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I am interested in dating a man that is a Scientologist and I was wondering if he is able to date someone who is not?
Or are they only able to date someone who is not, but not allowed to become physical or engage in sex with the person unless they convert or marry them?

Dating, sex and marriage are left completely up to the individual.  It's none of the church's business who a parishoner dates, sleeps with or marries.  We do not have religious requirements concerning romantic or family relations.

A Scientologist would be an idiot to date someone hostile to Scientology, but that's his look out.


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Laurie Hamilton


I am able to answer questions regarding Scientology practices and procedures, religious philosophy, donations, religious rites, management, administrative and staff matters.


I am a second generation Scientologist whose parents began in Dianetics in 1950 and studied directly with L. Ron Hubbard. I have been personally active in the church for nearly 50 years, have eleven years former staff experience in both technical and administrative areas, and extensive technical and administative training and counseling. I am "clear" and "OT." I come from an extended family of many religions, but my spouse and children are Scientologists, as are my siblings and their spouses, several cousins, nieces, nephews, an aunt, and an uncle. Between us we have had every good and bad experience one might go through in the church at every level.

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Over six thousand hours of Scientology technical and administrative training. Fully qualified/certified for fourteen different organizational job descriptions. Ordained minister. Independent study of numerous religions.

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