AboutAnthony Expertise Can one know God and not keep His commandments? Let John answer (1Jn2:4). He that says, I know Him and keeps not His commandments (including the 4th) is a liar and the truth is not in him. Since Seventh-Day Adventists derive their teachings from the Holy Bible, I will answer questions on any Biblically related subject or topic and questions on distinct Adventist practice and doctrine. Remember Paul`s words that state in the last days there will be deceivers seeking to lead astray many, yet the sincere believer can take comfort in the Lord`s promise that anyone desiring to know His truth will know it. May the Lord bless you as you seek Him.
Experience I graduated from an Adventist University with a major in Behavioral Science and a minor in religion including an intermediate study of the Greek written language. I earned a master in religion from Liberty University a Baptist seminary. I have been a student of the Bible and of Biblical history for over 30 years.
Question Hello marty,
i am currently in a relationship with a lady who is a practising sda. Am muslim and my faith doesnt bar me from being with her as long as i can take good care of her needs. We hope to live together if all goes well. What is the sda doctrine on this proposed union?
Thanks for your time,
Ally
Answer Dear Ally, Thanks for your question and interest in SDA doctrine concerning your proposed union. Since you are interested in the SDA position on this subject I will quote some material out of their church manual. It states that courtship is recognized as a preparatory period during which a man and a woman, already mutually attracted, become more thoroughly acquainted with each other in preparation for intended marriage. As far as living together before marriage, well that usually never works out and is forbidden by the Word of God. There is no such thing as “we'll just live together for a while and not engage in any kind of fornication.” A marriage is a divinely sanctioned union and if you cannot begin with the blessings of God then you already have as it were, one strike against you. God's design is that this union is to begin right and last until dissolved by the death of one of the partners. Marriage affects the after life both in this world and in the world to come and no plans should be made that God cannot approve. The failure to follow Biblical principles in courtship and marriage may lead to tragedy. With no offense to your beliefs, the Scriptures counsel “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers” (2 Cor. 6:14) Differences regarding religion are likely to mar the happiness of a home where partners hold different beliefs and lead to confusion, perplexity and failure in the rearing of children. Differences concerning the worship of God, Sabbathkeeping, recreation, association and training of children often lead to discouragement and finally to complete loss of any religious experience. Marriage was designed to be a blessing to mankind and it is a blessing wherever the marriage covenant is entered into in the fear of God and with consideration for its responsibilities. Marriage however is not for everyone. Some people never get married. The apostle Paul seemed to think that being single was more preferable. Whatever your decision Ally, be sure to enter it with a true heart consecrated body, soul and spirit to God as you await His return. Your friend, marty
