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| I was raped 3 years ago and haven't come to terms with it yet. | 7/9/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I was raped three years. ago and have recently admitted to it. it was a painful experience in my ...
A: Peace be with you. You have already taken the first step towards healing by trying to open your ...
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| Rape | 7/8/2009 | Kim |
Q: I was recently raped, I did not tell anyone for weeks after..I have now told my husband and one good ...
A: I can completely understand not wanting to relive it again. That's why I recommend talking with a ...
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| Rape | 7/8/2009 | Kim |
Q: I was recently raped, I did not tell anyone for weeks after..I have now told my husband and one good ...
A: Laurie, It often takes a lot of strength and courage to take the first step to reach out, it’s ...
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| Sex after Rape... | 7/6/2009 | Kim |
Q: When I was 17 , I was hanging out with a guy that I was good friends with. We drove around together ...
A: Sara, First, let me say this, I think a conversation needs to take place with you and your husband. ...
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| abuse help? | 7/3/2009 | Kim |
Q: i am now a 15 year old girl, and some things happened when i was younger and i am unsure what to ...
A: Steph, It’s natural to be curious. It is also natural to explore. Do you recall doing anything with ...
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| abuse? please help | 7/3/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: i am now a 15 year old girl, and some things happened when i was younger and i am unsure what to ...
A: It can be confusing at times to know the difference between abuse and normal sexual play and ...
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| rape and repressed memories | 7/1/2009 | Kelli |
Q: i am writing you in hopes to get some anwsers. i have been raped numerous times by the same ...
A: Lisa, your posted question gravely concerns me. I understand that you are ashamed of the cutting, ...
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| A year on | 7/1/2009 | Kim |
Q: A year ago, this month, i was raped. My drink was spiked and a friend of my boyfriend (now ex)raped ...
A: Unknown Silence, The name you’ve given yourself here says so much. First of all, I am happy to ...
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| Raped help | 6/29/2009 | Kelli |
Q: buy my friend. After it happen when I was 12 I started taking pills and drinki g liquar alot. It's ...
A: I am so sorry that this happened to you. That is a lot to deal with and a lot to keep bottled up ...
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| Please help | 6/29/2009 | Kim |
Q: and 2 moths ago I was raped again by my friend. After it happen when I was 12 I started taking ...
A: Alex, It sounds like you are using many different coping strategies to help you get through, even ...
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| your help please | 6/24/2009 | Kim |
Q: about a year ago one of my best friends got me drunk and had sex with me. my question is "if he knew ...
A: Yes, that is date rape. You said that you didn’t say no, how did you feel about having sex with him? ...
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| please help after care | 6/23/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: "Hi there, i have a current problem that i hope you can help me with. When i lost my virginity i was ...
A: I very well understand your scenario. It is good that you were totally honest with this guy ...
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| please help | 6/23/2009 | Kim |
Q: "Hi there, i have a current problem that i hope you can help me with. When i lost my virginity i was ...
A: Kelly, I am sorry that your new boyfriend is fearful. I think that you need to stay active with ...
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| How to carry on? | 6/23/2009 | Kelli |
Q: i have a current problem that i hope you can help me with. When i lost my virginity i was raped i ...
A: If he is the man that you say and think he is, then he will be patient with you. He may be scared of ...
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| i need help | 6/23/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: i got raped when i was 8 years old im 17 right now and sometimes i have nightmares and i get in a ...
A: I'm so sorry you were hurt by this person. That kind of abuse wreaks havoc on so many thing, ...
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| i need help | 6/23/2009 | Kelli |
Q: i got raped when i was 8 years old im 17 right now and sometimes i have nightmares and i get in a ...
A: Edgar. I am so sorry that you had to go through all of that. I don't know if I can help, but I'd ...
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| I need help | 6/22/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: this si edgar and im 17 now. i got raped when i was 8 i got an orgasm while i got raped i think im ...
A: Getting raped does not make you a gay. To understand more about your inclination to same sex, ...
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| Partner of rape victim | 6/22/2009 | Kim |
Q: im am a partner of a rape victim. i have known about it for a few months now n we have been dating ...
A: A, Yes, you’re right, her promiscuity and poor choices and behaviors following her abuse are very ...
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| rape and repressed memories | 6/22/2009 | Kelli |
Q: i have a been raped by my boss at work several times over the past few years that i am starting to ...
A: Lisa, it sounds like you are still in danger. I understand that you may be afraid but you have to ...
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| was I molested | 6/21/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: I am not sure if I was molested by my grandfather or if he was just trying to help me. I was 13 ...
A: Yes, I would consider that molestation. I consider it abuse when someone uses another for their own ...
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| was i raped | 6/19/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: I fully empathize with you. I just want to tell you that God exists and He forgives sins. If ...
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| Rape Kits | 6/18/2009 | Kelli |
Q: NCIS will not tell me the results of my rape kit. They've also declined to tell me where it went. I ...
A: I am so sorry, Jessica, but I do not know. Usually, in civilian cases, rape kits are kept on file ...
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| My friend might hae been raped | 6/18/2009 | Kim |
Q: Recently one of my best friends disappeared just from everywhere. She wouldn't answer her phone, ...
A: Katie, She COULD have been raped and or abused. It's really hard to say, but either way, something ...
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| Signs of a Teenager who was raped? | 6/17/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: My friends daughter who is 13 years old just disclosed that she was raped at home by her uncle. ...
A: First and foremost I appreciate you for considering this girl as your own daughter. As you say ...
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| rape: aftermath and recovery | 6/16/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I am 37, single, mom of an 11 year old. Two weeks ago a "guest" of my roommates brought us all ...
A: I am proud of you for taking steps to protect you and your daughter. I am inspired by your take ...
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| Helping a husband cope | 6/16/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am writing to you because I am not sure what else to do. I was raped 4 years ago and went to ...
A: Peace be with you. Aversion to sex is one of the typical consequences of rape.But you need not ...
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| molestation | 6/16/2009 | Kelli |
Q: -Is this molestation- an uncle kissing their 6 yr oldniece in the stairwell on their neck/face.. -A ...
A: It isn't always easy to just let go and move on. You may be finding it difficult to forgive because ...
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| sex? | 6/16/2009 | Kim |
Q: First off, I have asked this question to 2 other experts and none of them have gotten back to me in ...
A: Your therapist is right. It is better to talk through your pain than it is to drink them away. It’s ...
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| Still suffering from childhood incest | 6/16/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I have still struggling very much so with issues regarding my childhood (being raped nightly by my ...
A: I'm sorry it's taken me so long to get back to you, Laura. I hear in your question a sense of being ...
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| MY GIRL WAS RAPED | 6/15/2009 | Kim |
Q: I am dating a girl I love soo much. But the problem is tha she was RAPED WHILST VIRGIN by her ...
A: It’s normal to go through a feeling of un-feeling after rape. However, it could develop into a ...
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| Was it rape? | 6/14/2009 | Karen |
Q: 10 years ago my friend held an 18th birthday party for me at her house. I got very drunk and think I ...
A: I'm sorry you're in such a bad situation! Let me link you to a few websites that explain what rape ...
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| was i raped | 6/14/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: Peace be with you Even though what was done to you cannot be strictly called as rape, yet I ...
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| was i raped? | 6/14/2009 | Kim |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: Erica, Anytime you are not consenting to sex and your partner doesn’t listen when you say no, it is ...
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| was i raped? | 6/14/2009 | Kelli |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: I believe that anytime a woman says "No" and doesn't want to either have sex or continue to have sex ...
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| is it rape? | 6/14/2009 | Karen |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: Let me link you to a few websites that explain what rape and sexual assault are and let you come to ...
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| a friend was raped | 6/13/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I have a friend whom I first met when she was a student at my school. I noticed her significant ...
A: Your friend is very fortunate to have found such a great friend in you. And you have helped her in ...
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| sex? | 6/13/2009 | Kim |
Q: First off, I have asked this question to 2 other experts and none of them have gotten back to me in ...
A: Alison, Yes, it is normal to have these sorts of symptoms and responses. The drinking, the easily ...
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| rape - disgusted by sex? | 6/12/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I was raped when I was 20; I am 22 now. I met the guy through a friend and we started dating. I ...
A: Honestly, yes, it's a pretty normal reaction after going through what you have gone through. You ...
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| molestation | 6/12/2009 | Kelli |
Q: -Is this molestation- an uncle kissing their 6 yr oldniece in the stairwell on their neck/face.. -A ...
A: Molestation, generally means when a minor child has been fondled, caressed, or touched-- or been ...
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| I am a Surviver | 6/8/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: Where can I get good advice on inner healing. So I can be be happy with my self. I want to feel like ...
A: I would contact a counselor who specializes in the traumas you've experienced, along with PTSD. ...
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