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Dear dirty, I have done well in school of course I have had nice teachers and a good mother.

I was born into an unhealthy environment and witnessed abuse, then later became the victim of physical and verbal abuse. As a young man I wasn't the nicest person and later became emotionally needy.

At 19 I became disillusioned with my religion and joined a strict group of very judgmental people. Although I tried my best to do good to others I was slandered. I left for seven years till I found another church where I met an even more judgmental person who was a friend for two years till he two accused me lies. I gave him another chance but he insulted someone close to me. During an eight month period things got better yet worse. I had stopped praying.

I have never found or had a girlfriend yet I have been told years later that maybe I'd have had a chance, but I was to scared to ask anyone out

This year had gotten a lot better, life is better then it has been in decades. I have met MANY people who's company I enjoy and who find me nice. Instead of being called ugly I now get called nice looking or not bad looking. One of the people I have met I hope is THE ONE.

For years I have used the technique of prayer and asked for weight loss sporadically and lost 80 pounds recently

I asked for a cure to stress and have gone out frequently this year then in a decade,

Prayed for a healing for my ulcer and found one yet never took it. My ulcers hardly bug me except in stressful situations

I asked to move to L.A. And met that horrible man yet he was from L.A. And an expert in the subject I sought to study, he gave me many valuable pointers before we parted ways.

Things are getting better, but I want a faster development. I want a future with the girl I met. She has said she might date me then changes her mind, I think she is afraid of something, her children's father is not very good to her.

Do you have any advice?

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Hello Raul,

Thanks for writing to me.  I will advise you to read the small book which you can purchase online through the following link:

http://pothi.com/pothi/book/sumit-kumar-sirkar-how-be-lucky-and-successful-life

You need to change certain habits and  attitudes, as narrated in the book I have recommended.

Wishing you the very best...

Sincerely,


Sumit

Dear Raul,

Kindly let me know your email address so that I can have the privilege of sending a soft copy of my book, which I trust should be of some help to you.

With best wishes,

Sincerely,


Sumit

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SUMIT KUMAR SIRKAR

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I CAN ANSWER 'WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE LUCKY AND WHY SOME ARE NOT' AND WHAT CAN BE DONE ABOUT IT? ALSO WHAT ROLE REINCARNATION PLAYS IN OUR FORTUNE AND MISFORTUNE. I CAN ALSO PROVIDE REMEDIES FOR BAD LUCK. MY complete findings on luck and fortune has been published in the book: http://pothi.com/pothi/book/sumit-kumar-sirkar-how-be-lucky-and-successful-life

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According to me the definition of good fortune is: one who enjoys good health, has the physical and mental capabilities of achieving his goals, has good appearance, has happiness in mind and is not prone to accidents…I think such a person can be called a fortunate person. Whether anyone believes me or not, I have learnt from this life that everyone is born with a balance of fortune or misfortune. I understood that sum total of a man’s personality and life, depends upon three factors: one: GENETIC FACTOR, two: ENVIRONMENT FACTOR and three: HARDWORK FACTOR. And all these three factors are not in one’s hand. One cannot take birth with good genetic qualities of one’s choice. One cannot as a child arrange a good environment for himself. He lives where he is born, in his family and goes to the school where his parents put him into and plays with such kids who are available. Ability to work hard also depends upon his genetic qualities and environments like his aptitude, attitude, health, nutrition, and motivation and may be many other factors. But all such factors are not his choice but he has to live with them as ‘chance’ grants him. So this chance is luck or fortune and some are fortunate and some are not fortunate. I suffered from conginital nystagmus due to which never enjoyed normal vision and hormonal misbalance in brain. Hormone called serotonin remained in abnormally lesser quantity in my brain due to which I suffered from acute lack of mental concentration, lethargy, lack of memory and also from chronic depression. So I call myself unfortunate. Because I felt I was unfortunate, I always searched answer to the question why is somebody is fortunate and why is somebody not? My search went on. I even meditated for hours everyday and searched within to get the answer. After more than 34 years of search, I got some answers and so I know now what is the role of reincarnation in context with our fortune or misfortune.

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IN MANY WEB SITES, BUZZLE.COM, VISION HOUSE MAGAZINE ETC.

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B.A., A.I.I.I.

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