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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| How do I move on? | 5/17/2009 | Kim |
| Q: When I was 17, I was raped by two men (I don't know who they were) on my way home from a club. I ... A: Nina, Check your laws there in Norway. Unfortunately I was not successful in locating a number or ... | ||
| I am just confused | 5/16/2009 | Kelli |
| Q: I was raped three and a half years ago when I was in seventh grade. It was my best friend and he did ... A: I am so sorry that this has happened to you. It is not your fault. No matter what he said, you ... | ||
| How do I move on? | 5/16/2009 | Kelli |
| Q: When I was 17, I was raped by two men (I don't know who they were) on my way home from a club. I ... A: I am so sorry that this happened to you, Emily. Let me try and answer some of your questions to the ... | ||
| Rape | 5/15/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
| Q: I was raped once at the age of 13 by my brother than again raped 20 years later in my home by a ... A: Yes, even if it was only once as a child, it is still considered sexual abuse. Childhood sexual ... | ||
| my girlfriend was raped and i'm confused | 5/14/2009 | Kim |
| Q: The girl I'm in love with was raped about a month before we started dating which i think was about ... A: Brian, It sounds like she’s not ready. It sounds like she might be in denial. She also may be ... | ||
| Restoring peace with God after a rape | 5/13/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: Before I was coerced into a sexual assault, I had the peace of God that passes understanding. For 17 ... A: Peace be with you!! I very well understand your situation.But know this that.... "God is ... | ||
| my girlfriend was raped and i'm confused | 5/13/2009 | Kim |
| Q: The girl I'm in love with was raped about a month before we started dating which i think was about ... A: Brian, I can understand your upset her. I would be too, and it is hard to understand her emotions, ... | ||
| Sharing of story... | 5/11/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: How do I tell a close friend that I was raped? I've been seeing a counselor for 4 months now and I ... A: Devin, There are no right and wrong words exactly when you want to share something with someone. ... | ||
| Trying to have a relationship with a survivor | 5/9/2009 | Kelli |
| Q: I saw a question like this but no real answers. I've met an amazing girl. I've only known her a ... A: Matt. The best thing that you can do is be her friend. Take it slow. Let her know that you care and ... | ||
| rape and sexual abuse | 5/6/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
| Q: I am 21 and when I was 14 I was raped by a guy I was tutoring. He had pushed me down and put a ... A: I do not think you are over the PTSD and that counseling is still very necessary. There is a type of ... | ||
| rape and sexual abuse | 5/6/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
| Q: I am 21 and when I was 14 I was raped by a guy I was tutoring. He had pushed me down and put a ... A: Your abuse has been horrendous. You are clearly showing signs of post-traumatic stress disorder ... | ||
| moustation | 5/5/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: what happens when a child doesn't get counseling when having a truama A: A child that experienced(s) trauma and lack of proper counseling will affect the psyche of the ... | ||
| My rape | 5/5/2009 | Karen |
| Q: I guess I just need to talk to someone who has been where I have! I was raped 10 years ago. I knew ... A: The unfortunate thing about "tucking" things away is that these things build up over time and when ... | ||
| Severe childhood sexual abuse | 5/5/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
| Q: I've been struggling with asking someone about this for some time, just was never sure how to go ... A: My heart goes out to you. You are aware of how great an impact sexual abuse has on a child. It can ... | ||
| my dad raped my sister | 5/3/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
| Q: This is not easy for me to talk about. Its 1 in the morning and yet im awake surfing the net on how ... A: Daniel, Childhood Sexual Abuse/Incest is one of the most damaging things that can happen to ... | ||
| is it rape? | 4/28/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: Last year I invited my then boyfriend around to my house, he'd never been before and he was a ... A: What was done to you is a different dimension of rape.You need not feel dirty. Take this as a ... | ||
| rape? what do i do? | 4/26/2009 | Bailey |
| Q: I was at a party and i was completely wasted and ended up passing out on a couch next to some guy. ... A: Elizabeth, It is considered rape when you are unable to give consent, this would include while ... | ||
| Raped when i was pregnant would my son have known? | 4/26/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I read one of he questions posted in regards to a woman who masturbated and had fantasies and you ... A: Good you wrote a long mail From your letter I gathered lots of signals suggesting that your ... | ||
| Raped when i was pregnant would my son have none? | 4/25/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I read one of he questions posted in regards to a woman who masturbated and had fantasies and you ... A: Greetings from the desk of Dr.Sunu Sundar Peace be with you. No need to panic. With God's help ... | ||
| signs of being raped | 4/22/2009 | Kim |
| Q: My question being, which puzzles me a lot..well let me tell the story, I came back from work ... A: Rachelle, Well, first of all, it sounds like he is possibly dealing with what we call Rape Trauma ... | ||
| My Girlfriend Got Raped By Her Brother..... | 4/20/2009 | Kim |
| Q: Ok I'm going out with this girl,, her name too is Kim. ((Lesbian Relationship))She has felt that she ... A: Ok, so it sounds like her attacker is in jail. She can always get an Order of Protection. You said ... | ||
| my girlfriend was raped by her father | 4/14/2009 | Kim |
| Q: Her father raped her when she was 7, between the ages of 7 and 12 it totaled up to about 12 times. ... A: Justin, I would be worried too. Does she live alone now? How old is she? Can she get an order of ... | ||
| Questions about dealing with a rape survivor | 4/13/2009 | Kim |
| Q: A woman I am dating recently disclosed she is a rape survivor and could use some advice on what I ... A: Well, let’s start with what are your questions? You certainly can ask her and be prepared and ... | ||
| Rape?? | 4/12/2009 | Kim |
| Q: In the situation I told the guy no and that I didn't want to do anything, but I had been drinking ... A: Laura, I can understand being/feeling numb; BUT that can be a very dangerous way to cope. Please be ... | ||
| What could have happened to me? | 4/10/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: I am now 24 years old. Growing up I can remember masturbating and having disturbing sexual ... A: Peace and Light! You need not panic. I understand the dilemma. There is hope. Once you cooperate ... | ||
| Rape?? | 4/9/2009 | Kim |
| Q: In the situation I told the guy no and that I didn't want to do anything, but I had been drinking ... A: I can understand being scared. Do you have a friend that you'd feel safe and comfortable talking to ... | ||
| moving past the abuse | 4/9/2009 | Kim |
| Q: Kim, I am hoping you can give me some advise as it sounds like you may know what I am going ... A: Heidi, I am happy that you have an appointment. I can understand all of those feelings. It is hard. ... | ||
| Rape?? | 4/8/2009 | Kim |
| Q: In the situation I told the guy no and that I didn't want to do anything, but I had been drinking ... A: Laura, Yes, you were raped. This was not your fault. You said no, and even if you didn't say the ... | ||
| Drunk rape | 4/7/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: My daughter woke up from a party where she had been drinking to find a "friend" having sex with her. ... A: Respected Dee, Greetings. I appreciate that your daughter did not hide matters from you. It is ... | ||
| moving past the abuse | 4/6/2009 | Kim |
| Q: Kim, I am hoping you can give me some advise as it sounds like you may know what I am going ... A: Heidi, Well, I can understand where you are coming from. I have a good relationship with one of my ... | ||
| Girlfriend with trust issues | 4/5/2009 | Kim |
| Q: My girlfriend of two months, Taylor, was sexually assaulted by her cousin when she was 5. The only ... A: Well, Nick, first you need to gain Taylor's trust. Talk with her about this. See what she needs and ... | ||
| how do i get past this | 4/4/2009 | Kim |
| Q: nightmares every night now and i cant consetrat in school i will be doing my work and just start ... A: Ashley, I am very concerned about you. You're very young. How are you getting all this alcohol and ... | ||
| New boyfriend opened up about childhood rape | 4/3/2009 | Kim |
| Q: I started dating a 22 year old about a month ago. We are having a lot of fun starting this ... A: Jean, He will need to go slow. He will need to develop trust with you. Also you may want to ... | ||
| A victims significant other (More Info) | 3/31/2009 | Kim |
| Q: Is it possible for a rape victims significant other such as a boyfriend or girlfriend that is really ... A: Aubrey, Love is incredible. When you love someone we tend to feel their pain just as much as their ... | ||
| A lot of questions.... | 3/30/2009 | Kim |
| Q: This happened about a month ago. My friend brought me to a small party. There were about 8 people, ... A: Murasaki, Wow. In the condition that you were in I don’t know that you would have felt being ... | ||
| A victims significant other | 3/29/2009 | Kim |
| Q: Is it possible for a rape victims significant other such as a boyfriend or girlfriend that is really ... A: Well of course. The significant other can feel some of the symptoms with their loved one. What ... | ||
| Was I raped?... | 3/26/2009 | Kim |
| Q: I am now 18 years old, but when I was around the age of 11 years old. Me and my family were really ... A: Julie, Yes, if there was penetration it is rape. This sounds like incest or molestation but maybe ... | ||
| Was I raped? | 3/25/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: about 4 years ago I was dating my first boyfriend. I told him I wasn't ready for sex but he kept ... A: Greetings and peace I name your negative sexual experiences as violation of your rights in ... | ||
| I don't know if it was rape, but I'm having trouble sleeping. | 3/24/2009 | Kim |
| Q: I'm really confused. My boyfriend and I of 3 and a half years had been partying one night. We were ... A: Alexandria, I would encourage you to speak to each other, possibly even consider counseling. ... | ||
| I don't know what to call it... | 3/23/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
| Q: When I was around 7 or 8 for about a month span, my brother, well I don't know if its called rape or ... A: I understand your fear.If you agree, I am willing to direct you to one of my friends in United ... | ||
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Kim
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
I am a survivor. I know what it’s like to be the victim. I am now a Sexual Assault Victim’s Care Advocate. I have been certified as such since November 2000. I am currently a student who is specializing in trauma and abuse and the associated disorders and illnesses.
Experience
I am a survivor. So, I not only have book smarts but, personal experience with what rape is and how much it affects the victim and his or her loved ones.
Education/Credentials
I am working on my Master's in Psychology specializing in trauma and abuse. I am in addition working on two associate degrees in Social Work and Women and Gender studies.
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