AboutPastor Kimberly Lemler Expertise As an ordained minister, life coach, and counselor, I can help you answer questions related to marriage based on the Bible. I have been through a divorce due to adultery and know the pain of losing a marriage and having to rebuild my life. I have been happily remarried for 16 years.
When you ask a question, please tell me if you are a Christian or not. The advice I give is based on the Bible and its truths. The promises in the Word are for believers. If we are trying to seek God's answers without a relationship with Him first, we will not see the results that we want. If you are not a born-again child of God, then I would enourage you to seek Him. When you receive Him into your life, then His promises are yours. I would be most happy to share the message of salvation with you if you do not know Jesus Christ as your savior.
Outside of AllExperts I can be reached at:
Walk By Faith Counseling Center
www.GodsHealingPower.org
Experience I have been happily married for 16 years. I do street ministry, phone ministry, e-mail ministry, in-office and home ministry and have ministered on a worldwide prayerline. I am a life coach as well.
Publications I have a Healing CD ready and other teachings available on our website. I also have a weekly radio teaching broadcast.
Education/Credentials I am a former school teacher, a graduate of Indiana University,1984. I have received biblical instruction at Victory Bible Institute and am currently working on a PhD .
Past/Present Clients I have ministered to many, many clients over a 15 year period.
Question QUESTION: HiKim,this is a follow up . Cant follow your advise unfortunately about making him not call her at all the reason is we own a building company we building her house its not finished yet so by obligation he has to be in contact with her until its all over but i certainly can monitor his phone even he hardly calls her out of it because he pranks her and she calls him back . it quiet awkward situation I'm in I know .Please advise
ANSWER: Hi Susan,
This is just not an easy situation. Have you confronted her? Just try to monitor his whereabouts as much as possible and continue to let him know that you are not going to stand for this.
Pastor Kim
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QUESTION: I'm doing this i confronted him made sure he understood that I'm not putting up with any of these situations .He always says that there is nothing just business gesture and he didn't even kiss her, i don't belive him, but i told him i will assume that and i will belive you but any contacts regarding the work ask me to do it i do it to all customers why not her I'm the directing manager any way . about confronting her i thought about it many times but I'm not sure if its a good idea at this stage just for her not to think that she is got one point above me . I thought of letting her husband knows and stay anonymous . What do you think advise me please .Happy new year .
Answer Hi,
Men will alway lie until they are blue in the face just to get out of it. So you can assume that he is having this affair. Yes, I would contact her husband. He needs to know. And it this were me, I would confront her as well. The darkness needs to come to the light...
Happy New Year...keep the Lord CLOSE!!! He is your comfort and your help in every situation...
