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| how do i do this | 7/15/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Ok sorry if i was unclear..i need advice on how to make the move for the first kiss and how to flirt ...
A: Joelle Flirting can range from anything, you don't even have to wear anything super special, it can ...
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| First trip? | 6/25/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I am 20 years old, and I have been dating a guy (he is 24) for a month now, and a few days ago he ...
A: Adelina I see no problem on going away on a trip with him however you need to look within yourself ...
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| sleazy guys and low class & shallow guys | 6/24/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: some i end up like guys who obviously don,t like me at all. i am overweight i try lossiing weight ...
A: Louise Your self esteem is way too low and that is probably why you gained weight at some point in ...
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| Not sure what he wants anymore. | 6/20/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I have been dating this guy for just over a month now and things were going great. He is in the ...
A: Nicole If you chase him he WILL RUN and he may not come back! Men like to do the chasing. What you ...
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| How should I have continued? | 6/18/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I went to visit a cousin of mine in his hall at a local university.As I walked along a veranda ...
A: Gary I am not sure if you are looking for a fling or a date. However in this situation you could ...
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| Insecurity in a relationship... | 6/17/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I have been in a relationship with a great woman for the last year and a half. The only problem is ...
A: Hank What you need to do is get into counseling before this ruins your relationship for good. ...
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| need to get her back in my life | 5/21/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I want my ex-gf to come back.I have tried evrything i could.Begged,cried,kept my self respect ...
A: Aryan Feel like dying! Over a girl? Then perhaps you are not mature enough to be in a relationship. ...
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| Should I give up or not | 5/16/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I have been in a relationship for a year now. And my boyfriend and i constantly bump heads . At ...
A: Tyra Most people like to leave when the going gets tough! If you have a good thing why not try ...
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| What should I do? | 5/15/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: ok heres the issue!! me and this boy have been talking for like 6 months and we been through the ups ...
A: Jasmine He obviously does not want a relationship with you. Why buy the milk when you can get the ...
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| Don't know what to do | 5/15/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: there's this girl in school who suddenly became realy nice to me, like saying hi whenever i walked ...
A: Jeff Although I am not a mind reader I can try my best here. She may have thought you lost interest ...
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| Sacrifice for a relationship? | 5/14/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: My boyfriend is a 29 year old Vietnamese man. He is wonderful and I love him dearly. There is just ...
A: Ashlie I understand that this is part of the tradition, but traditions do change and you are ...
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| apprehension | 5/14/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I can't make THE move. For example, tonight a girl I met recently came to pick me up to go hang out ...
A: T You need to have a chat with your room mate to see if the girl is really off limits for you. Tell ...
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| help | 5/13/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: my girlfriend of 2 and a half years has recently said she wanted time and space, so i let her. ad ...
A: Chris If you have done all these things, then you need to take the hint and move on. Breaking up is ...
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| How to tell her ? | 5/13/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I am real confused and I don't know what to do. There is a girl that I really love, and I think that ...
A: Andrew Sometimes nerves can play mean mean tricks on us. You need to make your move before you lose ...
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| relationships | 5/9/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: There's this guy i like. He likes me too. When me and him started talking, he expressed his feelings ...
A: Vanessa You need to have more confidence in yourself and be able to speak up. Why not ask him out ...
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| Long term relationship end? | 5/9/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Okay I should start out by saying that we've been dating for about a year and a half and known each ...
A: Shelby Your first love is always a love that you will remember. Obviously something is going on ...
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| flirting and stuff | 5/6/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I'm just wondering if I visit this girl at work, if I'm going to be seen as too forward. I've been ...
A: Paul You going to the coffee shop more would not be too forward. The poem thing on the other hand ...
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| How long should I wait? | 5/3/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Here is the situation, I know this girl, we've know each other ever since we were little kids. Her ...
A: Rick I hate to be the bearer of bad news but your waiting on someone who may never come around. She ...
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| Asking out a shy girl | 5/3/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I've recently wanted to ask a girl to go out with me but she's pretty shy. We're both fourteen and I ...
A: Dave Since you have her screen name, try asking her out as friends first. Like maybe out for a ...
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| Uncertainties... | 5/1/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: My name is David and I have a huge desicion to make. I've been together with a girl for half a year ...
A: David It is unfair to keep this relationship going if you do not feel the same. It may hurt her a ...
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| What does the hand holding thing mean? | 4/29/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Hey Alina, I love your advice and I wanted to ask you for your thoughts on a particular matter in ...
A: Emma This guy is holding your hand and he is doting! Wow you got it good, YES of course he likes ...
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| The right move ??? | 4/27/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: ! I read some of ur answers, U r great :-) !!! Here is my ques: I m in collge and there is this guy ...
A: N Your going to have make your move and quickly if you plan for anything to happen, so my ...
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| I just don't know | 4/25/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Ok, I'll do my best to keep this short since my last message was automatically denied because of ...
A: Greg This should have been dealt with, you poor guy! I don't want to say do this slowly, but you ...
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| Girl stuff | 4/24/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Hey, my name is Aaron and I am 17 years old. I really really like this girl who is also 17 and i ...
A: Aaron She has told you once, you should never EVER chase someone who doesn't chase you back, you ...
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| making the right move on a guy | 4/24/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: i'm cassie, i'm 19 years old and i like this guy who is my friend. he isn't my best friend, but he ...
A: Cassie You right! You made your move, Never ever chase someone who doesn't chase you back. If he ...
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| Help on making a move. | 4/23/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: i meet this wonderful guy named Andy. well Andy about two years ago asked this other girl to marry ...
A: Jennifer Just because your overweight that doesn't mean anything. I am curvacious as well and I ...
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| Are these signs of checkin you out ? | 4/22/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: If i catch a girl looking at me and she instantly looks away, is she checking me out ? Also, if i ...
A: Dani If the girl looks away, it could very well mean that she was looking at some eye candy, it ...
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| how to make the first move | 4/22/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Alina I am an attractive and confident woman like you. I have dated many handsome and rich men, but ...
A: Nina #1. Answer to your question, use your body language, when your talking with him, do not be ...
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| very important | 4/19/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: there is this girl that i like that only see her a few times a day at school. the only time i see ...
A: John Start off with a Hi! Then slowly start off with how are you? This opens the communication ...
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| advice | 4/18/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Good day, I'm hoping you can help me with something that is so overwhelming for me. My name is ...
A: Paul If you don't think you love her then you just need to let her go. I know it sounds easier said ...
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| Two can't play this game | 4/10/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: There is this guy on my job that I have been dating now on and off for about 3 years. We have never ...
A: Essence You are making excuses for yourself when you said the were never married. He had a kid with ...
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| Wow.. | 4/9/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: This is kind of a long story, I guess I'll start at the beginning. My boyfriend and I have been ...
A: Joanna You need to get out of this relationship hes obviously wondering about whether the grass is ...
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| hi | 4/6/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: There's this girl who's my editor in the school newspaper crew, an open mic hostess who pulled me ...
A: Jake Woman who are reserved need to be caught off guard. You need to watch, learn and listen. Find ...
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| Ex Lover - Get Back or Move On? | 4/6/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: - Me and my ex girlfriend broke up 2.5 years ago. - ATM i'm focused on my career and she has a new ...
A: Mario She is with someone else, sometimes we want things we can't have and or if we see someone we ...
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| GIrls | 4/3/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: basicly there is a girl who is also 17 that i really like but she is not interested in me and thinks ...
A: Aaron If you've showen interest and this girl does not reciprocate your feelings it will be hard to ...
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| What is the most effective way to check if you love someone? | 3/30/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: What is the most effective way to check if you love someone? 1. What is the most effective way to ...
A: Freddy Love is when you don't want to be away from that other person, you want the best for them ...
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| women | 3/29/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: i like this girl and we were writing on a napkin to communicate. we were writing sarcastic banter on ...
A: This chic should be off limits. Would you like it if some guy were hitting on your girl, trying to ...
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| Ex-girlfriend | 3/28/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: My girlfriend(20) and i(28) split up for the second time just before christmas with her saying she ...
A: It sounds like this girl has low self esteem and unfortunately its not your problem to fix. She will ...
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| Ex boyfriend | 3/28/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: I met this guy 5 yrs ago, Eric, and it was instant chemistry. We started seeing each other and my ...
A: Susie One question, did he just forget to tell you he had another girl in another state? If he did ...
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| Everyone keeps saying I'm a lost cause | 3/27/2008 | Alina Neal |
Q: Well here is my situation I am 21 and I’ve actually never dated/kissed/hugged/ect. never had a ...
A: Aaron I truly feel for you, but you are not the only man out there who is scared of rejection. I ...
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