AboutDr.Sunu Sundar Expertise I can answer questions from rape victims who are desperate to find a source for inner healing. All my answers will focus on soothing the victims of rape ultimately leading to inner healing.
Experience I have been in counselling for last seven years. I have been counseling adults,teenagers and children who are abused and raped in various situations.
Education/Credentials I have a master degree in Psychology and another in Sociology
Question I have been involved in five relationships that have not lasted me more than a year and a half...I always break these relationships due to the same reason...i get bored with the other half..hate being around them and feel unsafe...I started having these bits and pieces of things from my past and part of it was remembering my uncle putting me in a sleeping bag and making me hold his private parts...I was a young girl maybe at the age of 5 or 6.I try to remember more of that time but the only thing that comes clear most time is the one above...When i try to go deep in thought so as to remember more i get scared and stop..So when all this is happening i then start to hate being around man and just feel dirty for getting myself involved in relationships..This has happened in all the relationships i have had and one person said that i ad two personalities..one that hates man with a passion because of what happened and one that wants to be happy and lead a normal life..This has affected my whole life because i cry myself to sleep when i think of what might have happened to me as a child...Am i being haunted by my past...i need something or someone to help me remember because then i will be at peace with myself..
Answer Dear Happie,
Peace be with you
Making you remembering the past is not that easy through on-line counseling.You need to visit counselor for face to face counseling
I would suggest you to engage yourself in regular, diligent prayers and regular meditation for cleansing your heart and mind from the negative impact of the past.This alone will help you to forgive and forget the past and enable you to live a productive life.
