Expert: Dr.Sunu Sundar - 6/22/2009

Question
this si edgar and im 17 now.
i got raped when i was 8 i got an orgasm while i got raped i think im gay but i tried going out with a
guy but it doesnt feel right ... does getting raped make you gay?? i haven't had sex yet with anyone except when i got raped i really confused i dont know what to do i told my best friend about me
getting raped and it just made me feel weird because every time i see my best friend i remember  that
i told him about it and it reminds me of the time i got raped i dont if im making sence but i need
help (tell if i didnt make sence so i can reword everything}

Answer
Dear Edgar,

Getting raped  does not make you a  gay.

To understand more about your inclination to same  sex, further discussions are  needed. You may mail me  with  details of your sexual inclinations, family setup and about your  friends  circle.

OR

You may consult a local psychologist

Best wishes