Self Defense/Picking up girls

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Marc

Just wondering if you have any advice on staying safe while hitting on girls you don't know at bars/clubs.This is while going out alone,not with a group of people.

Answer
Yeah, first pay attention.

Second read this
http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/bonding_process.html

Third learn about eye contact rules and preening behaviors
http://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/Preening+Behaviour

Don't approach women who don't signal interest.  Not only will it save you time, money and wasted effort, but it lessens the chance of things going wrong

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Marc MacYoung

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Street self-defense, crime avoidance and personal safety

Experience

I grew up in the streets of Los Angeles in 'situational poverty.' I have dealt with criminals and violent people all my life -- both personally and professionally. I have written 15 books and 6 videos on surviving street violence. I was originally published under the name Marc Animal MacYoung. (Animal was my street name). I've taught police and military both internationally and within the US. I've lectured at universities, academies and done countless TV, radio, newspaper and magazine interviews. I'm a professional speaker on crime avoidance and personal safety. And I am an expert witness recognized by the US court system. My bio is at www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/marcmacyoung.html My abridged CV (Curriculum Vitae) is at http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/seminarEW.htm

Organizations
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Publications
Too numerous to list here. My CV (for my expert witness work in court) is at http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/seminarEW.htm

Education/Credentials
Read "In the Name of Self-Defense" the streets don't give a Ph.D in scuffle.

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