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| Subject | Date Asked |
| Take over financial responsibilities for BIL w/Alzheimers | 11/23/2009 |
| Q: Husbands brother is widower with Alzheimers living in his own home. Unempl daughter lives there and ... A: Susan, you can do a durable power of attorney, however, that is not going to prevent her from ... | |
| Medicare | 11/18/2009 |
| Q: Greetings, I'll be 65 next February, and I am getting lots of paperwork in the mail urging me to ... A: ok when you turn 65, depending upon your insurance, Medicare should become your primary insurance in ... | |
| Very elderly parent pending nursing home admission | 10/21/2009 |
| Q: I took my almost 95 year old mother into my home 2-1/2 years ago because her assisted living ... A: Sierra, first, I applaud your taking on what is certainly the hardest job in the world. Second, if ... | |
| Dependent | 9/9/2009 |
| Q: My dad died last year (2008), I have taken care of my Mom since before then, taking care of them. ... A: Well the first part is, your mom should have her Social Security recalculated since her husband ... | |
| Power of Attorney/Eldery care for parent | 8/7/2009 |
| Q: I come from a large family (8 children) - my Mom was recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's, had ... A: Katy, since your mother has been recently diagnosed with Alzheimer's, she may still be competent to ... | |
| Senior housing | 5/26/2009 |
| Q: I am disabled on SSD, I am 51 and was told I can get senior housing I qualify was told over 50 you ... A: Teresa, I had to look up your state but I believe you are in New Jersey. Here is a link to the area ... | |
| medicaid/qmb | 5/6/2009 |
| Q: he isnt in a nursing home.his health is rather good.the only benefit from the qmb i see he gets is ... A: If your grandfather is on QMB, then he can inherit money, and do what he wants with it. The problem ... | |
| Please help with my father | 4/9/2009 |
| Q: I was notified yesterday that my father is dying. He has a circulatory problem that has cauased ... A: Mr. Bridgewater, you need to hire an attorney in your father's area and gain guardianship and ... | |
| SENIOR LIVING | 3/7/2009 |
| Q: MY MOTHER IS IN A ASSISTANT LIVING IN ILLINOIS AND HAS LIFE INS. POLICIES IN WHICH SHE SIGNED OVER ... A: Mr. Elbe, run don't walk to the nearest area agency on aging and request a referral to their elder ... | |
| Private room or semi-private room. | 2/26/2009 |
| Q: My mother will soon enter a nursing home & has this decision to make,should she get a private room ... A: Randy, it depends. In Alabama, the average cost is about $ 168 per day for a semi-private room. If ... | |
| Elderly parent | 1/27/2009 |
| Q: My mother is 81 yrs old and has fallen three times - at least. Injured her knee, broke her arm. ... A: Gordon, call your local area agency on aging and get a referral to an elder law attorney who can ... | |
| Legal guardianship of father | 1/27/2009 |
| Q: I am the legal guardian of my father. He suffers from alcohol-induced dementia and should not drink. ... A: Laura, your guardianship may or may not give you access to financial documents, depending upon the ... | |
| Elderly parent's spouse against assistance | 12/9/2008 |
| Q: My 94 year old father who is in relatively good health in Florida but needs assistance getting up, ... A: Deborah, there's not alot you can do. If your father has dementia and is unable to go against his ... | |
| 72 yr old father - alcohol, dementia , low income | 8/22/2008 |
| Q: If I were on one of those chat lines...I would be called "desperate in Arizona". Here is the short ... A: Kim, sounds like he needs to be committed and eventually placed in a nursing home. Call your ... | |
| medicare penalty | 6/23/2008 |
| Q: My mother is paying a penalty on medicare that she is told is for life. She was working for the ... A: Kathleen, tell your mother to call her SHIP counselor for a free, very well trained expert in this ... | |
| Sr. Parents/Medicare issues | 5/18/2008 |
| Q: My Parents have both recently (for past 6 weeks) both become very ill very suddenly. My Mother went ... A: Mary, you should run, not walk, to your local area agency on aging and get a referral to their ... | |
| mother and medicare | 3/17/2008 |
| Q: I have my mother living with me. She suffering for various stages of dimentia and Altzheimer's. I ... A: Gary, I am sorry to hear of your situation. So many people are in the same situation, sadly. At ... | |
Kyla Kelim
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Expertise
I can answer questions regarding nursing home Medicaid eligibility questions, senior benefits including Medicare, Medicaid, prescription drug coverage, Veteran's benefits including Aid and Attendance, durable powers of attorney, advanced health care directives and living wills, wills, trusts and estates, guardianship and conservatorship and other areas of elder law including financial questions regarding collection, gifting, etc. All answers will refer questioners to a licensed attorney in their specific state, unless the question involves an issue of Alabama or Florida law, or Federal law as many of these issues will.
Experience
Experience in the area
I have practiced law in Florida and Alabama for 15 years. My firm has over 60 years collective experience in elder law issues, including Medicare, Medicare D, Medi-gap and related health insurance issues as well as nursing home Medicaid eligibility.
Organizations
Alabama State Bar
Florida State Bar
Education/Credentials
Education/Credentials
Cumberland School of Law, Samford University, J.D. 1993
University of New Orleans, B.S. Business Administration 1990
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