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Hi Hillary, so i was wondering, without directly asking my boyfriend to do
this, and that (i just feel uncomfortable w/ that) not that we aren't close b/c
we really are, it's just me, but how to get him to do pleasurable things. I've
read "great sex for women" articles and things like that, and he's good, but
there are certain things i wish he read and tried (haha). Also, another
question, what are some good things i can try that he'll love, such as doing
things when im on top, or giving him oral? I would like some tips! thank you

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If, during 'sexy-time' (as I jokingly like to call it) you take control a bit and kind of help him do the things you want--without words. The same way you would pull him on top of you.
I like to keep sex pretty basic, but if you want to drive him wild, get him really close to orgasm and then slow down, hold it off as long as you can. the longer it takes for him to cum, the better!
For oral--keep it wet and keep pumpin'! Use your hand to reach whatever length your mouth cannot. Swirl your tongue around his head. Pull off and tighten your lips, pushing onto him making your mouth feel like a tight pussy.

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-Hilary

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Oral sex on both genders, mutual masturbation, making your partner feel comfortable in certain situations, insecurities with sexual and nonsexual relationships, dealing with rejection, helping make decisions, sex refusal, and many other questions you may have. I WILL ONLY ANSWER SERIOUS QUESTIONS ASKED IN FULL SENTENCES WITH CORRECT GRAMMAR AND PUNCTUATION. I do not have any medical background. I cannot answer such questions. PLEASE, RESEARCH YOUR QUESTION FIRST. If I can google your answer, I won't answer it.

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See Educational Credentials. I've been around the block a few times. I've had many male and female partners.

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I type using proper English and I will ensure that the question asked will be answered in a completely understandable way. I have graduated college with an Associates degree in Psychology and Human Sexuality.

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