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| My friend might hae been raped | 6/18/2009 | Kim |
Q: Recently one of my best friends disappeared just from everywhere. She wouldn't answer her phone, ...
A: Katie, She COULD have been raped and or abused. It's really hard to say, but either way, something ...
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| Signs of a Teenager who was raped? | 6/17/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: My friends daughter who is 13 years old just disclosed that she was raped at home by her uncle. ...
A: First and foremost I appreciate you for considering this girl as your own daughter. As you say ...
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| rape: aftermath and recovery | 6/16/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I am 37, single, mom of an 11 year old. Two weeks ago a "guest" of my roommates brought us all ...
A: I am proud of you for taking steps to protect you and your daughter. I am inspired by your take ...
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| Helping a husband cope | 6/16/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: I am writing to you because I am not sure what else to do. I was raped 4 years ago and went to ...
A: Peace be with you. Aversion to sex is one of the typical consequences of rape.But you need not ...
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| molestation | 6/16/2009 | Kelli |
Q: -Is this molestation- an uncle kissing their 6 yr oldniece in the stairwell on their neck/face.. -A ...
A: It isn't always easy to just let go and move on. You may be finding it difficult to forgive because ...
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| sex? | 6/16/2009 | Kim |
Q: First off, I have asked this question to 2 other experts and none of them have gotten back to me in ...
A: Your therapist is right. It is better to talk through your pain than it is to drink them away. It’s ...
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| Still suffering from childhood incest | 6/16/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I have still struggling very much so with issues regarding my childhood (being raped nightly by my ...
A: I'm sorry it's taken me so long to get back to you, Laura. I hear in your question a sense of being ...
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| MY GIRL WAS RAPED | 6/15/2009 | Kim |
Q: I am dating a girl I love soo much. But the problem is tha she was RAPED WHILST VIRGIN by her ...
A: It’s normal to go through a feeling of un-feeling after rape. However, it could develop into a ...
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| Was it rape? | 6/14/2009 | Karen |
Q: 10 years ago my friend held an 18th birthday party for me at her house. I got very drunk and think I ...
A: I'm sorry you're in such a bad situation! Let me link you to a few websites that explain what rape ...
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| was i raped | 6/14/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: Peace be with you Even though what was done to you cannot be strictly called as rape, yet I ...
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| was i raped? | 6/14/2009 | Kim |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: Erica, Anytime you are not consenting to sex and your partner doesn’t listen when you say no, it is ...
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| was i raped? | 6/14/2009 | Kelli |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: I believe that anytime a woman says "No" and doesn't want to either have sex or continue to have sex ...
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| is it rape? | 6/14/2009 | Karen |
Q: Me and my friend met up with two guys one night. We were all expecting to have sex, i was a little ...
A: Let me link you to a few websites that explain what rape and sexual assault are and let you come to ...
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| a friend was raped | 6/13/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I have a friend whom I first met when she was a student at my school. I noticed her significant ...
A: Your friend is very fortunate to have found such a great friend in you. And you have helped her in ...
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| sex? | 6/13/2009 | Kim |
Q: First off, I have asked this question to 2 other experts and none of them have gotten back to me in ...
A: Alison, Yes, it is normal to have these sorts of symptoms and responses. The drinking, the easily ...
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| rape - disgusted by sex? | 6/12/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I was raped when I was 20; I am 22 now. I met the guy through a friend and we started dating. I ...
A: Honestly, yes, it's a pretty normal reaction after going through what you have gone through. You ...
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| molestation | 6/12/2009 | Kelli |
Q: -Is this molestation- an uncle kissing their 6 yr oldniece in the stairwell on their neck/face.. -A ...
A: Molestation, generally means when a minor child has been fondled, caressed, or touched-- or been ...
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| I am a Surviver | 6/8/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: Where can I get good advice on inner healing. So I can be be happy with my self. I want to feel like ...
A: I would contact a counselor who specializes in the traumas you've experienced, along with PTSD. ...
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| raped | 6/8/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I have to live with my dad and he always tried to rape me. He is a cop and every time I go to tell ...
A: You need to tell a trusted adult. You need help immediately. Unfortunately, you are going to have ...
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| how to fix it | 6/8/2009 | Kelli |
Q: I have ptsd,bi-polar,adhd,bpd,all kinds of mental disorders and I know that its a direct result of ...
A: Even though you have been abused by different people, at different stages in life, and in different ...
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| My Girlfriend was raped | 6/3/2009 | Bailey |
Q: I am 19 years old, she is 17. We have been together for over 2 years. She is my closest friend, and ...
A: Nate - First off, I want to say you are doing a good thing by being there for your girlfriend. ...
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| i was raped recently, and I don't know how to tell my husband | 6/1/2009 | Kim |
Q: Last weekend I went to a martini bar with some friends about an hour and a half from my house. We ...
A: If you are not ready to tell your husband that’s OK, but I strongly encourage you to set up an ...
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| My wife was raped and ncis did not help | 6/1/2009 | Kelli |
Q: we live on base in 29 palms so it's easy for ncis to hide rape there's no big city's for 90 ...
A: Mike, I am so sorry. I am at a great loss as to what to say. I would like to encourage you to ...
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| My wife is a rape victim | 5/30/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: My wife is a rape victim. it happened about a month and a half ago. Needless to say she was upset ...
A: Jack, My heart goes out to you and your wife. You sound like an incredibly supportive guy. First ...
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| one year after rape - long term effects | 5/28/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: I was raped a little over a year ago. I am terrified of touch and men and feel I can't meet ...
A: I think the terms sexual abuse/rape/incest are all related. Sometimes used interchangeably and ...
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| associated disorders | 5/28/2009 | Kim |
Q: How can rape lead to anxiety, panic. Now, when I answer the phone the words don't come out and its ...
A: I think that rape leads to anxiety and panic because of loss of control, because of the fear that ...
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| one year after rape - long term effects | 5/27/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: I was raped a little over a year ago. I am terrified of touch and men and feel I can't meet ...
A: I think that would be a great idea. However, I don't think you should do that by itself. One of the ...
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| one year after rape - long term effects | 5/27/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: I was raped a little over a year ago. I am terrified of touch and men and feel I can't meet ...
A: I'm so sorry you were raped. I can't diagnose, but is sounds like post traumatic stress (PTSD) ...
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| reactions to rape? | 5/27/2009 | Kim |
Q: Kim, I was raped over a year ago and I feel like I just can't make friends, like go up to people ...
A: What that means is YOU not me may be so afraid of people letting you down, hurting you, that you ...
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| boyfriend of rape victim | 5/27/2009 | Kim |
Q: I am the boyfriend of a girl who was raped approx. 5 years ago. Those memories are haunting her ...
A: Ron, The best way to support her is support her efforts in therapy. Talk with her about what she ...
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| parent of a rape victim | 5/27/2009 | Kelli |
Q: My adult daughter says she was raped 2 years ago and uses this to not finish school work. She is in ...
A: Carol, you just found out that the daughter whom you've loved and raised has experienced something ...
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| nightmares after trauma | 5/26/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: I was sexually assaulted by two men over a year ago. I began cognitive behavioral therapy ...
A: Is your therapy dealing specifically with the trauma. The best therapy is "systematic ...
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| Was it consensual? | 5/26/2009 | Kim |
Q: About a year ago, I was at a party. I had considerably too much to drink. My friend left with a guy, ...
A: Lora, No it was not consensual. You said no, you said you didn’t want to, and you even said you ...
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| reactions to rape? | 5/24/2009 | Kim |
Q: Kim, I was raped over a year ago and I feel like I just can't make friends, like go up to people ...
A: Alison, It sounds like with your disability you may worry about losing people and so you protect ...
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| My Boyfriend was molested by his mother | 5/22/2009 | Kim |
Q: When my boyfriend was younger he was molested by his mother. I don't know how long this went on, and ...
A: Susan, With such feelings, you MUST get him help ASAP. So many things can go wrong with such ...
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| rape | 5/21/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: My names Taylor and Im 14 years old. I was raped a few years back and it seems to be popping up ...
A: I'm so glad you had the courage to tell and didn't keep it in where it could do psychological ...
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| reactions to rape? | 5/21/2009 | Kim |
Q: Kim, I was raped over a year ago and I feel like I just can't make friends, like go up to people ...
A: Alison, First, relationships are affected after rape, usually the worst affect goes to sexual ...
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| Children abused by neighbor | 5/21/2009 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: We have just found out that one of our sons was sexually abused by a neighbor as a young child (5-6) ...
A: First of all, I'm sorry about your son. I'm glad he was able to tell you. Hmm, that's a tough one ...
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| Girlfreind was date raped and feel its taken out on me | 5/20/2009 | Kim |
Q: I was the boyfreind of someone who was date raped about a month before she met me. I was very ...
A: Ron, It sounds like she’s translating your comment in a completely different meaning and this is ...
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| when will i be over it? | 5/19/2009 | Dr.Sunu Sundar |
Q: i was raped 2 years ago, yet everytime the anniversay comes up i completely ruin my life, iv now for ...
A: Greetings and peace. I am wiling to help you. You need not regret thinking that you left him ...
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