Expert: Dr.Sunu Sundar - 11/3/2009

Question
Was I Raped?
About two years ago i was in the 7th grade and my dad had just got married. i had moved in with m new family and was doing great. After a few months my step brother was 21 moved in. He never hit on me or anything. But one night him and his friend brought over alcohol. We was playing drinkin games. The last thing i remember was him trying to kiss me and touch on my legs. When i had woken up the next morning i didn't remember the rest of the night. I had felt different in my vaginal area. it hurt. So i knew something had happened. I stayed really depressed. And i never said anything. About a month later he got drunk again, i was totally sober. and he said something to me that broke my heart. He told me that we had sex and he was actually happy about. Before then my virginity meant everything. And he took it all away from me. im 15 now and still recovering. I try to make it least about of noticable that im hurting inside and only my boyfriend and few friends know. So was it rape? or is it not? Was it my fault? Will i ever fully recover?

Answer
Dear Melanie,


Yes this is rape.

Your fault   lies in playing drinking games with  him.This game was  a blunder and  a trap.


You will  be fully healed  and recover if you  start  praying to God  regularly and  walk   according to His commands.


Have  a nice  day