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Olivia wrote at 2007-11-28 17:14:19
I have a Russian boyfriend and I can share some good advice with you! Well ok yes they believe that displays of affection should be done in privacy because when they want you! they want you then; and all to themselves! When no one can interrupt you so they can give you the attention you need. Just give him allot of affection - at the right times, never lie, let him talk too - and be yourself! Thats all they really want is somebody then can relate to and trust. Be their FRIEND not just their LOVER! If he can say your his best friend, then you have really connected on a deep level. And they like that! They like girls who are not afraid to be who they are and dont wear 3 inches of make-up to try and impress them, they feel its their job to do the impressing! They are a little dominant sometimes but in a good way - a protective way! But all around just be sweet and honest! Don't be a mom, or a nanny!


love wrote at 2008-04-10 22:13:33
I found Russian men are all having a difficult personality. It takes longer time for them to trust you. They can be rude to you eventhough they love you. They are quite some challenge if you want to court them. Mordern life is stressful enough, so why bother!


Russian Guy wrote at 2008-12-03 23:37:38
Wow, my name is also Serge. I'm an American-Russian and I approve this message.... lol.

Mr. Feduleyev is generally correct.... you can also imagine the Spartan man from the movie "300" as a good example... He is though to everyone, but his wife can control him easily. The reason that Russian guys will not trust you, at first, is because he does not want to be made a fool out of. When he does trust you, he will enjoyable spoil you and take care of you. My fiance knows that I would do anything for her, even die for her. Russians see it as a sign of strength to give up your life for something that is dear to them. I carry my fiance upstairs, downstairs and about, just so she doesn't put stress on her body when she is sick. Here's a little history lesson: Russia has been attacked for 500 years, and has never attacked a country. That would surely put a tough outer shell on any nation's people. (If you think that Russia attacked Georgia, then you foolishly believe the western News Media.) Remember, every human has flaws and not everything stated (including Mr. Feduleyev's comments) is fact for EVERY Russian man. These are just generalities.




simplyrussian wrote at 2009-08-13 00:01:32
I do not agree. I am married to a Russian and he is wonderful he laughs, smiles, and shows emotion. He loves public affection... and its not just him. All of our Russian friends are the same. I am disgusted of the way you categorized Russians like that. When men like that are found in every race and nation.


Lacey wrote at 2009-09-27 00:59:39
Oh my gosh...this is so so true! Russian men are tough on the outside but real warm on the inside. Also, when they truly love a woman, they would die for her! Thats a true man right there!!!


fake ass wrote at 2010-03-03 05:03:31
There seems to be an internet troll who's ultra hating on russians. Well they must have a lot to offer. hint.


Judy wrote at 2010-06-25 16:52:07
I am dating a Russian guy, and he kisses me very passionately in public that I am the one that gets shy and embarrased. He is very expressive, and he would always tell me exactly what he thinks. He is funny and he doesnt mind me laughing a lot. I am a silly girl, I recognize it but it doesnt seem to bother him. He is indeed homophobic and cares less about society.  


Peter wrote at 2012-05-05 19:20:13
I am a Russian man 23 years old, handsome, looking from the USA please contact me on mail disperse all the rumors)))))

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Cella wrote at 2012-10-20 05:14:09
Hi everyone! I just started dating a Russian guy and oh my god he is amazing. I am perfectionist and a dreamer, I have always wanted a man that would behave like a prince, a gentleman, someone that would be at my level, someone that I would feel proud of... my boyfriend is all that: handsome, elegant, gentle, warm, dominant in a good way, protective, smart. He cares about his family, about me, about my family, about my reputation. He has very high standards for himself, people say that Russians only care about money, what I have seen in my boyfriend is that he does seek economic success (and is very good at it)but because he has been taught that he must provide for his wife, give her whatever she desires, take care of his relatives, he wants to afford his children a good education and travel. I could not be more happy. I could have never imagined that a man as perfect as him would exist. Russian guys are great but because of this they probably seek women as great as them. Women that will be good wives. :)


Cynthia wrote at 2013-01-04 08:26:19
I have a russian boyfriend and I am black,but the way he treats me,,wow,not even my fellow black men can do it,he cares for me,we have been togethet for two months now,but I feel like I have known him for a life time.I dont know if it is just him or this is for all Russian men.I have found myself liking all Russians,they caring,good listeners,and above all,they know how to treat a woman like a queen.I think I will marry a Russian.I wonder why their women do search for men abroad,cant they appreciate such men?


Morgan wrote at 2013-04-03 03:49:28
I have a Russian boyfriend as well but were both 12. 1. I'm really energetic. He's a bit shy.

2. He's quite, I'm loud

3. He can't speak english as well i do.

What do I do? We really like each other but we barley talk to each other. HELP


shutupndrive wrote at 2015-02-12 15:28:39
Well I must say... I also have a russian boyfriend and he feeds me with pleasure (of extremely large size) and food. What more can you ask of a man. Dont be greedy girls ;)


liza wrote at 2015-03-31 00:29:04
hey u guys this Russian guy showed me he liked me and i kinda realized i had liked him all along too...one day i hadnt seen him for more than a week and when he came i realized i missed him to my suprise he almost triped when he past by me and after that i started to follow his actions and all where signs of he liking me....like getting upset when i talk to other guys..and then i sent him a facebook friend request.he accepted.and i start to ask him if he likes me to tell him i like him too...funny thing he told me he doesnt know who i am when i know he knows....i have never been embarrassed in my entire life like that  


She-She8 wrote at 2015-06-06 07:18:54
I also have a Russian boyfriend and he is very affectionate. He would give up his life for me. He is very sweet and attentive. He cannot go somewhere without bringing me back a gift and it doesnt have to be on a special date, he always has something for me. Russian men love to take care of their woman and making her happy is their priority number one. They always pay on every date even if you invite them out. They are nice, friendly, and caring people towards their family, woman and friends. Russian boyfriends spoil you. They are very open once they trust you.  They might seem tough and hard but they are really sweet people on the inside.  


wrote at 2016-01-12 14:53:09
Am Black British and have been married to my Russian/Ukrainian husband for 5 years,and have children who a Bilingual Russian and English and are both of Russian orthodox faith. It was very important that our children where part of their fathers religion.

My husband is very shy around people who he doesn't know very well, he also has no problem telling very rude and racist people his dislike for them.



He had a wip-lash tongue 👅 with is a Russian trademark they don't mess about with getting straight to the point.



My family where more intimidated by him in the beginning because of Russian stereotypes,but his family are very welcoming and have never made race a issue and love there half black grandchildren and the whole village know us all.




wrote at 2016-01-12 14:53:17
Am Black British and have been married to my Russian/Ukrainian husband for 5 years,and have children who a Bilingual Russian and English and are both of Russian orthodox faith. It was very important that our children where part of their fathers religion.

My husband is very shy around people who he doesn't know very well, he also has no problem telling very rude and racist people his dislike for them.



He had a wip-lash tongue 👅 with is a Russian trademark they don't mess about with getting straight to the point.



My family where more intimidated by him in the beginning because of Russian stereotypes,but his family are very welcoming and have never made race a issue and love there half black grandchildren and the whole village know us all.




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