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| i dont know if this was rape | 11/12/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: i've been seeing this guy and we've had sex a few times before. he came over last night, and we got ...
A: This is not rape, but violent sex. I have a few suggestions for your happy and healthy life. ...
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| Intimacy, PTSD, losing virginity to rape | 11/11/2009 | Kim |
Q: I am now in my 30s and my 1st boyfriend took my virginity in my teens without my consent. I made the ...
A: Your concern and worry are valid and normal after all that you’ve been through, of course. I think ...
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| Sexual assault in grade school from 3rd-5th | 11/9/2009 | Kim |
Q: Please excuse the long post and the explanation being a bit all over the place... i'm not sure how ...
A: You’ve been touched by rape, abuse, neglect, suicide and so so much loss and pain. For you to say ...
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| do I tell him I was raped?? | 11/6/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Five years ago I was in a verbally abusive relationship, but we were having a baby so I just put up ...
A: What you must be careful here is not about telling the secret to the present man or hiding it.If ...
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| Sexual assault years ago in grade school from 3rd-5th | 11/6/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Please excuse the long post and the explanation being a bit all over the place... i'm not sure how ...
A: If you believe or not God exists and God cannot be confined to any religion.I say this after my ...
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| How do I tell my family? | 11/6/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am 18, and a freshman at a University. I am 900 miles away from home. I goto school about an hour ...
A: I can well understand the confusion, shame and pain you go through after the rape. You need not ...
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| should I tell my secret? | 11/6/2009 | Kim |
Q: Five years ago my son's father walked out on us just two months after we had him. Five months after ...
A: Jessica, We are certainly not required to share this information. Many of us choose to share after ...
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| Sexual assault years ago in grade school from 3rd-5th | 11/5/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Please excuse the long post and the explanation being a bit all over the place... i'm not sure how ...
A: I am happy about your long letter.That gave me an understanding of your situation. I would like ...
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| Was it rape? Was it my fault? | 11/3/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Was I Raped? About two years ago i was in the 7th grade and my dad had just got married. i had moved ...
A: Yes this is rape. Your fault lies in playing drinking games with him.This game was a blunder ...
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| I think i was raped 3 years ago | 11/2/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: When i was 16 i had a friend that i was very close to. he was one of my best friends for a while and ...
A: The solution is simple. Avoid all kinds of drinking and night clubs. Also avoid being alone with ...
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| is this considered rape | 11/2/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: im a freshman and college and recentally lost my virginity with this guy. We had protected sex a ...
A: Yes this is rape. Kindly bear with me for the following suggestion. I say this out of my long ...
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| Learning to Forgive | 11/1/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Sundar, I was lonely earlier in my relationship and cheated on my partner. He raped me thrice for ...
A: Peace be with you I assure there is hope for a happy life for you You say- "I am re-evaluating ...
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| Rape | 10/30/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am 46 years old and when I was around 6 years old my two brothers 12 and 9 molested me for 6years ...
A: Greetings. I read your long letter and could sense in me the pain you have been suffering ...
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| rape memory? | 10/29/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I do hope I'm not bothering you and I aplogize if I am. See for the past few weeks both in my dreams ...
A: Respected Alex, Greetings! First and foremost I wish to say to you that you are not bothering me ...
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| How to help my fiance who was raped when i can be there. | 10/27/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: First off, my fiance and I are both in the military. I am stationed overseas and shes in the states. ...
A: Psychologically speaking, in my understanding, unless she gets help from a psychologist who is ...
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| INTERVIEW QUESTIONS | 10/18/2009 | Kim |
Q: I am due to attend an interview as a support worker at the local rape crisis centre, i have a good ...
A: Laura, Well, I am guessing you are asking for yourself and not as a student? In the interviewing ...
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| help | 10/14/2009 | Kim |
Q: ummm. i was raped almost two years ago. i have never spoke of it to any one except one person and ...
A: Samantha, It’s Ok to be afraid to start talking about this and it’s Ok to be afraid of the unknown ...
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| my boyfriend was nearly raped | 10/13/2009 | Kim |
Q: so my boyfriend is straight altho bi-curious at a young age, however when he was 27 he got into a ...
A: Chloe, Is your boyfriend having feelings of violence now too? This is a big concern for me. ...
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| How far a father's touch isn'e molestation? | 10/12/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I will start with that we have been together for 4 yrs now and our age difference is 18 yrs for good ...
A: No doubt, as per the information shared with you, the girl in picture has been sexually abused by ...
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| Rape. | 10/11/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am currently about to turn 17 years old. The summer of 2009 I believed that i was fallin in love ...
A: Greetings. I am willing to get you to a new happy life First and fore most you must start ...
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| date rape | 10/11/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I'm a twenty year old that really likes to party. It has always been one of the things i enjoy doing ...
A: Peace be with you. I understand the hurt you are carrying.What you are suffering is not of your ...
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| Fiance was sexually abused by step-brother | 10/11/2009 | Kim |
Q: Within the first 8 months of dating, my fiance got drunk and told me while crying hysterically that ...
A: Laura, I am curious, does he feel some sort of obligation to his family. Is it really love or fear? ...
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| Raped by my kids dad. | 10/10/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Recently I was raped by not just a close friend of mine but the father of my oldest child. I haven't ...
A: Peace be with you There is hope for a complete inner healing in your case. First and foremost I ...
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| 10 YEAR OLD RAPED BY 64 YEAR OLD | 10/10/2009 | Kim |
Q: HOW CAN I GET THIS LITTLE GIRL HELP? IS THERE SOMEWHERE IN SOUTH FLORIDA THAT SHE CAN MEET KIDS THAT ...
A: Well I don’t have a zip code, but here is rape and incest orientated help in your area, this is a ...
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| Raped at 11 | 10/10/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: When I was 11 I was raped by a 19 year old neighbor on two occasion once when I was visiting one of ...
A: Respected Cheryl, There is hope for your peaceful future. First and foremost I suggest you to ...
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| Where do I go from here?? | 10/8/2009 | Kim |
Q: I don't even know where to begin??...It all started a week ago I went out for some drinks with ...
A: Crystal, I am so sorry that this happened to you. Please call the number that your doctor gave ...
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| incest/rape | 10/7/2009 | Kim |
Q: I am a woman in my 5O'S and am a survivor of incest and rape more than once. I tried therapy yrs. ...
A: Deborah, It’s not uncommon for people to not get much from therapy at first, but, please consider ...
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| how do i get this pattern to stop | 10/5/2009 | Kim |
Q: Ok, first off, i startd my sexual life when i wa 14 by a 18 yr old that has done time for ...
A: Betty, First let me say that, it doesn’t have to be rape for it to paralyze you with fear and pain. ...
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| Just now remembering sexual abuse. | 10/4/2009 | Kim |
Q: I am a 19 year old female and I believe that I was sexually abused when I was younger. I have ...
A: Lauren, The mind is extremely powerful and protective when it needs to be. As a child you may or ...
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| getting over rape? | 10/3/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am 17 at the moment. I was raped by my boyfriend a little over a year ago. On the surface ...
A: Rosie, This may be PTSD. I suggest you to give adequate time to your body to heal naturally. ...
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| would like some help | 10/2/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: this time last year i was raped by my ex boyfriend and his friend.i need help to try get over ...
A: Greetings. I pray that peace engulfs your whole being as you read this mail. It is good now that ...
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| Im not at peace with my self | 9/23/2009 | Kim |
Q: My name is Danielle Bell and I just turned 18 and my past has finally caught up with me. For the ...
A: Danielle, I understand what you are saying, completely, and it’s so frustrating. You say that it ...
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| girlfriend raped by her father | 9/21/2009 | Kim |
Q: my girlfriend has the worse father in the world. He used to abuse her when she was little to the ...
A: Nick, I am not going to tell you how to control your emotions, because it’s important that you deal ...
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| was i raped? | 9/16/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I have been involved in five relationships that have not lasted me more than a year and a half...I ...
A: Peace be with you Making you remembering the past is not that easy through on-line counseling.You ...
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| confused | 9/12/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Its a way to unburden my hrt. I'm 20 and attracted to a guy of 30 who seem to sincerely luv me. I ...
A: In my opinion this is not a rape. He had sex with you when you are very much unprepared in heart ...
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| Preventive Health After Rape | 9/11/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am petrified to go to any doctor because any situation that forces me to undress or that leaves me ...
A: There is hope for you. Visit a physician/doctor who is specialized in Bach Flower remedies. ...
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| confuse | 9/10/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I not sure if I was raped.It all happen meeting a guy last night at work I meet alot of tourist ...
A: The first sexual experience in that room you had with him was not a rape but the second one was ...
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| Roffied? or black-out? | 9/9/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I recently walked a friend home on the way back from a night out drinking. She lives about a half ...
A: You have not done it willingly. He had sex with you during your inebriated state. No one will know ...
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| Confused, need some kind of advice for myself | 9/8/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: This isn't your area of expertise but I need an honest answer from someone. Even if it's just ...
A: Respected Erin, I read your mail twice and understood the situation. What you have suffered is a ...
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| i need some help | 9/7/2009 | Shaylin |
Q: she has no self confidence,hates who she is,thinks she is different to everyone else,singles herself ...
A: It can be very difficult to deal with the effects of sexual assault at a young age and often the ...
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