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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| im stuck | 6/14/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: As soon I turned 14 I put myself in troubles way and got druk, went into a state of paralysis and ... A: To make you understand what is going in you.............. Mental toxins created by alcohol and ... | ||
| Last night rape | 6/12/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I went out last night then to a house party afterward. I got uncharacteristically drunk because I've ... A: I apologise to you for replying without relevance that led you to misunderstand. I want to ... | ||
| I'm scared to tell my boyfriend I was raped. | 6/12/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: Sundar, I've been with my boyfriend four years now and just found out I'm pregnant. I'm ... A: Tell him boldly and gently.If he truly loves you he will continue to love you.If not he will ... | ||
| Last night rape | 6/11/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I went out last night then to a house party afterward. I got uncharacteristically drunk because I've ... A: It is better to tell your BF about this rape.However you must take a vow never to drink and ... | ||
| Question about Fiance | 5/25/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: Me and my fiance have been together for about a year and since we've met, a month after we got ... A: Andrew, My suggestion to this 1-Leave this girl 2-Take a vow to the Divine assuring that you will ... | ||
| rape | 5/19/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: i was raped a couple of days but i dont want to go to the police to report it as i want to get on ... A: I understand your situation.Your wounds will heal only after a month long mind detoxification. Is ... | ||
| rape | 5/16/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: A week ago I was hanging out with an old friend who I hadn't seen in years and he started kissing me ... A: Amelia, This is rape,atleast the first time that he did to you. If you explain to me about the ... | ||
| so confused | 5/12/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I,m very confused. when i was 16 I met a guy aged 21 on holiday. we became friends and he came to ... A: Peace be with you. I fully understand your confused state of mind which is a sign of ... | ||
| dealing with rape memories | 5/9/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I have sister who was raped at the age of 6/7 and now she is 24. she never had a problem when we ... A: Bennetia, The mental wounds of these kind will heal only after sessions of intense ... | ||
| Family crisis | 5/3/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: There is a word that fits well in my, so many years of life but one that will suit 'screwed'. I have ... A: Peace be with you I empathise with your pain.I am willing to help you. I wish to communicate to ... | ||
| rape/abuse survivor | 4/26/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: My sister hates me so much that she allowed me to get raped. Then years later she said she didn't ... A: Greetings to you in the loving name of Jesus. "Your enemies are of your own household" said ... | ||
| Rape | 4/25/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: How do you start your conversation to your boyfriend about being raped? A: I want to apologize for not getting back to you sooner, I was very sick and in the hospital and am ... | ||
| help, | 4/21/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: Hey Meryl, my name is Melissa. I just turned 16 a couple weeks ago. In December my mom went on a ... A: Of course I remember you, I have about you constantly since you first wrote to AllExperts And I ... | ||
| help, | 4/18/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: Hey Meryl, my name is Melissa. I just turned 16 a couple weeks ago. In December my mom went on a ... A: I am so sorry that you were raped no one should go through such a horrible traumatic event. There is ... | ||
| Male Rape | 4/11/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I'm studying at the University of Cape Town and am doing an assignment on male rape, have you got ... A: I have had some experience working with men who have been raped. The interesting thing is that the ... | ||
| how do i love myself and build my confidence? | 4/11/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: this is really hard for me to talk about this but.. i was raped nearly 4 years ago when i was 20.. ... A: I am so sorry to hear that you were raped four years ago. The feelings you are describing are a ... | ||
| how to build self confident | 3/8/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: i was rape a tender age by my mother boyfriend, i grow in a orphanage, i presently live with my ... A: The problems that you are describing are ones that are shared by many rape survivors. Because being ... | ||
| How to help my raped partner | 3/6/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: My partner was raped about 4 yrs ago, just prior to us getting together. She was drugged and does ... A: Peace be with you As far as I understand from your words, I suggest that you too must meet a ... | ||
| My Girlfriend has recently told me she was raped, what to do? | 2/27/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: Me and my girlfriend have been together for around 6 months now, over the past 3-4 weeks she had ... A: It is clear from your post that you care very deeply about your girlfriend. There are some things ... | ||
| dont know what to say | 2/23/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: my gf recently told me she was raped by a relative when she was nine and it happened more than ... A: First I am sorry I did not get back to you sooner but I had a death in my immediate family and I am ... | ||
| rape | 2/22/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: Why would a man rape a five year old little girl? A: First I want to apologize for not getting back to you sooner I had a death in my immediate family ... | ||
| Insanity | 2/20/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I am Inali I am 19 and I was recently raped by my step-father. Since then I have had moments where I ... A: Fist I am sorry you had to wait so long for an answer to you query but I had a death in the family ... | ||
| raped at 16 | 2/18/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: until a couple of years a go , all my family and friends thought i was just hot headed bad tempered ... A: First I wanted to apologize for taking so long to get back to you I had a death in the family and I ... | ||
| moving on | 2/14/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: i was raped a few months ago, and based on all the stuff I have been reaading, guess my responses ... A: First I am so sorry that you were raped. This is one of the most traumatic experiences a human being ... | ||
| Dealing with Gang Rape 22 years later | 2/13/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: Good Day, I was gang raped by 2 men 22 years ago, and somehow I haven't gotten over it yet. I was 18 ... A: First I am so sorry that you went through such a brutal rape . Since it was 22 years ago I imagine ... | ||
| Am I weird? | 2/11/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: My name is Johnathan, and I am married to a rape victim.I dont really understand but for one reason ... A: Johnathan, You are weird.What you go through is normal. I suggest- 1-Choose a place where you ... | ||
| married to a rape victim | 2/11/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I recently got married 3 months ago and my wife and I have been fighting CONSTANTLY. We fought when ... A: I suspect that negative residues of rape are still in her.She still may bear wounds in ... | ||
| rape victim;relationship;sex | 2/2/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I really hope that you can give me some advise...I was raped when i was 15years old and sexually ... A: I am very glad that you got back in touch with me and that our first discussion although brief was ... | ||
| help | 2/1/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: He first r***d me when i was 13, after many years i think he is finally out of life and i just don't ... A: I am so sorry that you were raped. I am especially sorry that this happened when you were so young. ... | ||
| Was it rape? | 2/1/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now and our relationship started out with us having ... A: I can hear from your tone that you are very upset with the situation with your boyfriend. What you ... | ||
| rape victim;relationship;sex | 1/31/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I really hope that you can give me some advise...I was raped when i was 15years old and sexually ... A: I am so sorry that you were raped and then sexually abused at such a young age. Rape is the most ... | ||
| rape.. | 1/31/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: i was raped by an ex boyfriend a multiple number of times starting at fifteen yrs old and once by a ... A: I am so sorry that you experience so many rapes at such a young age. When we are young we have a ... | ||
| Need help dealing | 1/31/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I was raped the summer before last in a clubhouse in a apartment subdivision. I met a man at a gym I ... A: I am glad to hear that you are seeking help with a counselor and that you have begun to let your ... | ||
| Raped as a child? | 1/30/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: At the age of 9 I had my first ever "boyfriend". I really feel for this boy, even though he was 3 ... A: When we are young we all tend to have a strong need to love and even more to be loved. Unfortunately ... | ||
| Need help dealing | 1/30/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I was raped the summer before last in a clubhouse in a apartment subdivision. I met a man at a gym I ... A: There are a lot of points in your query that I want to address but before I even begin talking about ... | ||
| I don't know how to tell my counselor i have my brother a blowjob when i was little. | 1/30/2011 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I've been seeing a counselor for over 5 years now, and I want to bring something up to her but I ... A: Peace be with you. I understand your inner-scenario.It is normal for you to feel gross when you ... | ||
| depression | 1/27/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I was raped at age 9 by my piano teacher. I never told anyone until I had a breakdown 2 years ago. ... A: I am so sorry that you were raped. It is especially hard when you are young because we are, as you ... | ||
| It's been 20 years and it's come out | 1/26/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I was date raped 20 years ago by a friend of the man I had just starting dating. He told him that ... A: I would be glad to continue with you as a private client. For now I would like you to contact me at ... | ||
| Fear | 1/25/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: Sometimes I feel the the uniqueness of my situation is so extreme that I may never be able to live a ... A: I am so sorry that you were sexually assaulted at such a young age. To a seven year old any adult is ... | ||
| It's been 20 years and it's come out | 1/25/2011 | meryl schmidt |
| Q: I was date raped 20 years ago by a friend of the man I had just starting dating. He told him that ... A: I am sorry for the rape you experienced 20 years ago. You did what many women do when they are ... | ||
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