Expertise I am able to answer questions with regard to the emotional considerations that arise from divorce and remarriage as well as questions about blended families and the unique issues that spring from these relationships. Questions that I am unable to answer have anything to do with legal matters. I am not a lawyer, so these questions are outside of my scope of practice.
Experience I have been in a blended family situation for 30 years and understand the mistakes that can be made, the good intentions that fail and the unique situations that can arise having ex-spouses as part of the family unit. I am also a professional counselor.
Organizations American Mental Health Counselors Assn
American Association of Christian Counselors
International Association of Prayer Counselors
Publications The Good News Northwest and the North Idaho Business Journal
Education/Credentials Licensed Professional Counselor
Certified Rehabilitation Counselor
Certified Natural Health Professional
Awards and Honors Board Certified Christian Counselor
Q: I have been divorced for 5 years. I had two daughters now 23 and 20. My Daughters have a love for ... A: Although frustrating, this kind of problem is not insurmountable. If your daughters were younger, ...
Q: What do you do with the wedding rings after your spouse passes away? I am a 36 yr old widow that is ... A: This is a good question and one that raises other questions on both sides of the fence. When I read ...
Q: I have spent almost 12 yrs of my life being married (1st lasted 3yrs and the 2nd 9yrs) I have been ... A: I can understand what you are saying. It is difficult to throw yourself back in the game when ...
Q: I have been dating a wonderful man for about a year now. He and I have both been married before. He ... A: It sounds like, for the most part, you have a pretty good relationship going with this man. It ...
Q: Can a man married in a Christian church can enter a second marriage in Islam without having divorced ... A: There are many things that can come into play with this question....the most important one being ...
Q: OK...so I'm about to blow here and before I make a decision, I need to stop and get another opinion, ... A: I am glad that you wrote. It is clear that you have some very strong feelings about the situation ...
Q: i am 41 years have 2 daughters one living with me 13 years the other with her father in another ... A: You have encountered one of the major places where blended families come up against problems. I can ...
Q: I met a sweet woman 2 years ago. We hit it off very well for the first 6 months and then her ex. got ... A: I am so very sorry that this is happening to both of you and to the children. I am sure it is ...
Q: I am a 44 year old female - he is 45. He was married for 24 years, unhappily. I have been married ... A: I can see this is a source of frustration for you and it does seem like quite a confusing situation. ...
Q: My wife and I divorced summer 2005. I have never stoped loving her. I think of her and pray for her ... A: I don't know how much you've tried to talk with her. There comes a point though that if she doesn't ...
Q: My husband has two daughters form a previous marriage, he has been divorced for 11 years. We have ... A: In the grand scheme of things, I wouldn't rock the boat on this one. Here's why... 1. If she's ...
Q: I am in a relationship with a wonderful man, Everything is very good between us except for when he ... A: I'm glad to hear that your relationship with the children is going well. My guess is, as you and ...
Q: Do second marriages fair better in the USA that first marriages? Is there such data available? A: The short answer to your question is unfortunately "no." However, there are A LOT of things you ...
Q: When I remarry, I will have to relocate to a town 45 minutes away. My daughter, who is almost 18, ... A: My answer to you is really for you to ask yourself several questions. First is do you HAVE to ...
Q: I am in love with a woman who lost her husband 4 yrs ago. Lately, due to a family crisis, she is ... A: The most effective thing you can do is to let her know that you are ok with her talking to you about ...
