Expert: The Interesting Man - 10/7/2009

Question
Hi, my name is chris im 20 and finally met a girl that ive had a crush on for a while. Naturally i am very excited and im afraid i may have came on a bit too strong. What is the best way to go about making things right. Basically i need to know what i should do to not freak her out and if i already have then what should i do. Thanks for your time, its much appreciated.

Answer
The biggest mistake any guy can make is broadcasting to the girl that he will do anything for her or that he thinks she walks on water.  That is a recipe for being taken for granted.  What you want is the object of your desire to chase you.  I'd suggest you work on understanding what type of guy she would be attracted to, and how to increase someone's interest level in you.  Read these two articles and you'll be fine:

http://www.expertdatinghelp.com/Attraction/how-to-attract-your-dream-match.html

http://www.expertdatinghelp.com/Attraction/part-1-of-4-increase-interest-level.h...