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I had two beautifully bonded rabbits who were together since they were babies. When they hit puberty I seperated them with a wire pannel, in a way that they could still be with each other until the male was old enough to get neutered and 6 weeks after. I did not spay the female as I was afraid the doctor would not be knowledgable enough and she would be in so much pain after surgery, that she would stop eating and go into stasis. She was of course, the alfa but never a bully to him, they had a wonderfull 5 years together. Unfortunately, she died 3 months ago. It has been so sad to see our male all by himself, he now seems lost, even though we try to keep him as much company as we can. We tried to bond him with a 7 month old female (unspayed) and it did not work out. He imediately tryied to cuddle and groom her but she attacked him every time. I was ready with the water spray of course. After the 3 day of attacks he started to hate her and one time actually went after her to attack her. We gave her back.
I though to try again with a baby female this time and do it little by little, and see how that goes... do you think that could work? thank you so mucho for your help :)"

Dear Malini

I am sorry for your loss.

When getting a mate for your bunny, it is essential that you

1.  let him choose his own mate
2.  do careful "dates" and bonding sessions before letting the bunnies along together

Please contact a local rescue to set up some "blind dates" with spayed females.  You can find a chapter/affiliate of the House Rabbit Society near you here:

Please also read the helpful articles here:

Rabbit bonding can be difficult and time-consuming, but the results of a properly done bonding are very rewarding.

I hope this helps.



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Dana Krempels, Ph.D.


I've lived with companion rabbits for more than 35 years, and consider them members of my family. I can answer any questions about the biology and health of rabbits, from the commonplace to the unusual. But please note:

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I have been rescuing and rehabilitating domestic and wild rabbits for about 30 years. I have written articles for many rabbit rescue publications, as well as for the veterinary journal, Exotic DVM. I own EtherBun, the internet's largest listserve dedicated to health, care, and behavior of domestic rabbits.

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