Expert: Dr.Sunu Sundar - 11/2/2009

Question
im a freshman and college and recentally lost my virginity with this guy. We had protected sex a couple times but he would always stop so we never actually had sex the whole way through because it would hurt so bad for me. one night he came back to his dorm drunk and took my pants and panties off. he forced it in i kept saying stop and i was crying because i didnt want to do it and because it hurt but he wouldnt stop. then all of a sudden he stoped and said the reason why he kept going was because he thought i said softer and dont stop and he kept apologizing to me. because he didnt actually finish does that mean he raped me?

Answer
Dear Nekisha,


Yes this is  rape.

Kindly bear  with me for the following suggestion. I say this  out of my  long term experience in counseling and  spirituality.  

HAVE SEX AFTER MARRIAGE WITH YOUR HUSBAND.

Pray to God regularly.You  need to  know the plan of God for your life and live accordingly  to  have  a happy life.Remember you  are created  for a  purpose!

Have  a nice  day