q: I love my husband with all of my heart.But I am starting to wonder if I married him because I wanted ... A: No I'm not saying that at all. Only you would know the reasons for which you married him. My point ... | |
| Does it sound like I want to be with my husband forever? | 11/23/2008 |
| Q: I asked myself,do I want to spend the rest of my life with my husband and I seriously believe that I ... A: No one knows what the future will bring and go crazy over it isn't gonna make any difference. Relax ... | |
| crsf1@live.com | 11/23/2008 |
| Q: I love my husband with all of my heart.But I am starting to wonder if I married him because I wanted ... A: Corrina I'm not really sure why this bothers you. All I can say is that sometimes when life is too ... | |
| How do we fix our sex life? | 9/15/2008 |
| Q: My husband is unhappy with our sex life. He wants sex all the time and I can do without. We do ... A: Your husband's response makes it sound like he has already seen a marriage counselor. If so perhaps ... | |
| How do we fix our sex life? | 9/15/2008 |
| Q: My husband is unhappy with our sex life. He wants sex all the time and I can do without. We do ... A: Amanda This obviously is more then just fixing your sex life. What you want to do is fix his self ... | |
| Priority with wife | 9/12/2008 |
| Q: My name is Chad and recently my wife and I made a big move to new part of the country. I would like ... A: Chad You are 100% correct in thinking that you should be the #1 priority in your wife's life. But ... | |
| is it me or him? | 9/11/2008 |
| Q: i met him just over 2 yrs ago and he swept me off my feet but then i found out he had been cheatin ... A: Steph I think that you know very well what the right thing to do is...it's to leave of course. It ... | |
| My Paranoid Husband | 9/5/2008 |
| Q: I'm a 45 year old woman and my husband's 48 years old. Me and my husband have been married for many ... A: Cathy I really think that the simplest way to get on with your lives is for both of you to get ... | |
| Husband disliking animals | 8/15/2008 |
| Q: My husband is wonderful in every way. The problem is, I'm an "animal person" and he is not. When ... A: Christine I understand your love of animals, but I'm a marriage & relationship expert so to me ... | |
| jrkennedy331@aol.com | 8/15/2008 |
| Q: my husband and i have been married for 2 1/2 years. for whatever reason, his family doesnt like me. ... A: Heather if the rest of your husband's family is into drugs and alcohol then you both should stay as ... | |
| Husband's Stress from Work & Us Having 2 Babies is Destroying Our Marriage | 8/12/2008 |
| Q: How do I get our marriage back on track? My husband and I will have been married 10 years this ... A: Wendy, I do think it's pretty strange that your husband is not responding to you physically. I hate ... | |
| I'm at wits end. Whatever I do for my wife it's never enough!! | 8/12/2008 |
| Q: I really don't know what to do about having my wife see things through my eyes. I love my wife very ... A: The truth is that my suggestion is counseling. If you both come from failed marriages what makes you ... | |
| Communication between husband /wife | 8/11/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I are married for the last 8 years. We have 2 kids. The main issue is his disinterest ... A: Ka You are involved in a very abusive realtionship. First of all you should call the police and ... | |
| My girlfriend want to stop our relationship because of my children | 7/31/2008 |
| Q: I am a man, married and have 2 children (son of 7 and daughter of 4) but physically separated from ... A: Laurent You girlfriends' fears are justifiable. Of course she's afraid that your marriage won't work ... | |
| Only wants seasonal work | 7/29/2008 |
| Q: Goldie My husband, 45, has held a seasonal job in horticulture (spring-fall for seven months) for ... A: Bonnie, I completly understand your reasons for being so troubled by your husbands behavior. ... | |
| Husband's Ignorance | 7/28/2008 |
| Q: My husband has severe back pain from a ruptured disc. He has had surgery and is on pain medication ... A: Aggitha I'm a little confused, are you troubled by your husband's drug addiction, the lack of ... | |
| Husband | 7/26/2008 |
| Q: I am 16 weeks pregnant and the mother of a 14 month-old. My husband, when he's home, is usually ... A: Kymber, if your husband's medication is not working for him then he should really go back and see ... | |
| Wife's attitudes | 7/25/2008 |
| Q: My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for 9. We have had ups and downs, and ... A: Again avoiding any kind of display of affection will only get you out of your marriage. I think you ... | |
| My husband says we only talk about problems | 7/25/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I are both 25 and have been married one year. Before that we lived together for 2 ... A: Recognizing that your behavior needs to change is a good beginning, but by no means will the ... | |
| My husband says we only talk about problems | 7/25/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I are both 25 and have been married one year. Before that we lived together for 2 ... A: It's important that both parties agree not only to the plan but to keep up with the plan. For ... | |
| Wife's attitudes | 7/24/2008 |
| Q: My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for 9. We have had ups and downs, and ... A: Brandon if you lived like this for the past 9 years how come it's a problem now? Research shows that ... | |
| ex-sex addict husband?????????????? | 7/12/2008 |
| Q: I am 35yrs old I have been married for a year and a half I was a single mom for 11yrs. Two boys from ... A: Well the first thing you need to do is openly discuss your situation with him. Tell him that you ... | |
| Husband decided he don't want to be a dad any more | 7/9/2008 |
| Q: Me and my husband have been married for 8 years we have one adopted child together and two children ... A: It seems pretty clear that your husband wants out of this relationship. This is probably a good ... | |
| Husband-Wife relationship | 7/8/2008 |
| Q: Wehave been married for 16 years and have three young children (10, 12, 14). Over the past 2 years ... A: Tom I am telling you once again that there is no such things as friends between a man & a woman. If ... | |
| sex addict | 7/7/2008 |
| Q: . hope you do not think i am a bad person. I am 35 years old.. i was married 2 years ago..but i ... A: hari, normal runs on a spectrum. Do other men look at women's bodies ...yes. Does it ruin ... | |
| we don't go any where | 7/4/2008 |
| Q: Ok so here it goes I'm desperate. My name is Vanessa and I am 22yo and my husband is 23yo. I have ... A: Vanessa I hate to say it but your mom is right. You can't marry someone in hopes that they would ... | |
| lately... | 7/4/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have a 1 year old son. We have had a great ... A: Margaret The most important thing for you to figure out is what changed to make him act this way. If ... | |
| Financial inequity in marriage | 7/1/2008 |
| Q: I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. You'll see the problem: A year after getting ... A: Ok Janice, you're right things are definitely not looking good. But this question only you can ... | |
| Financial inequity in marriage | 6/30/2008 |
| Q: I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. You'll see the problem: A year after getting ... A: That is definitely problematic. I have to ask you a few questions before I can attempt to answer ... | |
| what should I do | 6/27/2008 |
| Q: I'm afraid my wife is going to cheet. Shes been kind of withdrawn lately and hiding alot of things ... A: Adam it is absolutely inappropriate for your wife to be hanging out with male friends without you, ... | |
| married but living alone | 6/23/2008 |
| Q: MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS AND HAVE ONE CHILD. WHEN MY SON WAS AROUND 2 MY ... A: Lynn Six years is a really long time, I'm just wondering what's distressing you enough now to seek ... | |
| I'm worried about our relationship | 6/22/2008 |
| Q: My wife and I have been fighting a lot lately. It makes me say and uneasy. She has picked up some ... A: Adam Financial trouble is number 1 cause of divorce. Unfortunately today neither men nor women, ... | |
| I'm worried about our relationship | 6/20/2008 |
| Q: My wife and I have been fighting a lot lately. It makes me say and uneasy. She has picked up some ... A: No Adam this doesn't sound wimpy. Belive it or not men also need affection. You have to talk to your ... | |
| Husband-Wife relationship | 6/19/2008 |
| Q: Wehave been married for 16 years and have three young children (10, 12, 14). Over the past 2 years ... A: Tom You absolutely should not back off, even though it's hurting your pride a bit. Marriage is all ... | |
| Wife accusing me | 6/17/2008 |
| Q: My wife ever since we got married has accused me of looking at other women even though 95% of the ... A: Being honest with you wife does not mean that you have to be brutally honest or silly about it. If ... | |
| Wife accusing me | 6/17/2008 |
| Q: My wife ever since we got married has accused me of looking at other women even though 95% of the ... A: Ok now you are describing an abusive wife. It sounds like she needs some individual counseling, but ... | |
| Wife accusing me | 6/16/2008 |
| Q: My wife ever since we got married has accused me of looking at other women even though 95% of the ... A: It's possible that your wife has some of her own self esteem issues which exacerbate the situation. ... | |
| marriage & depression | 6/14/2008 |
| Q: I have a husband who ignores me and my 20 yrs old son (his step-son), for days or weeks at a time. ... A: I wish I an give you some easy way to get your husband to see the light, but I can't. The only words ... | |
| husband's obsession | 6/13/2008 |
| Q: my husband obsesses over the way i look. I'm 21 and he's worried that i have lines on my face and ... A: It seems that you & your husband are speaking too different languages. He's telling you that your ... | |
| Wife constantly accusing me of cheating. | 6/12/2008 |
| Q: My wife continually accuses me of cheating. Every female that I work with is a ho, according to ... A: John If you have no previous history of cheating (I don't know what you're referring to when you say ... | |
| My husband shows lack of interest in me | 6/6/2008 |
| Q: I'm 33yrs old. I met my husband when we were still in school i.e. 1993. After a few months of ... A: My immediate request is for you to take care of yourself first. if you have become suicidal you must ... | |
| Marriage life | 6/6/2008 |
| Q: i am from india, new delhi, we got married 5 Dec 07, love marriage..i liked very much her. but she ... A: Rajesh You sound like typical newlyweds. First year is very hard because we are all full of ... | |
| My husband is a procrastinator | 6/4/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for over 13 years. He is a terrific guy and we love each other very ... A: Your husband is obviously a sensitive guy, but on the other hand all men are sensitive when it comes ... | |
| MUM AND WIFE | 6/3/2008 |
| Q: Iam married for 14yrs.I have 2 children 13 and 10yrs. It was arranged marriage. His mums choice. In ... A: Sikku Deo It's difficult for me to respond to your question because I am not familiar with your ... | |
| My husband | 5/27/2008 |
| Q: He's now 60 and still works hard being a chef. We know each other for a very long time and were ... A: Men, by nature are very different from women and many women make the mistake in thinking that they ... | |
| Husbands Behavior | 5/26/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for 7 years. We are recently married. I have addressed my husband once ... A: Men are naturally not as expressive as women are. Although there are of course exceptions your ... | |
| Should I stay or should I go ???? | 5/23/2008 |
| Q: I am 35, married for 7 years and a father of 5 of which 4 are mine. I already brought a son into the ... A: Oliver, You're kind of limiting my options of advice here, no talking & no counseling. I definitely ... | |
| Marriage | 5/21/2008 |
| Q: I am 30 years old and have been legaly married for 12 years. We have a thirteen year old daughter ... A: When you did therapy did you do marriage or family? I really suggest that you get him to go back to ... | |
| Marriage | 5/21/2008 |
| Q: I am 30 years old and have been legaly married for 12 years. We have a thirteen year old daughter ... A: It's seems that you broke your husband's heart, which is very difficult to mend. His reactions are ... | |
| Marriage | 5/20/2008 |
| Q: This is Pushpinder Singh from Pushpinder(India). My question is rather basic or you can say a 'state ... A: No offense,but the fact that you're telling me that your question is basic, basically lets me know ... | |
| no love left | 5/18/2008 |
| Q: I am thirty year old mother of two wonderful, good boys ages 12 and 7. I got married when I was 17. ... A: You sound like a very strong woman & I commend you for putting you children ahead of you even during ... | |
| falling out of love | 5/14/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for over a year and we dated 3.5 years before that. he is now ... A: Remind your husband that he made a commitment to you. Marriage is not about how I feel today and how ... | |
| Husband getting over past | 5/13/2008 |
| Q: My husband and I have been married approximately 3 months and he moved here from a big city to a ... A: Marriage is about sacrifice. Especially since you understand the reasons for your husband's ... | |
| Confused about marriage | 5/7/2008 |
| Q: I met someone back in September, it was a whirlwind of euphoria for a couple of months, I moved in ... A: Everything depends on your answer to this one question. Did you marry an alcoholic? You know he is ... | |
| to leave him? | 5/5/2008 |
| Q: i am married since 4 years,we married very fast(just a few weeks).When i married him he have a lot ... A: I really want you to find a counselor in your area who will be a support to you. If your husband ... | |
| I am having trust issues with my husband | 5/1/2008 |
| Q: I have been with my husband for about a year now and I am having issues trusting him. When we were ... A: Trust takes a long time to build and even longer to rebuild. I can completely understand your lack ... | |
| Looking at women | 4/15/2008 |
| Q: I am from India and Just newly married about 18 months. 8-12 months down the marriage, my wife use ... A: The best way to feel confident is to make your wife feel confident. In return she will make you feel ... | |
| still in problem.... | 4/15/2008 |
| Q: I was earlier discussing my issue with Ms. Kessler, would like to know your views also. For your ... A: I'm sorry, but I don't think you ever emailed me before. I feel like you're starting you're question ... | |
| Looking at women | 4/14/2008 |
| Q: I am from India and Just newly married about 18 months. 8-12 months down the marriage, my wife use ... A: Amit You are right it is your wife's problem, but since you are married it's your problem too. ... | |
| husband wife matter | 4/14/2008 |
| Q: i was at my parents place from the last 2 months due to my prgnancy now i came back but saw great ... A: Nancy, I really can't answer that for you. I don't know anything about your relationship. But ... | |
| WIFE WILL NOT KISS | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: I'm 45 years old and have been married for 20 years. For the last 10 or so years, me wife will ... A: I was gonna go with a physical reason, but the affair is throwing me off. As you are probably well ... | |
| narcotic addiction | 4/9/2008 |
| Q: I have been married for 16 years and have 3 bos. My husband can not live without narcotics. He has ... A: I'm afraid you're not going to like my advice. Addicts will remain addicts unless they voluntarily ... | |
| WIFE WILL NOT KISS | 4/8/2008 |
| Q: I'm 45 years old and have been married for 20 years. For the last 10 or so years, me wife will ... A: I really need some more details. When did she stop kissing you? Has she ever been really into ... | |
| Husband and wife relationship | 4/8/2008 |
| Q: I am 35 and a mother of 2 yr old son and a 4 month old daughter. I have been married for 5 years ... A: I do not know your cultural background so forgive me if I say something that goes against your ... | |
| Found Boyfriend on Match.com | 4/7/2008 |
| Q: I need your advice as to what I should do about finding my boyfriend on the dating site – Match.com. ... A: Ok Margaret, here it is, but I'm not sure you're going to like it. I really like the fact that you ... | |
| blood group and marriage | 3/22/2008 |
| Q: my blood group is o rh +ve and girlfriend's blood group is b-ve will it be feasible for to go for ... A: If your concern is for the baby then there is no need to worry. Today the woman gets a medicine ... | |
| What to do about my husband... | 3/20/2008 |
| Q: I hope you can offer some advice on my situation. I have yet to hear of anyone else going through ... A: First, the good news, there are plenty of men that are uncomfortable with babies and cannot wait ... | |
| ex | 3/20/2008 |
| Q: this may not be directly in this category, but you looked like the most qualified my girlfriend and ... A: Like I said before, only she can tell you what is important to her. It could be that she took those ... | |
| ex | 3/19/2008 |
| Q: this may not be directly in this category, but you looked like the most qualified my girlfriend and ... A: Keith, I'm sorry you're in pain over loosing your girlfriend. I know that sometimes it feels like if ... | |
| Marriage and Husband-Wife Relationship | 3/18/2008 |
| Q: My husband's cellphone(company issued)has had several calls from females in the past month. ... A: I am a therapist not a spiritual healer so I can only offer you advise based on my line of ... | |
| husband | 3/14/2008 |
| Q: my husband never calls me by my given name in casual con- versations. He does everyone else, but ... A: Maggie Any behavior can be fixed with some positive reinforcement. Meaning whenever you husband does ... | |
| Give me a solution | 3/13/2008 |
| Q: Please read my long story and give me a good solution. One year back I got marriage. Ours is love ... A: From what I can understand of your question you have too many people involved in your life. Also any ... | |
| wife and mom | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: How are you doing? I am a guy who has been married for 18 months now and it has been great most of ... A: It sounds like your wife has some issues with self-esteem mostly due to the fact that she is in a ... | |
| relationship | 3/10/2008 |
| Q: My wife doesn't seem to want this marriage until I say I'm going to end it. It appears as if she's ... A: I don't really have enough information to give you any advice. I would never suggest to end a ... | |
| Online Porn Chat | 3/8/2008 |
| Q: Recently I discovered that my husband has an account on an online porn chat website. I came across ... A: Pornography is addictive that is a fact. I don't know whether or not your husband is an addict. In ... | |
| wife and mom | 3/7/2008 |
| Q: How are you doing? I am a guy who has been married for 18 months now and it has been great most of ... A: You obviously never her a mother in law joke, or you wouldn't be asking me if this problem is ... | |
| Born an only child only to have married someone who is turning into my overbearing sister. | 3/7/2008 |
| Q: Hey, TIME: I have been married for 11 years and have two children aged 9 and 6. My wife and I ... A: You have a somewhat happy marriage as you say you both love each other. You have two healthy kids. ... | |
| husband | 3/6/2008 |
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Marriage and the Husband-Wife Relationship
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Goldie
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Expertise
Being a wife a mother and a licensed counselor I can answer any question in regards to your relationship with your child or significant other. Particularly questions that deal with behavioral issues. If there is something that really bothers your about your spouse or child's behavior I may be able to give you a behavioral solution.
Experience
I have worked as a behaviorist for four years and as a guidance counselor in a high school for two years. As a behaviorist I designed plans to help people change their own behaviors as well as the way others behave twords them. As a guidance counselor I helped parents find ways of controlling their teenagers and developing a better relationship with them.
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MS.Ed in Counseling, LMHC
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