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Question My boyfriend and I recently had sex for the first time - and it was the first time he'd so much as kissed. I was completely unprepared for his level of anxiety. He was just as nervous the next night (though... boy learns fast.) Can you recommend ways to calm him down enough so he can enjoy this as much as I do? We're both rather shy, so oral and blow jobs aren't really going to calm him...
Answer This happens to A LOT of guys. Even their first time they're anxious and kind of rushy. The best way to battle this is to--instead of feeding his speed--lightly push him away. Not in a 'No' manner, but you could actually voice, "slow down"
I'd make sure to say it soft and gentle. You're not refusing, you're holding off. Make sure he understands this through your tone and actions. You might even smile... that way there is no confusion.
