About Alina Neal Expertise I can answer many different questions from how to take the next step in a relationship to how to decide if you want to break up or not, any questions pertaining relationships, breakups, how to flirt etc.
Experience Being a classic flirt I think I can answer all of these questions, having went through so many dates, literally over 51 first dates until I found my husband. I was also a counselor and am quite good with human psychology.
Education/Credentials Social work/psychology
Human Relations
Counseling
Expert: Alina Neal Date: 6/20/2008 Subject: Not sure what he wants anymore.
Question I have been dating this guy for just over a month now and things were going great. He is in the process of moving to the state that I live in which is how we met. We had a about four great dates in this time and spend a lot time on the phone with each other talking or texting. Well lately we have been fighting over little things and I'm not sure if its the stress of the move coupled with the fact that I'm excited to have him around. He told me the other night that we need to slow down, not break up but slow down and that he still really cares about me. We didn't talk at all yesterday except to tell each other good night on a text message. I'm not sure what to do to fix this or what I did to start it. I'm just really confused about the whole situation... one minute we were talking about all the fun stuff we were going to do when he got here and the next he was ranting at me about how is leaving everything he knows and I will never understand how he feels and making plans isn't a good idea.
Answer Nicole
If you chase him he WILL RUN and he may not come back! Men like to do the chasing. What you need to do is start acting busy , don't answer the phone all the time and get off the phone with him after 10 minutes tell him your going out OR your super busy. IF you have a chance pick up the book called "The Rules".
Two things hes either getting bored or hes a commitment phobe I would say. Try this and see how it works if he still runs the other way then he wasn't worth it. Never ever chase after someone who does not chase you back you only end up wasting your time and breaking your heart.
