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| Subject | Date Asked |
| How do i take the step forward in my relationship? | 10/22/2009 |
| Q: i was looking for a place where i could share my problems and get expert advice and found this great ... A: You're being needy and clingy; also you're over-analyzing. These are all UNATTRACTIVE traits. Also ... | |
| Give up? | 10/21/2009 |
| Q: I recently became interested in a boy that my bestfriend (JD), his girlfriend (Sara) and I had met ... A: Men highly interested in a woman will leave jobs, families, and lives for a woman who "HAS IT" ... ... | |
| Inquiring as to when to make a move... | 10/19/2009 |
| Q: There's this girl I met who I've hung out with a few times. I'm a deep philosopher type, and she is ... A: You need to make a move sooner rather than later. If you wait to long you fall in to FRIEND ZONE ... | |
| Unable to judge where I'm at with a girl | 10/16/2009 |
| Q: Lately I haven't been with any girls and my best friend thought it'd be a good idea if I met his ... A: Keep playing the game. If you keep taunting and teasing it will drive her nuts and eventually ... | |
| what to do??? | 10/7/2009 |
| Q: my name is chris im 20 and finally met a girl that ive had a crush on for a while. Naturally i am ... A: The biggest mistake any guy can make is broadcasting to the girl that he will do anything for her or ... | |
| Confusion over long distant school-mate "friend" | 10/3/2009 |
| Q: First- thank you for taking time to read & help out! I'm confused about a friend I have, whom if we ... A: Here's the deal -- when people are in a relationship the opposite sex friends and people they flirt ... | |
| What to do when all hope is lost | 9/27/2009 |
| Q: I was (until today) engaged to the man whom I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. He had ... A: Nikki, First of all, if you really are feeling suicidal you need to go see a medical professional ... | |
| TRUST | 9/23/2009 |
| Q: HEY I HAVE RECENTLY GOTTEN INTO A REALLY BIG ARGUMENT WITH MY BOYFRIEND OF 4 YEARS. SO THIS IS WHAT ... A: Yes, he's cheating on you (or at least trying to). You now have two choices, you can either be a ... | |
| Issues | 9/18/2009 |
| Q: Hey, Lets start with basics... I am a 19yr old female. In March I found myself at a party with this ... A: First of all realize something, people don't change unless they want to change, and to add to that - ... | |
| how to make the right move? | 9/16/2009 |
| Q: there is a co-worker of that i am good friends with.He is married i think??? We have been friends ... A: Read this article on increasing someone's interest level in you and he will be putty in your hands: ... | |
| What to do? | 9/14/2009 |
| Q: I met this guy 3 years ago at a hotel I worked at, he was a guest. He had his girlfrind and I had my ... A: Sylvia, Honestly most people don't REALLY get over an ex until they open their heart to a new love. ... | |
| Should I call her or not? | 9/13/2009 |
| Q: I met this girl about a year ago at a party. I got attracted to her, and I think she did too (not ... A: Yeah it would be weird for you to call her. What are you going to say,"Hey, um hi!!! I met you ... | |
| What to do? | 9/10/2009 |
| Q: I met this guy 3 years ago at a hotel I worked at, he was a guest. He had his girlfrind and I had my ... A: Sylvia, You need to understand that when relationships change or end, you will never get the full ... | |
| Boyfriends best friend? | 8/27/2009 |
| Q: I am in a weird situation.. I am 27 I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 years we have ... A: You're playing a very dangerous game my love, but such is life. Here's the deal, when a person is ... | |
| Friend's Sister | 8/22/2009 |
| Q: I have grown very attracted to my best friend's sister and I am not sure how to go about it. Him and ... A: What's up Jon, Friend's sister, mother's friend's daughter, friend of your priest -- I don't care ... | |
| how to make the right move? | 8/21/2009 |
| Q: there is a co-worker of that i am good friends with.He is married i think??? We have been friends ... A: What's up JM -- The guy is definitely into you. Here's the issue -- whether or not the guy is into ... | |
| More than friends? | 7/16/2009 |
| Q: I really dont know how to go about this one. I am friends with this girl that goes to martial arts ... A: David, This is a very common scenario, but you need to act fast or you're going to end up in FRIENDS ... | |
| what am i doing wrong | 7/14/2009 |
| Q: My name is Matt and I am a 24 year old male living in small town PA. I have never been successful ... A: Matt,http://www.allexperts.com/expertx.cgi You're a good guy who was never taught how to attract ... | |
| making the right move, PLEASE HELP PLEASE! | 7/10/2009 |
| Q: My story is very long and complicated so please plase bear with me. I have been looking for a ... A: Mitch, Writing a letter to seek forgiveness in this situation is weak and dumb. Read this article ... | |
| Indecisive Boyfriend | 7/8/2009 |
| Q: I've been swimming in a pool of confusion these past 2 months. My boyfriend and I have been together ... A: Crystal, Sounds like your guy has low interest level in maintaining a relationship with you, or at ... | |
| Dating | 7/6/2009 |
| Q: I am new to America. And I really don't understand how dating game works in this country. Moreover, ... A: Kerry, So many people can benefit from your inquiry that I am making this question public. Also I ... | |
| i'm i misreading signals from him | 4/28/2009 |
| Q: there is a guy i work with that is married. he flirts with me alot(asking where i am he was looking ... A: He's interested, and an unfortunate reality of life is that people cheat. Lets say you talk to him ... | |
| how to make the right move and does she likes me? | 4/25/2009 |
| Q: .. so do i have a chance with this girl.. from what she has said to me or not really? and what are ... A: When women (actually men too) say "they aren't ready" for a relationship, love, etc what they are ... | |
| My Girlfriend and me. | 4/23/2009 |
| Q: My girlfriend and I have been dating for a couple weeks now, and we got to kissing and everything, ... A: While you're kissing, GENTLY touch and caress the areas of her body which you'd like to "explore"... ... | |
| Making a move..? | 4/22/2009 |
| Q: I am kinda seeing this girl I really like and I already confirmed with her the knowledge of her ... A: Michael, I answered this question in detail -- just go to the below link to see my response: ... | |
| the question of all time | 4/17/2009 |
| Q: A guy friend and I went out 2x and then I had to do some family business for a while, I emailed him ... A: If he really is "just a friend" and you have no romantic interest in him, then go ahead and call him ... | |
| Can't Decide | 4/14/2009 |
| Q: Hey Interesting Man Before i can get to the problem i feel you should know some of the recent ... A: What's up Jim, Interesting predicament which you've gotten yourself into, lets answer your ... | |
| Making the right move | 4/10/2009 |
| Q: I have recently started to casually date after a minor heartbreak last fall. I went on a date with ... A: A short and simple phone call where you just say "Hi, I just wanted to call and let you know I had a ... | |
| Have I screwed things up | 4/9/2009 |
| Q: I've been talking to a guy on myspace for about a month now. I'm 19 and he's 20 and we only live ... A: For a guy its a pretty scary thing when a girl you've never met in person before starts asking ... | |
| how to not seem desperate | 4/8/2009 |
| Q: I've been talking this guy on myspace for almost a month now. He's 20 and I'm 19 and we live about ... A: Stacy, The situation you describe is very common for both men and women -- at the end of the day ... | |
| Are we breaking up? | 4/6/2009 |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have lived together the passed 7 months. We have been together since August 2007. ... A: I'm proud of you for having the courage to ask for outside perspective in a situation like this, and ... | |
| needs help | 4/3/2009 |
| Q: ok i have done sexual stuff with this guy befor but when we was drunk but now were sober and he is a ... A: What's up Mandolin, Understand something -- if a shy guy hooks up with you drunk, he DEFINITELY ... | |
| Why isn't this girl replying ? | 3/31/2009 |
| Q: This girl & i have been texting each other lately & things have been going well. We went out as ... A: Daniel, Unfortunately you've fallen into the friends zone with her and you are no longer a ... | |
| How to attract her? | 3/30/2009 |
| Q: Hey there. I'm 20 years old and I'm having lady trouble. I have a female friend around my age who I ... A: Danny, It doesn't matter that your confidence and self-esteem have gone way up and you're a new ... | |
| Slowwwwww | 3/28/2009 |
| Q: I've been with this AMAZING guy for about two months now. But things aren't going anywhere!!!!! He ... A: What's up Kaity-lin, Start flirting with other guys in front of him -- he'll get really upset then ... | |
| Dating Shy guy, how to make first move | 3/18/2009 |
| Q: Hey hoping you could help me out!! I'm dating this really really sweet guy. He's so quiet, but he's ... A: Just go for it and kiss him. If he doesn't kiss you back then you need to leave, because there are ... | |
| Too Stay or Not to Stay | 3/11/2009 |
| Q: I love your website and the articles and emails. I am 43 yrs old and the guy I am/was dating is 42. ... A: Who are you calling "Sharon"??? I am The Intersting Man from www.TheInterestingMan.com ;-) In all ... | |
| I am literary lost!!! | 3/10/2009 |
| Q: I need your advice of what to do but let me first brief you about the whole thing...i was dating a ... A: I'm not a doctor, but I have a diagnosis for the situation. She's sleeping with another guy and you ... | |
| gift | 3/9/2009 |
| Q: my question is my boyfriend's birthday is comming and i still dont have any idea on what ill do for ... A: My suggestion is to spend about 20 minutes alone thinking about what he likes. Is he a romantic? ... | |
| Clueless | 3/3/2009 |
| Q: Please don't use my name. Without getting into a lot of details, can you come up with any reasons ... A: Older men tend not to filter their thoughts or their words the way younger men do. Regardless, the ... | |
| Clueless | 3/2/2009 |
| Q: Please don't use my name. Without getting into a lot of details, can you come up with any reasons ... A: Hey Jeannine, Without knowing how long ago the relationship was, my guess is that more likely than ... | |
| Should I or Should I Invite Him Over | 2/28/2009 |
| Q: Since age 20 I have secretly been in love with this man. He approached me then, but I ran because I ... A: Wow Stephanie, Thank you so much for sharing your question with me. Don't let the wolf in ... | |
| i wanna make the right move?????? | 2/26/2009 |
| Q: old and i have a crush on my friend his name is Day Day & 19 yrs. old truth betold i met him on ... A: What's up Mariah, In this situation, the best thing to do is back off of him NOT letting him know ... | |
| Question on writing a good online personal ad | 2/23/2009 |
| Q: How are you? My name is Julian and I reside in Coral Springs, FL. I was checking out single women ... A: What's up Julian, You asked a simple question, but to be fair to you I need to explain a few ... | |
| Does this show disinterest from a girl ? | 2/23/2009 |
| Q: I went to a bar club last night cos it was my friend's birthday. Keep in mind this club is over 21's ... A: Maybe -- at the very least you established a level of comfort with one of them by the end of the ... | |
| help | 2/23/2009 |
| Q: I have this prob of becoming out of steps meaning today I chat with a girl and 2moro I'll be out of ... A: Paying attention to a girl one day, and ignoring her completely the next day can actually make you ... | |
| Do girls like boys who try hard or not ? | 2/16/2009 |
| Q: When a girl texts me and says she was thinking of me after a certain amount of time not ... A: Depends on the context -- if you're trying to gauge interest I'm assuming that means you two just ... | |
| help | 2/16/2009 |
| Q: i am with this guy we have been togather for 5mouth we live togather and it hell we are alwayz ... A: If you want him to change his behavior you're going to have to do two things: 1. Tell him EXACTLY ... | |
| girl | 2/7/2009 |
| Q: A: Hey William, I think the first thing to do is send her a message (text or IM is better, but e-mail ... | |
| relationships at work | 2/6/2009 |
| Q: First, I would like to apologize for this long email, and I hope you are able to help me with some ... A: If you want to be cunning, one of the best things you can do to get him out of his "shell" if he ... | |
| help | 2/4/2009 |
| Q: there is this girl in my class that i like and i dont know what to say to her can you help me? A: I'm guessing you need baby steps. Here is a 3 step process which you should do over 5 days. Day 1: ... | |
| girl | 2/3/2009 |
| Q: i need some help i would like to talk to a girl that i don't know what i need help with is what to ... A: Hey Mike, I'll give you baby steps. I'll keep it simple for you -- look her in the eye, give her a ... | |
| help | 2/3/2009 |
| Q: how can i approach a girl that i don’t know what should i say i was thinking this hey my name is ... A: Hey Alex, When you're trying to seduce a girl, you don't want to give her the power position - like ... | |
| Time to work on me | 2/1/2009 |
| Q: ..i have been in a relationship with a great guy for the past 9 months. We are both in our early ... A: First of all I want to congratulate you on having enough self-awareness and confidence to know that ... | |
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