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About Dr.Sunu Sundar
Expertise
I can answer questions from rape victims who are desperate to find a source for inner healing. All my answers will focus on soothing the victims of rape ultimately leading to inner healing.

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I have been in counselling for last seven years. I have been counseling adults,teenagers and children who are abused and raped in various situations.

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I have a master degree in Psychology and another in Sociology

 
   

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Rape Counseling - How to help my fiance who was raped when i can be there.


Expert: Dr.Sunu Sundar - 10/27/2009

Question
First off, my fiance and I are both in the military. I am stationed overseas and shes in the states. I recently recieved the horrible news that she had been drugged and raped. Ive read that it is important for a lover to be there for the victim to comfort them and let them know that they are still loved. But my dilema is, obviously, that im thousands of miles away. I really need to know the best way that i can help her without actually being there.

Answer
Dear Cory,

Psychologically speaking, in my understanding, unless  she  gets  help from a psychologist who  is  a firm believer in God thinks may not turn well.

You  may help  her through e-mails  by encouraging her  to  pray and also  showing  her  love offering courage and positive approaches.But  any help  from you  will have  limited effect  because you are away

I pray for you


Have a nice day

-Dr.Sunu

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