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| How do we fix our sex life? | 9/15/2008 |
Q: My husband is unhappy with our sex life. He wants sex all the time and I can do without. We do ...
A: Your husband's response makes it sound like he has already seen a marriage counselor. If so perhaps ...
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| How do we fix our sex life? | 9/15/2008 |
Q: My husband is unhappy with our sex life. He wants sex all the time and I can do without. We do ...
A: Amanda This obviously is more then just fixing your sex life. What you want to do is fix his self ...
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| Priority with wife | 9/12/2008 |
Q: My name is Chad and recently my wife and I made a big move to new part of the country. I would like ...
A: Chad You are 100% correct in thinking that you should be the #1 priority in your wife's life. But ...
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| is it me or him? | 9/11/2008 |
Q: i met him just over 2 yrs ago and he swept me off my feet but then i found out he had been cheatin ...
A: Steph I think that you know very well what the right thing to do is...it's to leave of course. It ...
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| My Paranoid Husband | 9/5/2008 |
Q: I'm a 45 year old woman and my husband's 48 years old. Me and my husband have been married for many ...
A: Cathy I really think that the simplest way to get on with your lives is for both of you to get ...
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| Husband disliking animals | 8/15/2008 |
Q: My husband is wonderful in every way. The problem is, I'm an "animal person" and he is not. When ...
A: Christine I understand your love of animals, but I'm a marriage & relationship expert so to me ...
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| jrkennedy331@aol.com | 8/15/2008 |
Q: my husband and i have been married for 2 1/2 years. for whatever reason, his family doesnt like me. ...
A: Heather if the rest of your husband's family is into drugs and alcohol then you both should stay as ...
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| Husband's Stress from Work & Us Having 2 Babies is Destroying Our Marriage | 8/12/2008 |
Q: How do I get our marriage back on track? My husband and I will have been married 10 years this ...
A: Wendy, I do think it's pretty strange that your husband is not responding to you physically. I hate ...
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| I'm at wits end. Whatever I do for my wife it's never enough!! | 8/12/2008 |
Q: I really don't know what to do about having my wife see things through my eyes. I love my wife very ...
A: The truth is that my suggestion is counseling. If you both come from failed marriages what makes you ...
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| Communication between husband /wife | 8/11/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are married for the last 8 years. We have 2 kids. The main issue is his disinterest ...
A: Ka You are involved in a very abusive realtionship. First of all you should call the police and ...
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| My girlfriend want to stop our relationship because of my children | 7/31/2008 |
Q: I am a man, married and have 2 children (son of 7 and daughter of 4) but physically separated from ...
A: Laurent You girlfriends' fears are justifiable. Of course she's afraid that your marriage won't work ...
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| Only wants seasonal work | 7/29/2008 |
Q: Goldie My husband, 45, has held a seasonal job in horticulture (spring-fall for seven months) for ...
A: Bonnie, I completly understand your reasons for being so troubled by your husbands behavior. ...
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| Husband's Ignorance | 7/28/2008 |
Q: My husband has severe back pain from a ruptured disc. He has had surgery and is on pain medication ...
A: Aggitha I'm a little confused, are you troubled by your husband's drug addiction, the lack of ...
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| Husband | 7/26/2008 |
Q: I am 16 weeks pregnant and the mother of a 14 month-old. My husband, when he's home, is usually ...
A: Kymber, if your husband's medication is not working for him then he should really go back and see ...
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| Wife's attitudes | 7/25/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for 9. We have had ups and downs, and ...
A: Again avoiding any kind of display of affection will only get you out of your marriage. I think you ...
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| My husband says we only talk about problems | 7/25/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are both 25 and have been married one year. Before that we lived together for 2 ...
A: Recognizing that your behavior needs to change is a good beginning, but by no means will the ...
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| My husband says we only talk about problems | 7/25/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are both 25 and have been married one year. Before that we lived together for 2 ...
A: It's important that both parties agree not only to the plan but to keep up with the plan. For ...
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| Wife's attitudes | 7/24/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 6 years, together for 9. We have had ups and downs, and ...
A: Brandon if you lived like this for the past 9 years how come it's a problem now? Research shows that ...
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| ex-sex addict husband?????????????? | 7/12/2008 |
Q: I am 35yrs old I have been married for a year and a half I was a single mom for 11yrs. Two boys from ...
A: Well the first thing you need to do is openly discuss your situation with him. Tell him that you ...
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| Husband decided he don't want to be a dad any more | 7/9/2008 |
Q: Me and my husband have been married for 8 years we have one adopted child together and two children ...
A: It seems pretty clear that your husband wants out of this relationship. This is probably a good ...
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| Husband-Wife relationship | 7/8/2008 |
Q: Wehave been married for 16 years and have three young children (10, 12, 14). Over the past 2 years ...
A: Tom I am telling you once again that there is no such things as friends between a man & a woman. If ...
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| sex addict | 7/7/2008 |
Q: . hope you do not think i am a bad person. I am 35 years old.. i was married 2 years ago..but i ...
A: hari, normal runs on a spectrum. Do other men look at women's bodies ...yes. Does it ruin ...
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| we don't go any where | 7/4/2008 |
Q: Ok so here it goes I'm desperate. My name is Vanessa and I am 22yo and my husband is 23yo. I have ...
A: Vanessa I hate to say it but your mom is right. You can't marry someone in hopes that they would ...
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| lately... | 7/4/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have a 1 year old son. We have had a great ...
A: Margaret The most important thing for you to figure out is what changed to make him act this way. If ...
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| Financial inequity in marriage | 7/1/2008 |
Q: I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. You'll see the problem: A year after getting ...
A: Ok Janice, you're right things are definitely not looking good. But this question only you can ...
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| Financial inequity in marriage | 6/30/2008 |
Q: I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. You'll see the problem: A year after getting ...
A: That is definitely problematic. I have to ask you a few questions before I can attempt to answer ...
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| what should I do | 6/27/2008 |
Q: I'm afraid my wife is going to cheet. Shes been kind of withdrawn lately and hiding alot of things ...
A: Adam it is absolutely inappropriate for your wife to be hanging out with male friends without you, ...
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| married but living alone | 6/23/2008 |
Q: MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 18 YEARS AND HAVE ONE CHILD. WHEN MY SON WAS AROUND 2 MY ...
A: Lynn Six years is a really long time, I'm just wondering what's distressing you enough now to seek ...
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| I'm worried about our relationship | 6/22/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been fighting a lot lately. It makes me say and uneasy. She has picked up some ...
A: Adam Financial trouble is number 1 cause of divorce. Unfortunately today neither men nor women, ...
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| I'm worried about our relationship | 6/20/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been fighting a lot lately. It makes me say and uneasy. She has picked up some ...
A: No Adam this doesn't sound wimpy. Belive it or not men also need affection. You have to talk to your ...
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| Husband-Wife relationship | 6/19/2008 |
Q: Wehave been married for 16 years and have three young children (10, 12, 14). Over the past 2 years ...
A: Tom You absolutely should not back off, even though it's hurting your pride a bit. Marriage is all ...
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| Wife accusing me | 6/17/2008 |
Q: My wife ever since we got married has accused me of looking at other women even though 95% of the ...
A: Being honest with you wife does not mean that you have to be brutally honest or silly about it. If ...
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| Wife accusing me | 6/17/2008 |
Q: My wife ever since we got married has accused me of looking at other women even though 95% of the ...
A: Ok now you are describing an abusive wife. It sounds like she needs some individual counseling, but ...
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| Wife accusing me | 6/16/2008 |
Q: My wife ever since we got married has accused me of looking at other women even though 95% of the ...
A: It's possible that your wife has some of her own self esteem issues which exacerbate the situation. ...
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| marriage & depression | 6/14/2008 |
Q: I have a husband who ignores me and my 20 yrs old son (his step-son), for days or weeks at a time. ...
A: I wish I an give you some easy way to get your husband to see the light, but I can't. The only words ...
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| husband's obsession | 6/13/2008 |
Q: my husband obsesses over the way i look. I'm 21 and he's worried that i have lines on my face and ...
A: It seems that you & your husband are speaking too different languages. He's telling you that your ...
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| Wife constantly accusing me of cheating. | 6/12/2008 |
Q: My wife continually accuses me of cheating. Every female that I work with is a ho, according to ...
A: John If you have no previous history of cheating (I don't know what you're referring to when you say ...
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| My husband shows lack of interest in me | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I'm 33yrs old. I met my husband when we were still in school i.e. 1993. After a few months of ...
A: My immediate request is for you to take care of yourself first. if you have become suicidal you must ...
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| Marriage life | 6/6/2008 |
Q: i am from india, new delhi, we got married 5 Dec 07, love marriage..i liked very much her. but she ...
A: Rajesh You sound like typical newlyweds. First year is very hard because we are all full of ...
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| My husband is a procrastinator | 6/4/2008 |
Q: I have been with my husband for over 13 years. He is a terrific guy and we love each other very ...
A: Your husband is obviously a sensitive guy, but on the other hand all men are sensitive when it comes ...
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| MUM AND WIFE | 6/3/2008 |
Q: Iam married for 14yrs.I have 2 children 13 and 10yrs. It was arranged marriage. His mums choice. In ...
A: Sikku Deo It's difficult for me to respond to your question because I am not familiar with your ...
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| My husband | 5/27/2008 |
Q: He's now 60 and still works hard being a chef. We know each other for a very long time and were ...
A: Men, by nature are very different from women and many women make the mistake in thinking that they ...
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| Husbands Behavior | 5/26/2008 |
Q: I have been with my husband for 7 years. We are recently married. I have addressed my husband once ...
A: Men are naturally not as expressive as women are. Although there are of course exceptions your ...
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| Should I stay or should I go ???? | 5/23/2008 |
Q: I am 35, married for 7 years and a father of 5 of which 4 are mine. I already brought a son into the ...
A: Oliver, You're kind of limiting my options of advice here, no talking & no counseling. I definitely ...
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| Marriage | 5/21/2008 |
Q: I am 30 years old and have been legaly married for 12 years. We have a thirteen year old daughter ...
A: When you did therapy did you do marriage or family? I really suggest that you get him to go back to ...
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| Marriage | 5/21/2008 |
Q: I am 30 years old and have been legaly married for 12 years. We have a thirteen year old daughter ...
A: It's seems that you broke your husband's heart, which is very difficult to mend. His reactions are ...
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| Marriage | 5/20/2008 |
Q: This is Pushpinder Singh from Pushpinder(India). My question is rather basic or you can say a 'state ...
A: No offense,but the fact that you're telling me that your question is basic, basically lets me know ...
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| no love left | 5/18/2008 |
Q: I am thirty year old mother of two wonderful, good boys ages 12 and 7. I got married when I was 17. ...
A: You sound like a very strong woman & I commend you for putting you children ahead of you even during ...
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| falling out of love | 5/14/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married for over a year and we dated 3.5 years before that. he is now ...
A: Remind your husband that he made a commitment to you. Marriage is not about how I feel today and how ...
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| Husband getting over past | 5/13/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have been married approximately 3 months and he moved here from a big city to a ...
A: Marriage is about sacrifice. Especially since you understand the reasons for your husband's ...
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| Confused about marriage | 5/7/2008 |
Q: I met someone back in September, it was a whirlwind of euphoria for a couple of months, I moved in ...
A: Everything depends on your answer to this one question. Did you marry an alcoholic? You know he is ...
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| to leave him? | 5/5/2008 |
Q: i am married since 4 years,we married very fast(just a few weeks).When i married him he have a lot ...
A: I really want you to find a counselor in your area who will be a support to you. If your husband ...
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| I am having trust issues with my husband | 5/1/2008 |
Q: I have been with my husband for about a year now and I am having issues trusting him. When we were ...
A: Trust takes a long time to build and even longer to rebuild. I can completely understand your lack ...
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| Looking at women | 4/15/2008 |
Q: I am from India and Just newly married about 18 months. 8-12 months down the marriage, my wife use ...
A: The best way to feel confident is to make your wife feel confident. In return she will make you feel ...
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| still in problem.... | 4/15/2008 |
Q: I was earlier discussing my issue with Ms. Kessler, would like to know your views also. For your ...
A: I'm sorry, but I don't think you ever emailed me before. I feel like you're starting you're question ...
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| Looking at women | 4/14/2008 |
Q: I am from India and Just newly married about 18 months. 8-12 months down the marriage, my wife use ...
A: Amit You are right it is your wife's problem, but since you are married it's your problem too. ...
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| husband wife matter | 4/14/2008 |
Q: i was at my parents place from the last 2 months due to my prgnancy now i came back but saw great ...
A: Nancy, I really can't answer that for you. I don't know anything about your relationship. But ...
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| WIFE WILL NOT KISS | 4/9/2008 |
Q: I'm 45 years old and have been married for 20 years. For the last 10 or so years, me wife will ...
A: I was gonna go with a physical reason, but the affair is throwing me off. As you are probably well ...
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| narcotic addiction | 4/9/2008 |
Q: I have been married for 16 years and have 3 bos. My husband can not live without narcotics. He has ...
A: I'm afraid you're not going to like my advice. Addicts will remain addicts unless they voluntarily ...
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| WIFE WILL NOT KISS | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I'm 45 years old and have been married for 20 years. For the last 10 or so years, me wife will ...
A: I really need some more details. When did she stop kissing you? Has she ever been really into ...
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| Husband and wife relationship | 4/8/2008 |
Q: I am 35 and a mother of 2 yr old son and a 4 month old daughter. I have been married for 5 years ...
A: I do not know your cultural background so forgive me if I say something that goes against your ...
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| Found Boyfriend on Match.com | 4/7/2008 |
Q: I need your advice as to what I should do about finding my boyfriend on the dating site – Match.com. ...
A: Ok Margaret, here it is, but I'm not sure you're going to like it. I really like the fact that you ...
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| blood group and marriage | 3/22/2008 |
Q: my blood group is o rh +ve and girlfriend's blood group is b-ve will it be feasible for to go for ...
A: If your concern is for the baby then there is no need to worry. Today the woman gets a medicine ...
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| What to do about my husband... | 3/20/2008 |
Q: I hope you can offer some advice on my situation. I have yet to hear of anyone else going through ...
A: First, the good news, there are plenty of men that are uncomfortable with babies and cannot wait ...
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| ex | 3/20/2008 |
Q: this may not be directly in this category, but you looked like the most qualified my girlfriend and ...
A: Like I said before, only she can tell you what is important to her. It could be that she took those ...
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| ex | 3/19/2008 |
Q: this may not be directly in this category, but you looked like the most qualified my girlfriend and ...
A: Keith, I'm sorry you're in pain over loosing your girlfriend. I know that sometimes it feels like if ...
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| Marriage and Husband-Wife Relationship | 3/18/2008 |
Q: My husband's cellphone(company issued)has had several calls from females in the past month. ...
A: I am a therapist not a spiritual healer so I can only offer you advise based on my line of ...
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| husband | 3/14/2008 |
Q: my husband never calls me by my given name in casual con- versations. He does everyone else, but ...
A: Maggie Any behavior can be fixed with some positive reinforcement. Meaning whenever you husband does ...
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| Give me a solution | 3/13/2008 |
Q: Please read my long story and give me a good solution. One year back I got marriage. Ours is love ...
A: From what I can understand of your question you have too many people involved in your life. Also any ...
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| wife and mom | 3/10/2008 |
Q: How are you doing? I am a guy who has been married for 18 months now and it has been great most of ...
A: It sounds like your wife has some issues with self-esteem mostly due to the fact that she is in a ...
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| relationship | 3/10/2008 |
Q: My wife doesn't seem to want this marriage until I say I'm going to end it. It appears as if she's ...
A: I don't really have enough information to give you any advice. I would never suggest to end a ...
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| Online Porn Chat | 3/8/2008 |
Q: Recently I discovered that my husband has an account on an online porn chat website. I came across ...
A: Pornography is addictive that is a fact. I don't know whether or not your husband is an addict. In ...
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| wife and mom | 3/7/2008 |
Q: How are you doing? I am a guy who has been married for 18 months now and it has been great most of ...
A: You obviously never her a mother in law joke, or you wouldn't be asking me if this problem is ...
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| Born an only child only to have married someone who is turning into my overbearing sister. | 3/7/2008 |
Q: Hey, TIME: I have been married for 11 years and have two children aged 9 and 6. My wife and I ...
A: You have a somewhat happy marriage as you say you both love each other. You have two healthy kids. ...
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| husband | 3/6/2008 |
Q: i've been married for almost 2 years now, i'm 23 my husband's 37. we got married pretty quich, after ...
A: Never look for happiness in other places or people, because if you don't make yourself happy no one ...
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| marriage finances | 3/5/2008 |
Q: What are the more common ways married people (both are gainfully employed) handle their income? ...
A: I'm not sure that there is one particular way people handle their finances. Some have joined, some ...
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| struggling with an alcoholic husband | 3/4/2008 |
Q: First off, thank you so much for taking the time to help strangers. I have been married for almost ...
A: I really don't like to tell people that one choice that they are currently facing is divorce. Mostly ...
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| My Husband Doesn't Think He Loves Me or His Children | 3/3/2008 |
Q: Looking for help or advise. My husband has informed me that he doesn't feel any love or connection ...
A: Your husband sounds like a very sick man. He is either making things up just to scare you and push ...
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| wife of 10 years doesnt want to be married | 3/3/2008 |
Q: my wife (30) of 10 years has decided that she no longer wants to be married. we were highschool ...
A: I'm really sorry... In either case I think you could use some counseling to...just to get you ...
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| wife of 10 years doesnt want to be married | 3/3/2008 |
Q: my wife (30) of 10 years has decided that she no longer wants to be married. we were highschool ...
A: She's sadly mistaken and as I said previously really in need of help. Unfortunately you can't make ...
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| wife of 10 years doesnt want to be married | 3/3/2008 |
Q: my wife (30) of 10 years has decided that she no longer wants to be married. we were highschool ...
A: I'm so sorry to hear about your wife. Marriage is hard work, even harder with two kids (just to ...
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| Feeling a real disconnect in my marriage | 3/2/2008 |
Q: I have been married to my husband for 1 1/2 yrs and we have known each other for 5. He is adopted ...
A: It sounds like you are in a really tough spot...though I'm curious how he was for the five years ...
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| Husband's lack of character | 2/27/2008 |
Q: I filed for divorce one year ago after 11 years and we have a four year old daughter. From the ...
A: You're situation is extremely difficult and will probably remain this way for sometime. The most ...
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| My Husband Doesn't Think He Loves Me or His Children | 2/24/2008 |
Q: Looking for help or advise. My husband has informed me that he doesn't feel any love or connection ...
A: I'm so sorry that you had to hear such horrible things from the mouth of the man that you obviously ...
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| Husband | 2/18/2008 |
Q: I want to know all about my husband past even though we have been married for 7 years and have been ...
A: I have a feeling that you think that there is something wrong with you. I want to reassure you that ...
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| Difference of opinion with spouse | 2/9/2008 |
Q: My hubby is from Mexico. We met there and have been married for over 12 yrs. now. Marriage is very ...
A: I know you feel like your husband should be just as happy for you to take a little vacation as you ...
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| save my marriage! | 2/7/2008 |
Q: i have been married for just 9 months and we never had proper sex.My husband i feel is suffering ...
A: There is no simple answer to your question. It really sounds like there are some pretty serious ...
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| husband getting bored | 2/6/2008 |
Q: I have been married since September and then deployed in the middle of September. I started catching ...
A: I think that your last sentence is the answer to your question. You know your husband better then ...
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| QUESTION ON WHAT TO DO ABOUT MY fiancees future ex wife | 2/6/2008 |
Q: ok the question is my fiancee's future ex wife is only suppose t ocall only about the devorce and ...
A: Unfortunately your husband's future x-wife, will always be his x-wife, meaning you can't get her out ...
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