AboutDr.Sunu Sundar Expertise I am a psychologist committed to Christ and enjoy relationship in His company.I can answer questions from rape victims who are desperate to find a source for inner healing. All my answers will focus on soothing the victims of rape ultimately leading to inner healing.
Experience I have been in counselling for last seven years. I have been counseling adults,teenagers and children who are abused and raped in various situations.
Organizations Mind Spa Clinic
In Mind Spa Clinic we treat people focusing on wholistic healing. Various types of therapies offered here for detoxifiying the mind and body are derived from the wisdom of traditional Indian medical system and medicines.
Rape victims are offered special One to One residential therapy for complete healing of mind.
Treatments offered her are based on alternative medical system derived from the wisdom of saints on ancient times. Treatments are harmless with no side effects.
A team of doctors committed towards the welfare of the patients are on duty in the clinic.
Education/Credentials I have a master degree in Psychology and another in Sociology
Question im 14 years old and i was raped 4 years ago by a close friend of mines brother. it happened quick, but the pain of it has yet to go away. i dont consider him my first time. that night i broke and ive never been the same since. i just came out to my mom and close friends about what happened that night. its still kind of a blur to me but i know what happened. i havent told my close friend whos brother was the one who raped me. i dont want to ruin her and my friend shp. we've been friends since we were born and shes too important to me. i told my mom i dont want to press charges but i cant help but think im making the wrong decision. im alot calmer with what happened and i dont break down as frequently so i thought asking someone on the outside would be good. so my questions are: am i making the wrong decision? should i press charges and tell herr what her brother did to me? also id really appreciate it if you could maybe give me a website that i could post my whole story on for free so i can help other girls who came out to being raped years after it happened.
Answer Dear Paige,
I understand the dilemma you are in.
I understand that your friend is close and important to you. My question is-
In her view and opinion, are you important and close to your friend in her mind and heart?If so your pressing charges wont bother her
If she is really your friend, then there is no problem of your friendship breaking and you losing her.
I recommend pressing charges against the boy,however is it no too late?
What are the evidences you have to produce in the court to establish that he raped you?
You need deep counseling.Your mom can be trained to counsel you. If she gets in touch with me I can help her to counsel you.
