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I am 18 years old and I have a girlfriend who wants me to go down on her for her birthday which is next weekend and I have idea what do. I tried looking it up on the internet but its not really clear as what I should do. So are there any techniques I should know or anything I should know to do because it has to great or I'll look a little dumb for saying I was good at it.

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Lick her clitoris. Up and down, side to side, swirl around. Finger her while you do this. Occasionally stick your tongue into her. Stimulate her G-spot if necessary. Depending on the mood and the couple, rough play can be involved.

Worst case scenario, ask her what to do. Every girl likes it a little different. I've given more than one of my past boyfriends, "Pussy 101" classes, where I lay in front of them spread, pointing and explaining. If she has any sense of humor, she might do it too.

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