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I have the following situation:
I sometimes masturbate with my bf.
For him to get the erection it takes seconds sometime minute. But during the masturbation when there is no direct stimulation it can stay erect 100% up to 1minute. By the end of the minute sometimes 2nd minute it softens to the 75% of erection and needs stimulation again.
How long a man can preserve an erection once achieved without any stimulation?
Thank you, alex
It depends. The same guy can stay hard for 4 minutes, some for less than one. Without stimulation, anyways. Men aren't SUPPOSED to stay hard like that. If he's hard for say, 30 minutes with zero stimulation, that's abnormal. If it's an hour or more, he should consult a doctor.
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