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| Is my boyfriend a sex addict? | 11/19/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend has recently brought up to me that he wants to be able to go to strip clubs and get lap ...
A: Well I can say one thing, this relationship seems very unhealthy. It also really doesn't seem like ...
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| wife like ladies | 11/17/2009 |
Q: I think my wife like ladies. On several occasions she has commented on how sexy a waitress walks, ...
A: This is more of a relationship question, and a very complex one. From what I have seen though ...
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| Am I normal? | 11/4/2009 |
Q: I think I am addicted to sex. I wannna have it all the time. It used to be just masturbation, I'd do ...
A: Well, this is a weird spot for me because I can't really exactly TELL you hey "you are an addict" ...
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| Am I normal? | 11/4/2009 |
Q: I think I am addicted to sex. I wannna have it all the time. It used to be just masturbation, I'd do ...
A: I am strongly of the opinion that "normal" doesn't really exist, purely an illusion created by the ...
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| How to satisfy? | 11/2/2009 |
Q: I had a girlfriend for almost three years and we started to get on the more sexual side of our ...
A: This is pretty common in losing a close sexual relationship I think, at least it has been with me ...
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| oral sex | 10/23/2009 |
Q: I have just got married again after a messed up relationship i was in for 22 years which had very ...
A: Seems like a perfectly normal fetish to me. If it doesn't bother her, I wouldn't be too concerned ...
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| Porn Addiction | 10/21/2009 |
Q: On a recent trip for our anniversary, we did what we normally do. We go to Bourbon Street in New ...
A: Well I really appreciate the confrontation in which you accepted responsibility for your insecurity ...
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| Am I a sex addict? | 10/19/2009 |
Q: This has been a question I've been asking myself for the past fifteen years. My first relationship ...
A: 28 year old female tends to be sort of the peak age for women in our era as far as desire goes. ...
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| Aliosha again | 10/14/2009 |
Q: John She will probably keep lying to you until that which is fear in her, fear of your reaction, ...
A: I cannot answer those questions for you without knowing the situation. It certainly seems evident ...
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| My girlfriend's father abuse | 10/14/2009 |
Q: I will start with that we have been together for 4 yrs now and our age difference is 18 yrs for good ...
A: Lies are told out of fear, often times the truth will come out if the lie is accepted paradoxically. ...
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| My girlfriend's father abuse | 10/13/2009 |
Q: I will start with that we have been together for 4 yrs now and our age difference is 18 yrs for good ...
A: I cannot know if she will ever decide to be helped, though I understand the desire to know this. I ...
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| Inability to be achieve orgasm w/o fantasy | 10/13/2009 |
Q: I am a 47 year-old married woman, and have been in a fully physically monogamous relationship with ...
A: Well being male, I can't exactly say that I am an expert on the female orgasm. It is a complex and ...
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| My girlfriend's father abuse | 10/12/2009 |
Q: I will start with that we have been together for 4 yrs now and our age difference is 18 yrs for good ...
A: It sounds like you are very confused, that is a very normal reaction when exposed to this kind of ...
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| women's white socks | 10/11/2009 |
Q: I can't help looking at women as they walk by, and if I can see there socks, they have to be white ...
A: Well, you can actually come out and say that you prefer it when the woman leaves her socks on. To me ...
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| Want her to want me more | 10/8/2009 |
Q: I'm 20 years old and have had a gf for over 3 years now. She is 18. We're both still virgins. She is ...
A: Well Jacob, there can be many reason for this behavior. A lot of the time it can just have to do ...
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| i think too much of sex | 10/6/2009 |
Q: im in a serious trouble here,i think of sex too much,i masturbate too much sometimes,im only 19 yr ...
A: It sounds like you have a lot of very negative thoughts about yourself. I'd encourage you to be more ...
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| partners fetish addiction? | 10/3/2009 |
Q: my partner and i have been together for 7 years, we haven't had an easy run, I'm 31 hes 43, when we ...
A: A lot of this is beyond my area of expertise. However, I think it is very important to note that you ...
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| fetish | 9/30/2009 |
Q: Is there a term that describes or is named for having a leg fetish. I guess I want to know, there ...
A: I would imagine if there was one that it would be called a leg fetish. Most fetish names are a ...
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| is my boyfriend a 'feeder' | 8/27/2009 |
Q: my boyfriend always wants me to eat and always asks me to gain weight. he doesn't say he is a ...
A: Have you tried expressing this concern to him, maybe telling him that it bothers you? That might be ...
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| porn | 8/23/2009 |
Q: my husband has been on porn sites dating sites and sex chatrooms and paid to chat in the sex ...
A: "I love him very much just not sure I can get over this" That's something you have to decide for ...
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| porn | 8/21/2009 |
Q: my husband has been on porn sites dating sites and sex chatrooms and paid to chat in the sex ...
A: Nancy, Why are you with this man? If he is looking at sex dating sites I think that goes beyond a ...
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| How to get rid of a sexual fetish | 8/21/2009 |
Q: i enjoy wearing, using, and masturbating in, diapers, as well as pretending to be forced into ...
A: Perhaps this fetish is just a habit that you have gotten into over time. Your brain may have come to ...
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| Is my husband addicted to porn or is it just normal? | 8/20/2009 |
Q: My husband and i have been married for 15 years,he has always been a wonderful husband and father ...
A: Well based on how you describe it I would say it is an addiction. Part of the problem with him not ...
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| Rape fantasies | 8/17/2009 |
Q: For as long as I can remember, the only way I can reach orgasm is to imagine being forced, or ...
A: This type of mentality can come from a lot of different things. There is no way I can properly ...
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| Sex during Pregnancy | 8/16/2009 |
Q: Well I'm having a big problem. I'm about two months pregnant. And I don't want to completely stop ...
A: I'm not sure about this, this is a physical problem not psychological. It would be best to ask your ...
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| husband looks at porn despite years of me telling him how i feel | 8/13/2009 |
Q: I found out my husband was looking at porn shortly after i had my son 5 years ago, it made me feel ...
A: Hmmm, well Sheilah porn is a very common problem in relationships. It leads to a lot of hurt trust ...
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| sex addiction | 8/9/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend has been slamming crystal sine he was 13. He also spent time in prison when he was ...
A: I think the is a much more complex and serious issue than I can properly address in an email over ...
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| Sex | 8/6/2009 |
Q: I'm a 19year old male and I think I am addicted to sex. I have a girlfriend and yes we do have sex ...
A: I don't think sex once a week can qualify you as an actual sex addict. That tends to be actually a ...
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| sex | 8/4/2009 |
Q: me and my boyfriend are very sexually active. and it doesn't really bother me. but every time we ...
A: Yes, you can get pregnant from what is known as precum or pre-ejaculate. It contains very small ...
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| Extreme Trampling, Humiliation, Forced Foot Worship, Female Domination | 8/3/2009 |
Q: Well, after much research....I just can't get a feel about all this. Is extreme trampling, forced ...
A: When it impairs their life in some way, they obsess about it when doing other things. When it ...
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| Extreme Trampling, Humiliation, Forced Foot Worship, Female Domination | 8/3/2009 |
Q: Well, after much research....I just can't get a feel about all this. Is extreme trampling, forced ...
A: Those things are all a type of fetish. Fetishes can become addicting but are typically just a ...
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| incest..wrong?? | 8/2/2009 |
Q: I'm 48,my sis is 52,and were both divorced. We've always been very close,but after we both divorced ...
A: I get a surprising number of questions about incest. I always have a hard time answering them. I ...
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| my huband is addicted to internet porn | 7/29/2009 |
Q: me and my husband have been married for just a year but have been together for five years. Before we ...
A: Taking it to work tends to indicate an addiction. Addicts have poor self control and boundaries with ...
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| porn/masturbation | 7/24/2009 |
Q: I'm very concerned because I think I may be addicted to watching porn and masturbation. I'm only 16 ...
A: It is a good sign that you are concerned your habits might be getting out of your control. Porn or ...
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| problems with 2 teenage boys | 7/19/2009 |
Q: It started out at my sister's sweet 15 party and i am alone in a room with a guy that comes to her ...
A: If this first guy keeps pushing it you should consider telling an adult. It sounds like he backed ...
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| I feel so cheated | 7/15/2009 |
Q: I'm 29 and have been with my husband for 10 years (married 6). I love him very much and he's a ...
A: Human beings were not created to be monogamous creatures. Especially not men. It isn't biologically ...
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| sex crave. | 7/14/2009 |
Q: me and my boyfriend started having sex about five or six months ago. and at first we only had it ...
A: I can't decide for you what you should do. However, some things to think about. When we are ...
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| My husband looked at porn so I want to leave him | 7/13/2009 |
Q: I'm thinking about leaving my husband of 10 years because I caught him looking at internet porn last ...
A: This is a very complex email. For me there are MANY red flags here. It sounds like he is extremely ...
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| get out of behaviour | 7/13/2009 |
Q: please who do i get control of my thoughts so that i can get out of this sexual addiction please? ...
A: Yes, this is common sex addict behavior, or addict behavior in general to not care about others. You ...
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| Fantasies? | 7/11/2009 |
Q: Hi. I'm just trying to figure this out. I'm a 19 year old female, who as far as I know has never ...
A: Well, this is a complex emotional issue that I cannot accurately assess without psychoanalysis of ...
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| Fantasy sister sexy body | 7/9/2009 |
Q: I am 31 yr old married man having women neck fetish. I usually get excited with women /girls with ...
A: I don't know about your culture, and I can't decide for you if this is ok or not. However, in my ...
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| Huge problem | 7/9/2009 |
Q: I'm 16 and so is my boyfriend. He is a really sweet guy, but are sex life is a little...odd. A few ...
A: Between the two of you as long as you have an understanding and feel safe with each other this isn't ...
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| Fantasy sister sexy body | 7/8/2009 |
Q: I am 31 yr old married man having women neck fetish. I usually get excited with women /girls with ...
A: You are choosing to allow yourself to think in this way. If you are on here asking about your doubts ...
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| Disgusted With Myself | 7/8/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I rarely have sex anymore so a few years ago I taught myself how to masturbate. It ...
A: Part of a normal sex life is having a partner who is involved in your sex life. Have you talked to ...
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| My boyfriend just confessed 2 me that he has a BBW sex fetish | 7/7/2009 |
Q: My name is Angie. My boyfriend confessed to me that he has a bbw, trampling & squashing fetish. I am ...
A: Sometimes we need to worry about our own feelings and not protect people from the truth about what ...
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| incest fantasy | 7/6/2009 |
Q: i am a porn addict my mom is divorced i am living alone with her i use fantasize about my mom having ...
A: I think every boy goes through a phase like this, at least that is what Freud claims. I'm not sure ...
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| Bi, gay or something else? | 7/5/2009 |
Q: I dated a guy and we tried to remain friends after things did not work out. One night he confided ...
A: It is perfectly natural to be confused about this sort of thing. Sexuality is not a set in stone ...
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| Bi, gay or something else? | 7/4/2009 |
Q: I dated a guy and we tried to remain friends after things did not work out. One night he confided ...
A: It is possible it is something more. Sexuality has all sorts of gray areas. All men, even straight ...
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| Is my husband addicted to porn? | 6/17/2009 |
Q: Ok, my husband and I have been together for over 4 years now and some of that time has been long ...
A: To me it sound like the only time he uses porn is when you aren't available to satisfy him. This is ...
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| addicted to rape | 6/17/2009 |
Q: If I'm watching TV and there is a rape scene in it I get really aroused. I know rape is bad and ...
A: Have you acted on this urge? Honestly this is something far outside of my area of expertise. There ...
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| cheating husband online and in person | 6/6/2009 |
Q: my husband has been cheating on me for sometime now and finally got caught by his daughter from his ...
A: I'm sorry to hear that, that must be a very difficult situation. I seriously doubt his doctor would ...
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| sex addiction | 6/6/2009 |
Q: Hey John. I am a sixteen year old girl in 11th grade. I've been dating this guy for quite some time ...
A: This doesn't sound like a sex addiction based on what you've said. This sounds like an addiction to ...
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| help | 5/28/2009 |
Q: Salaam alaikum,i am yaseen,i am 20yr old.i am indian from mumbai,i stay in bahrain,i completed my ...
A: Not being at the place we want to be in life can be very difficult to deal with for anyone. I'm ...
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| Sex addict | 5/24/2009 |
Q: I'm not sure but I think I am a Sex addict, well my condition its rear, because when I am in street ...
A: Technically I can't really come out and just tell you you are an addict and even if I felt like I ...
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| pornography | 5/12/2009 |
Q: I am 27yr old virgin. I had been using porn since 13 yrs to age 22. I admit that I hated it the ...
A: This inhibition you are feeling is a choice you make be it conscious or unconscious, you are ...
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| pornography | 5/12/2009 |
Q: I am 27yr old virgin. I had been using porn since 13 yrs to age 22. I admit that I hated it the ...
A: This is very interesting, you are saying that you do not like porn but feel compelled to look at it ...
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