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About Hilary
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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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I type using proper English and I will ensure that the question asked will be answered in a completely understandable way. I have graduated college with an Associates degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality.

 
   

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Sex Advice/Oral Sex - im sorry if its a little lengthy but I felt it was important to the answer being more accurate


Expert: Hilary - 10/22/2009

Question
i enjoy coming on my wives chest and stomach, and i have a Strong fetish to watch her rub it allover herself and to join her in doing so by rubbing it on her with my chest, stomach, and especially my penis and then to continue intercourse. Now my urge for this is constant... weather i cum in 2 min or in an hour... and I really want to do this,  even as I'm coming on her i am wanting to, but the problem is that the very second I'm done coming, i loose all urge for that, for more sex, or for anything,(now i have no problem getting erect again, or even alot of the time just staying erect) its just keeping the urge to.  Now she isnt as into me coming on her and all that as i am, but does like the idea of more sex, but so she doesnt get as into the cum part like i want her to, but I'm pretty sure even if she did, it wouldnt bring All my urge back, mabey it would, it may do nothing, or maby give me just enough... i dont know.  So my 2 questions are: 1- what can i do on my own to keep (not the ability to stay erect) but to keep the urge post orgasm? and 2nd- what can i do to get her more into it and to get her to let out her inner sex fiend out? (that i know she has from seeing myself)

Answer
TRY SOMETHING NEW. There's no way in hell doing the same thing every time is going to get any better no matter what little tiny things you tweak about it. Now, I don't know what you've done or what you're willing to do, but damn, change it up. It could fix BOTH problems.

Do what my man does. "Rape" me. Not literally... like roll playing. And then at the end ask her where she wants you to cum, and do the EXACT OPPOSITE and tell her "She doesn't have a choice"
He uses the word "bitch" a lot.

We also do a mommy thing sometimes.

And this is all in addition to our "I love you" sex~

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