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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Uncomfortable with Handjobs/Blowjobs; Okay with Sex | 2/1/2012 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: I'm not a very experienced person. My first kiss was an extremely short make-out session while ... A: I think it's important for you to relaly figure out why you feel differently about hj and bj- since ... | ||
| Making him last | 1/19/2012 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: So my husband and myself are casualy trying to have a baby. I love my husband dearly and he's a ... A: Depending on his age and ocndition, there are meds he can take to make it last longer- though that's ... | ||
| Making Girlfriend Orgasm With Oral | 1/5/2012 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: Girlfriend and I started having sex probably the beginning of the summer, we were both virgins. She ... A: When you start on the clit, don't stay there...move around mroe, keep going back to it- that's why ... | ||
| Trouble With Phone Sex | 12/31/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: My name is Kelly and I'm eighteen on New Years 2012. I've been in a longdistance relationship with ... A: Long distance relationships are tough- especially the sex part. The first one is not so bad- if you ... | ||
| Sexual attraction or imagination running away with me? | 12/19/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: Ok, I am currently living with the ex husband of a relative. I am 28, he is 46, but a very, very ... A: The sexual attraction may be real- or he may just be the really open type who'd talk that way even ... | ||
| oral | 12/11/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: Hey Johnny, I've always considered myself VERY proficient at going down on women just out of ... A: It's not a contest- and it's not all up to you. If she likes you more than she likes him, you'd be ... | ||
| i wanna have sex with my brother :( | 12/6/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: please help me i wanna have sex with my brother and i hate myself for it .. :( basically i'm 14 ... A: You may never realize this fantasy, but you should stop feeling bad for feeling the way you do. My ... | ||
| female orgasm | 11/30/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: My lady friend and I are very experienced in lovemaking and oral sex. However, my lady friend wants ... A: Even to date there are many scientists who believe that there's no such thing as a g-spot orgasm- ... | ||
| How to deep throat and swallow cum? | 11/23/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: I have recently begun giving my boyfriend blow jobs. He really loves it when I swallow, and I enjoy ... A: I think the more correct thing to try for here is- how to get to the point that you don't mind the ... | ||
| am i the only girl who likes the taste of cum and pre-cum? | 11/18/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: i'm 16 years old and i have a question about the taste of cum and pre-cum. is it weird to like the ... A: In my own experience and the research I've done online- understand that this is a hard thing to ... | ||
| oral sex | 11/17/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: I just have the question of how to give a guy the best oral he's ever had? A: Well...that depends on how experienced the guy really is- unless you do a very poor job, almost any ... | ||
| Female Orgasm | 11/16/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: I am confused about the female orgasm. I, probably like many men, wonder if my partner is truly ... A: Fact is, even scientists can't quite agree on the validity of female vaginal orgasm- many will still ... | ||
| Threesome | 11/8/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: Hey Johnny, I have a bit of an issue. So, my boyfriend and I love having sex. It's fun and he's ... A: The answer's really pretty similar for both gender- one of you start with the new addition, the ... | ||
| unsatisfied sex | 11/3/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: i am 28 years old male. i never had any girlfriend so far. i got 2-3 rejections from some girls i ... A: Masturbating and sex is very different- sex takes waaaaaay more energy and concentration, so if ... | ||
| Post divorce/over 40 female | 11/1/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: I have been divorced now for about 5 years, and I haven't had ANY physical contact from another ... A: If it's your thing, reaching out towards younger partners be ideal- they're less expecting and much ... | ||
| how do i know if my friends with benefits likes me back? | 10/28/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: i'm 17 and me and my best friend are "friends with benefits" and we have sex almost every day. but ... A: If you like him, tell him, nevermind what he feels, it's your feeling, what he feel or don't feel is ... | ||
| Condoms and Lube | 10/22/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: I was just wondering, I heard that using water based lube along with condoms were important to keep ... A: Yes, this one is definitely true. Water based lubricants are recommended with use with condoms to ... | ||
| how to talk wife into oral | 10/19/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: Been married for 6 months. we're both from a rather-tradional eastern family. she always prefer ... A: Firstly it is very important that you realise that you cannot talk anyone into doing something ... | ||
| oral sex to virgin | 10/10/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: seeking for oral sex techniques to a virgin girl , never been touched down there , would also ... A: For tips, see: ... | ||
| question related to sex | 10/10/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: Hey,I and my girlfriend indulged in foreplay 2 weeks ago. During the session I rubbed the tip of my ... A: The chances of getting pregnant due to just foreplay and what you described above are very small, ... | ||
| why are men addicted to sex | 10/7/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: and women not ;apart from the fact of womens pregnancy and woman wanting love not sex A: Your statement isn't actually correct. Men are not all addicted to sex. The only real difference ... | ||
| threesoms | 9/26/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: Is it possible for a woman to have sex with two men at the same time. I read about a woman who said ... A: Yes, it is certainly possible to have a threesome with two guys and a girl. You can't have ... | ||
| Dirty Talk, Deeper Penetration & Anal | 9/18/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: I was wondering what's your view on dirty talk? Me and my girlfriend recently got into it, and I was ... A: The key to good sex talk is to figure out what her fantasies are- once you know, then just target ... | ||
| sex advice | 9/17/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: I am a 26 year old woman and I'm about to go on a year in my relationship with my older, single ... A: Hey there, Sorry for the late reply, I've been moving house. Believe it or not, there are not many ... | ||
| Have I found the G-Spot? | 9/16/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: i'm Adrian, how are you doing? Well I have a question, This most recent Sunday me and my girlfriend ... A: Depending on how close you two are, you can offer to shave her- tell her it'd turn you on. Many ... | ||
| is this normal? | 9/16/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: I have several questions actually...you see I lost my virginity about a month ago...the last day of ... A: Sorry for the late reply, I've been moving house. I'm not sure what you mean by stating that you ... | ||
| Condom on not circumcised penis. | 9/14/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: When using a condom, I have heard that if the penis is not circumcised, then it is reommended to put ... A: Sorry for the late reply, I've been moving house. Yes, you are right. The foreskin of an ... | ||
| Lubrication and condoms | 9/14/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: Why a male lubricant is also recommended when using a condom? Thanks! A: Sorry for the late reply, I've been moving house. Lubricant is advised for use with condoms because ... | ||
| curious | 9/13/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: I understand that there's -- in terms of color -- two different kinds of vaginal secretion, a white ... A: Yes, you are correct however women do not exactly "ejaculate", it's more of a secretion. The ... | ||
| How can I get my girl more interested in oral? | 9/13/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: For the past year and a half I've been with this girl who totally blows my mind. The sex with her is ... A: Hm, you need to know if she can actually have clitiral orgasm or not- some girls just can't. If she ... | ||
| Clothed sex | 9/4/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: I am Sunita. I am Indian. I have a clothed sex fetish. So I was wondering how can I have sex while ... A: Fetishes are always amazing to explore with your partner. The key to keeping your clothes on during ... | ||
| how do i go ontop? | 9/3/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: Im Ashley and I'm 19 from the uk. Me and my partner Kev have been together for a year, and in that ... A: Hey Ashley, Girl on top is one of my personal favourites and something that I think all ... | ||
| sex how often | 9/3/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: Harper Belle , I'm 42,good health.I want to know how often i can have sex with ... A: The answer to your question is however often you like! Sex is an amazing stress reliever, promotes a ... | ||
| Broken | 9/2/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: I actually have a broken neck, right now. I broke it about 3 months ago but Im now strong enough to ... A: Hey Miranda, I'm so sorry to hear about your broken neck, that's horrible! Now, I'm assuming that ... | ||
| Pain | 8/31/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: My husband and I have been married for 12 years now. Unfortunatley, he has issues keeping erections ... A: Hey Cori, Pain during sex can be caused by a multitude of things so there isn't really a definitive ... | ||
| Hand Jobs and Getting Fingered | 8/22/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: i'm 15 and the guy i have a thing with and i, have been talking about hooking up soon. he said he ... A: Hey sweetie! Firstly, thank you for asking me your question! Now, the first thing I want to make ... | ||
| girls | 8/21/2011 | Harper Belle |
| Q: do girls like getting kissed on their neck if so why A: Hey there :) In my experience and for me personally, I've always found that all the girls I know and ... | ||
| Trouble Finishing | 8/18/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: So me and my girlfriend have been have been in a relationship for a while. Our passion for sex is ... A: What you got is a serious condition called retard ejaculation- I would guess that you reach orgasm ... | ||
| Insecurities... | 8/13/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: I'm a freshly active lesbian, 18, and recently I've had multiple sex partners (not at once, just for ... A: The best way to tell is to go by your own reaction- what are you like when you receive oral sex. ... | ||
| Sex | 8/9/2011 | Johnny St. Tai |
| Q: Every time i have sex with my bf he rubs my clut with one finger but to be honest it does not feel ... A: Nothing's wrong with your clit- the easiest way for me to explain this is by using this example... ... | ||
Sex Advice/Oral Sex
Answers by Expert:
Johnny St. Tai
Top Expert on this page
Expertise
The key to good sex is good communication techniques, therefore, we're talking about oral! There's more than one way to please your partner, and there's more than one way to use your mouth. Have any concern, question, or doubt about oral sex, let us talk about it.
Experience
Ten years of relationship counseling and being a good sex partner.
Organizations
Richmond Chimo Crisis Center
Education/Credentials
Interpersonal/Social Relation Specialist, UBC Socialwork, 2005.
Past/Present Clients
Over 500.
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