| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| help needed | 7/18/2008 | Kim |
Q: I am confused lost, and do not know where to turn. I was r**** last year on a date, he laughed, and ...
A: Shay, Because of your past, I strongly encourage you to get counseling so that you and your ...
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| i need some guidence | 7/17/2008 | Kim |
Q: My name is mari. When I was 14, I was raped by an 18 year old friend that I knew and trusted. I ...
A: Mari, I am sorry I wasn’t able to write sooner. I will do my best to help you, but I fear that ...
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| Is it to early? | 7/17/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: This girl and I have had feelings for months now, all the way back to march and april. Well about a ...
A: Careful reading of your mail led me to the understanding that your girl still suffers from rape. I ...
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| is this rape | 7/16/2008 | Kim |
Q: last night i went out to have a drink with my ex boyfriend and one of his friends everything was ...
A: Laquita, No, this is not your fault. A few things may have happened. 1. You may have been given ...
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| Past haunting | 7/14/2008 | Kim |
Q: Since the discussion of my past I've noticed my emotions are flooding in hard and fast, I feel like ...
A: Louise, It takes such great courage to be a mom aside from your pain. I am sure that you do love ...
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| My gf's fantasies | 7/13/2008 | Kim |
Q: Hey, my girlfriend was raped and beaten a month ago by a guy she really trusted. We were only ...
A: Shane, The fantasies are common. Some victims do want to roll play their attacks and this again ...
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| Broken Trust... | 7/12/2008 | Kim |
Q: Here's my story. This might be kinda long, but I remember everything vividly...and I haven't told ...
A: Oh Kelsey, Oh wow. I am so sorry. My heart just broke for you reading that. If you don’t want to ...
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| Heal others? | 7/11/2008 | Kim |
Q: My girlfriend was raped by an acquaintance at the age of 13. She is now 20. -She did not tell her ...
A: Well it sounds like she followed in a pretty “common” time line and or time frame with rape victims. ...
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| Possible to Heal others? | 7/11/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: My girlfriend was raped by an acquaintance at the age of 13. She is now 20. -She did not tell her ...
A: I did read your mail carefully. I suggest that let her be always be in a situation where she can ...
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| please help with my bf!! | 7/11/2008 | Kim |
Q: well let me tell you the story. it is about me and how my bf is handling it. one night me and my bf ...
A: Lindsay, I am sorry that your boyfriend isn’t handling what happened to you. This sounds like ...
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| lost. | 7/10/2008 | Kim |
Q: I never told anyone and really forgot about it. This past year i started passing out everyday and it ...
A: Megan, It sounds like what you are experiencing are Body Memories, and or there’s actually a term ...
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| My 11 Year old daughter molested at 8 years old | 7/9/2008 | Bailey |
Q: I reside in Montgomery County Maryland and Just 3 days ago my 11 year old daughter told me that ...
A: Angela, I would not try to make contact with your God-Brother. You should file a report with the ...
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| I don't know what to do. | 7/7/2008 | Kim |
Q: Last week my girlfriend and I went out of the state to see my "best friend" and his wife and child. ...
A: Eric, Your girlfriend may be going through Rape Trauma Syndrome, the trauma may have been enough ...
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| My niece was raped | 7/6/2008 | Kim |
Q: My 14yrs old niece who had developed a sleep walk disorder was raped about 4 times,and the man ran ...
A: Ruddie, Were you ever a victim? Your response really alarmed me into thinking that maybe you were a ...
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| I dont know if it was rape, but I am having a hard time dealing with it.... | 7/6/2008 | Kim |
Q: I don't think what happened to me can really be considered rape because it started out consensual. ...
A: Carrie, You can stop giving consent at any point and they must listen and stop or it is rape. The ...
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| Dating/marraige to a rape victim | 7/4/2008 | Kim |
Q: I have been dating a victim of rape for a year and am completely in love and living together. The ...
A: Josh, I suggest go to a local center or counseling center, and they can help you individually. To ...
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| was this rape? | 7/1/2008 | Kim |
Q: Ok I’m not even sure if this counts as rape and was hoping you could give me a clear answer as to ...
A: Hannah, You were sexually assaulted, there’s no doubt. It’s not uncommon to forget parts of or ...
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| i told him "no. i have a boyfriend." | 6/30/2008 | Kim |
Q: over the weekend, i went to a friend's bachelorette party. we had been drinking a lot. we met some ...
A: Amour, Yes, this is rape. You said no and you did not give consent. At no point did you make it ...
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| sexual abuse. | 6/26/2008 | Kim |
Q: It must seem like a long time ago I suppose, I was six, he was five which makes it even more ...
A: Christina, Yes, you need to get help, more importantly you need to get specialized help, for trauma ...
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| i was raped | 6/23/2008 | Kim |
Q: i was raped about a year ago and i'm still not over it.. i cry all the time.. do i need help?
A: Yes, you need help. I don't know your location, therefore, let me offer you this website ...
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| is this considered rape? | 6/23/2008 | Kim |
Q: I had originally met this guy back in January, He offered to buy me a beer and the admittance fee ...
A: Annie, No thanks needed, I am happy to be able to help and or simply listen. I am happy to hear ...
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| this probably sounds really stupid ........ | 6/20/2008 | Kim |
Q: i dont really know why excactly i am writing this. i should probably start by saying i wasnt raped. ...
A: Jade, No you were not technically raped, which means that he forcibly had sexual intercourse with ...
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| Repressed memory of exboyfriend raping me in my sleep | 6/18/2008 | Shea |
Q: Two years ago I dated a guy and what I remember is one morning I had a panic attack and left him (he ...
A: I am sorry for what happened to you with your boyfriend. When we go through things like this (rape ...
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| Counseling... | 6/17/2008 | Kim |
Q: I'm writing to you because I work with families and just got a difficult case, I really want to help ...
A: Because this is not your expertise it is perfectly acceptable to tell them that. Also, I would get ...
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| is this considered rape? | 6/16/2008 | Kim |
Q: I had originally met this guy back in January, He offered to buy me a beer and the admittance fee ...
A: Annie, First, I am so sorry that this happened and that your values and morals were ignored. I am ...
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| Sister Raped | 6/16/2008 | Kim |
Q: I'm 21 yrs old. My sister is 14, she had sex with some guy and my parents found out. They told me ...
A: Keniel, I am really happy that you’re sister is getting counseling. I think that in the counseling ...
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| sexual abuse | 6/13/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am 45 years of age now and I am finally facing the abuse I endured as a small child. My father ...
A: I appreciate that you took time to detail about your abusive past. I read your mail with my heart ...
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| What to do | 6/13/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: 4 years ago I graduated from the 8th grade. My parents held a party at my school's gymnasium after ...
A: I appreciate that you opened up the 'hurtful secret' atleast to me. This will initiate healing in ...
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| Should I tell her parents behind her back? | 6/12/2008 | Karen |
Q: My girlfriend is 20 and she was raped at the age of 14 she hasn't told anyone except me, she says ...
A: I'm very sorry to hear that your girlfriend had to go through something so terrible. She's rather ...
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| confused | 6/12/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I was raped by an acquaintance about 3 years ago. We were out drinking and he offered to walk me ...
A: Greetings and peace. Thank you for the details. I very much appreciate that you have a God ...
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| why does this keep happening to me? | 6/12/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: last november one of my supervisors at work who was also a friend called that he and his girlfriend ...
A: No need to regret that you wrote a long story. It was good that you wrote a long story. This helps ...
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| confused | 6/12/2008 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I was raped by an acquaintance about 3 years ago. We were out drinking and he offered to walk me ...
A: Good wishes from Dr.Sunu Sundar. I got an idea of your dilemma. However I would appreciate if you ...
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| Rape | 6/9/2008 | Shea |
Q: l was raped four years ago and as as result a child was born. Initially l told no one until the baby ...
A: I am sorry for your rape. Are you receiving counseling from a rape crisis center or somewhere that ...
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| Neglectful family? | 6/7/2008 | Shea |
Q: When I was a small child, I was molested by a friend of the family who was staying in our house for ...
A: I am so sorry that you had to go through that as a young child. You mentioned that your 2 older ...
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| two minds | 6/5/2008 | Shea |
Q: I'm 30. I went back to a guys house when i was 18 and he attacked me. I can't even say the word. on ...
A: I am sorry, but I don't know that I am completely understanding your question? I hear that you ...
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| Dealing delay | 6/4/2008 | Shea |
Q: about a year ago- a "friend" was going through a divorce with his wife. He didn't really have a ...
A: Unfortunately, the response that your boyfriend has is one that is not uncommon. A loved one, when ...
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| What else can i do? | 6/1/2008 | Kim |
Q: I have been in a relationship for 6 years with the most wonderful girl i have ever meet. There is ...
A: Marc, Keep in mind that you wrote about you. If it had been your girlfriend I would have helped ...
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| What else can i do? | 5/31/2008 | Kim |
Q: I have been in a relationship for 6 years with the most wonderful girl i have ever meet. There is ...
A: Marc, I guess for me I am thinking, what do you want? It seems that you are considering all of her ...
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| rape? how do i tell my bf or should i? | 5/31/2008 | Kim |
Q: I'm going to do my best to make this so you can actually follow along. This is on my mind everyday, ...
A: Teri, I think that before you tell your bf you need to first take care of yourself, come to terms ...
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| im confused | 5/30/2008 | Kim |
Q: ok well i am 15 and a few months ago i met a guy i started to realy like but i cant tell if he realy ...
A: Ashlee, I am confused. Are you in counseling now? Is this counseling focusing on what happened to ...
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